Sister Wives’ Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can’t Trust Kody

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

As a seasoned observer of the human condition, it is evident that each individual’s journey through life is unique and shaped by their experiences. In the case of the individuals featured here, their lives have taken dramatic turns, marked by love, loss, and self-discovery.


Janelle Brown wants Meri Brown to look out for that knife in the kidneys.

In the November 10th installment of Sister Wives, two ex-spouses of Kody Brown convened to discuss the ongoing monetary predicament within the Brown family, which was approaching the deadline for settling the long-disputed debt on the Coyote Pass property.

After my heart-to-heart with my ex proved fruitless, as a worried mother of six, I voiced my worries about our and Meri’s financial prospects, given the substantial assets we’ve got tied up in the property. However, unlike me who sees a potential storm brewing, my former sister wife appears unconcerned about this particular scenario.

Meri said to Janelle, ‘I believe we don’t necessitate extra safeguarding in this case. Aren’t we confidently relying on each other for support instead?’

But Janelle disagreed, saying, “No, I really don’t.”

During a private conversation, Meri expressed her belief that even after their separations in 2022, Kody and his current wife Robyn Brown would not act unfairly financially towards them.

Meri wondered, “Could it be that Kody and Robyn are considering taking everything? I strongly believe they won’t take advantage of us.

But Janelle isn’t convinced, saying in her own confessional, “I don’t necessarily believe that.”

To be precise, following a rather awkward discussion with Meri, Janelle perceives her discomfort extending past Kody and Robyn as well.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

She confessed that she was unsure if she could rely on Meri, as there was a possibility that she might return to inform Kody about our discussion.

But as Janelle questioned her estranged family’s loyalty, Meri sent that question right back.

As a devoted admirer, let me assure you, Meri, I’ll keep a vigilant eye on your affairs. However, I simply wish to confirm, with all due respect, that what we’re discussing is indeed the full extent of your property holdings?

Meri, who parted ways with Kody in 2022 following his separations from both Janelle and Christine Brown, has made it clear that she won’t be aligning herself with any of the groups emerging among the ex-family members. Since their breakups, Janelle and Christine have remained close.

Meri expressed in a private conversation that everyone in the family seems to have varying views about each other, particularly regarding the financial matters. She admits she’s unsure who is correct in their perspectives. She clarifies that she won’t choose a side or align with any specific group, such as the ‘ex-wives club’ or ‘Kody and Robyn club.’

But if Janelle went to Meri looking for solidarity, she didn’t find it.

She expressed to Meri that she feels it’s necessary to safeguard herself, to which Meri responded with a sympathetic “I’m sorry you have to feel that way.

For more bombshells from this season of Sister Wives, read on.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Kody Brown expressed his intention to separate from his first wife, Meri Brown, not long after they exchanged vows in 1990. However, as he told her, “When we move to Flagstaff, this will be a fresh start for us,” suggesting better times ahead, Meri revealed during the premiere on September 15. This isn’t the first time he’s given hope, only to later act in ways that have been disappointing for many years.

She expressed her primary concern as “his poor communication regarding his true feelings, desires, dislikes, and the narrative he has maintained over the years.

Initially, Kody admitted that his actions might have sent ambiguous signals, but as he began working on various tasks, he found himself questioning the logic behind them, saying, “It just didn’t make sense to me.” Consequently, he clarified that he would not pursue a romantic relationship with her at this time.

Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023. 

She admitted, “They essentially said, ‘We’re here for you, we’re on your side. And it’s high time,'” she confessed. Now that her veil of ignorance has been lifted, she believes he had been subtly encouraging her to depart from their relationship for years by denying his affection. “Because if I were to leave, he wouldn’t appear as the villain since he didn’t walk away himself.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Several years had passed since the family acquired a 14-acre plot of land intended for construction in Flagstaff, Ariz., when Kody admitted during the season premiere that he was ready to let the dream fade. Despite not having enough funds to cover the full $820,000 cost (which reports suggest they paid off in 2023), he expressed his thoughts to his remaining wife, Robyn Brown, stating, “I’d almost prefer to abandon it or sell it and then start anew somewhere else.

