How Teddi Mellencamp and Ex Broke Cancer News to Their Kids

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Teddi Mellencamp is definitely keeping it real.

In a recent update, the former star of “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills,” who is currently fighting stage 4 cancer, has been openly discussing her health condition with her children – Slate (age 12), Cruz (age 10), and Dove (age 5) – as shared by their father, Edwin Arroyave.

In the April 3rd episode of his podcast “The Eds”, he clarified his stance, stating, “I spoke honestly about the situation. It’s like saying, ‘Your mother has growths in her brain that we call tumors. The term might sound severe, but it’s not as bad as it seems, at least not how I see it. Here’s our plan for dealing with it, and this is why I am optimistic that she will pull through.’

Despite their children feeling “scared” and “anxious,” Edwin, who is also a father to 15-year-old daughter Isabella with ex Christina Mecklenburg, chose to be open about the risks associated with Teddi’s cancer, which has spread to her brain and lungs, necessitating numerous brain surgeries, radiation therapy, and chemotherapy.

Edwin went on to say that he didn’t want to make things sound overly positive, so he made sure to inform the children about the potential dangers or difficulties involved,” he added.

But in the face of Teddi’s health struggles, the 47-year-old said their kids have “been strong.”

He noted that children are remarkably adaptable. Impressed by their determination, he observed that they’ve continued excelling in academics and sports. In an effort to maintain stability for them, he encouraged them to carry on with the routines they were accustomed to.

And for Edwin, his response to support Teddi, 43, throughout her medical ordeal was “reflexive.” 

Edwin shared, “Many find that challenging, but for me, it’s simply part of my routine,” referring to his actions following the fall ending of his 13-year marriage with Teddi. “Regardless of circumstances, I continue to hold deep affection for Teddi, who significantly impacted my life. Caring for others is something I naturally gravitate towards, and it’s not a choice but an inherent part of me.

Could it be possible that the pair might rebuild their relationship at some point? Edwin plans to evaluate the situation once the timing feels appropriate.

His initial emphasis was on ensuring that proper care is given. For the moment, he’s unsure about future events, but his primary concern is your wellbeing and quick recovery. In other words, he’s focused on finding ways to help you regain your normal state as soon as possible.

He added, “That other stuff will figure itself out.”

To see some of Teddi and Edwin’s cutest family photos, keep reading… 

In 2021, Teddi and Edwin escorted Slate, Dove, and Cruz to the LOL Surprise! The Movie premiere in Los Angeles.

In the summer of 2024, a group of five reveled in a day full of amusement at Disneyland and California Adventure, joined by friends. Teddi shared on Instagram, “They may claim it’s a small world, but my sore feet tell a different story.

“I needed this,” Teddi captioned a pic with her youngest. “Thank you.”

In July 2024, Teddi took to social media to express her pride as her eldest child achieved a significant accomplishment at just 11 years old. At the Junior Hunter Finals, they managed to clear a 90-degree jump and clinched the Classic Stake victory! What an impressive feat!

Teddi posted on Instagram in August 2024, “Why was I tearing up? Because…

1. I’m going to dearly miss them.
2. Their growth reminds me that I am growing older too.
3. Now I can work peacefully throughout the day without interruptions.
4. It’s a mix of all these feelings.”

The family honors Teddi’s dad, music legend John Mellencamp, in October 2024.

Wishing you a joyful birthday, Dad! It was such a treat to have spent the weekend with you at the Capital Challenge Horse Show. And the final moment, oh it just continues to bring smiles! Sending lots of love, John Mellencamp.

Slate, Dove and Cruz enjoy a day with grandpa.

As a devoted grandkid, I can’t help but share this: My grandpa, at 93, continues to be chosen ahead of me for our family football games. Yet, despite this, he’s still got it! Now, let’s talk about the real debate in our clan – pumpkin or apple pie? What’s your pick?

Teddi celebrates Thanksgiving 2024 with her three kids.

“The North Pole comes to SoCal!” Teddi shared with a festive photo.

On New Year’s Eve of 2024, Teddi asked, “If you don’t know that the ball drop is at 9PM PST and are celebrating it, raise your hand.” She also inquired, “Who allows their children to stay up until their local midnight on New Year’s Eve (and how do you manage it)?

In February 2025, the co-host of Two T’s in a Pod wrote: “Happy Birthday to my miracle child! It’s hard to believe that it’s already been five years since you entered our lives and made them so much better and brighter. No matter how big you grow, you’ll always remain My Baby Dovey to me.

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2025-04-04 06:17