The Ultimatum's Dave Adams & Vanessa Hattaway Are Engaged

As I delve into the lives of these brave souls who dared to bare their hearts on national television, it seems that love, as they say, is not always sweet but can indeed be bitter. The rollercoaster ride of emotions displayed by each couple is a testament to the complexities and unpredictability of human relationships.

An ultimatum can sometimes lead to happily ever after.

For the stars of “The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On,” specifically Dave Adams and Vanessa Hattaway, it appears that their romantic journey didn’t end with the show. They recently made public their engagement after abruptly departing from the series during its third season.

Since the filming of “The Ultimatum” approximately a year ago, I’ve experienced significant life transitions and moved forward into new phases. Recently, I shared this update with People Magazine on December 20, expressing that my life is currently filled with joy and everything has been going smoothly for me.

Following Hattaway giving Adams an ultimatum, which earned them a place in the latest season of the Netflix series, he eventually popped the question on November 22 during their visit to Georgia where his future wife’s family resides.

As a lifestyle enthusiast, I eagerly desired to gather our cherished family members, who are scattered across the globe – from Italy to Miami. It can be quite challenging to coordinate everyone’s schedules, but Thanksgiving seemed like the perfect opportunity for this reunion. Somehow, it all fell into place effortlessly.

While Hattaway was away having lunch with a friend, Adams arranged the proposal, involving several musicians and a photographer. Upon her return, Adams excitedly shared, “She was so elated that she burst into a mix of joyful screaming and sobbing.

Moreover, Adams, aged 34, elaborated on how their short stint on the show contributed to their joyful conclusion as a couple.

He shared, “I’ve always felt drawn to Vanessa, but she presented me with a tough choice. There were certain matters we both needed to sort out, and I had to go because she presented me with that situation. I needed to understand why the ultimatum was given and find ways to improve.

He emphasized that their experience was a learning opportunity for both of them.

From the show, I picked up quite a few useful tips, but I also discovered some lessons on what not to do.

From my perspective as an ardent admirer, I’ve often pondered about the reason behind their premature exit from the show. However, Hattaway enlightened us that the couple decided to depart to safeguard her tranquility.

The 30-year-old wrote to a fan on Instagram earlier this month, “I know I just had to do what was best for my mental health.”

Keep reading to see where the rest of the cast stands after season three…

Following their trial marriage assignment with Aria De’Westbrooks, Caleb ventured into uncharted waters, whereas Mariah had to go through the ordeal on her own since Micah Hardeman, her trial partner, departed the show (alongside three others). Although there were rumors suggesting a possible emotional bond between Caleb and Aria, once Caleb was reunited with Mariah, he concluded that Mariah was his true match and proposed.

Despite facing controversy this season due to his tense interactions with Zaina Sesay being shown publicly, Scotty eventually decided it was time to move forward with Aria, his girlfriend of three years. In the final episode, Scotty proposed, and a tearful Aria agreed, setting them on their path towards marriage.

During the reunion, Aria disclosed that she ended the engagement a day after he proposed. Although they attempted to carry on with their relationship and cohabitation, it ultimately failed, she mentioned.

A noteworthy duo who swiftly became a focus of debate? Sandra and Nick, as their relationship encountered challenges nearly from the start when Sandra found herself drawn to her courtroom ally, J.R. Warren.

Despite Vanessa Hattaway leaving their partnership prematurely, Nick had an emotional breakdown and unexpectedly visited J.R. and his apartment-share, Sandy. However, it’s important to note that this did not prevent Sandy and J.R. from developing a strong connection. In fact, they shared several affectionate kisses, and J.R. even referred to Sandy as his “wife.

However, in the final scene, Nick and Sandy part ways as Nick (the one who presented the ultimatum) informs Sandy that he doubts her readiness for marriage.

After reuniting from their respective trial marriages, it appeared that Zaina and J.R. were enthusiastic about rekindling the almost three-year-long romance they once shared.

Initially, they had considered staying together, but on the day when it came to making a final decision, the duo realized that parting ways was more beneficial for each of them. As for any potential future between J.R. and Sandy, even before his encounter with Zaina, Sandy concluded that they were best suited as friends instead.

