Sometimes size really does matter.
In terms of relationship duration, Janelle Brown, one of the “Sister Wives” stars, admits that if she had more time to court Kody Brown prior to their 1993 wedding, she might not have chosen to be his second wife. Despite the clarity hindsight often provides, it seems she wishes they’d spent more time dating first.
In a candid conversation with Sukanya Krishnan during the final episode of the TLC series’ one-on-one special on June 15, she admitted that if she had spent a year with Kody, she might not have married him. She suggested that this extended time together could have given her a clearer insight into his true nature, helping her move beyond the initial charm and get to know him better.
Rather than him, the 56-year-old woman explained, who has children Logan Brown (31), Madison Brush (29), Hunter Brown (28), Gabriel Brown (23), Savanah Brown (20), and her late son Garrison with a man 18 years older, she was captivated by the salesman’s charm and remained in the relationship for almost 3 decades before announcing their separation in 2022.
In a nutshell, Janelle remarked, “It doesn’t matter if I were to return and undo everything; the question is, would an apology for past actions lead me to where I am now?
Regardless of the additional time she could have spent with the Wyoming native, it doesn’t necessarily imply that she ought to have done so, given he was previously married to Meri Brown at that point (as Kody’s first wife declared their separation in 2022 and third wife Christine Brown disclosed they had parted ways in 2021).
In the context of polygamy, while other relationships may develop more swiftly, Kody and his current wife, Robyn Brown, had an extended courtship period compared to others. As Janelle pointed out, it’s not typically suitable for a married man to engage in such a prolonged courtship.
Nevertheless, she added, he and the divorced woman – who was already mother to Dayton Brown, Aurora Brown, and Breanna Brown at the time – seemed to have been courting each other for nearly a year.
Though to hear Kody tell it, he only needed a split second to know Robyn was his forever person.
In church, Kody mentioned that there was an intense moment where their gazes held firmly, and he found it difficult to look away. Later on, during their first dance together, the patriarch admitted he developed strong feelings.
Kody explained that the interaction he had with Christine and Meri felt like they were old friends. He mentioned a unique blend of comfort and intense bonding, noting that both him and Christine were particularly open and exposed at the time. This encounter, he believed, was exceptional in terms of the depth of connection he has ever experienced.
It didn’t take long for him to realize that the emotions he was experiencing were stronger than those he had felt during relationships with his past three partners.
Kody admitted that he recognized a significant change right from the start, and he made it clear he didn’t plan on deviating from it.
As a die-hard fan, I can’t help but feel captivated by their relationship, despite his dismissive comments about the rumors of their deep bond being just “Internet nonsense” and “unfounded commentary on our family.” However, even he couldn’t deny that there was an undeniably powerful connection between them.
Reflecting back, he thought, “There I was, with my notebook, pondering, ‘What on earth is happening? I’m in love and I already have three spouses.’
This season, Kody openly admitted one fact about the depth of his early relationship with Robyn – “He confessed he fell deeply in love.
See what else he and his wives have recently divulged on the TLC series.
Kody Brown expressed his intention to separate from his first wife, Meri Brown, not long after they exchanged vows in 1990. However, as Meri recounted during the Sept. 15 premiere, “Kody would give me hope that things could improve by saying, ‘Oh Meri, when we move to Flagstaff, this will be a fresh start for us.'” This was a recurring pattern over many years, according to Meri.
She expressed her primary concern as his poor communication, specifically about his true feelings, desires, and even what he disliked, along with the narrative he has maintained over the years.
Kody conceded that there could have been some confusing signals, but when he began working on projects, he found himself questioning the reasons for his actions. He stated, “I wouldn’t pursue a courtship or dating relationship with her now.
Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023.
In a heartfelt admission, I found myself saying, “They’ve been telling me, ‘We’re here for you, we’re on your side. And it’s high time,'” revealing a newfound awareness. With my eyes open now, I see that he had been subtly urging me to leave him for years, by repeatedly asserting that he didn’t love me. “For if he could make me walk away, he wouldn’t be the villain, since he stayed put.
For years, I’ve been holding onto the dream of building our home on that sprawling 14-acre plot in Flagstaff, Ariz. But as the season premiered, I, Kody Brown, admitted my readiness to let this dream wither, for it seemed unattainable without first settling the full $820,000 price tag. Turning to my beloved Robyn Brown, I expressed a desire that was nearly palpable: “I’d rather abandon it or sell it and then begin anew somewhere else.
