Sister Wives’ Janelle Brown Calls Out Kody for Comparing Robyn to a Model

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Sister Wife Janelle Brown found Kody Brown’s reported characterization of the remaining four wives to be far from accurate.

In the upcoming episode of the TLC reality series, set to broadcast on April 27th, the 55-year-old individual disclosed that his ex-partner was once likened to a denim fashion model by their legal spouse, Robyn Brown, who is 46 years old.

In the 19th season of Sister Wives, during episode 22, Janelle remarked with a touch of irony, “Kody mentioned that he suddenly encountered Robyn, who is a Diesel jeans model, and she seems to be everything he desires.” Janelle, who parted ways with Kody in 2022 after around 30 years, responded, “That’s quite something coming from you.

Janelle, who is mother to Logan (age 30), Madison (29), Hunter (28), Gabriel (23), Savanah (20), and their late son Garrison (who passed away at the age of 25 in 2024), spoke about their experiences, saying, “We endured the lean times when I had to keep my bra on with safety pins, and we were as poor as it gets. We also went through your impulsive moments, like ‘Let’s relocate here,’ or ‘Let’s move there.’

 

Sister Wives‘ Janelle Brown is sharing her beef with Kody Brown.

In the April 27th episode of their reality show on TLC, she was seen expressing disapproval towards her ex, as he had likeness Robyn Brown, who is 46, to a jeans model.

In my own words, as an ardent fan, I might express it this way: “Kody once gushed, ‘Out of nowhere, I crossed paths with Robyn, a Diesel model who embodies everything I’ve ever desired.’ This was Janelle’s response during the 19th season of ‘Sister Wives,’ episode 22, after parting ways with Kody in 2022, following nearly three decades together. And my thoughts? That’s quite a statement coming from him!

Janelle, who is the mother of children Logan (30), Madison (29), Hunter (28), Gabriel (23), Savanah (20) and their late son Garrison (who passed away at age 25 in 2024), reflected on their past by saying, “We experienced lean times when I was holding my clothes together with safety pins and we had nothing to spare. We also went through periods of instability, where it seemed like we were constantly moving from one place to another.

She stated, “You’ve shared these experiences with us, but she hasn’t had the same journey with you. That’s wonderful news! Go ahead, enjoy your life with your Diesel jeans buddy, living blissfully from now on.

I became the wife of Kody, a devoted father to eighteen children, in 2014. Following his legal separation from his first wife, Meri Brown, we went on to adopt his new family’s three kids: Dayton, Breanna, and Aurora, all young adults at the time. In our union, we also brought into the world Solomon, now thirteen, and Ariella, a vibrant nine-year-old.

In the latest episode of “Sister Wives”, Robyn expressed concerns that her monogamous bond with Kody might not be sufficient, considering his past separations from Meri and ex-wife Christine Brown, which were finalized in 2021 and 2022 respectively. This apprehension stems from the fact that he is moving away from polygamy.

In a private moment, I confessed my doubts: “Could a single spouse truly satisfy him, given his long-standing lifestyle and habits?” This man has been accustomed to another way of life for such a lengthy period.

Later on, during a romantic evening out, Kody made clear to his current spouse that he had no intention of revisiting the practice of polygamy in their relationship.

He confided in Robyn, “I can’t help but feel resentful since I was tricked into believing it, and in the final moments of that experience, I felt awful.

Speaking within a confidential setting, he mentioned, “I’ve lost interest in multiple marriages. I no longer wish to court another lady as I prefer to avoid the hassle – the queries, the hardships, the curiosity.

Read on for more Sister Wives season 19 bombshells.

Kody Brown expressed his intention to separate from his first wife, Meri Brown, shortly after their 1990 wedding. However, as he had often done in the past, he gave her hope that they could work on their issues by saying, “Meri, when we move to Flagstaff, this will be a fresh start for us.” This is what she recalled from the September premiere, referring to their 2018 relocation. “He had led me to believe those things for many years,” Meri added.

She mentioned her primary concern as his inconsistent communication regarding his feelings, desires, and dislikes throughout their relationship, along with the narrative he has maintained over the years.

Initially, Kody admitted there might have been some confusing signals, but when he began working on various tasks, he found himself questioning, “What’s the point of doing this?” He clarified that at present, he wouldn’t pursue a relationship or courtship with her.

Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023. 

She admitted, “They told me, ‘We’re with you now, helping you. It’s high time,'” revealing a newfound perspective. Previously, she believed he had been subtly encouraging her to depart for years by denying his love, “As if, if I were to leave on my own accord, he wouldn’t be the one at fault because he didn’t choose to walk away.

Several years after acquiring a 14-acre plot of land intended for construction in Flagstaff, Ariz., Kody admitted during the season premiere that he was ready to abandon the dream. Since they couldn’t construct without fully paying off the $820,000 cost (a debt they reportedly settled in 2023), Kody expressed his desire to either abandon or sell the property and start anew elsewhere to Robyn Brown, saying, “I’d almost prefer to scrap it or sell it, then begin anew somewhere else.

As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”

Previously, Janelle Brown had shared with TopMob News that the relationship between them was gradually drifting apart. However, it was the shortcomings in Kody’s role as a parent to some of their children that eventually led her to decide to part ways.

In my personal reflection, the pivotal moment for me came when the bond between him and my children faltered, and it appeared as if he wasn’t willing to go the extra mile to mend it. At that point, I realized that this was the root cause keeping me anchored in this place, and I decided it was time for a change.

In the November 3rd episode, any attempt at reconciliation that Kody proposed was firmly off the table for Janelle.

She stated, “I can’t imagine finding a way for us to be reconciled while he maintains no contact with my children.” Her decision is clear: she will always prioritize her kids.

I’ve shared how I chose not to exert extra effort to bridge the gaps I encountered with some of my grown children, as that was my approach, personally explained by me.

In the September 15th episode, he expressed his discomfort about no longer feeling like part of the family. Although he is still legally married to Robyn and together they have five children, Dayton Brown, Aurora Brown, Breanna Brown, Solomon Brown, and Ariella Brown, and maintains some relationships with a few other children, he stated that these connections are infrequent. This leaves him wondering what his role should be in this situation, as it doesn’t feel like a traditional family setting to him.

Although they’ve been genuinely monogamous for the first time in their 14-year marriage, Robyn admitted in the season 19 premiere that things have taken a turn for the worst. “Things have been hard between us,” she explained. “Kody doesn’t know who to blame – himself or one of the other wives. He feels rejected and I think he’s worried that I might reject him too.

Consequently, she disclosed, “I’m constantly vigilant. I need to ensure he isn’t undermining our relationship.” The most challenging aspect, she concluded: “There are no guides or support systems for the thought that I’m still married to a man who is going through multiple divorces.

Meanwhile, Kody was grappling with a wave of self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to face my reflection and tell myself, ‘Hi there, pal. I adore you.’

For Robyn, it was tough to see her ex-sister wives embracing their fresh chapter. As she put it during the Oct. 27 episode, “They’re all progressing,” and she felt like the one who was left behind.

Janelle mentioned that her oldest daughter, Madison, is currently not in a relationship with Kody, as there has been no contact between them. During the show premiere, Janelle stated, ‘Maddie hasn’t spoken to her father, and neither of them have reached out to each other. She essentially considers both Kody and Robin irrelevant now.’

In my expert opinion, the matter at hand revolves around Kody not fully engaging with Maddie’s children, Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine in a meaningful way. To quote directly, “She doesn’t feel comfortable with him having any significant interaction unless he can fully commit to it.

In a recent discussion on September 22nd, I revealed that my relationship with Maddie and her spouse Caleb Brush took an unexpected turn. To be precise, Kody chose to distance himself and effectively halt communication when our family unit began to significantly fracture.

Without Kody being around or reaching out, Maddie has taken on a very protective role, as Janelle put it. She feels that until he can reliably appear without causing a fuss, it might be best for everyone if they keep his absence undisclosed.

Additionally, Robyn mentioned that she’s been urging Kody to make amends, and she expressed, “I believe our children could also benefit from taking similar steps.

Currently, it appears that Kody is hesitant about mending the rift, as he frequently complains that their conversations are primarily used for gossip and he’s grown weary of it.

During our celebration on our 32nd anniversary, I confided in my friend Brandi that Kody hinted he never truly loved me and felt compelled to marry me. I responded by telling him, “Kody, I understand that you did love me.

And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever propose? 