As an ardent admirer, I can’t help but share my thoughts on the intriguing turn of events. Initially, Chanel, who put her foot down with Micah, seemed to find a connection with Dave Adams. Yet, surprisingly, they parted ways their very first night as a couple. It wasn’t just Chanel and Micah experiencing turbulence; even Dave and his partner Vanessa decided to call it quits during the experiment’s shift.

Indeed, according to Netflix, the group of four had a clandestine gathering away from the cameras. They decided to gather their belongings and embark on a journey, effectively abandoning the remainder of the season as they drove off into the distance.

After that, it appears that Chanel and Micah continue to thrive, often poking fun at their TV show experience on TikTok.

Similar to Chanel and Micah, Vanessa and Dave participated in The Ultimatum to gain assistance with their future as a couple. However, they departed only a single night into their newly formed marriages. Since then, Vanessa has shared her perspective on leaving the experiment, disclosing one reason behind their decision.

In a heartfelt message on Instagram posted on December 4th, I expressed that my actions were guided by the need to prioritize my mental well-being above all else. However, what you see is merely a small fraction of the bigger picture.

In response to another viewer telling Vanessa she should apologize to Nick for leaving, she added, “You don’t know what happened behind scenes. I have nothing to apologize for.”

At the start of the second season of “The Ultimatum”, it was unexpected for any couple to leave the process. However, this is precisely what happened when Brian and Lisa made the surprising decision to withdraw following her positive pregnancy test results. They chose not to attend The Choice dinner as a result.

It was revealed in an exclusive interview with TopMob News that Lisa shared the joyous news, “Everything has been wonderful!” They welcomed a new addition to their family – a baby boy who is adorable beyond words.

The couple has been enjoying the process of happily raising their son Mason.

Lisa remarked, “Our parenting adventure together has been truly enchanting.” She recognizes that not everyone shares this opportunity due to various circumstances, but she considers it a great privilege. It’s been a very pleasant and tranquil experience for her.

Still, there’s “no ring yet,” she acknowledged, or immediate plans for an engagement.

After seven years together, James proposed to Ryann, indicating that high school sweethearts can indeed succeed in their relationship. It seems they are planning a swift trip down the aisle for the wedding.

Ryann announced during the reunion special of The Ultimatum that their wedding is quickly approaching, with the big day set for September 30th.

During their mountain getaway, James planned an unanticipated second proposal for a more private moment, as he put it. Ryann expressed, “It felt more genuine and spontaneous.” She was caught off guard by the event.

Following the finale of the show, James decided to live with Ryann and her family, fulfilling his promise. In April 2024, they made an exciting announcement that they were expecting their first child. Sunny James Morris arrived in October 2024, bringing new joy to the couple.

Initially, it appeared that quiet-mannered Kat might have been too reticent for goal-oriented Alex, but their journey concluded with them being engaged. Moreover, they’ve already scheduled their wedding date: Alex presented a Save the Date card during their reunion, announcing their nuptials on May 10, 2024.

In addition, Kat mentioned that Alex appears to be experiencing a stronger longing for starting a family and settling down, such as purchasing a home jointly, following the proposal. Regarding their upcoming plans, Alex expressed, “I am really looking forward to it.

During their trial marriage, it was revealed that Trey had grown fond of Ryann. However, Trey and Riah managed to resolve their problems, concluding the trial with intentions to marry each other.

At the reunion, Riah mentioned that they were considering having a destination wedding in Spring 2025. She went on to say that the time would pass quickly, but since she wants her wedding to be special, she wants it to be absolutely perfect.

Nonetheless, the duo has faced some bumps since The Ultimatum concluded, largely due to conflicting work schedules, as Trey confessed. Essentially, they have been grappling with these challenges, aiming to align their perspectives and find a resolution.

Still, he said, their relationship is “night and day from what it was before the show.”

Fast-forward to January 2024, and the couple announced they welcomed their first baby together.

Even Roxanne herself was taken aback when she agreed to marry Antonio, given her business-oriented nature.