As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”
Initially, Janelle Brown had shared with TopMob News that the relationship was gradually fading away. However, it was Kody’s shortcomings as a parent towards some of their children that ultimately prompted her decision to depart.
In simpler terms, the mom told Logan Brown, Madison Brown Brush, Hunter Brown, Garrison Brown, Gabriel Brown, and Savanah Brown that a major turning point for her was when his relationship with her children deteriorated to the point where it didn’t seem like he was willing to make significant efforts to repair it. This realization made her understand that this was the primary reason she had been staying in the situation.
In the November 3rd episode, Kody’s suggestion of reconciliation was something Janelle flatly refused to consider.
She stated that it seems impossible for her to make amends with him in a way that he wouldn’t interfere with her children’s relationships. Instead, she has decided to prioritize her children.
Kody offered this as his reasoning behind not exerting extra effort to reconcile the tensions he faced with some of his grown-up kids.
In last week’s episode, expressing my feelings honestly, I shared that I no longer seem to align with our family dynamics. Despite being legally married to Robyn and sharing the parenthood of our five beautiful children – Dayton, Aurora, Breanna, Solomon, and Ariella – I find myself in a complex situation with some of the other kids, which leaves me infrequently connected with them all. This doesn’t feel like the family I once knew, and I am grappling with how to navigate this new reality.
Even though they’ve finally embraced monogamy after 14 years together, Robyn admitted in the season 19 premiere that their marriage is currently facing its most challenging period: “We seem to be struggling more than ever.” She explained that Kody is uncertain about who is responsible for their strife – himself, another wife, or perhaps both. Kody feels deeply rejected and wonders if Robyn might reject him as well.
Consequently, she disclosed, “I’m constantly vigilant. I’m always ensuring he isn’t undermining our relationship.” In her own words, the most challenging aspect was: “There’s hardly any guidance when it comes to being married to a man who’s going through multiple divorces.
Meanwhile, Kody was grappling with a wave of self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to face my reflection and say affirmingly, ‘Hello there, me. I admire you.’
For Robyn, it was tough to see her ex-sister wives thriving in their latest phase. She remarked during the Oct. 27 episode, “They’re all progressing, I seem to be the one who’s been abandoned.
Include Madison, the eldest child of Janelle, on the list of children who do not currently have a connection with Kody. According to Janelle during the premiere, there have been no interactions between Maddie and her father. He hasn’t called, she hasn’t called him, and they don’t maintain any relationship. Essentially, she has cut both of them out of her life.
Janelle pointed out that Kody is only partially involved in the relationship with Maddie’s children, Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine. She made it clear that she believes he should not have any contact unless he is willing to fully commit to it.
In the September 22 broadcast, it was mentioned that Kody had effectively ended conversations with Maddie and her husband Caleb Brush when the family began to significantly disintegrate.
In Janelle’s words, Maddie has been exceptionally protective, almost like a mama bear, given Kody’s absence from visits or calls. She has expressed that until he can be reliable and consistent without adding drama to their lives, it seems wiser for them not to involve him in their affairs at present.
As a committed supporter, I’ve been advocating for Kody to take steps towards reconciliation. However, I believe it’s equally important for our children to follow suit, making amends and fostering healing within our family as well.
Currently, it appears that Kody isn’t inclined to mend the rift as he often finds their conversations to be a source of gossip, growing weary of it.
During our special anniversary celebration on our 32nd milestone, I found myself opening up to my dear friend Brandi about some truths that had been weighing heavily on me. I confided in her, “It seemed as though he was hinting that he never truly loved me and felt obligated to marry me.” To this, I responded, “Kody, I know deep down that you did love me.
And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever propose?
The person pondered, “Why would a solitary man opt to marry a solitary woman if he didn’t genuinely love her at first sight? It seems so harsh, doesn’t it? To select me from among many others and then say, ‘I choose you, hoping to compel myself to grow to love you over the next 32 years’?
In a private conversation, Kody mentioned: “Well, Meri is airing some accusations. She can certainly say what she pleases. I won’t be addressing those comments.
Though, he would share that they never enjoyed a honeymoon period.
He emphatically stated during the October 20th episode that their marriage was in deep trouble from the start. He clarified his statement by saying, “I have had much stronger relationships with Janelle, Christine, and Robyn.
