Barry Keoghan Slams Accusations He’s a “Deadbeat Dad” to Son Brando

As a lifestyle expert and someone who deeply values honesty and empathy, I wholeheartedly admire Barry Keoghan for his unapologetic stance on parenting and his personal life. His experiences growing up without reliable parental figures have undeniably shaped him as a father, yet he refuses to let that define him negatively in the eyes of the public.


Barry Keoghan won’t stand for certain narratives.

Recently, the Saltburn celebrity opened up about his personal life, discussing how his challenging childhood without consistent parental figures has influenced his approach to parenting his 2-year-old son, Brando, whom he co-parents with ex-partner Alyson Kierans.

Although Barry acknowledges that his upbringing has an impact on him as a father, since he didn’t have a model to follow, the 32-year-old is firm in debunking some allegations regarding his parenting style as false.

He remarked during his interview on The Louis Theroux Podcast on November 4th, “There seems to be a certain perception about me as a parent.” He continued, “The internet is filled with it. If I didn’t possess resilience and fortitude, I wouldn’t be here talking to you now. People often misinterpret my circumstances and assume, ‘Ah, that’s no justification for being an uninvolved father.’ However, let me clarify, I am not an absent father.

He continued, “People love to use my son as kind of ammunition.”

Due to the criticism he’s faced, coinciding with his rising film career in movies like “The Banshees of Inisherin” and “Eternals”, Barry chose to maintain privacy about his personal life as a father, preferring to keep it away from the limelight.

Barry clarified, “What I was trying to say is, ‘I don’t possess the blueprint you’re referring to.’ Few people actually do. I don’t have any innate instincts that tell me what to avoid or what actions to take based on my upbringing. Neither did I learn this from my father through a song, nor was it passed down from my mother.

After observing his response being distorted online, he went on to say, “I won’t provide them any more content. I won’t give them additional reasons to claim, ‘Look, here I am with my child.’ Frankly, you don’t deserve such information.

Although Barry seldom reveals details about his time with Brando, it’s worth noting that he has mentioned before that his role as a father is the most important part he will ever play.

He shared with Vanity Fair in February that it’s crucial for him – for his child to have the opportunity to grow up feeling proud of their father and having him as a source of support. He added that he’s ready to be there for any questions or learning moments, sharing in the process of growing and making mistakes together.

As I find myself under increasing public scrutiny and stress, I’ve been posting less about my child,” the actor shared, explaining his reasoning. “I believe it’s unfair to expose my child online. Consequently, some people create stories, like ‘absent father’ or ‘deadbeat dad,’ when they see me not sharing much about my parental role.

He continued, “Just the audacity of some people, man. It sickens me more than it makes me furious.”

The former student of Dunkirk, who lost his father at a young age due to addiction issues and later experienced the loss of his mother as well, elaborated on his bond with his son by drawing upon an answer he gave in a recent interview. In that interview, he stated that his relationship with Brando is not the typical father-son dynamic.

In simpler terms, when I said that, I was referring to the fact that I don’t possess a predefined plan or set of guidelines that others might have. Most people aren’t in possession of such blueprints, as they didn’t receive specific instructions like ‘Don’t do this,’ or ‘Here is a song my father taught me,’ from their parents or ancestors, either.

Having observed how his response was distorted in the digital realm, I persisted by saying, “I won’t provide any further content. I won’t let them exploit it as ‘Look, here I am with my child.’ Frankly, you don’t warrant such a privilege.

Although Barry seldom reveals details about his time with Brando, it’s worth noting that he has mentioned before that being a father is the most meaningful role he will ever assume, and he has been nominated for an Academy Award.

As a lifestyle expert, I firmly believe in the significance of fostering a strong bond between a child and his father. I shared this perspective during my interview with Vanity Fair last February, stating that it’s crucial for my son to grow up feeling proud of me, and to turn to me when he needs guidance or support. In essence, I strive to be not only a source of knowledge but also a partner in his learning journey, sharing in his triumphs as well as our failures together.

And in the meantime, Barry is enjoying the joys of watching his son grow up.

He marveled at the subtle similarities and traits emerging, and found it incredibly heartwarming. Every time he locks eyes with you, it’s like watching ice melting.

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2024-11-05 17:48