Sister Wives’ Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn’t Seen Grandkids in Years

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

As a bystander observing the tumultuous dynamics of the Brown family, it’s evident that each member carries a unique perspective shaped by their own experiences and relationships within the family structure. In this case, we have Robyn, who has faced challenges integrating her children into the existing family, and Janelle, who expresses concerns about the impact on Kody’s other children due to his divided presence.


Kody Brown is no longer multiplying his love.

Struggles between some of the older offspring of the ‘Sister Wives’ star are affecting his bond with his grandchildren. In the October 6 episode, it was clear that Kody and his sole remaining spouse Robyn Brown were having disagreements due to Kody’s strained relationships with many of his older children. A daughter in particular, Madison Brush – second eldest among the six kids shared by Kody and ex-wife Janelle Brown – has been a point of conflict after she reportedly snubbed her father at a family wedding and kept him apart from her children.

Kody shared with Robyn, “I noticed how quickly Madison hurried her children away from me, and I didn’t know she was pregnant or planning to have a child.

In a confessional, Janelle explained Madison’s position on her dad.

Janelle expressed that what the children find disappointing is how Kody has behaved towards the family and his sudden absence,” she stated, having separated from Kody in 2022. “It’s also worth noting that Maddie doesn’t maintain any connection with them.

In a straightforward manner: Madison and her spouse Caleb Brush have a 7-year-old son named Axel Brush, a 5-year-old daughter named Evie Brush, and a 19-month-old daughter named Josephine Brush. It was revealed that she is expecting their fourth child in recent announcements. However, during the filming of the episode in 2022, Madison was pregnant with Josephine.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Janelle mentioned that Kody hasn’t visited since Evie was born, and now that Evie is three and a half. She didn’t want him to suddenly show up and claim he’s her grandpa, making Evie wonder who he is.

In Flagstaff, Arizona, Kody maintains that he isn’t responsible for the strained connection between him and his grandkids.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

He pointed out that it’s not practical or feasible for grandparents to constantly be present in their grandchildren’s lives, considering factors like geographical distance. For instance, if a family moves across the country, as Madison’s does in North Carolina, maintaining close ties may become challenging.

Additionally, Kody alleged that Madison was contributing to the growing conflict between him and Janelle during their split.

He asserted that they are deliberately excluding him from their lives as a form of retribution for a crime he did not perpetrate. However, it seems that the only offense he has committed is failing to fall deeply in love with their mothers. Interestingly, Madison reportedly informed Janelle that “Dad said he didn’t love you.

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Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Kody Brown expressed his intention to separate from his first wife, Meri Brown, not long after they exchanged vows in 1990. However, as he put it, “Meri, when we move to Flagstaff, this will be a chance for us to start anew,” he told her, hinting at their relocation in 2018. “He had led me to believe that things would improve, saying such things for many years.

In my perspective as a lifestyle expert, I often find myself expressing a concern about an individual’s tendency to withhold his true feelings, desires, and dislikes. Over time, this has led to inconsistencies in our shared narrative, which can create unnecessary confusion and misunderstandings.

Kody admitted there could have been some confusing signals, but as he began working on different tasks, he found himself questioning, “What’s the point of doing this?” He clarified that he wouldn’t pursue a romantic relationship with her at present.

Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023. 

She admitted, “They seemed to say, ‘We’re with you, we’re on your side. And it’s high time,'” but now she realizes that for years, he had been subtly encouraging her to leave by insisting he didn’t care for her deeply. If she were to depart, he could maintain the image of being innocent since he hadn’t chosen to walk away himself.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Several years passed since the family had bought a 14-acre plot of land in Flagstaff, Ariz., with intentions to construct on it. In the season premiere, Kody admitted that he was now willing to let go of their building dream because they hadn’t yet paid off the full $820,000 price tag (which they reportedly settled in 2023). Addressing his remaining wife, Robyn Brown, he expressed, “I’d almost prefer to abandon it or sell it and then begin anew somewhere else.

As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Initially, Janelle Brown expressed to TopMob News that they were gradually growing distant. However, it was primarily Kody’s shortcomings as a parent to several children that eventually led her to decide to part ways.

“The decisive moment for me came when his relationship with my kids deteriorated to such an extent that he didn’t seem willing to go above and beyond to repair it. At that point, I realized that was the main reason keeping me here.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

The reason Kody didn’t exert more effort to repair the strained relationships with several of his grown-up kids, was what he shared in his account.

