Rachel Lindsay is telling her side of the story.
Following the former contestant on The Bachelorette finalizing her divorce from Bryan Abasolo (as revealed by TopMob News, who obtained documents showing she paid him $500,000 as part of the settlement), she publicly addressed the matter and disputed her ex’s version of their divorce events.
In the January 10th episode of her “Higher Learning” podcast, Rachel expressed, “I find it difficult to phrase this, but here goes: I’ve gone through a divorce, and I’m truly grateful. It’s like I’ve been given a taste of freedom.
After Bryan left the shared home they once occupied together in July, making their separation seem more definitive, the podcaster underscored the liberating sensation of being past the legal proceedings.
As soon as he stepped out of our shared home, seven months after our separation, I truly felt like we were divorced,” Rachel explained. “I’ve allowed others to speak for me without interjecting my own thoughts. This was deliberate, but there have been many instances where what they said wasn’t correct.
Indeed, the 39-year-old detailed some of the most hurtful ways Bryan framed the divorce.
She clarified, “What’s been most troubling for me is his comments that reinforced harmful stereotypes. For instance, he often implied I was an angry Black woman or a career-oriented woman solely to gain media attention, which made it difficult for me to navigate the portrayed narrative.
She emphasized that it’s completely untrue for people to assume that she prioritizes her career over her marriage or desire for children. These assertions are absolutely false.
Meanwhile, even after her split with Bryan, Rachel – who had previously discussed her fertility issues – expressed frustration with certain narratives. Yet, she also articulated her reasons for continuing the process without putting up much of a fight.
At present, this is my entire message,” she underscored. “There’s a stage in a divorce where it’s not only essential but necessary to outgrow the role of the ‘bigger person.’ When someone persistently engages in conflict with you, refusing any compromise and clinging stubbornly to their stance for whatever reason they may have, you must eventually relinquish control and prioritize your most valued priorities.
Indeed, Rachel has enjoyed support from others during this journey. It’s worth noting that her former partner, Nick Viall, had publicly called out Bryan during their high-profile divorce process in the past.
In a recent episode of “The Viall Files” in August, Nick expressed, “It appears as if your team is dishing out more and more information, attempting to tarnish her image. This behavior is really distasteful – show some self-respect and respect for your ex-wife.
The conclusion of Rachel and Bryan’s relationship didn’t have a fairy-tale ending, but they aren’t alone among Bachelor Nation couples who parted ways after their time in paradise. Stick around to find out what happened with every pairing.
Status: Enaged
Joan Vassos, who first appeared on “The Golden Bachelor” and left Gerry Turner’s season prematurely, later became the star of “The Golden Bachelorette” debut season. It was during this show that she met and became engaged to contestant Chock Chapple. Speaking during the finale in November 2024, Joan expressed her optimism for their future: “Life may have thrown its challenges at us, but there’s always hope, even at our age.” She continued, “I waited until this special moment in this breathtaking location to tell you that I love you, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I want to greet each morning with your presence by my side, and share every goodnight kiss.” This heartfelt confession was made in Bora Bora, where Chock later proposed.
Status: Split
In the season finale of “The Bachelorette” (season 21), it appeared that former “Bachelor” contestant Jenn Tran was on her way to a happy ending with her final choice, Devin Strader. However, Jenn, aged 26, disclosed during “After the Final Rose” in September that Devin, who is 28, turned cold towards her as soon as the cameras stopped rolling.
During the September 3rd show, Jenn expressed to host Jesse Palmer that the man she was involved with was making grand declarations of affection one day, only to act indifferent and deny any feelings the next. She lamented that all the vows he had made to her, all the love he claimed to have for her, seemed to disappear suddenly.
The events escalated further as Devin posted a 13-minute video on Instagram, explaining his perspective and also expressing accountability. In a subsequent 15-minute conversation, he elaborated on the reasons behind ending the relationship.
In August, while Jenn said he ended their relationship over the phone, he stated that Jenn insisted on knowing why things weren’t working out and was trying to figure out how to tell her in person instead.
He mentioned that he was unsure of any other action to take, implying that he had been holding off on telling her in person. In essence, she made him reveal it.