He acknowledged that he “should have ended the relationship two decades earlier,” yet he continued due to fear, pointing out, “Authority figures would never permit remarriage if you’re casting off spouses.
Despite being unsure if she would develop Coyote Pass or opt to sell it, Janelle pointed out that the initial move was settling the debt on the Arizona property. With Kody refusing to discuss the matter, she admitted to her former sister wife, Christine Brown, during the September 22 episode that “I think I’ll need to consult a lawyer.” She explained that this seemed like the only way she might be able to extract any kind of decision from him.
In her own words, Janelle admitted that since she and Kody aren’t legally married, “I don’t actually have any legal grounds to assert any claims on Kody’s property.” She went on to explain the complexities of their situation by stating, “It’s not as simple as contacting a lawyer for a divorce; there’s no legal marriage to dissolve in the first place.
Kody reasons that he doesn’t discuss the Arizona property with Janelle because he no longer feels confident in her trustworthiness.
He asserted during the September 22 episode that we will settle the property when necessary, and he’s choosing to keep his actions to himself because he’s grown weary of sharing details that get twisted in the rumor mill of our fractured family.
A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview.
She confided, “He spills secrets as if he were a colander, and the things he told me about his past relationships and multiple spouses left me thinking, ‘I’m not sure it’s appropriate for him to be sharing that with me.’
In those blissful days when our bond was strengthening instead of fraying, we would combine our earnings into a shared kitty.
In my explanation during the September 22nd broadcast, I shared that we have always been willing to utilize every resource to assist one individual, followed by uniting our efforts to support another. This has been our practice for quite some time, until around the last decade or so when things shifted dramatically. Now, it seems like everything revolves around personal estates and everyone is focused on building their own.
When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone contributed to purchase a luxurious $1.65 million, five-bedroom property for her; this property had been put up for sale in August.
Initially, Robyn mentioned that the property would benefit the whole family. However, when Janelle proposed that everyone should be on the mortgage, she was met with resistance. Kody responded, “‘No, no, we must safeguard, you know, Robyn’s inheritance,'” Janelle recollected. Now that she’s leaving the family, according to Janelle, she wants her share of the Coyote Pass earnings and also wishes to recover some of the money she invested in Robyn’s house.
But that could be a tough sell.
In a reflective tone, Robyn remarked, “We’ve been partners for such an extended period.” Then, with Janelle mentioning she was yet to be paid by them, Robyn expressed her perplexity, saying, “I just can’t wrap my head around it. How do you even quantify? How do you arrive at that figure? It’s all so puzzling.
Janelle expressed frustration about the family’s inability to repay Coyote Pass, stating that Kody often mentioned having numerous other debts. However, she has observed him acquiring various assets such as trailers and home decorations. “I notice all the art on their walls,” she said of Robyn and Kody’s home. “I see all these things. And it’s okay, I too have spent money on items.” (Kody himself explained that a significant portion of his funds were used to purchase cars—he even had quite a few—and insurance for the children.)
Janelle admitted she wasn’t certain about the way Kody and Robyn managed their finances, but she often marveled at how beautiful Robyn’s backyard was, so well-maintained it seemed. It always had various items, and Janelle would exclaim, “Wow, really? That’s impressive!
Essentially, she expressed that he neglected her needs and desires, which eventually took a toll on her. At some point, even her adult children started showing frustration, expressing something like, “Mom, what’s going on?
Instead of saying “Robyn’s take was that she was very cautious with her finances following the breakdown of her first marriage,” you could rephrase it as “After her first marriage ended, Robyn became very mindful about managing her budget.” This version maintains the original meaning but uses more conversational language.
In the September 22 episode, she confessed, “I wasn’t always good at managing money.” She explained, “As a youngster, I faced many financial hardships. It was during my divorce, however, that I truly mastered budgeting skills.” Regarding her fellow sister wives, she remarked, “It seems like you prioritized your spending differently than I did, that’s all.
Currently, Janelle admitted during the September 22 episode that when she and Christine, mother of Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown, gather with their families, there is little to no communication with Meri or Robyn, nor does Kody. I don’t anticipate this situation will improve significantly in the near future.
Reflecting on the period when they owned four houses on a single cul-de-sac in Las Vegas, Kody described it as “the high point of my life.” He elaborated, “Things were running smoothly, Maddie and Caleb were nearby, and having them around was wonderful. I truly cherished Caleb; he felt like family to me.
