Bachelor Nation fans have a bouquet of questions for Matt James and Rachael Kirkconnell.
Because after four years of dating, the former Bachelor announced he and his final rose pick split.
Dear Heavenly Father, grant Rachel and I the resilience we need to heal our broken spirits. May You bestow upon us a tranquility about this decision to part ways that surpasses human comprehension. Let Your kindness and love envelop our loved ones as they console us. And remind us, Lord, that true joy originates from You.” – Matt’s post on Instagram, January 16th.
However, it wasn’t an ordinary breakup announcement. People on social media pointed out that Matt was the one who shared the news, unlike them posting as a pair. Additionally, he disabled commenting on the post. To add to the intrigue, he had posted videos from their trip to London together only a few hours prior.
Although Rachel hasn’t explicitly spoken about the matter, fans have inferred she expressed her thoughts indirectly through likes on Instagram. Re-examining a birthday tribute she made for Matt on December 5th, the Georgia contestant liked a comment that suggested Matt may have taken her by surprise with this situation, asking for understanding and patience as she handles it at her own pace.
The conversation carried on as Trinity Kirkconnell joined in. In response to Matt’s old London post, shared long before the separation news, she clarified under a TikTok video that they were still together when he was posting, offering some insight into the sequence of events.
In 2021, Matt and Rachael crossed paths on the Bachelor’s season, making history as the first Black male lead. Despite not receiving an engagement on the romantic series, Matt presented Rachael with his final rose. However, racially inappropriate images from a 2018 antebellum-themed party that Rachael attended started circulating online during the show’s airing. She expressed her apologies during “After the Final Rose,” at which time Matt confirmed their split. Interestingly, several months after this incident, Matt disclosed that he and Rachael were back together.
He explained on the May 2021 episode of The Pomp Podcast that the promise we made to each other about improving our relationship was genuine. However, I wasn’t fulfilling that commitment as Rachael expected because my approach was different. One day, we had a serious conversation where Rachael told me, “If you truly want this to work, then let’s make it happen. But if you’re not committed, I’ll allow you to handle things on your own. That’s essentially the choice you have to make.
Looking back over three years, it appeared as though the pair continued to thrive on a bright trajectory. Following their completion of the New York City Marathon on November 3 (which occurred only a few months prior to the announcement of their separation), Matt expressed his anticipation for the future with Rachael.
Today, the reality star affirmed, “I’m eating, but ideally in the future, we’d form a family together.”
Even as the drama captivates Bachelor viewers for more than a moment, continue reading to explore the reasons other show couples provided for their splits.
Length of Relationship: Seven months
As it turns out: The couple who enjoy long journeys decided against boarding the midnight train for an unknown destination. Earlier, Jersey resident Theresa and Gerry from Indiana had disclosed their intention to relocate to South Carolina. However, in April 2024, they announced that they couldn’t come to a consensus about where to settle down instead.
During his interview on Good Morning America, Gerry expressed that what stands out the most in our discussions is our shared commitment to our families. In examining these circumstances, he feels that it’s more suitable for the well-being and happiness of both of us to lead separate lives.
Absolutely, Theresa. We examined houses in South Carolina, we also pondered over options in New Jersey, and we’ve seen house after house, yet we never reached a stage where we finalized our choice.
Length of Relationship: Six months
I’ve Confessed: Scarcely a few days after their summer 2023 love story unfolded on ‘Bachelor in Paradise’, the software salesman admitted via his Instagram Stories on December 11th that our relationship has reached its conclusion. Watching it all unfold on screen, I found myself grappling with complex emotions. Yet, we’re navigating this amicable separation with nothing but optimism and a deep respect for each other.
She didn’t directly comment on the separation, but instead, her social media posts seemed to hint at it. On January 2nd, she shared a video that contained a picture of a man, who was unidentified, giving her a friendly kiss on the cheek.
Length of Relationship: Six months
Essentially, she implied that his intentions for being in Mexico weren’t genuine. Just two days following their public departure as a pair on the season nine finale of ‘Paradise’, the nurse based in North Carolina disclosed that their relationship had ended abruptly.