After that, Jenn walked towards Dancing with the Stars, and it seems like she might have found a connection with her partner Sasha Farber. There has been speculation about their relationship since their elimination on October 29th.
Status: Split
In November 2022, Greg Grippo, who was one of Katie Thurston’s suitors on The Bachelorette a year earlier, appeared alongside Victoria Fuller in the finale of Bachelor in Paradise season eight. During their stay, they publicly declared that they were in a relationship. However, in April 2024, Greg disclosed that they had ended their relationship.
Prior to Victoria Fuller and Greg Grippo revealing their relationship during the final episode of Bachelor in Paradise’s eighth season, Victoria Fuller had previously broken off her engagement with Johnnie DePhillipo.
Status: Divorced
Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist became engaged in November 2023, during the final episode of the first season of “Golden Bachelor”, and they officially wed in a live broadcast wedding ceremony in January 2024.
However, three months after their nuptials, the couple announced that they were breaking up.
During an interview on Good Morning America with Theresa in April 2024, Gerry explained, “Theresa and I have shared many deep conversations and thoroughly analyzed our circumstances, including our living arrangements. We’ve arrived at a mutual understanding that it seems appropriate for us to end our marriage.
They reached a divorce settlement in June 2024, according to court records reviewed by TopMob News.
Relationship Status: Set to Wed
After considering 32 potential partners, tennis professional Joey Graziadei found his ideal partner in project manager Kelsey Anderson. “I can’t delay any longer to express my affection for you,” Joey confessed to his chosen one during the finale of the season in March 2024. “There’s something about you. Your energy is contagious and makes me happy. It’s a sensation I’ve never experienced before.”
Picturening his forever with the woman from Louisiana, he added, “I had always imagined having a wonderful life, but I truly didn’t realize how magnificent that life could be until I encountered you.
Status: Separated
Though underwater welder John Henry Spurlock and nurse Kat Izzo didn’t initially connect until halfway through season nine of ‘Bachelor in Paradise’, they were ready to take a leap. As he presented an Ascher cut Neil Lane diamond, he expressed his unconventional approach: “I’m going to try something a little different today… I’m following my heart. You are amazing, you are everything that I’ve been searching for.”
However, a few days after the finale aired, they announced their separation. In a joint Instagram post, they stated, “Our career paths are diverging due to our professional goals not being in sync. We are thankful for the love and support we’ve received from our families, friends, and Bachelor Nation.
In summary, despite Eliza Isichei (one of Clayton Echard’s past partners) initially feeling anxious about a proposal during the Paradise event, she graciously accepted Aaron Bryant’s oceanfront proposal. Moved by his gesture of contacting her mother for her blessing, she expressed, “I knew I wouldn’t be able to control what would come out of my mouth.”
Following their return from Mexico, Eliza and her ex encountered some hurdles, which eventually led to the announcement of their official split. On Instagram in December 2023, he wrote about their amicable parting, stating, “Navigating these complicated feelings as I watch everything unfold. We’re moving forward with nothing but positive vibes and mutual respect for one another.
Status: Split (broke up)
Nurse Kylee Russell found herself disappointed when boyfriend Aven Jones refused to propose – something he reportedly intended to do while courting Bachelorette Rachel Recchia. However, she eventually agreed to his Paradise proposal, saying they needed to leave and make their relationship work. This decision meant her engagement dress remained unopened, but Kylee felt it was the right thing to do, stating “Love is about taking risks.”
Just two days after their finale aired in December 2023, she revealed on Instagram Stories that their relationship had ended due to several instances of infidelity. Aven later apologized to Kylee for his mistakes and the pain he caused her, admitting, “I made serious errors in our relationship and hurt someone I was close to.
As a lifestyle expert, I couldn’t contain my excitement when sharing the news of my upcoming nuptials with TopMob News. Although I’ve been rather coy about it, let me assure you that Dotun Olubeko’s August 2023 proposal was nothing short of magical! Kneeling before me, the esteemed integrative medicine specialist declared our love to be “flawless,” and humbly requested, “Would you grant me the privilege of turning this fairy tale into a reality?”