However, discord arose in Arizona concerning COVID-19 safety measures, which eventually led to a breakdown of order. Meanwhile, as his marriages dissolved, he lamented that the connections with his children also weakened, stating that it caused all their relationships to become bitter.
But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021.
On the September 22nd broadcast, I expressed, “The kids who felt disgruntled were already feeling that way long before I departed. My departure didn’t alter their bond with their father. Kody has the power to mend his relationships with his children.
Though it’ll definitely take some work.
Kody expressed his feelings, stating, “I’ve been so upset by how I’ve been treated that it’s hard for me to move past it. The issue is, I can’t accept responsibility for actions my wife or ex-wife claims I took part in. I pray the day comes when the resentment fades, and we can find forgiveness and love again.
As a dedicated follower, I’ll share that when Kody and Meri tied the knot at the tender ages of 21 and 19, respectively, we weren’t particularly well-acquainted on a spiritual or legal level. Fast forward to 2014, when the divorce proceedings began so that Kody could legally adopt Robyn’s three eldest children from her previous marriage.
In our wedding, she appeared quite distinct from what I expected, and I believe there were certain issues from her past (or ‘baggage’) that I wasn’t aware of. At first, I thought I could cope with it. However, he emphasized that everything seemed to escalate into arguments. He expressed his struggle by saying, “I can’t thrive in a situation where she is perpetually upset with me.
Despite his desire for change, Kody explained that he couldn’t divorce because it wasn’t an option in their plural marriage setup. Consequently, he found himself unable to exit this particular relationship. Yet, he didn’t necessarily yearn for a separation; instead, he sought understanding if there was any possibility of salvaging and improving it.
Therefore, due to the conflicting signals, he admitted that Meri believed they could resolve their issues. However, whenever they were in each other’s company, as Kody put it, “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t entertaining, she wasn’t compassionate, she wasn’t stimulating. I try to maintain my curiosity towards her, but I grow tired.
He acknowledged that Meri might feel deserted, but clarified, “Yet, it wasn’t a forced eviction on my part. Instead, it was Christine, Janelle, and Meri who decided I should depart from our shared home.
Even though Janelle and Christine believed that since their union with Kody wasn’t officially recognized as a legal marriage, Meri petitioned their church for an official separation, which is known as a “release,” towards the end of 2022.
In the September 22nd episode, she clarified that all four of us had entered into a church covenant with Kody when we married him. Since it’s not legally possible for all of us to be his wives, we called it a covenant. However, since there are no plans for any future marriages, and I don’t wish to be bound to him eternally if he doesn’t want me, I feel it’s best to end this covenant completely. In essence, I want to fully separate ourselves from this situation.
Kody hesitated about the concept, she noted, as she wasn’t inclined to recognize the leadership of the church officials.
Kody put it this way: “The harm has gone too deep for us to ever make amends, no matter the circumstances.” He continued, “Consequently, when it comes to our accountability before God, I don’t wish to answer to this church and its nonsense. Therefore, I plan to let Meri pursue her own path because if I’m resentful towards her, it leads to conflict. And frankly, I just want her to move on because it seems like she’s still holding onto something that has been finished for years.
The holiday gift exchange conversation in 2021 took an unpleasant turn for the 18 Brown children, as Christine explained. “Matters deteriorated, things went awry,” she recounted. “Kody and Robyn, along with their kids, were on one side, and they distanced themselves from Janelle, me, and our offspring. A divide emerged following this text exchange.
Robyn explained that her older children perceived the interaction as uncomfortable and decided to distance themselves from the relationship temporarily. However, she clarified that it wasn’t a matter of cutting ties or avoiding her altogether; rather, they felt the situation had become unpleasant, similar to saying, “Oops, this got messy.
For his part, Gabriel is hoping that they could find their way back to each other.
He admitted during the October 13 episode that his deepest desire is to rebuild a connection with Robyn’s kids again. In middle school, Aurora was the one he enjoyed spending time with the most. High school found him trying to reach out to Dayton frequently. However, he doesn’t harbor much hope for a relationship with their father and Robyn.
Aurora emphasized that she was repeatedly informed, under various situations by several individuals, that she wasn’t welcomed as part of the family when her mother married Kody in 2010. They made it clear to her that she wasn’t their sister, and they didn’t perceive or acknowledge her in that role.
