Tori Spelling Regrets Not Releasing Sex Tape With Ex-Husband

Tori Spelling is reconsidering how she handled an X-rated moment.

In more contemporary terms, the former star of “Beverly Hills, 90210” has been reflecting on an episode from their marriage when they filmed a private video with ex-spouse Dean McDermott.

On the peak of Tori & Dean’s show on Oxygen, it was either Valentine’s Day or so, and I found myself in New York. He was shooting a movie at the time, as Tori explained to Aubrey O’Day on her podcast, misSPELLING, on April 3. Later, he came to see me, and he suggested, “Let’s film ourselves making love.” It’s worth noting that they had never done it before this instance.

Following their private moment being captured on video, Tori revealed that Dean, who is the father of their children Liam (18), Stella (16), Hattie (13), Finn (12), and Beau (7), didn’t see a reason to conceal the sex tape on their computer. Unfortunately, one of their friends discovered it and began distributing it unknowingly.

Tori, aged 51, stated, “We never bothered securing our belongings. We placed faith in everyone. He had access to our computer at home, and a person we considered a friend stayed at our house. While we were away with the kids in Hawaii, he took the computer and attempted to sell it to Vivid Video.

She added, “They reached out to confirm that they had declined it.” Pausing, she joked, “So, was it the composition or my perspective?

Reflecting on that chapter of my life, I find myself pondering the decision Tori and I made to withhold the video during our separation in 2024. In hindsight, I can’t help but wish that we had chosen differently. As a lifestyle expert, I believe in living authentically and embracing all aspects of one’s past – even those moments that may be difficult to share.

She expressed that she regrets turning down an opportunity to be on the cover of Playboy when she was younger, now at 51. She wishes she had taken the chance, saying, ‘I wish I’d been on the cover of Playboy.’ She also mentioned a sex tape that she and her husband made, but chose not to release it. If she had, she believes she would not feel this regret today.

Originally, Tori detailed the account of her and Dean’s spicy film in her memoir entitled Spelling It Like It Is.)

According to Spelling, during their 2009 Valentine’s Day preparations, Dean suggested recording themselves having intimate moments. He had a compact tripod for his video camera which he used to set up the device. After examining the camera angles and finding them satisfactory, Spelling agreed to let him keep it.

On this occasion, it’s not the initial disclosure that Tori made about a secret from her and Dean’s private space that catches our attention. As she reminisced about one of their best anniversary gifts, Tori confided that she had created a “brass accessory” for Dean – a term often used to refer to a hand-crafted brass cock ring.

On the May 7th episode of her podcast, Tori proudly declared, “I nailed it.” She exclaimed, “Wow, I’m amazing! I crafted it using a welding technique instead.

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In her memoir titled “Brooke Shields Refuses to Age,” published in 2025, Brooke openly discussed her intimate relationship with her husband, Chris Henchy.

In her book, as reported by People, she expressed that going through all the physical changes associated with aging as a woman can be challenging, even under ideal circumstances. These changes include hair thinning, facial hair growth, abdominal weight gain, vaginal dryness, decreased sex drive, and feeling less attractive to her partner than before.

Furthermore, she said being intimate can be painful for her now.

Brooke said, “In order for me to truly savor the experience now, I require my specific lotions, potions, comfortable clothing (let’s say ‘cozy garments’ instead of sleepwear, as it might be contributing to the issue), my special pillow, and possibly a glass of tequila to help me unwind.

Katy Perry, known for her hit song “California Gurls,” shared an unexpected way she expresses gratitude to her partner Orlando Bloom for doing the dishes.

In a September 2024 episode of Call Her Daddy, Katy said to Alex Cooper, “If I find the kitchen clean when I come downstairs, and every dish is done and the pantry doors are closed, then you can bet that you’re going to receive a special treat.

 

Chelsea doesn’t hold back when it comes to openly discussing explicit confessions in public. Notably, her candid remarks about a threesome involving their masseuse were what made headlines and contributed to her breakup with Ted Harbert in 2010.

However, upon receiving a disappointing message from her former boyfriend, she felt compelled to clear up any misunderstandings.

On The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon in October 2023, Chelsea made it clear she wanted to set the record straight: her relationship didn’t end for that reason.

She admitted to having engaged in multiple threesomes, acknowledging that this is private information but now public. Consequently, she wishes to clarify a rumor: “The reason we split wasn’t because I left him for the masseuse; that story isn’t true.

