Octomom’s Shocking Reason for Not Suing Her IVF Doctor Revealed

In 2009, when Natalie “Nadya” Suleman brought into the world the first known surviving octuplets, she simultaneously created a completely fresh identity for herself.

In an exclusive chat with TopMob News, Suleman clarified a common portrayal about her, stating that the media-created image following the January 16 births of her children – Noah, Maliyah, Isaiah, Nariyah, Makai, Josiah, Jeremiah, and Jonah – was a “stereotype” or exaggerated version, which was quite different from her true personality.

At that particular moment, the Fullerton, California native, who is also mother to Elijah (23 years old), Amerah (22), Joshua (21), Aidan (19), and 18-year-old twins Caleb and Calyssa, asserted that due to the nation being in the midst of an economic recession, there was a “subconscious inclination among the populace to identify and blame a societal scapegoat.

A woman who is a single mother to fourteen children, receiving disability benefits due to her previous role as a psychiatric technician, perfectly matched the description.

Currently, I find myself reflecting on a different reality: “I wouldn’t have been the recipient of such misguided hostility.” However, in the late 2000s, I faced an unrelenting barrage of insults, intense scrutiny, and even death threats. In response, I took up a defensive stance, engaging in whatever activities were necessary to stay afloat—from participating in paid photoshoots, interviews, and even venturing into adult films, among other things.

And yet, she’d do it all again the exact same way. Mostly.

In her own words, she expressed that not suing Dr. Michael Kamrava, the medical professional who assisted in the in vitro fertilization of all 14 of her children, was probably her sole source of regret.

Suleman clarified to TopMob News, “I decided to go back for another try,” she said, explaining that due to her previous reproductive history, they had always transferred five to six embryos. Besides her twins, each cycle yielded what she termed as “singletons” (individual babies).

According to their previous agreement, Kamrava inserted more embryos than usual (well beyond the standard recommendation of two), and Suleman recalled, “My uterus began to contract forcefully,” she said, “and the doctor explained that all the embryos were expelled.” Despite being heavily sedated, the mother of 14 went on, “He proposed transferring the remaining six embryos that were in the petri dish.

Without fully understanding it, she put her signature on his contract without giving it a second glance, and as Suleman put it, “that was the turning point in my life, things shifted dramatically from thereon.

And if she could go back, she’d definitely try to propel herself onto a new path.

In an unexpected glare of attention that left her ill-prepared, Suleman admitted she hardly mounted any defense, as she felt besieged and questioned without warning. (On the other hand, Kamrava ultimately lost his medical license.)

She acknowledged that if she had sought legal assistance from the start, it would have provided her with protection as a mother.

And perhaps secure a financial windfall that would help support her outsized brood.

Instead, Suleman explained, “I found myself operating automatically, just going, going, going. At the same time, I was constantly tense and terrified due to the ongoing death threats and stalkers.

For quite some time, Suleman found himself in a constant “fight-or-flight” mode, but he identified as a fighter. Consequently, he continued to fight. He vowed that he would never cease his struggle for his family’s wellbeing.

Instead of avoiding it, she openly discussed the challenges in her six-part Lifetime documentary series titled Confessions of Octomom, which airs every Monday at 10 p.m.

She replied that there have been too many challenging moments and hardships to count when asked about her lowest point. During the production of the film, Suleman explained, she was urged to endure it. However, she had no desire to do so, as it was painful for her. Suleman, who was also an executive producer on the network’s movie based on real events titled “I Was Octomom: The Natalie Suleman Story“, took on this role.

However, it proved to be beneficial in the end. She believed that it was during these challenging times that we truly begin our healing process, by acknowledging and working through our painful emotions.

She’s encouraged her brood to follow suit.

Suleman conveyed that her children had gone through a traumatic experience similar to hers. She emphasized that the negative attention she received as a ‘target of worldwide criticism and judgment’ indirectly affected her kids as well.

Instead of attributing the healing solely to her emphasis on open, honest dialogue, she also believes that their involvement in the documentary series could potentially serve as a more effective remedy.

According to the previous therapist, her children desired that particular voice. They sought a podium where they could advocate for everyone, establish limits, and retell our story from their perspective.

Suleman emphasized that her grown-up kids should have the chance to narrate their authentic tale, discuss their personal experiences, and express their viewpoints. Consequently, they agreed to be filmed, she added.

She stated that people often question, “Why now? Are you seeking fame?” regarding her work with Lifetime. However, she clarified, “I’m not pursuing fame, but I don’t want falsehoods about me to persist and for the public to be misinformed. We have a right to share our genuine story. The public deserves the truth.

Considering her youngest child has just turned 16, Suleman thought, “This is an ideal moment.” “We’ve entered a fresh chapter in our lives,” he pondered. “Our children are grown now, and they’re eager to share the authentic tale that we’ve lived together.

In the past, a devoted single mother of fourteen children was merely striving to maintain her daily life. Continue reading to discover where Suleman’s story originated.