She pondered, “Why would a bachelor decide to marry a spinster if he didn’t have genuine feelings for her initially? It seems harsh, doesn’t it? To select one from many and say, ‘I’ve chosen you as an experiment, hoping I can learn to love you for the next three decades’?

In his private reflection, Kody stated: “Well, Meri is making some allegations. She can certainly say what she pleases. I’ll keep quiet about it.

Though, he would share that they never enjoyed a honeymoon period. 

He emphatically stated during the October 20th episode that their marriage was in trouble from the very start. He claimed to have stronger relationships with Janelle, Christine, and Robyn, which led him to this conclusion.

He acknowledged that he “should have ended the relationship a quarter of a century back,” yet he continued due to apprehension, remarking, “Authority figures would never permit remarriage if you’re jettisoning spouses.

Despite being unsure whether to develop Coyote Pass or just sell it, Janelle realized that the first move was to settle the Arizona property debt. As Kody refused to discuss the matter with her, she expressed to her former sister wife Christine Brown in the September 22 episode that “I believe I’ll need legal representation.” She added, “I think that’s the only way I’ll ever get any resolution from him.

Janelle admitted that since she and Kody aren’t legally married, “I don’t actually possess any legal rights to stake a claim on Kody’s assets.” In her own words, “It’s not as simple as phoning up a lawyer and asking for a divorce. The complication lies in the fact that we have no legal marriage.

As a die-hard admirer putting words to my thoughts, I find myself compelled to express Kody’s rationale behind his silence regarding the Arizona property with Janelle. Essentially, he feels he can no longer rely on her trustworthiness.

He firmly stated during the September 22 broadcast that he would settle the property matter when necessary, and he refused to share any specifics about his actions or plans because he’s grown weary of revealing information that gets distorted by the rumor mill in our fractured family.

A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview. 

She mentioned, “He seems to spill secrets as easily as water through a colander. He revealed details about his past relationships and multiple spouses, leaving me feeling uncomfortable, thinking he shouldn’t have shared those things with me.

In days gone by, before their love began to lessen, the family would combine all their earnings into a shared fund instead.

In simpler terms, Janelle said during the September 22 broadcast that we would put all our efforts into helping one person first, followed by everyone coming together to assist the other. This was the norm until around ten years ago. However, now it seems to be more about individual wealth and everyone wanting their own assets instead.

When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone contributed to purchasing her 5-bedroom property worth approximately $1.65 million. This luxury home had been up for sale since August.

Initially, Robyn mentioned that the property would be beneficial for the whole family. However, when Janelle proposed that they all share the mortgage, she faced resistance. Kody argued, “‘No, no, we need to preserve, you know, Robyn’s inheritance,'” as Janelle remembered. Now that Janelle is leaving the family, she expressed her desire to receive her fair share of the Coyote Pass earnings and also recover some of the money she invested in Robyn’s house.

But that could be a tough sell. 

In response, Robyn remarked, “After collaborating for such a prolonged period, it’s perplexing to me. I mean, how does one quantify or determine that amount? It’s just so puzzling.

Speaking about their financial struggles with Coyote Pass, Janelle pointed out that despite his claims of numerous other debts, she’s observed Kody acquiring additional assets such as trailers and home decor. She added, “I notice all the artwork in Robyn and Kody’s house. I see all these items. And I understand, I too have spent money on things.” (On the other hand, Kody explained that most of his money went towards purchasing vehicles—he even had quite a few—”essentially a fleet”—and insurance for their children.)

Janelle admitted she wasn’t certain about Kody and Robyn’s financial management, but she often marveled at the beauty of Robyn’s backyard, which was perfectly landscaped. It always seemed well-stocked with various items, and Janelle found herself saying, “Wow. That’s interesting.

Essentially, she conveyed that he didn’t make her needs or desires a priority, which ultimately took its toll on her. Over time, she came to realize this, and even her grown children expressed frustration, asking something along the lines of “What on earth, Mom?

As a devoted admirer, I can attest that Robyn is meticulous with her finances following the collapse of her initial matrimonial journey.

She confided during the Sept. 22 episode that she wasn’t very good with managing money in the past. Growing up, she encountered tough financial challenges, and it was her divorce experience that taught her how to budget effectively. Regarding her fellow sister wives, she commented, “It seems like you may have had a different focus on where your income was being spent compared to me.