Since we went public with our relationship news yesterday, I’d like to express my gratitude that my faith kept me from enduring more days in the shadows. Over the past 24 hours, I’ve been coming to terms with the reality that a significant bond in my life has disintegrated due to repeated unfaithfulness.
In My Own Words: To Kylee, her beloved family, and cherished friends, I humbly confess that I’ve made grievous errors in our bond, causing pain to someone who means the world to me. Currently, I find myself in the depths of a profound low point, striving for self-improvement. I am tirelessly seeking healing, self-discovery, and aiming to become a better individual.
Length of Relationship: Six months
They Declared: On the same day Eliza and Aaron made public their separation, the nurse and the underwater welder disclosed that they too found themselves parting ways. Unable to see a forever in each other’s futures, they opted to cancel their plans to relocate together to San Diego. In a joint statement, they clarified that their career aspirations were leading them down separate paths.
Although making this choice wasn’t straightforward,” the East Coast duo noted, “we feel it’s the best move for each of us personally.
Length of Relationship: One year
In September 2023, during an episode of Jason Tartick’s podcast “Trading Secrets”, the dad confirmed their long-rumored separation. He expressed, “Both of us put a lot into our relationship, and it’s incredibly unfortunate when things don’t work out.” They had planned to build a life together, but as he explained, “When you discover that love is present, yet compatibility might be lacking, you grieve not only the loss of that person and your friendship, but also the future you once imagined together.
She Stated: Excuse me? A few days later, the nurse who had traveled from Nashville to Ohio with Michael, posted on her Instagram Stories that she was taken aback to learn their breakup would be made public in this manner. She clarified that their separation wasn’t a mutual agreement based on perceived incompatibilities, but expressed hope for Michael’s future well-being.
Length of Relationship: Three weeks
He stated: When they came back in November 2022 to shoot the final episode of Paradise, she had stopped wearing her Neil Lane diamond. He expressed that during the gap between filming and their engagement, he started questioning his worthiness towards her. “I struggled to believe in her during that period,” he admitted, hinting at the speculations about Victoria’s budding relationship with Greg Grippo, a former contestant on The Bachelorette. “I wanted to trust her, but I wasn’t sure.
She Said: Indeed, she and her friend-turned-romantic partner Greg were genuinely involved, but they didn’t delve into their relationship until an October trip to Italy, following the conclusion of their supposed “toxic” romance. As she put it, “When we stepped out into the real world, there were a lot of worries.” They experienced numerous highs and lows, and she made it clear that she wouldn’t get engaged if she wasn’t content with the prospect of marriage.
Asserting that he had referred to her as a derogatory term and criticized her for lack of cooking and cleaning (a remark he claimed was in jest), Victoria commented on the infidelity accusations, “I am aware that you are aware such claims aren’t true. I believe it’s quite simple to attribute our separation to other circumstances and individuals.
Length of Relationship: Five months
He and She Declared: Nearly paradise. Months following the proposal by Michelle Young’s runner-up in Mexico, where he vowed to cherish the elementary school teacher “until my final breath,” the pair revealed the termination of their engagement via a joint statement on Instagram. “We have endeavored to address our relationship issues privately, which has proven exceptionally challenging under public scrutiny,” they penned. “This situation has been excruciatingly difficult for us, as there is much love between us. We are deeply anguished and can only appeal for understanding and kindness.
Length of Relationship: A few months
After multiple attempts, the couple from Paradise didn’t turn out to be the classic love story everyone hoped for. A month following their reunion in November 2022, the doctor posted on her Instagram Stories, “Romeo and I have parted ways. Sometimes it’s best not to give people a second opportunity to let you down.
Not entirely satisfied with her take on the division, Romeo expressed his thoughts on his personal Instagram, posting, “There’s always more than one perspective in a situation.
In a December 2022 episode of the Fearlessly Authentic podcast, the mathematician shared his perspective. He admitted, “There might have been an opportunity or prospect, but truthfully, I wasn’t at ease with the stress, with the anticipation. It felt like we ought to strive to achieve success because if it succeeded, then Paradise would receive more recognition and we could claim that it had been a triumph.