As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Earlier on, Janelle Brown shared with TopMob News that the relationship between them had been gradually fading away. However, it was Kody’s shortcomings in fulfilling his parental responsibilities towards some of their children that eventually led her to part ways.

In simpler terms, the mom told Logan Brown, Madison Brown Brush, Hunter Brown, Garrison Brown, Gabriel Brown, and Savanah Brown that a major turning point for her was when her relationship with her children deteriorated and it seemed as though he wouldn’t go to great lengths to mend it. She added that this realization made her understand that this was the key factor keeping her there.

In the November 3rd episode, it was an absolute no-go for Janelle when Kody proposed reconciliation.

She stated that it’s impossible for her to make peace with him and allow him to be part of her children’s lives. Instead, she will always prioritize her kids.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Kody provided his reason for not putting more effort into repairing the strained relationships with several of his grown-up kids, which had been causing tension.

In the recent episode on the 15th, I expressed my feelings of not quite fitting into our family dynamic anymore. Despite being fully married to Robyn and co-parenting our five beautiful children – Dayton, Aurora, Breanna, Solomon, and Ariella – and maintaining some relationships with a few other children as well, it feels sporadic and unconventional. It’s left me questioning my role within this family structure, as it no longer feels like the close-knit unit we once were.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

In their 14-year long marriage, Robyn admitted during the season 19 premiere that they were experiencing some of the most challenging times. “We’re possibly struggling more than we ever have,” she said. “Things have been tough between us. Kody is uncertain whether to blame himself or one of the other wives. He feels a great deal of rejection, and I believe he’s wondering if I might reject him too.

Consequently, she admitted, “I’m constantly vigilant. I have to ensure regularly that he isn’t undermining our relationship.” In her own words, she highlighted the challenge: “There’s nothing available to assist me in dealing with the fact that I’m still married to a man who is getting divorced multiple times.

Meanwhile, Kody was grappling with a wave of self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to gaze into the mirror and tell myself, ‘Hello there, buddy. I adore you.’

For Robyn, it was challenging to witness her ex-sister wives thrive in their latest phase. As she put it during the October 27 episode, “They’re all progressing,” she commented. “I can’t help but feel like I’m the one who’s been left behind.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Include Madison, the eldest child of Janelle, in the list of children Kody does not presently maintain a connection with. “I understand that Maddie hasn’t spoken to her father,” Janelle stated during the opening episode. “He hasn’t reached out, she hasn’t contacted him, and there is no relationship between them. She has essentially cut ties with both of them.

Janelle mentioned that the concern lies in Kody not fully engaging with Maddie’s children, Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine. She stated, “She feels he should only have interaction if he is prepared to make a full commitment to it.

Consequently, during the September 22 episode, Kody essentially stopped communicating with Maddie and her spouse Caleb Brush when the family began to disintegrate.

In Janelle’s words, “Maddie has taken on a very protective role, almost like an overly protective mother,” due to Kody’s absence. She expressed that until Kody can be reliable and avoid unnecessary drama, she feels it’s best for them if they keep his presence ambiguous.

Additionally, Robyn mentioned that she’s been urging Kody to make amends, but she also expressed, “It seems only fair for the children to do the same.

Currently, it appears Kody isn’t prepared to mend the divide, expressing frustration that whenever he conversed with his daughter, their talks seemed more like fishing for gossip, which he grew weary of.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

During their 32nd anniversary celebration, Meri confided in her friend Brandi that “He hinted at not having truly loved me and feeling obligated to marry me” on the September 15 premiere. Meri then responded, “Kody, I know you did love me.

And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever propose? 

When a bachelor encounters a maiden, why would he decide to marry her without initially feeling love for her? It seems harsh, almost unjust, to select someone from among many and then promise to grow affection towards them over the subsequent 32 years.

In his personal reflection, Kody noted: “Now, Meri is making some accusations. Well, she can express herself as she pleases. I have no intention of responding to them.

Though, he would share that they never enjoyed a honeymoon period. 