She clarified during the reunion that she had dedicated significant effort towards personal growth and self-development. What she never imagined was reaching the point where she could proudly announce having a fiancé.

Although Roxanne agreed during the special event, she wasn’t seen wearing her engagement ring, not because they had split up. Instead, she expressed her thoughts by saying, “I don’t understand why I have to wear one but he doesn’t. It seems quite possessive…maybe I’m just a bit odd?” However, when Antonio mentioned it made him feel hurt that she didn’t wear it, Roxanne pledged to wear it more often. Despite this, they aren’t planning on exchanging vows in the near future as both Roxanne and Antonio are busy focusing on their respective careers.

As a die-hard enthusiast, I can’t help but exclaim, “We’ve yet to reach our dream destiny,” was the sentiment I shared, as Antonio unveiled his latest venture – acquiring a car wash in South Georgia and planning to open two automotive customization studios in Atlanta.

When Vanessa Lachey inquired about Roxanne marrying her partner immediately, she responded by saying, “It’s not something I’m focusing on at the moment.

They tied the knot in October 2024.

This family is going to need another cowboy hat.

Following the birth of their daughter Josie in May 2022, Madlyn and Colby, who had left fans in awe with their sudden wedding in the final episode, shared news about expecting their second child.

Madlyn announced on Instagram in January 2023, “We’re thrilled and grateful for the arrival of our sweet baby due in September ’23, joining our existing bundle of joy, Josie!

She expressed uncertainty about the capacity of their hearts to contain additional love, yet she eagerly anticipates the discovery. Moreover, she is excited about the prospect of seeing their child, Josephine, become a big sister.

Conrad Lloyd Kissinger was born in the fall.

In an interview with TopMob News following the birth of Josie, Madelyn from Texas expressed her deep enjoyment of every moment during pregnancy, stating, “I felt like a powerhouse. It boosted my confidence and love for myself, Colby, and our relationship. It really contributed to my personal growth and ours as a duo.

They shared in September 2024 that baby No. 3 is on the way.

Alexis and Hunter, who ended their participation in the study prematurely following Hunter’s proposal, have since become a married couple. Their wedding is scheduled to take place in Palos Verdes, California, in June 2022.

Alexis captured the memorable event on her Instagram Story, sharing pictures of the wedding entourage consisting of 10 bridesmaids and 10 groomsmen, along with clips of the joyous couple dancing through the night at the reception, accompanied by performances from a wedding band playing tunes like Elton John’s “Tiny Dancer,” Beyoncé’s “Crazy In Love” and other favorites. The newlyweds recently took their honeymoon in Santorini, Mykonos, and Athens before settling down in Los Angeles.

Despite parting ways for six months following Randall’s proposal during the finale, Shanique and Randall later reconciled and decided to postpone their new engagement. Shanique confirmed to TopMob News that they are still a couple, although she is currently based in a different location, which means they aren’t living in the same city at the moment. However, they are both committed to working on their relationship and moving forward together.

The hard work culminated in another proposal last July, as Randall asked Shanique for her hand in marriage amidst a backdrop of a heart adorned with white blossoms and a glowing sign saying “Will you marry me?”.

In a word, “Yes!” Shanique captioned an Instagram post. “Today and all of our tomorrows.”

Despite some cast members considering Nate’s proposal to Lauren as insincere during the reunion, they tied the knot in Colorado in October 2022, a ceremony that was everything they could have hoped for, according to Lauren’s Instagram post. “A big thank you to our fantastic vendors, family and friends for turning this wedding into an unforgettable dream.

After tying the knot, this couple, based in Austin, have been posting travel snaps on social media from their adventures in Turkey, Switzerland, and Japan.

Despite April’s time on the show not concluding as she had hoped, it doesn’t imply that she didn’t eventually find her fairy-tale ending.

She welcomed her first baby with boyfriend Cody Cooper, she shared in August 2023.

April shared on Instagram pictures from the hospital after the birth of our baby girl. She had decided to keep the delivery and hospital stay private, and it was tough to keep it secret. But now she’s excited to reveal the news! Just wanted everyone to know that this has been a long week for us, but we made it!