Length of Relationship: A month and a half
“I’ll Never Forget: In November 2022, after our Paradise journey ended, I, the passionate fanboy, recounted how Brittany chose to part ways with me via a FaceTime call—an event that unfolded while she was basking in her Italian escape. Remarkably, this heart-wrenching conversation coincided with the moment Rachel Recchia, the Bachelorette, was publicly letting go of me on TV.
He expressed that they seemed to be separate individuals leading distinct lives, which had become too much for her to bear.
Brittany emphasized that when she said she wanted a “break,” she meant a pause, not an end to their relationship. Following the reunion, she clarified this point on social media by stating, “Our separation was mutual and unexpected.
In response to fans’ comments about appearing distant towards her former partner, the Chicago model clarified that the footage they saw was just a snippet – a 60-second clip – from a full 20-minute conversation between them.
During our chat on the Bachelor Happy Hour podcast, she mentioned they’d had in-depth discussions about their future plans over the next few years. They had even taken trips to each other’s hometowns and met each other’s families. The question was whether to relocate to the same city or continue with long distance. After some thoughtful talks, she communicated to him that she required some time off.
Length of Relationship: Six months
When it was revealed that she and her partner on ‘Dancing With the Stars’ had split up after their final rose ceremony, she didn’t dance around the topic with Val Chmerkovskiy during a discussion about their waltz on a November 2022 episode. Instead, she openly acknowledged the breakup, stating, “I have indeed gone through a separation.” She explained that the relationship ended because they had different visions and approaches to life, and ultimately were not compatible with each other’s goals.
The following day, he expressed on his Instagram Stories that they were in agreement regarding their separation. He wrote, “In truth, we weren’t each other’s ideal matches—it can be difficult when there isn’t a clear reason. We crossed paths under extraordinary circumstances and I am thankful for it. I wouldn’t change it for anything.
Length of Relationship: A few months
She Stated: On the show After the Final Rose, shortly after Tino proposed, the host disclosed that Rachel and the general contractor encountered difficulties once their season debuted in July 2022. Speaking to Jesse Palmer, she admitted, “Unfortunately, it didn’t work out as he was unfaithful.” She confided that Tino kissed another woman, adding, “It’s truly heartbreaking. I believed he was the one I would spend the rest of my life with and start a family together.”
In My Own Words: Discussing the challenges I faced with public perceptions during the show’s debut, Tino clarified to Nick Viall on his ‘Viall Files’ podcast last October that I am absolutely not a supporter of unfaithful actions. Although we encountered difficulties, I want to make it clear that I do not condone what I did at all. It was not right, it wasn’t fair to Rachel, and the guilt from it still weighs heavily on me every day. It’s something I regret deeply and would change if given the chance a million times over.
Length of Relationship: Less than a year
He and She Stated: Despite attempting to revive their relationship following their split in the March 2022 finale, they ended up parting ways dramatically in September. In a joint Instagram post, they clarified their decision, acknowledging that social media often presents only highlights and many personal experiences remain private. “However, we will disclose this much—despite the joy and laughter our time together has brought us over the past year, there has also been deep pain,” they added.
Ultimately, the hardships surpassed the benefits, they explained. They acknowledged that every good relationship encounters difficulties, but they discovered that external factors beyond their control impeded their progress in healing individually and as a pair.
In her blog post from November, the videographer explained that the separation was justified. She expressed that those close to her noticed her luster had faded and she was no longer flourishing. She admitted they had many joyful times, but beneath the surface, she was struggling and felt out of sync with the best version of herself.
Length of Relationship: Less than a year
She Wrote: “It’s hard to express that Nayte and I are parting ways,” a Minneapolis-based teacher shared on her Instagram Stories in June 2022, almost a year after she received a Neil Lane diamond and a $200,000 check from producers for their future home. Recognizing the difficulties of dating under public scrutiny, she continued, “We both feel the weight that accompanies this relationship, as it has been very meaningful to us.