He firmly stated during the October 20th broadcast that their marriage had been in trouble from the start. And why would he know this? Because, as he put it, his relationships with Janelle, Christine, and Robyn were far stronger than the one he shared with his wife.

He acknowledged that he “should have ended the relationship twenty-five years back,” yet he persisted due to fear, remarking, “Authority figures would never permit another marriage if you’re casting off spouses.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Despite being unsure whether to develop Coyote Pass or just sell it, Janelle realized that the first step was clearing the debt on the Arizona property. Since Kody refused to discuss the matter with her, she admitted to Christine Brown in the September 22 episode, “I think I might need legal representation.” This, she felt, was the only way she could possibly get any resolution from him.

Janelle admitted that since she and Kody aren’t legally married, she has no legal grounds to stake any claim on his property. In her words, “It’s not like I can simply call a lawyer and request a divorce. Instead, the situation is quite intricate due to the absence of a legal marriage.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Kody explained that he stopped discussing the Arizona property with Janelle because he no longer felt confident in her trustworthiness.

He firmly stated during the September 22 episode, “I will settle the property when necessary,” and he explained, “I don’t want to share details about my actions or anything else because I’m fed up with revealing information that gets distorted in the rumor mill of our dysfunctional family.

A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview. 

She conveyed, “He seems to spill secrets as easily as water through a sieve. He revealed details about his past relationships and multiple spouses, which left me feeling uneasy, thinking those things should have remained private.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

In the days when their affection for each other was growing instead of waning, they would combine all their funds in a common fund.

In simpler terms, Janelle stated during the September 22nd episode that we would do everything possible to assist one individual, and then collectively aid the other. This was the norm for many years, until approximately the last decade. The focus has now shifted towards personal estates, with everyone seeming to prioritize their own.

When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone contributed towards purchasing a luxurious five-bedroom property worth $1.65 million that had been listed for sale in August.

Initially, Robyn shared with us the idea that acquiring this property would benefit our family. However, when Janelle proposed that we all be joint mortgage holders, her suggestion was met with resistance. Kody responded, “No, no, we must safeguard, you understand, protect Robyn’s estate,” as he recalled. Now, since I’m stepping away from our family, I want my share of the Coyote Pass earnings, and I wish to recover the funds I invested in Robyn’s house.

But that could be a tough sell. 

Robyn remarked, “After all the time we’ve collaborated, it’s perplexing to me when Janelle mentions she’s due money from them. I can’t seem to wrap my head around how to calculate or understand this situation.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Janelle expressed her frustration about the family’s failure to repay Coyote Pass, stating that Kody mentioned having multiple other debts. However, she has noticed him acquiring other possessions such as trailers and home decorations. “I notice all the artwork on their walls,” she said, referring to Robyn and Kody’s house. “I see all these things. And I understand, because I’ve spent money on things too.” In response, Kody explained that a significant portion of his funds were used for purchasing cars and insurance for the children.

Janelle admitted that she wasn’t certain about the way Kody and Robyn managed their finances, but she often found herself taken aback by how well-maintained Robyn’s backyard was. It always seemed fully completed, and there was always an abundance of items at her house. This left Janelle exclaiming, “Wow. Huh.

Essentially, she expressed that he didn’t make her needs or desires a priority, which over time became increasingly apparent, even to her children, who grew increasingly frustrated, as if to say, “Mom, what’s going on here?

In other words, following the breakdown of her first marriage, Robyn became quite meticulous about managing her finances.

She confided during the Sept. 22 episode that she hadn’t always been good with finances. Growing up, she faced numerous financial struggles, and it wasn’t until her divorce that she truly learned how to manage her money effectively by budgeting wisely. Regarding her fellow sister wives, she suggested that perhaps they had different financial priorities than she did.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Currently, as revealed in the September 22 episode, Janelle admitted that she and Meri, Robyn, or Kody – the parents of Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown respectively – don’t have much contact with each other. She doesn’t anticipate this situation to improve significantly in the near future.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Speaking fondly about the period when four homes on a single cul-de-sac in Las Vegas stood out as an exceptional memory, Kody reminisced, “Things were running smoothly, and it was wonderful to have Maddie and Caleb nearby. I had a special bond with Caleb; he truly felt like family.

