What Erik Menendez Would Say to His Mom 35 Years After Murdering Her

What Erik Menendez Would Say to His Mom 35 Years After Murdering Her

As a dedicated follower of true crime stories, I have been captivated by the intricate web of events surrounding Erik and Lyle Menendez since their trial in 1989. With the recent release of Netflix’s “Menendez Brothers” documentary and Ryan Murphy’s dramatization of their story, it seems that the public interest in this case is as strong as ever.


Erik Menendez is opening up about his regrets. 

In the Netflix documentary, “The Menendez Brothers,” we delve into the story of Erik Menendez and his brother Lyle, who were convicted for the 1989 murders of their parents, José and Mary Louise Menendez. At 53 years old, Erik conveyed regret for the violent acts he carried out and a sense of guilt over the tragic loss of his mother.

In the documentary series, he clarified one common misunderstanding: “People may think I didn’t care for my father or mother.” However, this couldn’t be further from reality. He deeply misses his mother and yearns to have conversations with her, to give her a warm embrace, express his love for her, and share his happiness as her son. He wishes they could reconnect in joy and feel that bond once again.

Erik, together with his brother Lyle (age 56), claims that their father, the late José, motivated the murders due to past sexual abuse allegations. However, Erik carries a more intricate range of feelings towards his deceased father.

Erik confessed that it was tougher for him growing up with his father. To me, as a child, he seemed more than just an ordinary man; he was almost like a contemporary Greek deity. He stood out from any other men I had encountered before. And I admired him deeply, wanting to emulate him. However, he wasn’t the typical father figure one might expect.

The current Richard J. Donovan Correctional Facility inmate noted that he felt his father’s love was conditional. 

Erik reminisced about their bond with José, stating that he did indeed cherish them. However, he felt that affection ought to be deserved. Consequently, to win his affections, we frequently had to endure hardship.

What Erik Menendez Would Say to His Mom 35 Years After Murdering Her

In 1989, Erik, who was 18 at the time, and Lyle, aged 21, tragically took the lives of their parents in their Beverly Hills residence. Shortly following the incident, these individuals dialed 911 and informed the authorities about their parents’ demise. Initially, they claimed to have arrived home to find the deceased bodies.

In 1996, following two trials spanning over seven years, the brothers, who later claimed they were acting out of fear and self-defense when they committed the murders, were found guilty of two counts of first-degree murder. As a result, they were given life sentences in prison.

In the months since the 35th anniversary of the murders, interest in the Menendez brothers’ case has grown significantly with the recent release of a Netflix documentary and Ryan Murphy’s miniseries titled “Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story.

What Erik Menendez Would Say to His Mom 35 Years After Murdering Her

Meanwhile, Ryan thinks the Menendez brothers ought to be sending him flowers due to the attention his show has given them. However, it’s worth noting that Erik, in the past, expressed disagreement over the dramatized portrayal of their true story on screen.

Erik stated, via a message shared by his wife Tammi Menendez on X (formerly Twitter) on September 19th, “I thought we had surpassed the deception and distorted representations of Lyle, crafting a misleading caricature based on lies prevalent in the show.” However, he expressed with sadness, “I find it hard to believe that Ryan Murphy is unaware and inaccurate about our real-life facts to such an extent as to depict this without some level of malicious intent.

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2024-10-15 19:53