Rachael Kirkconnell Reveals Real Reason for Matt James Breakup

It’s time for Rachael Kirkconnell’s confessional.

Approximately two weeks following her split with Matt James, the 28-year-old woman who received his final rose on ‘The Bachelor’ in 2021, is now disclosing the reasons behind their breakup while on a visit to Tokyo.

In her appearance on the Call Her Daddy podcast on January 28th, she explained that he expressed concerns about certain aspects of her personality that he wouldn’t want in a wife towards the end of their relationship. Essentially, they found themselves incompatible in some areas.

Rachael pointed out that she frequently took the blame and apologized for disagreements in their relationship, and regarding their split, she expressed, “It was a situation where he suddenly understood, ‘By this stage of our relationship, I should have been eager to propose to you. However, I’m not yet ready, and I’m unsure if I ever will be ready. I can’t picture myself proposing to you, or even envision being married to you.’

As for what Rachael told him in response?

In a reflective tone, as a lifestyle expert might say: “After four years, I believe it’s time for both of us to have a heartfelt conversation. If you haven’t felt ready or certain about our relationship after this length of time, perhaps we should reconsider our connection. You know me better than anyone else, and I feel the same about you. So, if this journey isn’t something you envision extending into the future, it might be prudent to discuss our next steps.

Previously in the show, Rachel shared the sequence of events leading to their separation, mentioning the encouraging words Matt had spoken to her during their holiday.

A few days ago, she shared that he feels fortunate to have me as his partner. She mentioned that there are numerous qualities about me that he appreciates, and in contrast, he often sees other relationships where people endure a lot of hardships. He expressed that it’s just so pleasant for him to be able to call me his partner.

The day prior to their separation, they had a minor disagreement in Tokyo when Rachael chose a restaurant that seemed unsatisfactory to them. This led her to feel disappointed, and she became emotional, causing two tears to fall during dinner. Matt found himself puzzled as to why she was upset and thought her reaction might have been excessive.

Nonetheless, Rachel remembered that “everything was okay.” In the end, however, their connection came to an end, drawing its last curtain.

Or,

Rachel looked back and realized everything had been alright. Regrettably, their partnership eventually concluded.

Both sentences convey a similar meaning as the original sentence while being easy to read and natural in language.

In a moment of honesty, I found myself asking, “Is there a chance for us? Could it be that it’s not about me, but something within you? Are you hesitant or is it truly about us? Do you believe your ideal partner lies elsewhere? Or am I not the one? I don’t want us to part ways with feelings of resentment if things aren’t meant to be.” After some thought, he decided that he felt we weren’t compatible and didn’t want me to invest more time if it wasn’t going anywhere.

She added, “He simply expressed, ‘You’re attractive, intelligent, and amusing, and you’ll eventually meet someone who will cherish you for who you are. However, he didn’t see himself as that person. It was all too much to take in at once because just a few days prior, I was hearing quite the opposite.

Later that same day, as Rachael was aboard a plane departing from Japan, Matt revealed their split on Instagram, according to her account.

Read on for more stars that have broken up this year.

Nevertheless, Rachel remembered that “all was well.” Regrettably, their relationship ultimately came to an end.

Rachel looked back and realized that “all was good.” Sadly, their relationship eventually reached its conclusion.

Lastly:
In the past, Rachel knew everything was okay. Unfortunately, their relationship eventually closed its final chapter.

She expressed, “It felt like one of those moments where I asked, ‘Can we try to make this relationship successful?’ He pondered, ‘Is the issue with us or is it something within you? Are you hesitant or am I not what you truly want? Could there be someone else who’s your ideal match? Aren’t they out there instead of me? Is it not me that you’re looking for?’ Eventually, he decided that he didn’t believe it was me and explained that he didn’t want me to feel resentful by investing more time if things wouldn’t progress between us.

She went on to say, “He told me, ‘You’re attractive, intelligent, and amusing; someone will adore you, they’ll cherish you for who you are.’ He didn’t realize it was him, but it was a lot to take in all at once because just a few days prior, I was being told the exact opposite.

A short while after Rachel had departed from Japan, Matt declared their split on Instagram, as per Rachel’s account.

Read on for more stars that have broken up this year.

In January, it was confirmed by several media sources that the Oscar-winning actor and his fitness trainer girlfriend had parted ways.

In September 2023, the couple, who had already been together prior to this confirmation in August, attended Corinne (Jamie’s eldest daughter)’s wedding as a pair.

A month following James’ arrest on domestic violence allegations (for which no charges were filed), it was revealed that he and his co-stars from Vanderpump Rules had parted ways.

Ally posted on Instagram that she and James are no longer a couple, but she continues to stand by his side, cheering him on as he focuses on his recovery and sobriety. She expressed her gratitude for the compassion shown during this time.

Four years since their romance blossomed during season 25 of “The Bachelor” in 2021, it’s been announced that the couple have parted ways, as confirmed by Matt.

In my own words, as a devoted supporter, I humbly ask for divine strength, not just for me, but also for Rachael, as we work towards healing our broken hearts. May we find a tranquility beyond human comprehension concerning the decision to part ways with our relationship. This is my prayer, expressed in an Instagram post dated January 16th, accompanied by a cherished memory from our first encounter on ABC’s show.

As a lifestyle guide, I’d say, “Surround yourself with warmth and affection from loved ones during challenging times, as it’s a gentle reminder that the true source of our joy lies within the divine.

The well-known artist, often referred to as the “Unstoppable”, announced on January 13th that she and her husband of ten years had decided to separate. In an interview with People, she said, “Eric and I have been going through a difficult time in our marriage, living apart while we work things out.

Following seventeen years together, the costars from the television series “DC’s Legends of Tomorrow” made public their separation in a statement dated January 9th.

In a statement posted on Instagram, they shared some personal news: after being together for 21 years and married for 17, they’ve decided to embark on a new journey, transitioning into friends and co-parents. They remain supportive of each other as they navigate the ups and downs of life.

After 16 years of being married, the long-term couple decided to part ways, according to reports from TMZ on January 8th, based on their sources who have firsthand information.

According to various reports on January 7, the actor known for playing Elvis and a model they were dating ended their relationship, which had been going on for approximately three years.

Hey everyone, I wanted to let you know that Cordae and I are no longer together, but there’s absolutely no hard feelings between us. He’s a fantastic individual and a wonderful father.” (The tennis star gave birth to her first child with the musician in 2023.)

2025-01-29 07:18

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