However, discord arose in Arizona concerning coronavirus safety measures, causing tension. Subsequently, as his marriages deteriorated, he lamented that his connections with his children also worsened, stating, “This simply led to the spoiling of all our relationships.

But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021. 

In the recent episode on September 22nd, I shared my observation: “The children who appeared frustrated were already feeling that way before I departed.” Leaving didn’t alter their bond with their father. It is within Kody’s power to mend his relationships with his kids.

Though it’ll definitely take some work. 

Kody expressed his frustration about the way he’s been treated, saying he can’t move past it because he refuses to accept blame for things his wife or ex-wife are claiming he did. He hopes that one day the resentment will fade away, allowing them to find forgiveness and love once more.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

At the ages of 21 and 19, Kody and Meri admitted they weren’t particularly well-acquainted with one another when they entered into both a spiritual and legal union. Over time, they went on to file for divorce in 2014, allowing Kody to legally adopt Robyn’s three oldest children from her previous marriage.

In our wedding, she appeared to be quite distinct, and I now realize there may have been some issues from her past that I wasn’t aware of. At first, I thought I could tolerate it. However, he admitted that everything seemed to turn into an argument, and he found it unbearable to reside in a state where she was consistently angry with him.

Despite his desire to depart, he found himself unable to do so. Kody, a man in a plural marriage, expressed that if one wishes to remain faithful and devoted to their faith, divorce is not an option. Consequently, he found himself trapped within that relationship. Simultaneously, he yearned to understand if there was a possibility of salvaging and mending it rather than leaving.

Therefore, due to the conflicting signals, he admitted that Meri believed they could resolve their issues. However, whenever they were in each other’s company, Kody explained, “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t amusing, she wasn’t thoughtful, she wasn’t engaging. I’m trying to be interested in her, but I’m growing tired.

To be fair, he added, he could see why Meri felt abandoned, “But I didn’t kick me out. Christine, Janelle and Meri all chose to have me leave the home.”

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Even though Janelle and Christine believed they didn’t have to legally divorce Kody due to their non-binding union, Meri requested a formal separation, known as a “release,” from their church in the last quarter of 2022.

In the episode from September 22nd, she clarified that all four of us women had a religious union with Kody when we married him. However, it’s clear that only one legal marriage could exist among us. We referred to this as a covenant. Since we aren’t pursuing any further marital relationships, I believe it’s appropriate to end this covenant completely. I don’t want to be bound to him for eternity if he doesn’t wish it, and at this point, I think it’s best for us to separate all ties.

Kody hesitated about the concept, she mentioned, preferring not to recognize or submit to the power held by the religious leaders.

Kody made it clear that the harm was so extensive that reconciliation is no longer an option for him. He added that he doesn’t want to answer to this church or their unnecessary complications when it comes to his accountability to God. Consequently, he plans to let Meri pursue her own path because if he holds a grudge against her, it would lead to conflicts. In essence, he feels it’s best for her to step back as it’s taken her far too long to accept that their issues are in the past and resolved years ago.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

In the spirit of sharing experiences, here’s how I might rephrase it: “Last year’s holiday gift exchange conversation took an unexpected turn for the 18 Brown family members, as I found myself in the midst of a heated discussion. As Christine put it, ‘Things went awry, things fell apart.’ The divide became apparent when Kody, Robyn, and their children distanced themselves from Janelle, me, and our kids. This text exchange seemed to be the catalyst for the unfortunate rift that ensued.

Robyn explained that her older children felt the interaction was uncomfortable and they needed some distance in their relationship. However, it wasn’t about cutting ties completely or rejecting her, as she clarified. Instead, they were simply expressing that things had become awkward for them.

For his part, Gabriel is hoping that they could find their way back to each other. 

He openly shared that he deeply yearns to reconnect with Robyn’s children again, as he fondly remembered Aurora as his favorite companion in middle school and always attempted to reach out to Dayton during high school. However, he expressed no optimism about forming a relationship with their father.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Time and again, from various sources, I’ve been made aware that my entry into this family, when Mom married Kody back in 2010, wasn’t a warm welcome. They never acknowledged me as their sister, nor did they ever view or treat me as such.