Initially, when our Austin sales executive began this adventure with someone, they were seeking their soulmate, their lifelong partner, and best friend. Yet, as time goes by and we gain more experience, it becomes clear that not everyone you deeply care for is necessarily the one you’re destined to spend the remainder of your life with.
In the following months, he disclosed on The Viall Files that they had nearly parted ways on multiple occasions. He described their relationship as challenging, stating, “It was tough. There were many highs and lows, numerous disagreements, quarrels, and simply not seeing things the same way or understanding each other well.
Length of Relationship: Six months
He and She Stated: The same time that produced newlyweds Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt, along with Kenny Braasch and Mari Pepin, saw Paradise’s first interracial couple begin the new year by announcing a mutual separation. They expressed in a joint statement, “We never imagined this would happen, but we have reached a point where we both need to focus on our individual growth.” They have been grateful for everyone’s love and support during their journey, and they kindly request privacy as they navigate through this difficult time.
Length of Relationship: Two years
The two individuals encountered allegations that their visit to Mexico wasn’t purely for the supposed intended reasons, as their fellow contestants found out they had been dating casually prior to their arrival at the beach. Upon leaving Paradise, they persisted with their relationship and even decided to live together in Massachusetts.
However, after their contentious relationship finally came to an end in 2023, she chose to express her feelings through social media. She captioned an Instagram video with, “Even when they tell you ‘go to hell,’ I’m still dealing with the shock of my last relationship’s whiplash.
He hasn’t said much regarding that issue, but he did share an update about his recent relocation to Los Angeles.
Length of Relationship: Six months
Two months following the Bachelorette’s on-air acceptance of a proposal from the Canadian wildlife manager in 2021, they shared identical Instagram posts in October signaling their separation. Their thoughtfully crafted message read, “We are deeply thankful for the precious moments we experienced and the entire journey that unfolded this year, but after careful consideration, we’ve realized that we are not suitable as lifelong partners. It is with kindness towards each other that we choose to move forward independently.
A while after this, Katie, who eventually dated John Hersey, the man she dismissed in the second round, mentioned that their primary problem was that they just didn’t seem to be very content as a couple.
She pointed out that many people might wonder, “What exactly transpired between Katie and Blake? What significant event occurred between them?” However, she clarified that they had been dating for six months. Being reasonable and mature individuals who communicate effectively, Blake and she realized that if their first six months as a couple were any indication of the future, it wouldn’t be beneficial for their happiness to continue their relationship.
Length of Relationship: One year
After it was announced that her relationship with the marathoner had ended, Tayshia finally spoke up during her role as co-host of The Bachelorette: The Men Tell All in December 2021. “I’m just going to say I am heartbroken,” expressed Tayshia who relocated from one coast to be with Zac in New York City. “We truly gave it our all, and despite the pain, I still care for him deeply. I’m not sure what lies ahead.
In September 2023, during an episode of the podcast “Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous,” the addiction specialist commented on their past relationship, stating, “From my perspective, two good individuals may not necessarily create a strong relationship.
Length of Relationship: Six months
In January 2021, the model announced on Instagram that Clare and he had chosen to part ways. This decision followed their rapid engagement during her short-lived season of The Bachelorette. They expressed gratitude for the love and support they’ve received from many, but this was the best choice for both of them at the moment, considering their wellbeing.
Perhaps she wasn’t hinting at a shared ownership? Later on, Clare mentioned in her profile that she learned about the joint statement at the same time everyone else did, which is why she required some extra time to fully comprehend it.
She went on to say, “I might not have all the solutions, but I can assure you of this – I will persist, keep my promises, and remain steadfast in love.” So dedicated, indeed, that they attempted reconciliation during summer 2021, but parted ways again in September of the same year.
Length of Relationship: Two months
He Said: Arie Luyendyk Jr.’s situation somewhat mirrored his own. After Madison Prewett chose to leave the competition, Peter proposed to Hannah Ann. However, during their secret encounters, he ended up calling off their relationship, expressing to Hannah Ann, “I yearn with all my heart to give you everything and every piece of myself.” This conversation was broadcasted in his season’s finale of 2020.
