Mel Giedroyc Opens Up About Losing Her Parents and Falling into TV Presenting

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What’s the view from your sofa?

When I’m watching TV, I tend to extend my legs, making my feet appear quite broad nowadays. It seems the menopause has something to do with that.

Kathy Burke also has enormous feet.

Have you thought much about your own death?

As a film enthusiast, I frequently discuss this topic with my partner, who’s a television director and Lambda teacher – Ben Morris. Yet, our discussions aren’t gloomy or morbid. Over the past eight years, I’ve experienced the loss of both parents and both in-laws. To be frank, it’s been quite a run with death shaping these years.

So, you’re an orphan now?

Absolutely, it’s true that I had my parents until I reached my 50s, which was indeed a great blessing. When we unfortunately lost our father, we continued to cherish and care for our mother since she was left alone as a widow. Losing our mother last year was like losing both of them, making those times difficult but also immeasurably valuable. I feel incredibly fortunate now, as I have my own family, my own daughters who are remarkable young women.

All the same, a year isn’t long. You must still miss your mum.

Upon my mother’s passing, she left us, her children, a comprehensive five-page email detailing arrangements for her funeral. Oh my goodness, it proved incredibly helpful! We systematically went through the email, checking items off as we completed them. It contained advice such as: “People pay little heed to food at funerals; they’re more interested in drinks. Make sure there’s plenty to drink,” followed by a list of all the beverages she wished to be served. My mother, a former nurse known for her practicality and no-nonsense approach, had a knack for taking charge.

As a seasoned movie critic, I’ve seen my fair share of on-screen talent – from the warm and inviting hosts of “The Great British Bake Off” to the charismatic personalities gracing the stage at Eurovision. So, what makes a good presenter?

In my humble opinion, it all boils down to three essential qualities: authenticity, adaptability, and engagement. A good presenter should be genuine in their interactions, adapting effortlessly to the unique dynamics of each show while maintaining an unwavering connection with the audience. It’s not just about delivering lines; it’s about creating an experience that resonates deeply with viewers.

In a past collaboration with an Australian theater director, a piece of advice that has stuck with me was, “Expand your senses, especially on stage, visualize your ears growing.” Essentially, he wanted us to pay close attention to every sound and movement happening around us. As for myself and Sue [Perkins], we found ourselves in the role of presenters by chance, but I don’t believe we were naturally suited for it.

What was it like meeting Sue at Cambridge University?

Experiencing a strong connection with another person where you seem to share the exact perspective and find yourselves laughing heartily together – that deep, genuine kind of laughter – is truly incredible, a unique and precious gift.

Do you feel privileged having been to Cambridge?

The sole motivation behind my decision to apply to Cambridge University was a ticket my mother purchased for me to attend a performance by Cambridge Footlights when I turned fifteen. My passion for comedy, specifically shows like Nine o’Clock News, Victoria Wood, French & Saunders, grew stronger that evening. It seemed as though doors leading to new opportunities in comedy were opening before me. The performance left me amazed, as I couldn’t believe these students were creating such hilarious content. Comedy was the primary factor influencing my application to Cambridge University, and I doubt I would be accepted if I applied today.

According to the Oxford High School’s website, you were known for being an unstoppable and greatly admired personality at school. In simpler terms, people really liked you because you were hard to ignore and always seemed to be full of life.

Uncontrollably stubborn might be an equivalent term for irrepressible, and someone who is highly likeable but not academically gifted could be described as charmingly unscholarly. Regarding your experience, it was a delightful all-girls secondary school that I adored. The unique aspect of this institution was its strong feminist foundation, which meant that I never questioned my ability to succeed due to my gender. In fact, I can confidently say that if not for attending this school, I might not be on the path I’m currently on.

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2025-06-03 02:07