Her sister Breanna remarked that the parents might have made more effort to foster our familial bond, but unfortunately, this connection never truly materialized.

But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.

Robyn’s children and Robyn are always welcome to any event,” she emphasized. “In other words, feel free to drop by our house whenever it suits you.

Speaking from personal experience, I must share that my daughter, Ysabel Brown, formed an incredibly close bond with Robyn’s children. In fact, Mykelti Brown Padron lived with them for a while during a challenging period. While there were hardships and moments of frustration among us all, my kids viewed Robyn’s children as their siblings without hesitation, regardless of the circumstances.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Speaking enthusiastically about plural marriage, Janelle explained, “When it works well, it creates this incredible extended family network that you’re integrated within. You have a husband with whom you share a deep bond, and yet, you also maintain your personal freedom. To me, this setup in plural marriages is truly advantageous.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

According to Janelle, Kody found it harder to share his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.

On the September 29th episode, I observed that Kody found living in Flagstaff more manageable for him, which was evident. Occasionally, I felt compelled to remind him of our arrangement and invite him over to my place. He’d often make excuses about being tired, so I’d respond with something like, “You can rest just as comfortably at my house as you would at Robyn’s.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

In her statement, Janelle explained that her children were reprimanded for accessing Robyn’s refrigerator. Essentially, this meant that they felt a sense of distance or separation from Robyn because she was not part of their immediate family household, despite being in a relationship with their father. For Christine’s kids, the issue stemmed from the fact that they recognized Robyn and their father as a couple, but he was not physically present in their home.

And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide. 

She mentioned on the September 29th episode that Meri was generally welcoming towards her children and herself, but the rest of the family found it difficult to accept them. Essentially, they longed to be included in this family.

However, Gabriel might contend that he and his fellow siblings made significant efforts to include them.

In the October 13th episode, he expressed his belief that Robyn may have a tendency to see herself as a victim. To put it more directly, this is his perspective. And it’s important to note that he doesn’t hold her responsible for this. Instead, he suggests that people often develop unique strategies to cope, and this seems to be one of the ways Robyn has managed to keep going.

Yet, he went on to say, “If it’s truly in her mind that we mistreated her or her children despite the frequent favoritism Dad showed her and our efforts to build a rapport with her kids, if she genuinely thinks so, then there’s no prospect of me maintaining a relationship with Robyn.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

As a lifestyle expert, I’d put it this way: During my recent discussion on the September 29th episode, I revealed that growing up with my father moving between four different homes has had an impact on the eighteen children I am responsible for. A poignant example of this was when Robyn and my youngest daughter, Ariella, who was born in January 2016, clung to me as I attempted to leave, showing a level of emotional attachment that highlights the challenges faced by our unique family situation.

Kody put it this way: “‘I had to tell her, ‘Another wife and children need me,’ he said. She clung to me, crying, ‘Don’t abandon me, Daddy.’ It was tough for me to handle that situation.’

Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle. 

Initially, she made clear to her children that their father wouldn’t always be around, a situation she believed Kody and Robyn handled poorly. In her opinion, Ari, for some reason, struggles when her dad is away for more than three or four days, which she considers poor parenting. She notes that the other children in the family have managed similar situations and are now well-adjusted adults.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Among the rare group of kids with a Brown surname, Mykelti maintained relationships with both Robyn, Kody, and Kody’s other two wives, Christine and Janelle. During Kody’s divorce proceedings, Mykelti often assumed the role of mediator or peacemaker.

From the very start, Mykelti grew close to Robyn when she joined the Brown household. In fact, Mykelti extended an invitation for Robyn to be present at the delivery of her twins, Archer and Ace, in November 2022.

During the September 29th show, Mykelti shared her thoughts, saying, “When Robyn came into our family, I was still trying to understand myself. She made me feel unique and understood.” She also added that “Robyn was a support system for me when I needed someone. She was there for me, offering a listening ear, love, and understanding.