Hannah Ann Responded: When Peter attempted to express remorse, Hannah Ann inquired if he was sorry for not having the courage to keep his promises…for not being sincere about his emotions. Was that what he regretted?
Even Peter’s mother applauded Hannah Ann, who became the star of the evening as she firmly told Peter, “You’ve caused enough harm. Depart now. Goodbye.
Length of Relationship: Two days
After defying his mother Barb’s disapproval by proposing live on TV to his initial runner-up, the pilot announced via Instagram that he and the woman from Alabama had mutually decided not to continue their relationship. I assure you, this was a difficult decision for both of us to accept.
She Stated: Simultaneously, Madison, who had departed from the show prior to the final rose event, shared her own Instagram message, expressing, “I am certain that we will both advance towards our destiny and never lose sight of the fact that God has a design in every situation.
Length of Relationship: Roughly a year and a half, on and off
He Said: What time are we talking about? Back in December 2020, when he and Kelley (who didn’t make it to hometowns during his Bachelor season) parted ways, the pilot posted on Instagram, “Love can be strange. It can make you feel like you’re on top of the world, but it can also bring a pain that you wish didn’t exist. I wanted to let everyone know that Kelley and I have decided to go our separate paths.
After their second separation in February, Kelley expressed to Kaitlyn Bristowe on her “Off the Vine” podcast that there were numerous fundamental issues in their relationship which he felt were being promised changes or improvements, but his actions suggested otherwise. In other words, actions tend to speak more than words when it comes to demonstrating genuine commitment and change.
In autumn of 2022, the pair made another attempt to depart, yet this third try failed to bring success.
Length of Relationship: Four months
They Declared: After a tumultuous relationship and a dramatic appearance on the After Paradise special, where Katie first appeared without her engagement ring, the couple officially confirmed their separation in December 2019 by releasing a joint statement.
At this stage of our tale, we concur it’s wise to pursue individual paths,” the ex-pair expressed. “We opt to cherish and honor one another as friends, as friendship forms the cornerstone of our bond. This choice feels organic and right for us. We are profoundly appreciative of the encouragement we’ve received from our loved ones, well-wishers, and supporters who stood by us throughout our adventure—from Paradise to this very moment. We are thankful for all that we’ve gleaned during this phase, and eagerly look forward to what lies ahead in our lives and romantic ventures.
Length of Relationship: Two months
Demi and Kristian, Favorite Couple from Bachelor in Paradise: Following their historic debut as the first same-sex couple on the show, Demi and Kristian, who hadn’t been part of the franchise before, called it quits in October 2019, an announcement they made after being engaged at the end of the sixth season.
In their shared announcement on Instagram, the couple expressed their decision, made with mutual affection, to distance themselves temporarily from their relationship. They aim for what benefits them most in the future, and at this moment, that means pursuing personal growth separately.
Length of Relationship: Two months
He and She Disclosed: The phlebotomist residing in California (who had a romantic connection with Colton Underwood) and the financial analyst based in Maryland, who briefly courted Hannah Brown, tried to sustain their relationship after departing the beach in 2019. However, Tayshia revealed that they mutually decided to part ways, expressing on Instagram, “In essence, we lived on opposite coasts and had demanding work schedules that made it difficult to see each other and establish a life together.
She stated, ‘Our friendship is strong and enduring, for we always manage to bring joy to one another, no matter what circumstances we find ourselves in.’
JPJ commented on the post with the heart and praise hand emojis.
Length of Relationship: One month
Hannah, the Bachelorette, was taken aback when she discovered that her fiance, Jed, reportedly entered the show while he was still dating someone else, intending to leverage the show for his career advancement. Upon confronting him during a prearranged meeting, Hannah ended their relationship.
Later on, she clarified, “What I agreed to wasn’t what you’re suggesting now. On the day of our engagement, I believed that day was mine. It feels as though it was taken away from me.
Jed persisted in minimizing his past relationship with Haley Stevens, asserting that they weren’t officially a couple and later insisting he wasn’t unfaithful. However, he apologized to Hannah, explaining, “I was driven by fear instead of love and respect for you. I wasn’t certain about how everything would be perceived…I hesitated because I was afraid to lose you.