Back in March 2025, Nadya Suleman (also known as Natalie) expressed her joy and astonishment on Instagram as her first grandchild completed six months. She marveled at the rapid growth of this little one, who is her son Joshua’s daughter, by stating, “I can hardly believe our cherub has reached 6 months!” The images she shared were filled with the baby’s delightful smiles that warmed hearts beyond measure. In her heartfelt caption, she expressed her profound love for the child, saying, “My affection for you is indescribable. You have become an extraordinary blessing in our lives. Your radiant, sweet smile brings me immense joy. I adore you more than words can convey. Every day, we are privileged to witness your growth and flourishing!”

Drawing inspiration from the beloved children’s book Love You Forever, she penned a poignant message: “My love for you will last forever. I shall cherish you always As long as life endures, My precious grandchild, you shall be mine.

Natalie expressed her gratitude to Noah, Nariyah, Jonah, and Isaiah for their diligent efforts and dedication in preparing plant-based, wholesome, nutritious meals for Thanksgiving 2024. She praised their compassionate and delicious culinary creations on Instagram, stating that everyone was thankful and blessed.

On Halloween 2024, the mother of fourteen reminisced about the past by posting an old photograph featuring herself and several of her children, all dressed up in their costumes from 2015.

In September of 2024, Natalie expressed her gratitude to God for blessing her son Joshua and his wife with a new grandchild. She shared on Instagram that this little girl is a wonderful addition to their family, expressing how loved she already is, and eagerly anticipating her growth and development. The baby was born on August 30th, 2024.

On her 49th birthday in July 2024, as her children grinned for the camera, Mom secretly made a wish. She expressed her gratitude for the wonderful birthday celebration and declared her love for them in an Instagram post: “Thank you kids for making my birthday yesterday so memorable!

On Native American Heritage Day in 2023, Jonah, Nariyah, Noah, and Jeremiah were the masterminds behind our family’s vegan feast. Natalie expressed her gratitude on Instagram by saying, “Happy belated Thanksgiving and Happy Native American Heritage Day! A big thank you to our talented chefs, who tirelessly prepared mouthwatering dishes for us all. You are cherished and valued, and I hope you both enjoyed the bounty of your culinary creations! Wishing everyone a secure and joyous special moment spent with loved ones.

Mom took Amerah and Calyssa out for ramen (vegan, of course) in August 2023.

In lieu of 48 candles, the kids brought balloons for their mom’s birthday in July 2023.

Natalie’s eldest daughter Amerah celebrated her 21st birthday in July 2023.

The two enjoyed a mother daughter movie night in July 2023.

Natalie celebrated the 16th birthday of her opposite-in-every-way twins Caleb and Calyssa with this cute throwback photo. She wrote on Instagram in October 2022, ‘Happy sweet sixteen to my incredibly different twins!’

Calyssa, you’ve blossomed into a thoughtful, caring, intelligent, beautiful young woman who shows compassion for all living things. I am beyond proud to call you my daughter and believe that you will reach any goal you set as long as you never give up. Your mental strength, determination, and perseverance inspire me, and I feel fortunate to be your mom.

Caleb, you’ve grown into a loving, caring, intelligent, humorous, quick-witted, observant, and devoted young man. I am grateful to have you as my son. May God continue to bless you both abundantly. I love you.

In August 2022, Natalie’s octuplets began eighth grade, and she expressed her pride for them in a heartfelt Instagram post alongside their first-day school photo. She wrote, “Keep being kind, considerate, and helpful to your classmates, teachers, and staff. You are excellent examples for the sixth and seventh graders. I adore you.”

Additionally, addressing any concerned individuals questioning their absence in the picture, Natalie clarified that her older kids chose not to be included in the photo for privacy reasons. She emphasized that she respected their decision and hoped others would do the same.

The family loves their fur babies too.

Showing off a cat and crafts on the couch.

Maliyah and Nariyah were a coordinated sister act.

The Sulemans are a cat family, so Maliyah took the opportunity to do some dog-sitting.

On the occasion of his 21st birthday in 2022, Natalie shared a unique, fresh photo of her oldest son, Elijah, on her social media account as a tribute.

On Mother’s Day, Natalie was never alone as she celebrated alongside her eight children (octuplets) and their older sister, Amerah, in the year 2022.

In a post on Instagram in January 2021, Natalie expressed her joy for her eight thoughtful, considerate, and respectful kids who turned 12. She admired their kindness towards all creatures and their selfless service to others, which she described as the embodiment of love. They fill her heart with warmth, and have enriched our lives immensely. She feels privileged to be their mother.

Noah and Jonah got ready to dig in.

The Suleman octuplets enjoyed baked goods on their 14th birthday.

In a photograph their mother posted, Joshua, with his momentary facial tattoo, and older sibling Eli were preparing for takeoff, as seen in this nostalgic snapshot.

Looking back at this old photo, Natalie mused about the fact that Makai had acted as a protective guardian for Aidan since their very first day together.

Getting eight children to line up and smile for a pic sounds like a Christmas miracle to us.

2025-03-13 10:17

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