Inside Jennifer Garner’s Parenthood Journey, in Her Own Words

Jennifer Garner, the beloved actress and mother of three, shares her thoughts on raising children, instilling values, and the importance of setting a good example. Garner, who divorced Ben Affleck in 2015 after ten years of marriage, has always prioritized her kids’ well-being and growth.


Jennifer Garner‘s favorite alias? Mom.

In every decision she makes, the actress from “13 Going on 30” keeps her three children with her former partner Ben Affleck – Violet (age 18), Seraphina (age 15), and Samuel (age 12) – firmly in consideration.

After having children, she started pondering, “What is the best way for me to use my time?” and “How can I leave a small yet meaningful imprint on the world?” she shared with Today Parents.

Garner strives to be a good role model for kids by acting in significant films and speaking up for their causes. She believes that children observe her actions closely, whether she does something commendable or makes a mistake like running a red light.

She added “I give it all I can.”

After their divorce in 2015 following a decade of marriage, Garner and Affleck committed to raising their children together with love and friendship.

In a 2016 conversation with Vanity Fair, the Alias veteran made it clear that there’s no need for anyone to dislike him on my account. Personally, I don’t hold any hatred towards him.

Over the course of several years, Garner and Affleck, who is 51 years old, have maintained a warm relationship. In 2023, Garner expressed her heartfelt appreciation for Affleck in a touching tribute, acknowledging that “no other person loves their children as much as you do.”

“Shout out to BGA,” she added at the time. “Happy Father’s Day, Ben!” 

More recently, the ex-pair demonstrated the power of their unity by attending Samuel’s graduation together with Jennifer Lopez, Ben’s current wife, as well as Max and Emme, Marc Anthony’s teenage children from a previous relationship.

For more insight into Garner’s parenthood journey, in her own words, keep reading.

As a lifestyle expert, I strongly believe in the importance of maintaining a respectful and amicable relationship with an ex-partner, especially when it comes to co-parenting. In my own experience, I’ve found that prioritizing the wellbeing of our children, Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel, is essential. Therefore, I make a conscious effort to keep the lines of communication open and collaborate with my ex-husband, Ben Affleck, on important decisions regarding their upbringing.

In a 2016 interview with Vanity Fair, I, Jennifer Garner, made it clear that it’s not Ben’s responsibility to bring joy into my life. What truly matters most to me is our children and ensuring we both nurture their growth in alignment with our shared hopes for them.

As a lifestyle expert, I’d rephrase it as: “I may have missed out on dancing with my husband at our daughter’s wedding, but the joy on their faces when he arrives is priceless. And if your children love someone so deeply and unconditionally, then you’ll naturally develop a strong connection with that person.”

Despite the fact that both Garner and Affleck have thriving acting careers, Garner is determined that their children don’t grow up confined within the bubble of Hollywood.

As a lifestyle expert, I firmly believe in providing my children with a well-rounded perspective of the world. It’s crucial for them to understand that not everyone lives the glamorous life portrayed in Los Angeles. Instead, I want to instill in them the values I grew up with in the South. These include taking the time to greet people pleasantly and appreciating the simple joys of life, like stopping to smell the roses.

And that’s why her parenting style is very hands-on.

“She explained to TopMob News that instilling values in children is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. ‘You can’t simply hand them values,’ she stressed. ‘Instead, you need to demonstrate your own values through your actions.'”

The former Alias star emphasized that setting a good example is the paramount duty she and Ben Affleck share. They express hope that their children will observe and value the efforts they put forth.

Of course, there is no one standard way of parenting.

During a 2016 interview on Late Night With Seth Meyers, Garner expressed that, despite one’s intentions, it’s ultimately not within one’s control to follow someone else’s advice unquestioningly.

The “13 Going on 30” actress encouraged parents not to cling too tightly to their concerns, adding, “It’s normal to face challenges and endure hardships – as it is for all parents.”

Garner finds that establishing limits and guidelines is essential for keeping an orderly household for her children.

She told Us Weekly, “It’s necessary for me to do it, although it may not be appealing. I strive to maintain consistency and set clear expectations for them, even if I don’t excel at it all the time.”

As an avid fan and admirer of Garner’s parenting skills, I can relate to how she handles setbacks. When she encounters obstacles in her journey as a mother, she maintains a positive outlook and sees each new day as an opportunity for growth and improvement.

She advised People, “You have the flexibility to declare, ‘Today, we’ll give this a shot!’ If things don’t work out, simply say, ‘Today, we’ll abandon that plan and try something new!'”

The actress added, “That’s part of what I like about being a mom in general.”

Garner’s motherhood joy extends into the cinematic universe as well.

She expressed her joy to Today, saying, “It’s a privilege for me to be playing the role of a mother. I believe there’s no other period in a woman’s life as rewarding as when she has her children.”

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2024-07-14 17:45