Though Jed and Hannah (now married to Adam Woolard) aren’t particularly close, Haley has managed to maintain her connection with the former pageant queen. In fact, she tied the knot with Hannah’s brother Patrick Brown in 2022. Jokingly, Hannah commented on the vows, “I’ve come to understand that my life is one continuous unexpected turn of events.”
Length of Relationship: Less than two years
Colton shared on an Instagram post in May 2020 that he and his ‘Bachelor’ final rose recipient had parted ways in their romantic relationship. However, he expressed that they might be destined to remain friends, which is perfectly fine. They have both grown significantly and experienced a lot together, so this isn’t an end but rather the beginning of a new chapter for them.
She Said: In her post, the speech pathologist concurred that they would support each other unwaveringly. However, their subsequent tale took an unexpected turn, involving a temporary restraining order, allegations of stalking and harassment. Eventually, Colton publicly disclosed in 2021 that he is gay.
A few days passed, and Cassie shared a video on her YouTube channel where she informed her audience that she wouldn’t delve into the specific topic. She expressed, “There are many intricacies involved,” and added, “At this moment, I believe it’s best for me to progress and concentrate solely on moving forward.
Length of Relationship: Eighteen months
In the fifth season of “Bachelor in Paradise,” they became one of the show’s most cherished couples. After living together in Los Angeles, they shocked everyone by announcing their unexpected separation in 2020 through a joint statement.
The duo informed BachelorNation.com that they’ve jointly decided to part ways, living in different cities instead. Specifically, Joe is planning his return to Chicago, whereas Kendall intends to stay put in her home city of Los Angeles.
Eventually, Kendall conceded that she hadn’t anticipated the break-up, stating, “In the end, it turned out that Joe believed he would thrive more in Chicago.
Length of Relationship: Less than two years
In their respective seasons, they departed from Mexico in 2018 only to return the following summer for a televised wedding. However, by February 2020, they made a shared statement about their separation.
In a statement to BachelorNation.com, they expressed that they never envisioned this situation, but they’ve reached a point where they both need to focus on personal growth. They emphasized that despite the deep love and affection they have for each other, they are also best friends who care for one another deeply.
Nevertheless, when fitness expert Krystal shared her pregnancy news with Miles Bowles, who is now her husband, in November, Chris openly confessed on social media that this revelation served as the “perfect topping” to an already shattered heart.
Length of Relationship: A few months
He Said: One of the more intense endings for the show Paradise was when blogger Reality Steve revealed texts that Jenna allegedly sent to another man, suggesting her relationship with Florida model Jordan wasn’t genuine. This revelation came only a few days after their engagement was shown on the 2018 finale. “It seems I’ve been manipulated,” said Jordan to Reality Steve. “The last thing you want when you’ve been tricked is to get deceived again.
Despite Jenna asserting she hadn’t been unfaithful, Jordan communicated to Entertainment Weekly, “I am choosing to step away from our relationship so I can focus on self-care and finding my own joy.
The social media manager engaged a lawyer to scrutinize the matter. In October 2018, her representative disclosed the findings from a digital examination conducted on her electronic gadgets. They reported that this investigation “unequivocally proved” that none of the text messages under question originated from Jenna’s phone.
Length of Relationship: More than two years
She mentioned: The attention given to Garrett’s contentious display of backing the police during the revival of Black Lives Matter sparked debate, as Becca openly stated she didn’t share his viewpoint on the matter. However, she clarified that it wasn’t just this issue that strained their relationship.
She explained weeks after their split in August 2020, “It wasn’t a decision we made impulsively one night.” Instead, it was a complex situation that didn’t stem from a single Instagram post or external opinions. Rather, there were numerous factors at play. In the end, she summed up, “Life can take unexpected turns, and people may grow apart due to differences, eventually choosing to go their separate paths.
After several months, in a blossoming relationship with Alex Farrar, who is now his wife, Garrett spoke about the breakup on his Instagram Stories. He emphasized that he would only respond to this question from now on by saying, “It simply wasn’t meant to be.
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