In last week’s episode, I shared my feelings of not quite fitting into our family dynamic anymore. Despite being legally married to Robyn and jointly parenting our beautiful children – Dayton, Aurora, Breanna, Solomon, and Ariella – I find myself maintaining sporadic relationships with some of the other kids as well. This complex situation has left me feeling a bit lost, wondering how best to navigate this unique family setup that doesn’t quite feel like the family I used to know.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

In their 14-year marriage, Robyn admitted during the season 19 premiere that they’re experiencing their worst period yet. She explained that things have been difficult between them, and Kody is uncertain whether to blame himself or one of his other wives for the strained relationship. Kody seems to be feeling a lot of rejection, and as a result, he may be questioning if Robyn will reject him too.

Consequently, she disclosed, “I’m constantly vigilant. I have to ensure regularly that he isn’t undermining our relationship.” To put it simply, her main challenge was this: “There’s no support system available when it comes to being married to a man who’s going through multiple divorces.

Meanwhile, Kody struggled with self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to stand before the mirror and tell myself, ‘You’re great, buddy.’

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Include Madison, the eldest daughter of Janelle, in the list of children who are currently not in a relationship with Kody. As stated during the premiere, “I know that Maddie hasn’t had any contact with her father,” Janelle explained. “Neither have they spoken, there haven’t been any calls, and she doesn’t maintain a relationship with Robin. Essentially, she has distanced herself from both of them.

Janelle pointed out that Kody seems to be maintaining a casual relationship with Maddie’s children, Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine. She stated that he won’t have much contact unless he is prepared to fully commit to it.

In the September 22 broadcast, Janelle revealed that Kody had essentially stopped communicating with Maddie and her spouse Caleb Brush, as the family structure began to disintegrate.

Without Kody being around or reaching out, Maddie has taken on a very protective role, as expressed by Janelle. She feels that until he can be dependable, present, and avoid unnecessary drama, it might be best for everyone if they keep his presence out of their lives for now.

Meanwhile, Robyn mentioned that she’s been prompting Kody to make amends, she also added, “I believe it would be beneficial if the children were to take similar steps as well.

Currently, it appears as if Kody is not prepared to mend the divide between him and his daughter, expressing frustration that their conversations often felt like fishing for gossip, which left him feeling exhausted.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

During their 32nd anniversary celebration, Meri revealed to her friend Brandi that Kody had implied he never truly loved her and felt compelled to marry her. She responded by telling him, “‘Kody,’ I said, ‘I know you did love me.’

And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever choose to propose? 

In my own perspective, I often ponder, “When a solitary young soul crosses paths with another solitary young spirit, why would one opt to tie the knot and merely pretend and compel feelings of affection towards the other when genuine love was absent?” I find such a scenario rather heartless, as it seems unfair to select someone from among many and then declare, “I’ve chosen you, hoping to manipulate myself into loving you for the next three decades.

In a private conversation, Kody expressed: “Meri is making some allegations. Well, she can speak as she pleases. I choose not to respond to them.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

In my situation, I was torn between developing Coyote Pass or selling it off. However, I realized that the first step was to settle the Arizona property debt. Sadly, Kody doesn’t seem open to discussing this with me, so I find myself in a position where I might need legal representation. I shared this with my former sister wife, Christine Brown, during the September 22 episode, stating, “I think I’m going to have to seek legal advice,” because I believe that’s the only way I can possibly get any resolution from him.

Janelle admitted that since she isn’t officially married to Kody, she doesn’t hold any legal rights to stake a claim on his property. In her words, “It’s not as simple as calling a lawyer and requesting a divorce. Instead, it’s complex because there’s no legally recognized marriage between us.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Kody stated that he chose not to discuss the Arizona property with Janelle because he had lost trust in her.

He firmly stated during the September 22 episode that he would settle the property when necessary. He also explained why he wouldn’t share his plans with anyone, as he’s had enough of sharing details that get twisted and spread by the rumor mill in our fractured family.

A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview. 

She conveyed, “He spills secrets as if he were a colander,” expressing her surprise at him disclosing details about his past relationships and multiple spouses that she felt were private.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

In times past, before the family’s love began to dwindle, they would combine their earnings into a common fund.

Janelle clarified during the September 22nd broadcast that we would pool all our resources to assist one individual, followed by uniting to aid the other. This was the norm until around the last decade. However, now it seems more about accumulating personal wealth rather than sharing it equally as before.

When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone contributed towards purchasing a luxurious five-bedroom property valued at approximately $1.65 million – this high-end residence was put up for sale in August.

Initially, Robyn mentioned that acquiring the property would benefit the entire family. However, when Janelle proposed that they all be co-signers on the mortgage, she was met with resistance. Kody explained, “No, no, we need to safeguard, you understand, protect Robyn’s inheritance,” according to Janelle’s memory. Now, as she moves away from the family, Janelle expressed her desire to receive her share of the Coyote Pass earnings and also recover some of the funds she invested in Robyn’s house.