During the 2022 reunion show on April first, it was disclosed that she had been in a relationship with Cody. However, at that time, she didn’t specify who this Texas-based real estate broker and vape business owner was. Later, speaking to TopMob News, April said, “The right person finally appeared and swept me off my feet. I was supposed to have my winter of fun, but he came along and disrupted it. We’ve been dating for six months now.

In May 2024, it was announced that April and Cody were having their second child together. Their daughter, Ava Miley Cooper, arrived in August 2024.

Despite parting ways with April to be with Rae Williams, it was disclosed during the reunion that Jake Cunningham is currently single at 28 years old. Since then, Jake has been keeping a low profile, but Rae shared on the Zachary Reality podcast that producers of Netflix’s spinoff series Perfect Match have reached out to Jake about appearing on the show.

In a hint of their new union, he introduced Maritza Benitez as his partner in September 2024 through an Instagram post, saying, “Meet the Queen.” She reciprocated by posting, “The finest aspects of life are even more delightful with you.

At the reunion, it came to light that Rae had attempted to reconcile with her ex-boyfriend Zay Wilson and partner Jake from her trial marriage, but these efforts were unsuccessful. She also disclosed that she was involved in a casual relationship with a woman. Rae expressed, “I’m still figuring out myself and my sexuality,” during the conversation. However, she later clarified to TopMob News that she was single and had relocated to Houston, stating that she needed time to heal and focus on herself after the ordeal.

However, Rae has now returned to Austin where she works both as a 9-1-1 operator and bartender. Despite being invited to be on Perfect Match, she chose not to participate because Zay had previously agreed to appear on the show.

In the Zachary Reality podcast, she expressed her belief that the fundamental issue was simply Zay not meshing well with her. She also suggested that if they had both been cast for season one simultaneously, it might have led to chaos due to their inability to work harmoniously together.

It’s not like Rae required a TV show to discover love once more; instead, she unveiled her new romance on a July 25 TikTok post without disclosing her partner’s name. The video was tagged with the question, “Is this a soft or hard launch?

A 4-1-1 to all the ladies: Zay still seems to be on the market.

Following the conclusion of his relationship with Rae, Zay became a cast member on the initial season of “Perfect Match,” a program that showcased unattached celebrities from shows such as “Love Is Blind,” “Sexy Beasts,” and “The Circle.” Unfortunately, he left the series without finding a meaningful connection. Now, he’s pursuing a career in modeling and dividing his time between Austin and Los Angeles.

In my professional opinion as a lifestyle guide, I’d rephrase it like this: After four years together, the couple Xander and Vanessa decided to part ways when Xander found himself harboring feelings for someone new – none other than Yoly Rojas, during their experimental marital phase.

Xander told Vanessa, “I truly wish I could provide you with everything the world has to offer.” He had initially believed he’d be capable of doing so. However, he recognizes now that what she deserves is far greater than what he can currently give her at this moment.

During their conversation, it emerged that they discussed a potential renewal of things down the line. However, Vanessa disclosed at the reunion that there has been no contact between them since their shared experience concluded.

Even though Yoly developed feelings for Xander after spending three weeks with him, Mal remained steadfast in their loyalty.

In simpler terms, Mal said to Yoly, “It’s always been you,” and then knelt down. He asked, “Will you spend your life with me? Will you become my wife?” After a short moment of silence, Yoly answered yes, and inquired, “Why did it take you so long?

Despite her confidence, Yoly harbored questions about her decision. “Should Xander defend me,” she conceded, “I remain unsure of my response.

It’s not surprising that although Yoly and Mal ended the experiment amicably, it was during their reunion when Mal disclosed they had parted ways happily. However, there was a disagreement between them regarding the precise moment their relationship came to an end.

Yoly shared that her concern was that once the recording stopped, we would revert to behaviors I was familiar with. Unfortunately, that’s exactly what happened. We spent some time not being together. While we were apart, she said, ‘This relationship isn’t going to last.’ I didn’t argue against it.

