As a seasoned observer of the human condition, I find myself deeply moved by the stories unfolding within this unique family. Each member brings their own set of experiences and perspectives, making for a complex tapestry that is both heartbreaking and captivating.
It isn’t every day that your fellow wife is also your ex-husband’s sister.
However, this situation mirrors that of Sister Wives’ Janelle Brown. Initially, she was married to Adam Barber, Meri Brown’s brother, who was also previously wedded to Kody Brown, the man Janelle later married.
In my perspective as a lifestyle advisor, I’d say that marriage to Adam, which began in 1988, proved to be quite fleeting, a topic I discussed on the Nov. 7 episode of the Reality Life with Kate Casey podcast. To put it simply, we cohabited for approximately six months before parting ways.
In response to Kate’s idea that the union resembled more like a “trial marriage,” Janelle agreed, saying, “It certainly fits the description.
The 55-year-old added, “It just didn’t take.”
At that point, Janelle was already married to Kody, but they rarely interacted. Yet, after her divorce from Adam in 1990, Janelle eventually became Kody’s spouse in the year 1993.
In her podcast discussion, it was revealed that when she first encountered Kody, she had already developed an interest in his religious beliefs, stemming from the Apostolic United Brethren (AUB), often categorized as a Mormon offshoot or fundamentalist sect.
She stated, “It was something stronger or more active than my previous belief. My old faith was still the same, but it lacked certain aspects that were no longer present.
Janelle pointed out that “She desired to be at home, as her children adored her for being not only wonderful but also incredibly fun – a perfect blend of nurturing and entertaining.
Despite parting ways with Kody, her husband of nearly 30 years and father of their five shared children (including their deceased son Garrison), in 2022, Janelle remains a cast member on the TLC show.
In the November 3rd episode of “Sister Wives,” season 19, Janelle discussed with her former partner how they’ve grown apart in their relationship.
She shared with Kody, “I no longer believe we inhabit the same reality as before.” She went on to say, “You are truly remarkable and whenever we converse, there’s this subtle, inexplicable connection that persists. However, I’ve found such joy apart from you that I can’t envision a lasting future between us.
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She went on to say, “When I happened to cross paths with Cody, Meri acted as an intermediary, and I had this sense of familiarity, as if our meeting was predestined. I wasn’t seeking marriage or a deep connection at the time. It was simply one of those moments when I caught sight of him.
Apart from discussing their current marital status, Janelle also touched upon the initial phase of her marriage with Meri, particularly when they both started having children concurrently. It was then that Christine Brown, Kody’s third spouse, entered the picture. Nowadays, Kody is only still married to Robyn Brown.
Janelle clarified that their children were born fairly closely, creating a bond similar to that of siblings among them. They’ve grown up together, and indeed, they view each other as genuine siblings in every sense.
And with the addition of Christine, it allowed Janelle to pursue work outside of the home.
She mentioned that she’s someone who has always prioritized her career. It made her happy to hold a job outside the home, even though she missed her children. However, she had Christine with her, which made everything better.
In my expertise, I’d say this resonates with me: “I yearned for the comfort of home, yet remained a source of amusement and joy for the little ones. It seems I’ve found the sweet spot where work and family life blend harmoniously.
In 2022, I parted ways with my husband Kody, a partnership that had lasted nearly three decades and produced five wonderful children, including our late son Garrison. Yet, despite this significant change in our relationship, I continue to feature on the TLC series.
In the November 3rd episode of Sister Wives, Season 19, Janelle discussed with her former partner how they’ve grown separate over time.
She explained to Kody, “I no longer believe we inhabit the same world as before.” She continued, “You are impressive, and whenever we converse, there’s still this subtle pull between us. However, I’ve found such joy without you that I can’t envision a lasting future for us.
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Kody Brown expressed his readiness to separate from his first wife, Meri Brown, not long after their 1990 marriage vows. However, as he stated, “Meri, when we move to Flagstaff, this will be a good opportunity for us to start anew,” suggesting a fresh beginning. Meri revealed during the Sept. 15 premiere that Kody had often led her to believe things like this. She added, “This is what he’s been doing for years.
She expressed her primary concern as his poor communication, including how he truly feels, his desires, and what he doesn’t want. It also encompasses the narrative he has been sharing over the years.