Breanna, her sister, expressed that she believed the parents might have made more efforts to bring us closer as a family, but unfortunately, such connections were never established.
But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.
Robyn’s children and Robyn themselves are always welcome to any event,” she emphasized. “In simpler terms, they can feel free to drop by our home whenever it suits them.
In addition, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown shared a strong bond with Robyn’s children, and for a period, Mykelti Brown Padron resided with them: “There were challenging moments, and my children felt frustrated at times, but they viewed Robyn’s kids as siblings just the same.
Speaking enthusiastically about the freedom she enjoyed, Janelle expressed her view on plural marriages as follows: “When it works well, you’re part of this extraordinary family setup, connected to a supportive community. You have a husband whom you share a strong bond with, and yet, you maintain your independence. To me, plural marriage is an excellent arrangement because it offers the best of both worlds – companionship and personal freedom.
Kody, however, wouldn’t say “I do” to polygamy again.
He expressed his viewpoint during the December 1st broadcast: “Polygamy stifles emotional intimacy.” He explained that it creates a sense of defensiveness in everyone involved. What he truly seeks is an emotionally vulnerable and intimate relationship with a woman, but such connections are unlikely to be found within polygamous unions.
According to Janelle, Kody found it more challenging to share his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.
On the September 29th episode, it was observed that when Kody relocated to Flagstaff, he found it simpler to stay away. Occasionally, I had to remind him of our arrangement and encourage him to visit my home. He’d often cite fatigue as an excuse, but I’d reply, “You can rest just as well at my house as you can at Robyn’s.
Janelle stated that her children were often reprimanded for opening Robyn’s refrigerator, which shepherded the feeling of isolation they experienced with Robyn. Meanwhile, Christine’s kids felt distanced because they noticed that Robyn was their father’s partner and he wasn’t present in their home.
And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide.
She mentioned during the September 29th episode that Meri was open and welcoming towards her children and herself, but the rest of the family found it difficult to accept them. Essentially, they desired nothing more than to feel included within this family.
However, Gabriel might contend that he and his other siblings made significant efforts to welcome and include them.
In last week’s broadcast, I expressed my viewpoint: “Robyn seems to carry a sense of being a victim.” To put it straightforwardly, that’s how I see it. Now, let me clarify, I don’t hold her accountable for this perception. Instead, I believe each individual develops unique coping mechanisms, and in Robyn’s case, her strategy appears to be this way of perceiving herself.
Yet, he added, “If it’s truly in her mind that we mistreated her or her children while she was receiving special treatment from Dad and we were trying to build a bond with them, if she genuinely thinks this, then there’s no possibility of me maintaining any kind of relationship with Robyn.
During a September 29th broadcast, Kody revealed how the frequent movement between four households impacted his eighteen children. He shared an instance where their youngest, Ariella (born in January 2016), became distressed and held onto him tightly when he attempted to depart, illustrating one of the ways this situation affected them emotionally.
In his own words, Kody expressed, “I had to tell her, ‘I have another wife and children who need me, another role as a mother.’ She was clinging to me, crying, ‘Please don’t leave me, Daddy.’ And I felt, ‘This is tough, really tough.’
Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle.
Initially, she clarified, her children were aware that their father wouldn’t always be present due to his frequent absences. I’ve often felt that Kody and Robyn mishandled the situation with their kids. He was unable to stay away for more than three or four days as Ari would become upset. To me, it seemed like a lack of responsible parenting. Throughout family history, the other children had handled similar situations and they’ve turned out to be well-adjusted adults.
Among the rare individuals of Brown descent, Mykelti maintained relationships with both Robyn, Kody, and Kody’s other wives, Christine and Janelle. In the midst of Kody’s divorce proceedings, Mykelti often served as a mediator or peacekeeper.
From the instant Robyn joined the Brown clan, Mykelti extended an invitation for her to attend the delivery of her twins, Archer and Ace, in November 2022.
During the September 29th broadcast, Mykelti shared, “When Robyn initially became part of our family, I was still trying to understand myself. Robyn made me feel unique and understood.” She added, “Robyn was there for me when I needed someone. She was there for me when I needed someone to listen, to care for me.
Christine’s mother was overjoyed beyond words. As Robyn joined the family and it was evident that she and Mykelti shared a strong bond, Christine expressed her feelings on the Oct. 6 episode, saying, “It was exactly what I had always dreamed of.” When Christine looked forward to having a large family, she longed for her children to have harmonious relationships with other mothers.