Following the show and observing how Yoly interacts with Xander, Mal now perceives their relationship in an entirely fresh perspective. Putting it simply, Mal said, “You seem like a risky stranger to me now.” Previously, she had stood by him strongly, but he ended up embarrassing her severely instead.

Following my own recent life changes – my engagement to Mal and the split between Xander and Vanessa – we found ourselves in a heartfelt discussion, openly sharing our affection for each other.

Yoly expressed to Xander, “I hate to see you leave, not because I don’t care for you, but because the feelings I have for you are too strong.

It was discovered that their feelings persisted even after the end of Yoly’s engagement. In fact, they attempted to reignite their relationship during the reunion.

Xander mentioned that there was some ongoing contact between them, and they ran into each other at Coachella. However, they both insisted nothing physical transpired during their time at the music festival. Later on, it came out that Yoly was arranging to visit Xander in Hawaii. Yoly expressed that he had a wonderful time with Xander, expressing his desire to rekindle their relationship and make things work if possible.

Ultimately, they went their separate ways.

Xander explained, “For a while, we were both part of each other’s lives, but now we’re focusing on our individual paths again. I felt it was crucial for me to dedicate time to myself. I wanted to make necessary changes so I could improve myself and be a better companion for anyone I might be with in the future.

It was discovered that Rae had a physical relationship with Vanessa during their trial marriage, leaving Lexi heartbroken. However, despite their three-year relationship having ended, they managed to reconcile and proposed to each other in the final episode. They announced their plan to relocate to Philadelphia together as Rae secured a new job there.

During the reunion, the pair confirmed that they are still engaged.

Lexi expressed, “This past year has been simply fantastic! We’ve had proposal moments, vacations, and just recently, we returned to California. To be honest, it’s been the absolute best year I’ve ever lived!

At a certain point, Lexi and Rae were so overjoyed that Lexi suggested she would marry Rae at the reunion if given the chance. Host JoAnna Garcia Swisher then mentioned she was an ordained minister, following which Lexi disclosed they already have a wedding date set.

However, following the conclusion of the show, a surprising post-credits announcement was made: “After wrapping up the reunion, Lexi and Rae decided to part ways in their relationship. Consequently, their planned wedding has been canceled.

After ending her relationship with Rae, Lexi introduced her new romance with photographer Kristin “Zanc” Zancanelli. In a June 2023 TikTok post for their ‘official start,’ Lexi expressed, “I’ve never felt more alive than I do with you.

In one of my toughest months, I allowed my dearest friend to capture images of me wearing my reunion dress during a photoshoot. Reminiscing on Instagram, I was struck by the joy this woman brought into my life, even as a friend during my most challenging times. Her photographs leave me speechless, showcasing such happiness in my expressions. I am overawed by how she sees me and the profound impact she had on my wellbeing.

Following the surprise of showing him a heart-shaped stone, Aussie then revealed a distinct rock for a unique proposition.

At their get-together, it was made clear that the pair remains betrothed, however, they’re taking their time with the wedding preparations.

Sam expressed a sense of hesitation, saying, “We’re sort of in a holding pattern here.” He added, “It feels challenging to find the right words to convey our situation because it’s quite uncomfortable.

In the finale, as Tiff and I exchanged our engagement vows, I exclaimed, “We might be a bit unconventional, but that’s what makes us perfect together.” Fast forward to the reunion, my sentiment has taken a drastic turn: “Regrettably, we find ourselves at an impasse, no longer able to maintain a conversation.

So what happened?

After moving in together following their engagement, they swiftly returned to their previous habits, as Mildred admitted there were no concrete plans for their future. Discussions about a wedding were non-existent, and numerous issues persisted between them.

However, when Mildred stated that parting ways with Tiff was “one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever made,” Tiff retorted by claiming that it was actually she who ended their engagement. “I simply feel like we had a generally unhealthy relationship that was straining us both,” Tiff explained.

Later on, Mildred confessed that she had been apprehended for hurling a pet gate at Tiffany, who then contacted the authorities. “They took my engagement ring away and I’ve never worn it since,” she admitted. “I’m not proud of my actions, but there was much quarrelsome behavior.

After getting into a heated argument, Tiff walked off the set and chose not to return.

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