Kody admitted there might have been some confusing signals, but as he delved into tasks, he found himself questioning, “What’s the point?” He clarified that he wouldn’t pursue a romantic relationship with her at this time.
Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023.
She admitted, “They told me something like, ‘We’re here for you, we’ve got your back. And it’s high time,'” she confessed. Now that her blinders are off, she believes he had been trying to persuade her to leave for years by claiming he didn’t love her, “Because if I depart on my own accord, he wouldn’t be the one at fault because he didn’t walk away.
A number of years having passed since the family bought a 14-acre plot in Flagstaff, Ariz., with the intention of constructing a home, Kody admitted during the season premiere that he was ready to let the dream die out. As they hadn’t been able to start construction without fully paying off the $820,000 purchase price (which reports suggest was settled in 2023), he expressed this sentiment to his remaining wife, Robyn Brown: “I’d almost prefer to abandon it or sell it and then start anew somewhere else.
As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”
Previously, Janelle Brown shared with TopMob News that their relationship had been gradually drifting apart. However, it was ultimately the shortcomings in Kody’s parental role towards some of their children that led her to make the decision to part ways.
“The turning point for me was when his relationship with my kids deteriorated and he didn’t seem committed to fixing it. That’s when I realized that was the main reason keeping me here.
Regardless of Kody’s suggestion for reconciliation in the November 3rd episode, it was an absolute no-go for Janelle.
She stated that it seems impossible for her to make peace with him and allow him to be part of her children’s lives. Instead, she will always prioritize her children.
The reason Kody didn’t put more effort into repairing the strained relationships with some of his grown children, as far as I understand it, is because he chose not to.
In the September 15th episode, he expressed his feelings of not belonging within the family anymore. Despite being legally married to Robyn and collectively raising their five children – Dayton Brown, Aurora Brown, Breanna Brown, Solomon Brown, and Ariella Brown – he also mentioned having occasional relationships with some other children, but these encounters are infrequent. This leaves him feeling uncertain about his role within the family structure as it no longer feels like a cohesive unit to him.
In our 14-year long journey together, I’ve finally embraced monogamy for the first time, but surprisingly, we seem to be struggling more than ever in our marriage. It’s been a challenging period for us both. Kody is uncertain about who should bear the blame, himself or one of the other wives. He feels deeply rejected and I believe he’s wondering if I might reject him too.
In my role as a lifestyle expert, I’d express it this way: “I find myself in a constant state of vigilance, ensuring he doesn’t undermine our relationship. The most challenging aspect is the lack of resources available to navigate being married to a man who’s going through multiple divorces.
Meanwhile, Kody struggled with self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to face my reflection and tell myself, ‘You’re awesome, buddy.’
In the October 27th episode, Robyn mused that it seemed everyone else had moved forward, leaving her feeling as if she was the one who was left behind, much like a bystander watching others progress in their lives.
Add Madison, daughter of Janelle’s eldest child, to the list of kids who are currently estranged from Kody. According to Janelle, Maddie hasn’t had any contact with her father during their premiere. “He hasn’t reached out to her and she hasn’t contacted him,” Janelle clarified. “At this point, they have no relationship with each other, nor does she have a connection with Kody’s wife Robin. She seems to have disconnected from both of them.
Janelle pointed out that there seems to be a lukewarm bond between Kody and Maddie’s children, Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine. She expressed that he should only interact with them if he is prepared to fully engage in the relationship.
Consequently, during the Sept. 22 episode, it was revealed that Kody had effectively ended communication with Maddie and her husband, Caleb Brush, when the family began to significantly disintegrate.
Without Kody being present or reaching out, Maddie has taken on a very protective role, as Janelle put it. She feels it’s best for the family if they keep Kody’s absence consistent and drama-free for now.
Moreover, Robyn mentioned that she’s been motivating Kody to reconcile, and she added, “I believe it would be beneficial if the children also made an effort to heal the rift as well.
At the moment, it appears Kody isn’t quite prepared to mend the rift. He often complains that whenever he talks to his daughter, the conversations seem aimed at spreading rumors, which leaves him feeling weary.
During their 32nd anniversary celebration, Meri confided in her friend Brandi that “He implied he hadn’t truly loved me and felt compelled to marry me.” She then recounted her response: “‘Kody,’ I told him, ‘I knew you loved me.’