Kody believes that it’s not just his wives who are intentionally distancing themselves from him. He stated this during the October 6 episodes, expressing his perspective on his estrangement from some of his older children. Essentially, he feels they’re excluding him as a form of retribution for a crime he didn’t commit. In his own words, he said, “I am only being punished for not having fallen deeply in love with the mothers of my children.
What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame.
In my own reflection, I attribute the strain in my bond with my kids primarily to the negative chatter that has filled my thoughts. The turmoil from our family splitting up or whatever it may be, seems to have fueled a vortex of disillusionment, and it’s as if an unspoken accusation hangs in the air: ‘It’s all Dad’s fault. Dad made the mistakes.’
However, although he accepts some responsibility, he strongly objects to the insults. In fact, revealing his difficulties in bonding with Hunter, Maddie and Gabriel, Kody shared that one of his children retorted to a text message saying, “You are garbage. I wouldn’t communicate with you anymore even if I tried.
In another instance, he expressed to the cameras, “One of my children recently said to me, ‘You’re a jerk. I won’t speak to you anymore. You deceived me and indoctrinated me.’
He doesn’t want to continue dealing with the toxicity any longer, as he expressed, “I won’t keep reaching out indefinitely.” He believes his grown children should take more initiative in resolving issues. “I’m ready to put in the work,” he stated, “but it’s also important that someone else steps up and reciprocates the effort.
For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home.
In her October 6 appearance, she shared that when she was young, her parents divorced. This meant that her father lived with another wife in a different city, while her mother lived alone. One day, I confronted my biological father about the situation, asking him why he wasn’t around during my childhood years. Instead of providing a clear explanation, all he did was offer weak excuses, which only made the situation more difficult for me to understand and accept.
Instead of letting Kody’s wounded emotions hinder his efforts, she was determined to push through. In a heated confrontation recorded towards the end of 2022, she candidly expressed her feelings, saying, “I find it difficult not to feel like I might be losing a bit of respect for you.
Although Kody admitted that he could work harder on rebuilding his relationships with his children, he emphasized that healing his own heart is a necessary first step.
He disclosed that some of his children seem to be conspiring against him, adding, “I’m so enraged by what has transpired that when I communicate with my kids, I fear they may provoke me with an accusation. At the moment, I’m too emotional and prone to anger. All I can do is cause further harm.
As a devoted admirer, I couldn’t help but feel a twinge of disconnect when I witnessed Janelle and Kody’s eldest son, Logan, exchange vows with Michelle Petty in October 2022 amidst the presence of much of their family. Despite being there, it seemed the love in the air was more elusive than a well-hidden Easter egg.
In the October 6th episode, Kody expressed his frustration to Robyn, stating that he noticed Madison hastily leaving their presence with her children, implying avoidance of him. He mentioned that his daughter hadn’t shared with him the news about her third pregnancy, which resulted in the birth of Josephine in February 2023, a fact he was unaware of until then. Essentially, Kody expressed that she wasn’t open about being pregnant.
Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.
Janelle clarified that Maddie has no relationship with Kody, which was the reason for her avoiding him at the wedding. She’s extremely cautious about her kids and since Evie was born three-and-a-half years ago, Kody hasn’t been present. Janelle didn’t want Kody to show up unannounced and surprise them by saying he’s their grandfather, leaving them puzzled and wondering who this man was.
Kody expressed that it’s impractical for grandparents to be constantly involved in their grandchildren’s lives, given the circumstances like moving kids to a completely different coast. He explained that he has his own job and lifestyle in Flagstaff.
It’s evident that Kody and his grown-up kids hold contrasting perspectives on their prolonged rift, with one recurring issue being Kody insisting on an apology or acknowledgment of fault.
Following the COVID crisis, life returned to normal, but our family still hadn’t fully reconciled. Kody expressed that his sons needed to apologize, specifically to Robyn, according to Janelle in the Oct. 13 episode. After this request evolved into something more, it seemed they just needed to have a conversation with me.
In summary, Janelle expressed that Kody felt his children hadn’t been faithful to him, and added, “and the one who gives the most love in this family, who has poured her heart and soul, has been disregarded or treated unfairly, like some nonsense.” She responded with a dismissive tone, saying, “Well, Kody, whatever you say. Yeah, whatever.