But that could be a tough sell. 

Robyn remarked, “After all this time collaborating, it’s perplexing.” She continued, “Given that Janelle claims she’s due money from them, I can’t help but wonder – how does one go about calculating that? It’s just so bewildering.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Janelle pointed out an apparent contradiction in Kody’s financial situation. While he claimed to be burdened with various debts, she observed that he seemed to be accumulating other assets such as trailers and home decorations. She also mentioned noticing expensive art on Robyn and Kody’s walls, along with a variety of possessions. “I understand I’ve spent money on things too,” she added, acknowledging her own spending habits. However, Kody explained that most of his funds were used for purchasing cars, stating he essentially had a fleet, as well as insuring the children.

Though Janelle admitted she wasn’t clear about Kody and Robyn’s financial management, she often marveled at the lavishness of Robyn’s backyard and the abundance of items in her home. Her reaction was always one of awe, thinking, ‘Wow, really? Huh.’

Essentially, she expressed that he didn’t make her needs or wants a priority, which eventually took its toll on her. Over time, even her adult children started showing their frustration, asking something along the lines of “Mom, what’s going on?

Instead, let me rephrase it for you: After her first marriage ended, Robyn became quite cautious when managing her finances.

She admitted on the September 22 episode that she hadn’t been very skilled with finances in the past. Growing up, she experienced tough times, and it was only during her divorce that she truly mastered budgeting. Regarding her fellow sister wives, she remarked, “Perhaps you prioritized your spending differently than I did.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Currently, Janelle admitted during the September 22 episode that, when she and Christine (mother of Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown) gather with their families, there’s virtually no communication happening between them and Meri or Robyn, nor Kody. I don’t see that situation improving significantly in the near future.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Speaking about their period living on a cul-de-sac in Las Vegas, Kody referred to it as “the best period of my life”. He explained, “Things were running smoothly, and it was wonderful having Maddie and Caleb around. I truly cherished them, and Caleb felt like family.

In Arizona, disagreements arose concerning coronavirus safety measures, which ultimately led to a disintegration of order. Similarly, as his marital unions dissolved, he found that the connections with his children deteriorated too, describing it as a situation where everything became bitter and strained.

But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021. 

She stated during the September 22 broadcast, “The children who felt frustrated were already feeling that way before I departed.” In essence, her departure did not impact the dynamic between these kids and their father. Kody still has the opportunity to mend his relationships with his children.

Though it’ll definitely take some work. 

Kody expressed his frustration, saying, “I’m still grappling with how I’ve been treated because I refuse to accept blame for actions my wife or ex-wife claim I took. I pray the day comes when our resentment fades, allowing us to rediscover forgiveness and love.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

At the ages of 21 and 19, when they got married both spiritually and legally, Kody admitted that he and Meri didn’t have a close relationship. Later on, in 2014, they chose to file for divorce so that Kody could adopt Robyn’s three older children from her previous marriage legally.

In our wedding, she seemed quite distinct, and I believe there were some issues from her past (referred to as baggage) that I wasn’t aware of. At first, I thought I could cope with it. However, he admitted that everything was a struggle because he couldn’t endure living in a state where she is consistently upset with him.

Despite his desire to escape, Kody explained that due to being in a plural marriage, he couldn’t seek a divorce, as it wasn’t an option. Consequently, he was stuck in the relationship. However, he didn’t necessarily yearn for freedom; instead, he sought a means to salvage and repair it.

Therefore, due to the conflicting signals, he admitted that Meri believed they could resolve their issues. However, whenever they were together, Kody stated, “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t amusing, she wasn’t considerate, she wasn’t engaging. I’m trying to be intrigued by her, but I find myself growing tired instead.

He acknowledged that it might seem as though Meri was left behind, yet he clarified, “However, it wasn’t a forced eviction on my part. Instead, Christine, Janelle, and Meri made the decision for me to depart from our shared dwelling.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Although Janelle and Christine believed there was no legal necessity to divorce Kody since their union wasn’t officially recognized, Meri intended to seek a religious separation through their church, which is known as a “release.

In the September 22nd episode, she clarified that all four of us women were united with Kody through our church in what we referred to as a covenant, not legally. Since we’re no longer pursuing marriage, and I don’t wish to remain bound to him for eternity if he doesn’t feel the same, it seems appropriate to dissolve this bond completely. In simpler terms, we want to separate ourselves from this union entirely.

Kody expressed reluctance towards the notion, mentioning that she didn’t feel comfortable submitting to the leadership of the church officials.