And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever propose?
She pondered, “Why would a bachelor opt to marry a spinster if he didn’t feel affection for her, simply declaring his love and trying to compel it to grow over three decades? Seems quite unkind, doesn’t it? To single me out among many and say, ‘I choose you as an experiment to try to make myself fall in love with you’?
In a personal conversation, Kody stated: “Well, Meri is making certain claims. She can say anything she likes. I choose not to respond to them.
Though, he would share that they never enjoyed a honeymoon period.
He emphatically stated during the October 20th episode that their marriage was in dire straits from the very beginning. He explained his certainty by sharing that he had enjoyed much stronger relationships with Janelle, Christine, and Robyn.
He acknowledged that he “should have ended the relationship a quarter-century back,” but he remained due to fear, pointing out, “Authority figures would never permit remarriage if they perceive you as disposing of spouses.
In my perspective as a lifestyle guide, it’s all about taking things one step at a time. For Janelle, her dilemma was whether to develop on Coyote Pass or sell it off. Regardless, the first order of business was clearing the debt on that Arizona property. Unfortunately, Kody wasn’t open for discussions on the matter, leaving her in a difficult spot. So, she confided in Christine Brown during their recent chat, admitting, “I think I’m going to have to seek legal advice.” She believes that’s the only way she can possibly get any resolution from Kody about our shared dilemma.
In her own words, Janelle admitted that, given the absence of a legal marriage with Kody, “I don’t actually have any legal grounds to make any kind of claim on Kody’s property.” She further explained, “It’s not as simple as calling a lawyer and requesting a divorce. The situation is much more complex because there’s no legally recognized marriage between us.
Kody doesn’t feel comfortable discussing the Arizona property with Janelle anymore, as he has lost trust in her.
He firmly stated, during a private conversation, on the show’s September 22nd episode, that he would settle the property matter when necessary. He also explained why he wouldn’t share details about his actions or plans, stating he was fed up with disclosing information that gets twisted by the rumor mill within our dysfunctional family.
A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview.
She mentioned, “He seems to spill secrets as easily as water from a sieve. He confided in me details about his past relationships and multiple spouses, which left me feeling somewhat uncomfortable, thinking he shouldn’t be sharing those things with me.
In days when their affection for each other continued to grow instead of diminish, they would combine their funds into a common pool.
In simpler terms, Janelle stated during the September 22 broadcast that we would go out of our way to aid one person, followed by uniting as a group to assist another. This pattern had been consistent for quite some time until around the last decade or so. What has since changed is that the focus has shifted from communal support to individual estates and everyone wanting their own piece of it.
When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone combined their resources to purchase her $1.65 million five-bedroom property, which had been put up for sale in August.
Robyn stated that the plan was for the property to benefit the entire family. However, when Janelle proposed that they all share ownership of the mortgage, she was met with resistance. Kody reportedly responded, “No, no, we need to safeguard, understandably protect Robyn’s inheritance.” Now, as she moves away from the family, Janelle expressed her desire for her fair share of the Coyote Pass earnings and also to recover some of the money she invested in Robyn’s house.
But that could be a tough sell.
Robyn remarked, “After all this time collaborating, it’s perplexing to me.” And as Janelle mentioned she was due money from them, Robyn expressed her confusion by saying, “I just can’t wrap my head around it. How do you even calculate that? It’s such a mystery.
Janelle expressed her frustration over the family’s financial struggle with Coyote Pass, as she observed Kody mentioning multiple other debts. However, she has noticed him acquiring other possessions such as trailers and home decorations. She remarked, “I notice all the art on their walls” in Robyn and Kody’s house, adding, “I see all these things. And I get it, I’ve spent money on things too.” In response, Kody explained that a significant portion of his funds were used for purchasing cars—”Basically maintained a fleet”—and insurance for the children.
Even though Janelle admitted she wasn’t certain about the way Kody and Robyn managed their finances, she often found herself astonished by how well-maintained Robyn’s backyard was. It was always fully landscaped, and there were plenty of items at her house. This left Janelle saying, “Wow. Huh.
Essentially, she expressed that he didn’t make her needs or desires a priority, which over time became a significant problem for her. She added that even her adult children grew frustrated, asking something along the lines of “What on earth, Mom?” as they observed this issue.