Currently, as shown in the Sept. 22 episode, Janelle admitted that she and Meri, Robyn, and Kody (parents of Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown) rarely interact with their families: “At present, there’s not much communication between us. I don’t think this situation is likely to change significantly.

Speaking about a memorable period in Las Vegas, Kody fondly recalled, “Living on that cul-de-sac with four houses, my best days! It was wonderful having Maddie and Caleb nearby, and I genuinely adored Caleb; he truly felt like family.

In Arizona, disagreements arose concerning coronavirus safety measures, leading to a breakdown of order. Subsequently, when his marital unions disintegrated, he lamented that this also affected his connections with the children: “It led to all those relationships becoming bitter.

But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021. 

She mentioned during the September 22 episode that the children who seemed upset had been feeling that way long before she departed. It seems her departure did not affect the dynamics of their relationships with Kody, as he still has the ability to mend his connections with his own kids.

Though it’ll definitely take some work. 

Kody clarified, “I’ve been so upset by how I’ve been perceived that I haven’t moved past it yet. The point is, I’m not prepared to accept blame for actions my wife or ex-wife claims I took. I can only hope that one day the resentment will fade, and we might rediscover forgiveness and love.

As a lifestyle expert, I’d put it this way: When I tied the knot with Meri at just 21 and 19 years old respectively, we were still getting to know each other – spiritually and legally. Over time, our paths diverged to the point where we decided to file for divorce in 2014, allowing me to adopt Robyn’s three eldest children from her previous marriage.

In our marriage, she seemed quite different initially, and I suspect there were some issues from her past that I wasn’t aware of. At first, I thought I could tolerate it. However, he asserted that everything was a struggle, admitting that he couldn’t continue living in a world where she is consistently upset with him.

Despite wanting to depart, he found himself bound within the relationship. Kody, a man in plural marriage, explained that if one wishes to remain faithful and devoted, divorce is not an option. Thus, he was unable to escape this union. Simultaneously, he yearned for the opportunity to mend and salvage the relationship rather than exit it entirely.

Due to the conflicting signals, he admitted that Meri believed they could resolve their issues. However, whenever they were together, Kody explained, “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t entertaining, she wasn’t compassionate, she wasn’t engaging. I’m trying to show curiosity towards her, but I’m growing weary.

In a spirit of understanding, he noted that it was reasonable for Meri to feel left behind, yet he clarified, “I didn’t evict her myself. Instead, it was Christine, Janelle, and Meri who decided for me to move out from our shared home.

Despite not legally being married, both Janelle and Christine initially expressed no intention of divorcing Kody. However, it was Meri who sought a formal separation from the church in late 2022, which is referred to as a “release.

In the episode on September 22nd, she clarified that all four of us women were united with Kody through our church in a covenant, not legally. Since we aren’t planning to continue our marriages and he doesn’t wish for it eternally, I believe it’s appropriate to end this covenant. In simpler terms, I don’t want to be connected to him forever if he doesn’t want me, so let’s completely separate ourselves in this regard.

Kody appeared reluctant, explaining that she didn’t feel comfortable recognizing the leadership of the church officials.

Kody clarified his position: “The harm inflicted is so deep that we can never reconcile, regardless of the circumstances.” He continued, “I don’t wish to answer to this church and their nonsense when it comes to our accountability. Therefore, I plan to let Meri make her own choices because if I’m angry with her, it would lead to conflict. Frankly, I just want her to move on because it seems like she’s been stuck in the past for a long time now.

2021 holiday gift exchange conversation between the 18 Brown offspring took an unpleasant turn, as Christine explained. “Things fell apart, things went awry,” she said, describing the situation. “Kody, Robyn, and their children were on one side, while Janelle, me, and our kids were left out by them. The split occurred after this text conversation.

According to Robyn, her older children expressed that the interaction felt uncomfortable for them and requested some space in their relationship. However, it wasn’t a matter of not wanting to see her or cut ties completely. Instead, they were simply indicating that things had become awkward.

For his part, Gabriel is hoping that they could find their way back to each other. 

He admitted during the October 13 episode that what he yearns for most is rekindling a relationship with Robyn’s kids. In middle school, Aurora was his preferred companion, and in high school, he often attempted to connect with Dayton. However, he’s not optimistic about forming a relationship with their father and Robyn.

