As a seasoned observer of human dynamics, I find the Brown family’s story both heartbreaking and intriguing. Each member seems to be grappling with their own unique set of challenges, yet they all share a common thread – the pursuit of happiness and personal growth.
Meri Brown wants what she’s owed from her ex Kody Brown.
Originally married in 1990, the ex-spouses announced their separation following many years of distance. On a November 17 episode of “Sister Wives,” Meri expressed her desire for independence, signifying she’s ready to move on physically.
Meri inquired if Kody might assist her with moving some belongings, specifically from Flagstaff, Arizona, to Parowan, Utah. She also asked if he’d consider driving a truck for her after that move, as a sort of farewell gift.
Kody seemed shocked by the comment.
“On what?” he asked his ex. “Our marriage?”
In a candid moment, the father of 18, who has a 29-year-old son named Leon Brown with Meri, later expressed his confusion over the meaning behind her remark about their “separation.
He expressed that the situation regarding the severance package was puzzling to him, as he wasn’t sure if it was intended subtly or directly, humorously or seriously. In fact, he admitted that he’s been unsure about their relationship dynamics throughout his entire marriage.
As a lifestyle expert, I’d rephrase that sentence as follows: In 2014, I legally parted ways with Kody to allow him to marry Robyn Brown and formally adopt her three children from a previous relationship. However, we chose to remain spiritually bound, albeit growing apart in the later years of our marriage. Our spiritual bond finally came to an end towards the end of 2022, following the divorces of Kody’s other two wives, Christine and Janelle Brown.
Meri expressed in a private moment that she neglected to request alimony during our divorce proceedings, which leaves her in a difficult position. She invested three decades into our relationship and is seeking assistance with moving on and leaving, after which we can both move forward amicably. In essence, she’s suggesting that we should consider our debts balanced, though she’s unsure.
In simple terms, “Meri conveyed to Kody and Robyn her forthcoming step, ‘I believe I’m prepared to manage my state of uncertainty, and this is me taking charge of it.’
In my perspective, I hold Kody accountable for his refusal to terminate our marriage, as he continues to send me ambiguous signals instead.
She pointed out that instead of sitting down and honestly discussing the issue with her, he avoided conversation and took actions to make her feel unwanted, hoping she’d be the one to leave. This way, he could claim innocence by saying, “She left on her own.
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As a lifestyle advisor, I might rephrase it like this:
She mentioned her primary concern as his poor communication, specifically about his true feelings, desires, and dislikes. Additionally, she expressed dissatisfaction with the narrative he has maintained over the years.
Initially, Kody conceded that there might have been some confusion in his communication, but as he delved into various tasks, he found himself questioning the rationale behind it. In other words, he stated, “It’s like, ‘Why would I do this?'” He further clarified that at present, he would not pursue a romantic relationship with her.
Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023.
She admitted, “They said something like, ‘We’re here for you, we’re on your side. And it’s high time,'” she confessed. Now, with newfound clarity, she feels as though he had been trying to encourage her to leave for years by asserting he didn’t care for her, “Because if I could be driven away and choose to depart, then he isn’t the villain since he didn’t walk away himself.
After many years had passed since their family bought a 14-acre plot in Flagstaff, Ariz., intended for construction, Kody admitted during the season opener that he was prepared to watch the dream die. Since they hadn’t managed to pay off the full $820,000 cost (reportedly settled in 2023), he suggested to his remaining wife Robyn Brown, “I’d almost prefer to abandon it or sell it and then start anew somewhere else.
As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”
In my personal perspective as a lifestyle advisor, I’d say it went something like this: Initially, Janelle Brown and I were growing together. However, over time, certain parenting shortcomings on Kody’s part caused friction, eventually leading me to make the difficult decision to move forward separately for the sake of our children and our well-being.
The mom shared with Logan Brown, Madison Brown Brush, Hunter Brown, Garrison Brown, Gabriel Brown, and Savanah Brown that the turning point for her was when his relationship with our children deteriorated, and it didn’t appear he would go to great lengths to mend it. She continued, “At that moment, I realized, yes, that was what had kept me here all this time.
In last week’s episode, when Kody floated the notion of reconciliation, it was as firm as stone walls to me, Janelle, that it wasn’t an option on my table.
She stated, “It’s hard for me to imagine finding common ground with him that doesn’t involve him having a relationship with my children, but I’ve made up my mind – I will always prioritize my kids.