Christine couldn’t have been more delighted when she saw how well Robyn and Mykelti got along. As she expressed on the Oct. 6 episode, “Ever since I dreamed of having a large family, I had always hoped my children would form strong bonds with other mothers. And it looks like that’s exactly what’s happening here.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Kody expressed that it’s not just his wives who are choosing to exclude him from their lives; he believes they are intentionally doing so as a form of retribution for a crime he didn’t commit. He made this statement during the episode on October 6, discussing his strained relationship with some of his older children. Essentially, Kody feels that the only ‘crime’ he has committed is not having an intense love for their mothers.

What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame. 

He explained that the strain in his relationship with his kids is predominantly in his own mind, stemming from the negative chatter he’s been hearing. Essentially, he feels a swirl of disillusionment following the family’s separation, and it seems like everyone is pointing fingers at him, saying, “It’s all Dad’s fault. Dad made mistakes.

However, although he accepts some responsibility, he strongly disapproves of the insults. In particular, he admitted that he had difficulty bonding with Hunter, Maddie, and Gabriel. Kody confessed that one of his children replied to a text message, “You are garbage. I wouldn’t talk to you again anyway.

In another occurrence, he expressed to the cameras, “One of my children recently stated, ‘You are a jerk. I will never speak to you again. You have deceived me and indoctrinated me.’

He’s unwilling to continuously handle the venomous situation. “I won’t keep reaching out,” he stated, mentioning that he believes his elders should take more responsibility in resolving the issues. “I’m ready to put forth the effort, but someone else needs to reciprocate and make an effort as well.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home. 

In her October 6 discussion, she shared that her parents divorced when she was young. At that time, her father lived with another woman in a different city, while her mother lived on her own. She recalled an instance where she asked her biological father why he wasn’t around during her childhood years. All he offered were weak explanations, which left her feeling disappointed and dissatisfied.

“I must admit, I find myself struggling not to question your respect a bit.

While Kody admitted that he might need to exert more effort to repair his bond with his children, he emphasized the importance of healing his own heart first.

He expressed his frustration by stating, “Some of my children seem to be ganging up on me, and it’s made me so upset that I fear any conversation with them might lead to further confrontations. I’m in such a state of anger at the moment that I worry I may react impulsively, causing even more harm.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Despite many members of the family being present at Logan Brownson (Janelle’s son) and Michelle Petty’s wedding in October 2022, there seemed to be a lack of affection or warmth among them.

In the October 6th episode, Kody expressed his frustration to Robyn, stating that he had noticed Madison hastily leaving their presence with her children, which he found strange. He added that Madison hadn’t informed him about her pregnancy, and their third child, daughter Josephine, was born in February 2023. Essentially, he said, “She didn’t tell me she was expecting a baby.

Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.

Janelle clarified that Maddie avoids Kody because of their strained relationship. Maddie values her children’s well-being deeply and prefers to keep them away from Kody since he hasn’t been around since Evie was born, over three-and-a-half years ago. Janelle didn’t want an unexpected encounter at the wedding where Kody might claim to be their grandpa, potentially confusing the children because they don’t recognize him.

Kody expressed that it’s impractical for grandparents to be constantly involved in their grandchildren’s lives, given the situation of Maddie living in North Carolina and his own commitments in Flagstaff, making it difficult even if children are relocated to a different coast.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

It’s evident that there’s a significant difference in perspective between Kody and his grown-up kids regarding their current rift, with one recurring issue being his insistence on an apology or acknowledgment of wrongdoing from him.

Following the end of the COVID-19 concerns, we returned to our regular routines, but there remained a rift within our family. Janelle explained in the Oct. 13 episode that her sons, according to Kody, needed to express their apologies to him and particularly to Robyn, but it seemed to escalate into something more complex. In essence, they were expected to have a conversation with Kody about the issue.

In Janelle’s words, Kody’s problem was that he felt his children hadn’t remained faithful to him, and the most cherished individual in our family who has poured their heart and soul has been treated unfairly or something like that, she concluded. And I said, ‘Well, Kody, yeah, whatever.’