Gabriel expressed a similar sentiment while narrating his discussion with his father. “He repeatedly suggested that I owed him an apology,” he told Janelle. “Finally, I said something like, ‘Unless you’re genuinely willing to work on our relationship and make amends, we won’t talk anymore.’ A few days later, he texted me back. He wrote, ‘Hey, I’ve been thinking about what you said. I forgive you, Please forgive me.’ I responded, ‘Forgive me for what?’
Among the six children Kody has with Janelle, he primarily interacts with their youngest daughter, Savanah. While it’s not a regular occurrence, approximately every two months they talk on the phone and occasionally go out together. The other kids don’t have much of a bond or connection with him. (Janelle shared this in the Oct 13 episode)
Concerning Savannah, who completed high school in 2023, she perceives that her four elder brothers assume the role of a father figure for her. In fact, Savannah has admitted to Janelle that at some point, she might ask her siblings to escort her during her wedding ceremony.
I’ve had a conversation with Savannah regarding the matter, and she expressed, ‘You see, I’ve come to understand that this is his nature.’ She further explained, ‘He’ll be the kind of father who joins us for fun times but then departs. I can adapt to his lifestyle. It’s alright.'” – Janelle
Janelle, however, is less forgiving.
She expressed her frustration with Kody, saying, ‘I’m really struggling here.’ She’s witnessed similar situations in the past. Many of the women she’s collaborated with have gone through divorce, only to find that the children’s father disappears afterwards.
Initially, when a strain developed between them, Gabriel found it particularly tough since Kody often invited Gabriel along on his business travels. As Janelle put it, Kody had been an exceptionally involved father until relatively recently.
Although Gabriel is puzzled about what might have made his father angry, during the October 13 episode, he stated, “I told Dad that if he doesn’t change and can’t accept responsibility, then I simply won’t meet him anymore. And I’m completely content with that decision.
In line with Janelle’s sentiments, I too yearn for a similar tranquility for my children, that they may find peace knowing their father is not part of their lives. I believe we are all progressing towards this state.
For his part, Kody also seems resigned to the situation.
He expressed his apologies for how Gabriel seems, adding in a private moment that he has tried reaching out to him several times but hasn’t been successful. It’s not because I didn’t make an effort.
In simpler terms, Meri was likely the one who ended her relationship with Kody last, but they legally separated towards the end of 2022 when Meri asked for and received what their church refers to as a “release,” citing abandonment as the reason.
She observed during the October 13 broadcast that he dislikes that particular word because he feels he didn’t leave her behind. Instead, she believes he did.
To put it simply, she believes he paid little attention to her needs until she decided to depart, at which point he could claim, “I have no part in this.
And Kody didn’t totally deny that he had a bit of a strategy.
He clarified in a private moment that he had left the situation behind him some time ago. However, it’s important to be truthful here: I was hesitant to confront her about our issues. The reason being, Meri had never been faithful to me throughout our relationship, and I was concerned about how she might react if I brought up the subject. It’s all about her reputation, as divorces can often damage one’s standing in society.
Instead, alleged Meri, it was hers that was being tarnished.
I can’t help but feel a pang of disappointment whenever Kody talks about our marriage in such a manner, it’s almost as if his version of events has shifted. The things he’s been telling others about me just don’t resonate with my reality, and unfortunately, it seems like they’re buying into his narrative rather than mine.
Before sweet Christina departed from Kody, I, a fervent admirer of their love story, came to understand that our beloved couple didn’t seem to click according to the blueprint of life, as suggested by our wise Las Vegas-based marriage counselor. This insight was a revelation, an unveiling of hidden truths that had been subtly dancing beneath the surface of their beautiful relationship.
Christine outlined the characteristics she desired in a partner, which included a strong communicator, someone who would be actively involved in her and their children’s lives, and someone who was genuinely attracted to her. However, Kody didn’t possess any of those qualities as she shared on the October 20th episode, saying, “He’s not any of those things for me,” she admitted. I told him the list, and he responded, ‘I’m not any of those things for you.’ I replied, ‘No, you’re definitely not.’
The letter played a significant role in helping her realize swiftly that her future husband, David Woolley, was indeed the right person for her.
She enthusiastically shared that family holds the utmost significance for this widowed father of eight, particularly since he runs his own drywall company. Known for maintaining integrity and authenticity in all his dealings, he is also an exceptional communicator.
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2025-06-16 06:19