Ditch the Screens: Ed Stafford on Reconnecting with Nature (and Your Kids)

Ditch the Screens: Ed Stafford on Reconnecting with Nature (and Your Kids)

As a fervent supporter of adventure and personal growth, I wholeheartedly endorse Ed Stafford‘s approach to life and his latest show, Into the Jungle with Ed Stafford. His philosophy resonates deeply with me, as someone who has spent a considerable part of my life exploring the unknown and pushing boundaries.


Chucking kids across waterfalls, feeding them spiders, making them sleep with jaguars – it’s a wonder Ed Stafford wasn’t detained by Belizean social services while filming his latest show out there. But that’s the whole point of Into the Jungle with Ed Stafford: the Guinness World Record-holding explorer took six British children and their dads into the wilds of Central America on a challenging but hopefully bonding trip. Here’s his guide to what we can all learn from the experience.

 
 

KIDS NEED TOUGHENING UP A BIT

 

Modern life is too comfortable, and I strongly believe that experiences of risk, adventure, and hardship are essential for personal growth. Unfortunately, these challenging situations seem scarce in our daily lives. For instance, you can easily get food from the fridge or water from a tap. Even when broken, one can still survive in this life. I’ve grown as a human being due to my numerous adventures, not because I’ve become invincible and can slay snakes, but because they have humbled me and given me opportunities to confront and overcome personal challenges that may not have arisen if I were confined to an office.

 

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ANYONE CAN HAVE AN ADVENTURE

 

The show we produced features fathers, but it’s just as suitable for mothers, and perhaps even grandmothers in the future! At this point, we haven’t discussed involving grandmothers, but who knows? Adventure can come from anyone! In one of our episodes, we descend 160 feet into a sinkhole using abseiling, and among us is Immie, a 12-year-old girl born with limb difference, whose arm ends at her elbow. This shows that anyone can be courageous and adventurous.

Descending a steep cliff face is always nerve-wracking, and she was visibly anxious at the start. I found myself questioning, ‘Have we pushed ourselves too hard?’ However, her father’s assistance, compassion, and unwavering love gave her the strength to overcome her fears. When she finally reached the bottom, her joy was palpable. One of our safety team, a former member of the Special Air Service, approached me afterward and remarked, ‘That’s the most remarkable thing I’ve ever witnessed.’ It was a truly moving moment, and I can barely hold back tears as I recount it.

 
Ditch the Screens: Ed Stafford on Reconnecting with Nature (and Your Kids)
 

YOU ONLY NEED A FORTNIGHT

 

In a span of ten days, we observed remarkable transformations in these children. These changes were slow and steady, as we didn’t want to overwhelm them with too much too soon, to avoid any potential traumatic experiences. At first, they stayed in small cabins or huts, then transitioned to sleeping in hammocks, and eventually started constructing their own shelters. Just like a vacation for my family isn’t about lounging on the beach with drinks, it’s about seeking new adventures. I believe that’s beneficial for growth.

 
 

A FEW MOUTHFULS OF BUGS WON’T HURT

 

The content is effective on television since it taps into people’s anxieties, yet it’s also appealing because when participants were sent to gather food in the wilderness, they learned to appreciate the worth of sustenance we often overlook. After consuming insects like ants and cockroaches, one realizes they can do so if necessary. For me, this isn’t about preparing for the end times; it’s about engaging with nature.

 

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TAKE A SCREEN BREAK

 

“I understand it can be challenging. If given the choice, my children might opt for snacking on Pringles and watching television all day. However, I’ve noticed that when they try new foods or engage in activities beyond their screens, they tend to become happier.

 

In this TV show, the fathers spent hours conversing around the campfire late into the night, without any influence of alcohol or electronic devices. Since they didn’t have screens, their interactions were genuine and engaging. I’m part of a WhatsApp group with them, and even after ten months, we exchange about 200 messages every week. It’s beautiful, but I had to archive the conversations because constant notifications were becoming overwhelming!

 

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DON’T SWEAT THE JAGUARS

 

The show presented real perils: encounters with snakes or jaguars, such as one guide spotting a jaguar just ten meters from our camp while we were all sleeping in hammocks. Yet, I was aware that the probability of meeting an untimely end in a car accident during our bus ride from Belize City was significantly higher. However, the sensation of being in an unfamiliar environment made the experience even more thrilling.

 

On one of my adventures, someone joined me, and since he was in a foreign setting that left him disoriented, he wondered, ‘Will Ibuprofen be effective in the jungle?’ Being in an unusual place often unsettles you, thereby making you more receptive to new experiences. Venture into the strange and wondrous – anywhere at all – and you’ll discover profound insights about yourself.

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2024-09-26 19:39