In a different phrase, it could be said that following the breakdown of her first marriage, Robyn became particularly mindful about managing her finances.
She revealed during the September 22 episode that she wasn’t very good with managing money in the past. Growing up, she faced financial struggles, and it was only during her divorce that she learned to budget effectively. Regarding her sister wives, she suggested that perhaps they prioritized their spending differently than she did.
Currently, as shown on the September 22 episode, Janelle admitted that there is little interaction between herself, Christine (mother of Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown), and Meri or Robyn, as well as Kody. She doesn’t anticipate this situation changing significantly in the near future.
Speaking about a memorable period in Las Vegas, Kody fondly recalled, “Living on that cul-de-sac with four houses was the highlight of my life. Maddie and Caleb were always around, making it a joy to be there. And I adored Caleb – he truly felt like family.
In Arizona, disagreements arose concerning COVID-19 safety measures, which eventually led to chaos. When his marriages dissolved, he lamented that his connections with the children deteriorated too, describing the situation as all the relationships becoming bitter.
But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021.
She stated during the September 22 broadcast, “The children who felt frustrated were already in that state long before I departed. My departure didn’t alter their relationships with him. Kody has the ability to mend those relationships with his children.
Though it’ll definitely take some work.
Kody expressed his frustration about being mistreated, stating, “I haven’t been able to move past it yet.” He clarified that he is not accepting responsibility for things his wife or ex-wife are accusing him of. He hopes for a time when the resentment will fade, allowing them to find forgiveness and love once more.
At the time of their wedding, which occurred when Kody was 21 and Meri was 19, both had limited prior knowledge of each other, be it spiritually or legally. It wasn’t until 2014 that they decided to file for divorce so Kody could adopt Robyn’s three older children from her previous marriage legally.
In our wedding, she seemed distinctly different to me, and I believe there were certain issues from her past (or emotional baggage) that I wasn’t aware of. At first, I thought I could cope with it. However, as time went on, everything felt like a struggle because she was often angry with me, and I couldn’t continue living in such a contentious environment.
Despite his desire to depart, he found himself unable to do so because, as Kody explained in a plural marriage, if one wishes to remain faithful and devoted to their faith, divorce is not an option. Consequently, he was trapped within that relationship, yearning for the opportunity to mend and salvage it rather than seeking an exit.
Thus, due to the conflicting signals, he admitted that Meri believed they could resolve their issues. However, whenever they were in each other’s company, Kody stated, “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t entertaining, she wasn’t compassionate, she wasn’t engaging. I’m trying to keep my interest in her, but I’m growing weary.
He acknowledged that it might seem as though Meri was left behind, but he clarified, “However, it wasn’t a forced eviction on my part. Instead, Christine, Janelle, and Meri decided for themselves that I should depart from our shared residence.
Despite the fact that Janelle and Christine didn’t feel the necessity to legally divorce Kody due to their unofficial union, Meri sought a formal separation from their church, referred to as a ‘release’, in the final months of 2022.
In the September 22nd episode, she clarified that all four of us ladies had entered into a church union with Kody. Technically, we couldn’t all have legally married him, but it was what we referred to as a covenant. Since we aren’t pursuing any further marriages and I don’t want a lifelong bond with him if he doesn’t desire me, I think it’s appropriate to end this covenant completely. In essence, I wish for us to separate this fully from our lives.
Kody was hesitant about the notion, she explained, as she didn’t feel inclined to recognize the power or influence of the church’s leaders.
Kody made clear that the harm was so profound, reconciliation is no longer an option. He further stated that he doesn’t wish to be answerable to this church, with all its complications. Therefore, he plans to allow Meri her freedom to do as she pleases because if he’s upset with her, it leads to conflict. Essentially, he wants her to move on because it took her a long time to accept that the situation has been resolved for years.
The holiday gift exchange conversation in 2021 took an unpleasant turn for the 18 Brown children, as Christine explained. “Things went sour, things fell apart,” she recounted. “Kody, Robyn, and their kids were on one side, and they seemed to have no interest in Janelle, me, or our kids. There was a division that occurred following this text conversation.
Robyn explained that her older children considered the interaction as “uncomfortable emotionally” and wanted to momentarily distance themselves from their relationship. However, she clarified that it wasn’t a matter of them wanting to cut off contact or rejecting her entirely, but more like saying, “Whoa, this has become awkward.