Aurora emphasized that she was informed numerous times and by various individuals, both directly and indirectly, that she wasn’t welcomed into the family when her mom married Kody in 2010. They made it clear to her that she wasn’t their sister, and they didn’t perceive or regard her in that way.

Her sister Breanna expressed that she believed the parents might have made more efforts to strengthen our familial bond, but unfortunately, such connections never truly materialized.

But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.

Robyn’s children and Robyn are always welcome to any event,” she emphasized. “In other words, they can drop by our home whenever they feel like it.

Simultaneously, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown shared a strong bond with Robyn’s children, and in fact, Mykelti Brown Padron resided with them for a while. She explained, “There were challenging periods, and my children felt aggravated at times, but they viewed Robyn’s kids as their siblings just as dearly.

Speaking enthusiastically about the freedom it offers, Janelle described plural marriage as follows: “When it works optimally, it creates this incredible family system that you’re a part of, a community you’re connected to. You have a husband and enjoy a strong bond with him. You possess all the independence too. In my view, having multiple spouses was truly an outstanding arrangement.

Kody, however, wouldn’t say “I do” to polygamy again.

He expressed his viewpoint during the December 1st episode: “Polygamy undermines emotional intimacy.” He went on to say, “It creates defensiveness in everyone involved, and I yearn for an emotionally vulnerable, intimate relationship with a woman. Such a connection is difficult to achieve within polygamous relationships.

According to Janelle, Kody found it more challenging to share his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.

On the September 29th episode, it was pointed out that when Kody relocated to Flagstaff, he found it simpler to distance himself. Occasionally, I had to remind him of our arrangement and encourage him to visit my home. He’d often make excuses about being exhausted, but I’d reply, “You can rest just as effectively at my house as you can at Robyn’s.” This implies that he should not use tiredness as an excuse to avoid coming over.

Janelle asserted that her children were often reprimanded for accessing Robyn’s refrigerator, suggesting a sense of distance they felt from her. Christine’s kids, on the other hand, noted that they perceived Robyn as their father’s partner who lived elsewhere, as he was not present in their household.

And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide. 

She mentioned that Meri generally welcomed my children and me, but the rest of the family found it difficult to accept us, as she revealed in the September 29th episode. Our main desire was to become a part of this family.

However, Gabriel might contend that he and his kin made considerable efforts to integrate them into their group.

In the October 13th episode, he expressed his belief that Robyn seems to have a tendency to see herself as a victim, which isn’t necessarily her fault. He suggested this in a straightforward manner. Moreover, he believes that various individuals develop unique coping mechanisms to navigate their lives.

Yet, he went on to say, “If she truly thinks that we were unfairly treating her or her children while she was frequently favored by Dad and we were consistently nurturing our bond with her kids, and if she genuinely believes this, then there’s no possibility of me maintaining a relationship with Robyn in the future.

During a September 29 broadcast, Kody shared how the frequent changes between four households impacted his eighteen children, particularly an incident involving their youngest, Ariella (born in January 2016). This day, Ariella held tightly onto him as he attempted to depart.

Kody expressed it as, “I had to tell her, ‘Another wife and mother requires my attention, other children depend on me too,'” he said. “But she clung to me, crying, ‘Don’t abandon me, Daddy, don’t leave me.’ It’s tough, I can’t deny it.

Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle. 

From the start, she made clear to her children that their father wouldn’t always be present. It seemed to her that Kody and Robyn mishandled the situation regarding their children. He couldn’t stay away for longer than three or four days because Ari would become extremely sad. To her, it appeared as though this was negligent parenting. Throughout history, the other siblings had handled such absences and they turned out to be well-adjusted adults.

Among the rare group of children with the Brown surname, Mykelti managed to maintain relationships with both Robyn, Kody, and also Christine and Janelle. During Kody’s divorces, Mykelti stepped in as a mediator or peacemaker, fostering harmony within the family.

Since the day Robyn joined the Brown clan, I’ve felt a strong bond with her. In fact, I was honored when she asked me to be present at the birth of my twins in November 2022 – little Archers and Aces as we fondly call them.

During the September 29th episode, Mykelti shared that when Robyn initially became part of our family, I was still discovering my own identity. She made me feel valued and understood, which were feelings I needed at that time. When I was in need, Robyn was there. She was a supportive presence for me, someone who listened to me, cared for me, and showed me love.