As a devoted admirer, I must share that one of the judges on America’s Got Talent has an intriguing secret hidden behind the doors of her closet—a space she affectionately refers to as her “intimate closet.

She mentioned during the episode of The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Show podcast in September 2024 that it was quite spacious, filled not only with clothing but various items as well. In essence, she described it as a room where one could store numerous things such as wigs, outfits, shoes, and boots.

She even revealed that her daughter Leni Klum accidentally encountered the space. 

On an episode of the Call Her Daddy podcast in January 2024, Heidi remarked, “She discovered my secret room dedicated to my personal items related to my gender. She understood its purpose, but she was there with a friend, they laughed as they filmed it, and I reacted, ‘Oh my God.’

John shared a behind-the-scenes look into what filming a sex scene is really like.

He expressed that it lacked any personal or private quality during a 2024 episode of Club Shay Shay. In fact, he emphasized that there was absolutely nothing intimate about it, and added that it was quite awkward or embarrassing.

Reflecting on his part in the 2015 movie, “Trainwreck“, he hadn’t anticipated the nature of the scenes he’d be shooting alongside co-star Amy Schumer.

Amy is like an angel,” he went on. “She managed to make the atmosphere incredibly relaxing, and then came the surprise – they informed me that the role required a steamy love scene, complete with intricate and daring stunts. To add to the shock, most of the lines I had learned were likely to be discarded, replaced by this unexpected scene.

Although she identifies as someone with strong sexual inclinations, Shailene has openly criticized pornography, likening it to the unhealthy indulgence of junk food when it comes to experiencing pleasure.

On the She MD podcast in September 2024, she expressed that the portrayal of sexuality in this nation appears to be highly staged and contrived. Instead, it should reflect genuine intimacy, vulnerability, and emotional bonding.

She emphasized the significance of pleasure and lamented that we often miss out on it due to a lack of awareness about its potential. This is her main criticism of pornography, as she feels that it oversells conventional experiences while ignoring more extraordinary possibilities, similar to serving McDonald’s food when gourmet options are available.

Following a span of four years alongside partner Kurt Russell, Goldie shared the key element she believes sustains a harmonious, enduring relationship: A fulfilling intimate connection.

In an interview with TopMob News in September 2024, she emphasized the importance of having a fulfilling sexual relationship. She explained that sex serves to strengthen connections and foster a sense of belonging. Individuals who maintain healthy sexual relationships often sustain their relationships for longer periods. However, it’s not merely about the act itself; rather, it’s the affection and intimacy it cultivates that makes all the difference.

Ice-T disclosed the key to maintaining his and Coco Austin’s long-lasting marriage for decades – and indeed, their shared intimate moments play a significant role in it.

“Jungle sex,” he told TopMob News in January 2024. “That flame has to stay lit.”

If the fire between you two fades and you no longer feel drawn to one another, it’s crucial to tackle this issue promptly, as it is a matter of importance.

For Demi, the bedroom is where she is most confident. 

She shared with the LadyGang podcast in September 2023 that she feels most assured when engaging in intimate moments. This is because she is fully immersed in the experience, which means her mind isn’t preoccupied with other thoughts that might cloud her judgment during the rest of the day – at least for her, this seems to be the case. However, it may not be the same for everyone else.

Following several decades married to Harry Hamlin, Lisa opened up about the impact of aging on their intimate moments together.

The actress shared with Cosmopolitan in January 2024 that she believes men’s desires can shift over time, which is just a part of life’s natural progression. She added that it’s essential to learn how to live harmoniously without interpreting this as a personal matter for women. Instead, she thinks it’s more about sharing companionship and providing room for the fluctuations in sexuality.

She added, “Our intimate moments are wonderful, and they’ve always been. However, they may not occur as frequently as they used to in our 20s and 30s. That seems natural to me.

Zoe and her husband Marco have created a code word to talk about sex around their kids. 

Marco shared on The Drew Barrymore Show in April 2024 that they use the phrase “play Legos” to mean a private, intimate moment. Zoe added that this is their unique way of expressing their relationship.

But the couple worried that their older twin boys were catching onto the lingo. 

Zoe recalled them asking, “‘Are you two playing a game of hide-and-kiss with the Legos? Are you planning on building something nude with your toys?’ To which we replied, ‘Absolutely not.’

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2025-04-04 22:47