For his part, Gabriel is hoping that they could find their way back to each other.
In last week’s episode, I openly admitted that what I yearn for most is to rekindle my bond with Robyn’s children. Back in middle school, Aurora was the one I enjoyed spending time with the most. High school saw me trying to connect with Dayton frequently. However, I must confess, I’m not overly optimistic about forging a relationship with their father and Robyn.
Aurora maintained that she was told explicitly on numerous occasions by various individuals, that she wasn’t welcomed as a part of the family when her mother married Kody in 2010. She emphasized that they never regarded her as their sister, neither did they perceive or accept her in that role.
Breanna, her sister, expressed that she believed their parents could have worked harder on bringing our family closer together, but unfortunately, this connection never materialized.
But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.
Robyn’s children and Robyn are always welcome to any event,” she emphasized. “In other words, feel free to drop by our home whenever it suits you.
At the same time, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown shared a strong bond with Robyn’s children. In fact, Mykelti Brown Padron lived with them for a while. She explained, “There were challenging periods and my children felt aggravated at times, but they viewed Robyn’s kids as their siblings regardless.
Speaking enthusiastically about plural marriage, Janelle expressed, “When it works well, it offers an incredible family structure where you belong, a tight-knit community that you’re connected to. You have a husband and enjoy a wonderful relationship with him, but at the same time, I still maintain all my personal freedom. To me, this multi-partnership setup was truly beneficial.
According to Janelle, Kody found it more challenging to distribute his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.
On the September 29th episode, it was noted that when Kody relocated to Flagstaff, he found it simpler to be distant. Occasionally, I had to remind him of our arrangement and encourage him to visit my home. He often tried to avoid by claiming exhaustion, but I’d respond, “You can rest just as well at my house as you can at Robyn’s.” In essence, he needed to understand that even when tired, it was important to maintain our connection.
In simpler terms, Janelle stated that her children were reprimanded if they opened Robyn’s refrigerator. This indicates the sense of distance or separation her kids felt with Robyn, as opposed to Christine’s kids who felt distant because they recognized that Robyn was their father’s partner and he wasn’t physically present in their home.
And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide.
She mentioned that Meri welcomed my family and me with open arms, whereas the rest of the family found it difficult to accept us. The underlying sentiment is that we longed to become a part of their family. [Sept 29 episode]
However, Gabriel might contend that he and his fellow siblings made significant efforts to integrate them into their group.
In the October 13th episode, he expressed his belief that Robyn might be suffering from a perceived victimhood, using direct language. He didn’t place blame on her but instead suggested that everyone, in their own way, finds coping mechanisms to navigate life’s challenges.
In other words, he added, “If she genuinely thinks that we were unfairly treating her or her children while she was favored by Dad and we were trying to build a bond with her kids, if she truly believes this, then I won’t be able to maintain a relationship with Robyn anymore.
In a recent episode on September 29th, Kody mentioned that moving between four different houses regularly had an impact on him and his eighteen children, as illustrated when his youngest with Robyn, Ariella (born in January 2016), became distraught and held onto his leg while he was attempting to depart.
Kody expressed, “I needed to tell her, ‘Another wife and children require my attention, another mother for them.’ In simple terms, she was clinging to me while crying, ‘Don’t abandon me, Daddy, don’t leave me,’ but it’s a tough situation.
Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle.
Initially, she clarified, her children were aware that their father wouldn’t be a constant presence. I’ve often felt that Kody and Robyn mishandled their parenting situation, as he couldn’t leave for more than a few days without Ari becoming upset. To me, it seemed like an instance of poor parenting. Historically, the other children in the family have managed without him for extended periods, and they’ve grown into well-adjusted adults.
Among the rare group of children with a last name similar to Brown, Mykelti was the one who maintained relationships with both Robyn and Kody, as well as Christine and Janelle. In the midst of Kody’s divorces, Mykelti assumed the role of mediator or peacemaker.
Ever since Robyn joined the Brown clan, I couldn’t help but feel a special bond with her. In fact, she was there for the birth of Mykelti’s twins in November 2022 – little Archer and Ace!