Gabriel expressed a similar sentiment, narrating a talk with his father. “He repeatedly implied that I owed him an apology,” he told Janelle. “Later on, I said something along the lines of, ‘Unless you’re genuinely willing to mend our relationship and make amends, we won’t communicate anymore.’ A few days passed, and he texted me. He wrote, ‘Hey, I’ve been contemplating your words. I forgive you, Please forgive me.’ I responded, ‘Forgive me for what?’

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Among the six children Kody has with Janelle, he primarily interacts with his youngest daughter Savanah. While it’s not regular, approximately every two months, they speak over the phone and occasionally meet up in person. The rest of their children do not have a strong or consistent relationship with him.

Concerning Savannah – who will graduate from high school in 2023 – she believes her four elder brothers have assumed a paternal role, as she has admitted to Janelle that she might ask them to escort her during her future wedding.

In our recent conversation, Savannah enlightened me with her insights about him. She shared, “You know, I’ve come to understand that this is his nature – he’ll be the kind of dad who joins us for fun-filled moments, only to later leave us. I choose to accept him as he is. It’s all good.

Janelle, however, is less forgiving. 

She expressed her frustration towards Kody, saying, ‘I find myself so upset with him.’ She has observed a pattern in her professional experience: ‘Over time, I’ve noticed that some men, like Kody, disappear with their children after a divorce.’

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Initially, when the strain between them became apparent, “Gabriel found it particularly difficult as Kody often invited Gabriel along on his business journeys,” explained Janelle. She further added that Kody had been an extremely involved father until more recent times.

While Gabriel was puzzled about what could have made his father angry, during the Oct. 13 episode, he admitted, “I told Dad that if he doesn’t change and can’t accept responsibility, then I won’t visit him anymore. And I’m completely fine with that decision.

In her words, he finds contentment knowing his father isn’t part of his life. And ideally, this is the situation I wish for each of my children as well. I believe they are all gradually understanding this.

For his part, Kody also seems resigned to the situation. 

He expressed his regret that Gabriel seems to be feeling this way, and he has made numerous attempts to reach out to him, yet those efforts have been unsuccessful. However, it’s important to note that this doesn’t indicate a lack of effort on his part.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

As one who stood by his side for many years, I was the one who took the final step away from Kody in the last months of 2022. This decision wasn’t made lightly; it was an official separation, sanctioned by our faith, which we refer to as a release. The reason behind this was that I felt he had abandoned me.

On the October 13th episode, she mentioned that he dislikes that particular word since he feels he didn’t leave her, not that he abandoned her, which is how she felt.

To put it simply, she believes he paid little attention to her until she decided to depart, at which point he could claim, “I have no involvement in this.

And Kody didn’t totally deny that he had a bit of a strategy. 

He admitted that he had moved on a while back, but felt apprehensive about revealing the truth due to fearing her reaction. The reason for his apprehension was that Meri had never been faithful to him, and this lack of loyalty was something he had always been concerned about. Essentially, it’s about her reputation because getting divorced can negatively impact one’s standing in society.

Instead, alleged Meri, it was hers that was being tarnished. 

In a heartfelt tone, I can’t help but feel disheartened that Kody is portraying our marriage in such a manner. It seems his perspective on our relationship has shifted, yet the stories he shares about me with others, which people seem to be accepting, aren’t reflective of the truth.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Details to Meri Why She Can't Trust Kody

Before Christina parted ways with Kody, it became apparent to her that they weren’t well-suited according to traditional compatibility measures, as suggested by their marriage counselor based in Las Vegas.

In her search for a partner, Christine jotted down traits she desired in a potential husband, such as excellent communication skills, someone who would actively participate in her life and that of her children, and someone who was genuinely drawn to her. However, Kody didn’t match any of these qualities, as she admitted on the October 20 episode, stating, “He isn’t any of those things you’re looking for,” to which he responded, “I’m not any of those things for you.” Christine affirmed, “No, you aren’t.

The letter played a significant role in her swift realization that David Woolley was indeed her match.

She praised the father of eight, who values family above all else, as he’s a self-employed drywall contractor. Known for his integrity and authenticity, he’s an excellent communicator.

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2024-11-11 10:23