Though our blissful future is yet to unfold—we’re considering a 2025 or 2026 wedding date—I have some exciting news to share first! As it turns out, I will be gracing the dance floor of Dancing With the Stars before tying the knot. Overjoyed at this opportunity, Dotun couldn’t hide his enthusiasm on The Bachelorette: After the Final Rose. “Alright, sweetheart,” he gushed to me. “You know you love to dance and have fun—and we’ve talked about how incredible this chance would be. I am thrilled beyond words to tell you that you’ll be appearing on Dancing With the Stars! Let’s do this, baby!
Status: Set to Wed
Zach will have his fairytale conclusion. Despite a few hiccups during the Fantasy Suite, Zach Shallcross concluded season 27 in March 2023 on bended knee. “I am deeply in love with you,” he expressed to travel nurse Kaity Biggar. “You are my universe. The affection I have for you surpasses anything I could have ever imagined.”
By July 2023, the Texas-based couple took a significant stride forward in their relationship, as Kaity posted on Instagram, “Now officially sharing a home.” They’re currently arranging their October 2025 wedding vows.
In a turn of events, despite appearing set for a lasting relationship, Danielle Maltby and Michael Allio, who both found themselves on the reality TV show ‘The Bachelor’ under different seasons, have parted ways. Although they seemed destined to become Bachelor Nation’s ideal couple, their romance ended after Danielle moved from Nashville to Ohio to be with Michael. In a podcast episode of Jason Tartick’s “Trading Secrets” in September 2023, Michael confirmed the split, expressing his sadness over the relationship not working out. He lamented that when relationships don’t succeed and you realize that love is present but compatibility is lacking, it brings about a sense of loss – not just for the person and friendship involved, but also for the future that was once envisioned together.
Brandon Jones declared his eternal love for Serene Russell during their proposal on season seven of Paradise. However, their relationship didn’t last long; five months after their engagement aired, they announced their separation in a joint statement on Instagram in May 2023. They acknowledged the challenges of maintaining their relationship in the public eye and expressed that it was difficult for both of them, asking only for understanding and kindness during this painful time.
The relationship between Rachel and general contractor Tino Franco faced difficulties when he was involved with another woman during their 2022 season broadcast. In an interview on “The Viall Files,” he admitted, “I in no way condone my actions. It was wrong, unfair to Rachel, and it continues to weigh heavily on me every day. I am deeply ashamed of what I did, and if given the chance, I would change it a million times over.
The story unfolded as follows: Status: Split
Indeed, it was quite an adventure. Susie Evans initially turned down Bachelor Clayton Echard‘s proposals during the 2022 finale, but later reconnected with him off-screen…only to part ways again six months later.
However, the Los Angeles-based videographer maintains that their separation was for the best. “Those close to me could see that my radiance had faded, and I wasn’t flourishing,” she penned in a November 2022 post on her blog “Susie Was Like.” She admitted they “experienced many happy moments, but beneath the surface, I was grappling with difficulties and felt out of sync with my true self.
After dating Justin Glaze, a contestant from Bachelor Nation, Susie later confirmed that they had parted ways as well, with their separation taking place in August 2024.
The status: Separated
Minnesota elementary school teacher Michelle received a Neil Lane sparkler from Texas-based sales executive Nayte Olukoya, as well as a $200,000 check from producers for their future home. However, after six months since the season finale aired in December 2021, the pair found they didn’t have a strong enough foundation and announced their breakup.
On The Viall Files, Nayte admitted that there were many ups and downs, frequent arguments, fights, and a lack of agreement between them. He also acknowledged that not having an in-person conversation to finalize the split was “a dick move.”
Michelle started dating Jack Leius in 2023 and announced their engagement the following year.
Status: Separated
The viewers found themselves deeply invested in the aspirations of Maurissa Gunn and Riley Christian for a life filled with peaceful Sunday mornings. However, due to unforeseen circumstances, the BIP season seven couple managed to spend only a handful of weekends together.