During the September 29th episode, Mykelti expressed that when Robyn became part of our family, I was still trying to discover myself. She made me feel unique and understood, she was someone I could lean on. When I needed support, she was there. When I needed someone to listen, to care for me, she was there too.
Christine’s mother was overjoyed beyond words when Robyn joined their family and it was clear that she and Mykelti shared a wonderful bond. As Christine expressed on the Oct. 6 episode, “I had always dreamt of having a large family, and I hoped my children would form strong relationships with other mothers. And seeing this happening is more than I could have asked for.
Kody believes it’s not just his wives who are intentionally excluding him from their lives as a form of retribution for a crime he didn’t commit. In an episode on October 6, he expressed this viewpoint regarding his distance from some of his older children, stating that he is only guilty of not deeply falling in love with their mothers.
What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame.
He mentioned that the strain in his relationship with his kids is predominantly in his thoughts due to negative chatter. He expressed a feeling of turmoil, stemming from the disintegration of the family, which seems to have led him to think, “I guess it’s my fault. I must have made mistakes.
But while he can shoulder a bit of that blame, he takes umbrance with the name-calling. Revealing, specifically, that he was struggling to connect with Hunter, Maddie and Gabriel, Kody shared that one of his kids responded to a text “saying, ‘You are a piece of trash. I would never speak to you again anyway.'”
In another instance, he expressed to the cameras, “One of my children recently said, ‘You are such a jerk. I will no longer speak to you. You’ve deceived me and indoctrinated me.’
He mentioned that he’s not prepared to handle the venom indefinitely. He stated, “I won’t keep reaching out,” emphasizing his belief that older individuals should take more responsibility in resolving issues. “I’m ready to put forth an effort,” he continued, “but someone else needs to be willing to reciprocate and make some effort as well.
For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home.
During the October 6th episode, she shared that her parents split up when she was still very young. At that time, her father lived with another woman in a different city, while her mother lived on her own. She recalled asking him why he wasn’t around when she was growing up, to which he only offered weak explanations that left her feeling disappointed.
Instead of letting Kody’s wounded emotions hinder his actions, she made it clear that she wasn’t going to back down. She candidly expressed her feelings during their intense confrontation in late 2022 by saying, “I find myself struggling not to lose a bit of respect for you.
As a devoted admirer, I’d rephrase it like this: Despite acknowledging that I could be making greater efforts to reconcile with my children, I believe the key lies in healing my own heart first.
He expressed his frustration by stating, “Some of my children seem to be ganging up on me, and it’s left me so furious that I fear discussing things with them might lead to further accusations, potentially causing even more conflict. At the moment, I’m too emotionally charged and could inadvertently make matters worse.
Despite many members of their family attending the wedding of Logan and Michelle Petty in October 2022, it seemed that there wasn’t a lot of affection or warmth present among them.
In the October 6th episode, Kody expressed his displeasure to Robyn, stating that he had noticed Madison hurriedly leaving him with her children, which he found odd. He mentioned that he wasn’t aware that his daughter was expecting her third child, a daughter named Josephine, who was born in February 2023. Essentially, he said she hadn’t informed him about her pregnancy.
Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.
Janelle clarified why Maddie avoided Kody at the wedding: “Maddie doesn’t interact with him at all,” she said. “She takes great care in safeguarding her children. Kody hasn’t been around since Evie was born, and she’s now three-and-a-half. She didn’t want him to suddenly appear, saying something like ‘I’m your grandpa,’ only for them to be bewildered, asking ‘Who is this stranger?’
Kody believes it’s not reasonable for grandparents to be constantly involved in their grandchildren’s lives, considering the distance and personal commitments. For instance, Maddie resides in North Carolina, while he is based in Flagstaff, which makes regular interaction challenging due to work and personal obligations.
It’s evident that there’s a significant difference in perspective between Kody and his grown-up kids concerning their current rift, with one contentious issue being him insisting on some form of apology or acknowledgment of wrongdoing from his side.
Following the end of the COVID-19 concerns, we returned to our regular routines, but the family couldn’t quite mend their relationships as planned. Kody explained that his sons particularly owed an apology, especially to Robyn, for something that had transpired. He added that it eventually became about them needing to have a conversation with him directly.
Janelle explained that Kody was upset because he felt his children hadn’t shown loyalty to him, adding, “and the person who has given her heart and soul to this family has been disrespected or something ridiculous like that.” She responded, “Well, Kody, I don’t know. Whatever.