Christine was overjoyed beyond words when she saw how well Robyn and Mykelti got along. As she put it during the Oct. 6 episode, “Ever since I dreamt of having a multi-parent family, I’ve always hoped my children would have strong bonds with other mothers. And seeing them connect like this is just what I had wished for.

Kody believes that it isn’t just his wives who have chosen to exclude him from their lives; rather, he thinks they are deliberately doing so as a form of punishment for a crime he maintains he did not commit. He expressed this view during the October 6 episodes, discussing his strained relationship with some of his older children. “I am merely being punished,” Kody stated, “for failing to fall deeply in love with the mothers of my children.

What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame. 

He mentioned that the strain in his relationships with his kids primarily stems from negative comments he’s made about himself. He explained that a cloud of disillusionment following the breakup of the family has created an atmosphere where it seems as though he is being blamed for any mistakes, with people saying, “Well, Dad must have messed up.

However, while he acknowledges bearing some responsibility, he strongly objects to the derogatory remarks. In fact, when discussing his strained relationship with Hunter, Maddie, and Gabriel, Kody admitted that one of his children replied to a text message by saying, “You are worthless. I wouldn’t talk to you again even if I tried.

In another occurrence, he expressed to the cameras, “One of my children recently said to me, ‘You’re such a jerk. I won’t speak to you anymore. You’ve manipulated me and indoctrinated me.’

He’s unwilling to handle the venom, and it seems like he’s implying that he won’t wait indefinitely for resolution. “I’m not just going to keep reaching out,” he stated, expressing his belief that adults should take more initiative to resolve issues. “I’m prepared to put in the work, but someone else needs to step up and contribute effort as well.

For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home. 

In her discussion on October 6th, she shared that her parents divorced when she was young. At that time, her father lived with another woman in a different city, while her mother lived alone. She recalled questioning her biological father about the situation, asking him why he wasn’t around when she was growing up. His responses were unsatisfactory and filled with excuses, leaving her feeling disappointed and upset.

Instead of halting his attempts due to Kody’s feelings of hurt, she was determined to continue making efforts. During their intense confrontation that occurred towards the end of 2022, she openly expressed her struggle with not losing a bit of respect for him, as she candidly put it.

Even though Kody admitted that he could put in more effort to repair his relationships with his children, he stressed the need for him to heal his own heart first.

He admitted that some of his children seem to be conspiring against him, and he explained, “I’m so enraged about the situation that when I speak with my kids, I fear they might accuse me, which could set me off even more. At the moment, I’m too emotional and may only make things worse.

Despite many members of their family being present at Logan’s wedding to Michelle Petty in October 2022, it seemed that Janelle and Kody didn’t share in the warmth or affection.

In the October 6th episode, Kody expressed his displeasure to Robyn, saying he felt Madison hurriedly took her children and moved them away from him. He added that it was unexpected as Madison hadn’t informed him about her third pregnancy, which resulted in the birth of their daughter Josephine in February 2023, a fact he had not been aware of. Essentially, Kody was saying that Madison didn’t tell him she was expecting.

Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.

In our conversation, I shared that my daughter Maddie has no relationship with Kody, as she prioritizes the well-being of her children above all. Kody hasn’t been present in their lives since Evie was born three and a half years ago, and Maddie didn’t want him to suddenly appear at the wedding, startling both her and the kids by claiming to be their grandpa when they hardly knew him.

Kody expressed that it can be impractical for grandparents to always be involved in their grandchildren’s lives, using Maddie as an example from North Carolina. He explained that this becomes especially challenging when moving one’s children across the country, as he has his own responsibilities and life in Flagstaff.

It’s evident that there’s a significant difference in perspective between Kody and his grown-up kids regarding their current rift, and a key issue at hand involves Kody insisting on an apology or acknowledgement of wrongdoing from them.

Following the end of the COVID-19 concerns and our return to regular life, family reconciliation remained elusive because Kody felt his sons ought to apologize, particularly to Robyn. As Janelle discussed in the Oct. 13 episode, “The apology issue escalated into something more, so they simply need to come and speak with me directly.

As a devoted follower, I’d rephrase it as: “Kody’s predicament, as I see it, was that he felt his children hadn’t been faithful to him, and the most cherished individual in our family, who’s poured her heart and soul, has been disregarded or treated unfairly. And I found myself saying, ‘Well, Kody, I hear you, but whatever.’