As a loyal follower, I expressed that the harm inflicted was so profound, it seemed impossible for us to reconcile, no matter the circumstances. Consequently, when it comes to being answerable to God, I don’t wish to be accountable to this church and its complications. Therefore, I intend to allow Meri her freedom to act as she wishes because if I harbor anger towards her, it would only lead to conflict. frankly, I needed her to move on because it took her an eternity to acknowledge that it’s been over for years.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

The holiday gift exchange conversation in 2021 took an unpleasant turn for the 18 Brown children, as Christine explained. “Things just fell apart, things took a turn for the worse,” she said. “Kody, Robyn, and their kids formed one group who showed no interest in Janelle, me, and our kids. After this text exchange, a rift occurred between us all.

Robyn expressed that her older children felt the interaction was uncomfortable and decided they needed some distance in their relationship. However, she clarified it wasn’t a matter of wanting to cut ties completely, saying, “It wasn’t ‘We never want to see you again or have anything to do with you.’ It was more like, ‘Whoa, this got messy.’

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

I’ve been repeatedly informed, under various situations and from different individuals, that my inclusion into this family wasn’t welcomed when my mother married Kody in 2010,” I emphasized. “They made it clear that I was not their sister, they didn’t perceive or regard me as such.

Her sister Breanna expressed that she believed the parents might’ve made more effort to foster our family bonding, but unfortunately, that connection never fully materialized.

But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.

Robyn’s children and Robyn were always invited to all events,” she emphasized. “To put it simply, they are more than welcome to drop by our home whenever they please.

Simultaneously, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown shared a strong bond with Robyn’s children, and at one point, Mykelti Brown Padron lived with them for a while. She explained, “There were challenging periods, and my children felt irritated at times, but they consistently viewed Robyn’s kids as their siblings without any distinction.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

Speaking enthusiastically about plural marriage, Janelle remarked, “When it works well, it creates this fantastic family structure that you’re a part of, a community where you belong. You have a husband and enjoy a wonderful relationship with him. Yet, I maintain my independence too. To me, having multiple spouses was an incredibly beneficial setup.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

According to Janelle, Kody found it more challenging to distribute his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.

On the September 29th episode, it was noted that when Kody relocated to Flagstaff, he found it simpler to be apart. Occasionally, I needed to remind him of our arrangement and encourage him to visit my home. He’d often make excuses about being exhausted, but I’d respond by saying something like, “You can rest just as well at my house as you can at Robyn’s.” In simpler terms, Kody found it easier to live apart in Flagstaff, but I reminded him that he should still visit me. He’d sometimes use fatigue as an excuse, but I’d tell him he could rest just as comfortably at my place as at Robyn’s.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

In simpler terms, Janelle stated that her children were reprimanded if they dared to open Robyn’s refrigerator. On the other hand, for Christine’s kids, the problem was seeing that Robyn and their father were a couple, but he wasn’t living with them at home.

And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide. 

She mentioned that while Meri welcomed my children and me wholeheartedly, the rest of the family found it difficult to accept us. She expressed that our desire was simply to belong to this family on the September 29th episode.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

During a September 29 broadcast, Kody disclosed how the frequent moves between four households impacted his eighteen children. He gave an example of this during that episode, recounting an instance when their youngest child with Robyn, Ariella, born in January 2016, held onto him tightly as he was about to depart, showing her attachment due to their living situation.

Kody said, “‘I told her, ‘Another woman needs me, another child needs their mother. I have other children who need to be with me,'” expressing the difficulty of the situation. “But she clung to me, crying, ‘Don’t abandon me, Daddy, don’t leave me.’ It’s tough, really tough.

Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle. 

Right from the start,” she clarified, her children “were aware that their father wouldn’t always be present. I’ve often felt that Kody and Robyn mishandled the situation with their kids. He couldn’t be gone for more than three or four days because Ari gets so upset. To me, it seemed like a lack of good parenting. Throughout our family history, the other children have handled similar situations, and they’ve turned out to be well-balanced adults.

Sister Wives' Janelle Brown Claims Kody Hasn't Seen Grandkids in Years

As one of the select Brown family members maintaining ties with Robyn, Kody, Christine, and Janelle, I often found myself in the position of a mediator throughout Kody’s marital separations, with my daughter Mykelti taking on that role admirably.

Since the day Robyn joined the Brown clan, I’ve been absolutely smitten. In fact, she was there with me when my precious twins, Archer and Ace, made their grand entrance in November 2022. It’s a bond that I cherish deeply.

During the September 29th episode, Mykelti shared, “When Robyn became part of our family, I was still discovering myself, and she helped me feel unique and valued. In my moments of need, she was present, offering a listening ear, and showing me affection.

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