Gabriel expressed a similar sentiment, narrating an interaction with his father. “He persistently phrased it as if I owed him an apology,” he explained to Janelle. “Finally, I said something along the lines of, ‘Unless you’re genuinely prepared to rebuild our relationship and make amends, we won’t converse any further.’ A few days later, he texted me. He said, ‘Hey, I’ve been considering your words. I forgive you, Please forgive me.’ My response was, ‘Forgive me for what exactly?’
Out of his six children with Janelle, Kody primarily connects with only his youngest, Savanah. Although it doesn’t happen often, every couple of months he reaches out to her for a meeting or call. The other children don’t seem to have much relationship with him at all.
Regarding Savannah, who completed high school in 2023, it is apparent that her four elder brothers have assumed a paternal role for her. In fact, she has openly shared with Janelle her intention of having one of her siblings escort her during her future wedding ceremony.
Janelle mentioned, “I discussed it with Savanah, and she expressed, ‘Well, I’ve come to understand that this is the kind of person he is.’ She explained, ‘He’ll be the type of dad who visits and we’ll have a great time together, but then he’ll leave. I can accept him as he is. It’s alright.’
Janelle, however, is less forgiving.
She expressed her exasperation about Kody, saying, “I’m really disappointed with him,” because she’s witnessed a pattern where men like Kody disappear from their children’s lives after divorce, as she has observed this issue among several women she has worked with over the years.
Initially, when the strain emerged between them, Gabriel found it particularly tough as Kody often invited Gabriel along on his work travels, which indicated a very hands-on paternal role. However, as time progressed over the last few years, this involvement seemed to wane significantly, according to Janelle’s account.
Although Gabriel is puzzled about what he might have done to upset his father, during the Oct. 13 episode, he asserted, “I told Dad that if he doesn’t transform and can’t accept responsibility, then I simply won’t meet him again anymore. And I’m completely comfortable with that choice.
In her own words, she expressed that he finds tranquility in the fact that his father isn’t part of his life. Furthermore, it’s a wish she harbors for all her children, and it seems as though they are all gradually reaching this state.
For his part, Kody also seems resigned to the situation.
In a private moment, I expressed my regret for how Gabriel seems to be feeling. I’ve attempted to connect with him numerous times, yet each effort has been met with rejection. However, I assure you, my intentions were not due to a lack of effort on my part.
In late 2022, Meri was the one who ended her relationship with Kody, after she sought and obtained what their church refers to as a “release,” based on allegations of abandonment.
In the October 13th broadcast, she observed that he dislikes that particular word since he believes he didn’t leave her. Instead, she feels as if he did.
To put it another way, she believes he paid little attention to her until she chose to depart, which allowed him to assert, “I have no involvement in this.
And Kody didn’t totally deny that he had a bit of a strategy.
He admitted he had moved on a while back, but in all honesty, he was scared of her reaction if he ended things abruptly. You see, Meri wasn’t loyal to him, which was his main concern. It’s more about maintaining a certain reputation because when you get divorced, your reputation can take a hit.
Instead, alleged Meri, it was hers that was being tarnished.
She expressed that it’s truly disheartening how Kody is discussing our marriage in such a manner, she stated. It seems as though his perspective on our relationship has shifted, yet the allegations he’s making about me to others, which people are accepting, are unfounded and false.
Prior to Christina parting ways with Kody, it became evident to her that they might not have been compatible according to traditional standards, as suggested by the exercise proposed by their marriage counselor based in Las Vegas.
In her search for a suitable partner, Christine jotted down characteristics she desired in a husband, such as an effective communicator, someone who would be actively involved in her and their shared family life, and someone who was genuinely drawn to her. However, Kody didn’t possess any of these traits, as she candidly shared on the October 20th episode, saying, “Kody doesn’t fit any of the qualities I listed,” and when she presented him with the list, he admitted, “I’m not any of those things for you.” She responded, “No, you’re not.
In the letter, she discovered swiftly that the man who is now her husband, David Woolley, was indeed her match.
She praised the widower father of eight, saying that family is his greatest treasure. He runs his own drywall company and is known for his sincerity and authenticity. Furthermore, he is an excellent communicator.
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