In a joint statement released in January 2022, patient coordinator Maurissa (who pursued a relationship with Peter Weber) and attorney Riley (one of Tayshia Adams’ suitors) declared their decision to part ways. “We never thought this would happen, but we have reached a stage where we both require time to focus on ourselves,” they said.
Status: Split
As a connoisseur of contemporary lifestyles, I must share an intriguing tidbit from the Bachelor Nation: The first same-sex couple to appear in the reality series “Bachelor in Paradise” got engaged during season six. However, they chose to part ways in 2019, announcing their separation on Halloween.
In simpler terms, they stated on Instagram that their bond has always been characterized by mutual love and concern. Their primary focus has been to make decisions that benefit them as a couple. With deep feelings of affection towards each other, they have chosen to take a break from the relationship. Essentially, what’s best for them in the long term is being apart for now, allowing them to grow separately.
Current Status: Engaged
In a twist, Noah Erb and Abigail Heringer, despite parting ways during the seventh season of The Bachelorette, found themselves deeply entwined. Originally settling in San Diego, the travel nurse (vying for Tayshia’s affection) and the financial manager (graced with Matt James’ first impression rose) have recently invested in a home in his hometown of Tulsa.
“Preparing to embark on our Chip and Joanna Gaines era, as your girl has just bought her very first house!!” Abigail shared on Instagram in July 2023. “Eager for the start of a new chapter and all the cherished memories we’ll make here!!”, she added, hinting at some wedding plans. Prior to their relocation, Noah popped the question at a San Diego beachfront home in August 2023.
The couple, Serena Pitt and Joe Amabile, who gained fame from their respective seasons on Matt James’ show and Becca Kufrin’s season in 2018, decided to take a preliminary step towards their official wedding by getting legally married at City Hall in New York City. This unofficial ceremony was held about a year after they left the show known as “Paradise” engaged. Serena Pitt, who now co-hosts the “Bachelor Happy Hour” podcast with her husband, announced their union on an October 2022 video post, captioning it, “JUST MARRIED!! We are still planning our official wedding in September, but who wouldn’t want to get married twice!
Kenny Braasch, famous boy band manager, declared his deep affection for Mari Pepin as he placed a Neil Lane diamond ring on her finger during the finale of Paradise in 2021. “I am absolutely smitten by you,” he said, adding that he couldn’t imagine his life without her. Following their romantic journey, which saw them eliminated by Tayshia Adams in week five, Mari Pepin, a former Maryland beauty queen, moved to Kenny’s hometown of Chicago. Prior to their oceanfront wedding in Puerto Rico in November 2023, they sealed their love with matching tattoos during a trip to the Bahamas in May 2023.
Status: Married
As a devoted fan, I’m thrilled to share the beautiful love story of Becca and Thomas Jacobs. They found each other on season seven of ‘Bachelor in Paradise’ in 2021, but parted ways during the show. However, their bond proved strong, as they reconnected after production ended. In May 2022, they announced their engagement, with Becca taking the lead to propose. “I hope this empowers others to break the rules,” she shared with TopMob News. True to her words, Thomas returned the favor in October of the same year. In September 2023, they welcomed their first child, a son named Benson. Becca expressed on Instagram, “Words can’t express the love and awe we have for this little man.” Just weeks after welcoming Benson, they decided to tie the knot in a heartwarming, spontaneous ceremony on October 13, 2023.
Status: Split
In the final episode of season 17 of “The Bachelorette” in 2021, Katie became engaged to Blake Moynes. Their affection for each other was first expressed during their overnight date, which included a paintball adventure, a cowboy tub, and a chat under the night sky.
Kneeling down, Blake expressed to Katie, “You are worthy of the whole world, and I’m thrilled to be your supporter and companion each day ahead.
Three months following the broadcast of their proposal, the pair revealed they were separating. In identical statements, they expressed thanks for the shared memories and the year’s events, but acknowledged that as partners in life, they weren’t compatible. They decided it was kindest to each other to proceed individually. Now, she is betrothed to comedian Jeff Arcuri.
Current Status: In a Relationship
Since Matt and graphic designer Rachael Kirkconnell parted ways during his 2021 season (followed by a brief separation and reconciliation), they have faced numerous breakup speculations. However, rest assured, their affection for each other remains strong.