Gabriel expressed a similar sentiment, narrating a talk with his father. “He continually phrased it as if I needed to apologize,” he told Janelle. “Finally, I said something along the lines of, ‘Unless you’re genuinely ready to rebuild our relationship and address issues, we won’t be talking anymore.’ A few days later, he texted me back. He wrote, ‘Hey, I’ve been thinking about what you’ve been saying. I forgive you, Please forgive me.’ I responded, ‘Forgive me for what?’

Among the six children Kody has with Janelle, he primarily maintains contact only with their youngest child, Savanah. He doesn’t interact with them often, but approximately every two months, he reaches out and they spend some time together outside. The other children do not have a significant relationship with him. (Janelle explained this in the October 13 episode.)

Speaking as an overly enthusiastic admirer, it’s all about Savanah for me—the remarkable young lady who’ll graduate high school in 2023. You see, her four elder brothers have stepped into that paternal role with such grace. In a heart-to-heart with Janelle, Savanah even mentioned the idea of asking them to escort her on her special day—the one where she walks down the aisle someday.

In a conversation, Savanah expressed her understanding about the situation by saying, “It seems clear to me now that this is his character – he will be the type of father who joins us for fun times and then leaves. I can accept him as he is. There’s nothing wrong with that.” This was shared by Janelle.

Janelle, however, is less forgiving. 

She expressed her exasperation towards Kody, saying, ‘I find myself extremely disappointed.’ She’s observed a pattern in her professional life where she knows many women who, after their divorce, found that the children’s father would become absent or unavailable.

In the early stages of our family dispute, I found myself deeply affected when Kody stopped including me in his business travels – an experience that was particularly meaningful to me. To put it simply, Kody used to be a highly involved father, always eager to take me along on his trips. However, over the past few years, this has noticeably changed.

Although Gabriel is puzzled about what might have caused his father’s anger, during the Oct. 13 episode, he stated, “I told Dad that if he doesn’t change and can’t accept responsibility, then I won’t visit him anymore. And I’m completely content with that decision.

In her own words, she expressed that he finds contentment in the absence of his father in his life. And, truthfully, it’s a sentiment I wish for all my children. I believe they are gradually understanding this as well.

For his part, Kody also seems resigned to the situation. 

He expressed his regret for how Gabriel seems to be feeling, adding, “I’ve tried reaching out to him several times, but he hasn’t responded positively. However, I assure you, it’s not because I haven’t made an effort.

In late 2022, Meri was the one who ended her relationship with Kody, after seeking and obtaining what their church refers to as a “release,” based on charges of abandonment.

On the October 13th episode, she pointed out that he dislikes that particular word since he believes he didn’t leave her. Instead, she feels he did.

To put it another way, she believes he paid little attention to her until the point when she decided to depart, which allowed him to assert, “I have no part in this.

And Kody didn’t totally deny that he had a bit of a strategy. 

In a candid moment, I admitted, “I’ve left that chapter behind me quite some time ago. However, it’s undeniable that fear held me back from making a clean break. Fear of her reaction if I tore off the bandage, you see. The truth is, Meri wasn’t faithful to me, not once. That’s what I’ve always been concerned about. It’s more about reputation, because when a marriage ends, people tend to question your character.

Instead, alleged Meri, it was hers that was being tarnished. 

She expressed her disappointment by saying, “It’s truly unfortunate how Kody is discussing our marriage, as if it’s a different story now. The things he’s telling others about me don’t align with reality, and unfortunately, they seem to be believed.

Prior to when Christina parted ways with Kody, it became apparent to her that they were not suited for each other based on a suggested exercise from their marriage counselor in Las Vegas.

Christine had penned down a list of traits she desired in a partner, such as someone who communicates well, is involved in her life and that of her children, and finds her attractive. However, Kody was none of these things, according to her revelation on the October 20th episode. She told him about the list, to which he admitted, “I’m not any of those things for you.” Christine responded, “No, you’re not.

In my fervor, I instantly recognized the essence of the letter that confirmed what I had long suspected – my beloved husband-to-be, David Woolley, was indeed my soulmate.

She enthusiastically shared that family means everything to the single father of eight, who runs his own drywall company. Known for his sincerity and authenticity, he is also an exceptional communicator.

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2025-04-28 06:20