During a July 18 event at Baskin-Robbins, Matt expressed his thoughts to TopMob News, stating, “I believe everyone needs a break from social media. Our lives are so heavily influenced by our phones that when anyone takes a break, people think it’s the end of the world.”
Marriage is their long-term goal. The L.A.-based pair believes in moving at their own pace. As Matt, author of First Impressions: Off Screen Conversations With a Bachelor on Race, Family, and Forgiveness, told TopMob News in 2022, “What we have is a working recipe, and we’re going to get there.
Status: Split
Following her entry to replace Clare Crawley during the 2020 run of The Bachelorette, Tayshia found herself smitten with Zac Clark. Despite exiting the show as an engaged couple, Tayshia disclosed at a later date that their relationship encountered some highs and lows.
In a new relationship, it can be challenging to leave for a few weeks, right? And I’m speaking honestly about this situation on the ‘The Ben and Ashley I. Almost Famous’ podcast in August 2021.
After that incident, it felt as if we should recall why we were together in the first place. And I believe this is perfectly normal under such circumstances. However, in November 2021, TopMob News reported that they had parted ways.
Status: Split
During season 16 of ‘The Bachelorette’, Clare developed a deep affection for Dale Moss. Intriguingly, they became engaged by the fourth episode. However, the unexpected events didn’t cease as weeks after Clare was replaced by Tayshia, Dale announced on social media that his relationship with the hairdresser had ended.
Approximately a month later, speculation about reconciliation swirled when they were seen together. Jump ahead to July 2021 – following multiple reunions – Clare and Dale were solidly back together, complete with an engagement ring. However, by September of the same year, they split up again. Now, Clare is happily wedded to Ryan Dawkins and anticipating their first child together.
Status: Split
As a devoted fan, I had high hopes for Peter’s third attempt at love following his short-lived engagement to Hannah Ann Sluss and subsequent split from Madison Prewett. However, fate seemed to have other plans as my beloved pilot shared on New Year’s Eve 2020 that the nine-month relationship with Kelley Flanagan, the outstanding contestant from The Bachelor season 24, had come to an end.
Pete shared on Instagram, “Though our journey together was brimming with numerous cherished moments, unfortunately, it didn’t sustain in the long run. However, Kelley will always hold a unique place in my heart.
In 2022, the couple made another attempt to fly again, only to announce earlier this May that their love story had come to its last stop.
Status: Split
After the emotional conclusion in 2020, the pair publicly declared on Instagram that they were ending their relationship. Peter stated, “Madi and I have jointly decided not to continue our romance any longer.” This wasn’t an easy choice for either of us, but after numerous sincere discussions, we agreed that this was the best course for both of us. The affection and regard I hold for Madi will persist.
In her declaration, Madi expressed, “I’ll forever cherish and honor him. I firmly believe that our lives were destined to intersect, and we’ve both grown for the better since they did.
Status: Split
During season 24 of The Bachelor, Peter and Hannah Ann were briefly an item. Regrettably, by part two of the finale, it became clear that they were facing difficulties just a month into their exclusive relationship. More specifically, Hannah Ann was taken aback when she learned that Peter still harbored feelings for Madison.
She said, “All along, I just wanted someone to offer their entire love as I was offering mine. And yet, you ended our first engagement.” She conveyed this before returning the ring. “You took that away from me. That’s what I had given you – trust. Trust that I asked you to maintain, patience and faith in me.
Relationship Status: Married
After living their #vanlife days, Dean Unglert (a finalist from Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay’s season) and Caelynn Miller-Keyes, who had a romance with Colton Underwood on Paradise, parted ways in 2019. However, they have been traveling together ever since.
In 2022, they got engaged, and on September 23, they exchanged vows at a camp-themed wedding held in the Colorado mountains. Just before the ceremony, Caelynn shared her excitement with TopMob News, saying, “I simply adore him so much! I’m just so thrilled to be marrying someone who is such an outstanding individual, who makes me laugh every day, even when I’m upset. I believe our life together will be full of fun.
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