Kody offered this reason for not exerting more effort to heal the strained relationships he had with some of his grown children: he didn’t put in additional work.
In the September 15th episode, he expressed his feelings of not belonging in the family anymore. Even though he was legally married to Robyn and collectively parenting their five children – Dayton Brown, Aurora Brown, Breanna Brown, Solomon Brown, and Ariella Brown – he felt disconnected from some of the other children as well, with the relationships being infrequent. As a result, he questioned his role within this dynamic, stating that it didn’t feel like a family to him.
Even though they’ve finally committed to monogamy after 14 years together, Robyn admitted in the season premiere that their marriage is experiencing its toughest period. She explained that tensions have been high between them, and Kody isn’t sure whether he should blame himself or one of his other wives. He feels a lot of rejection, leading him to question if she might reject him as well.
Consequently, she disclosed, “I’m constantly vigilant. I have to keep checking that he isn’t undermining our relationship.” In her own words, the most challenging aspect is: “There are no guides or support systems for dealing with the fact that I’m still married to a man who seems to be going through multiple divorces.
Meanwhile, Kody struggled with self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to tell my reflection, ‘Hey there, pal. I adore you.’
In the October 27 episode, Robyn expressed that it felt challenging for her as she observed her ex-sister wives transitioning into a new phase of their lives. She remarked, “They’re all progressing,” hinting at a sense of feeling abandoned and left behind in comparison.
Add Madison, daughter of Janelle’s eldest child, to the list of kids who are currently out of contact with Kody. As it was revealed during the premiere, “Maddie hasn’t spoken to her father,” as Janelle explained. Neither has there been a call between them, and she doesn’t have any relationship with Kody or Robin at this point. She essentially considers both of them out of her life.
Janelle stated that the concern lies in Kody not fully engaging with Maddie’s children Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine in their relationship: “She feels he should only interact if he can make a firm commitment about it.
During the September 22 broadcast, it was revealed that Janelle mentioned Kody had essentially stopped communicating with Maddie and her husband Caleb Brush when the family began to significantly break apart.
According to Janelle, since Kody hasn’t been visiting or calling, Maddie has taken on a very protective role, almost like a Mama Bear. She expressed that until Kody can be reliable and consistent without causing drama, she thinks it might be best if they keep his presence hidden from them.
Meanwhile, Robyn has been urging Kody to make amends, she added, “It seems only fair that the children also take steps to reconcile as well.
Currently, Kody appears unwilling to mend the rift, complaining that whenever he talks to his daughter, their conversations feel more like spreading gossip and he’s grown weary of it.
During their 32nd anniversary celebration, “He hinted that he had never truly loved me and felt like our marriage was not out of love,” Meri confided in her friend Brandi during the September 15 premiere. “To which I replied, ‘Kody,’ I said, ‘I know you cared for me.’
And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever propose?
She pondered, “Why would a bachelor decide to marry a spinster if he didn’t already have feelings for her, merely proclaiming and attempting to compel affection over the ensuing 32 years? Isn’t that harsh? To single me out among many others and say, ‘I choose you, in the hope of forcing myself to develop love for you’?
In a private reflection, Kody stated: “Meri’s making some allegations. Well, let her say what she will. I won’t be responding to them.
Though, he would share that they never enjoyed a honeymoon period.
He emphatically stated during the October 20th episode that their marriage was in trouble from the very start. He claimed to have had stronger relationships with Janelle, Christine, and Robyn, which is why he knew this.
He admitted he “should have gotten out of the relationship 25 years ago,” but he stayed out of fear, noting, “Leadership will never allow you to marry again if you’re discarding wives.”
Though she was undecided on if she’d like to build on Coyote Pass or simply sell it off, Janelle noted that step one was paying off the Arizona property. And with Kody unwilling to talk to her about the situation, “I think I’m going to have to lawyer up,” she confessed to former sister wife Christine Brown in the Sept. 22 episode. “Because I think that’s the only way I’m ever going to get any kind of decision out of him.”
Janelle admitted that since she and Kody aren’t legally married, “I don’t actually have any legal grounds to assert any kind of claim on Kody’s property.” In her words, “It’s not as simple as contacting a lawyer for a divorce; it’s more complex because there’s no legal marriage involved.
Kody’s reason for avoiding discussions about the Arizona property with Janelle is due to his loss of trust in her.
He firmly declared during the September 22nd episode that he would settle the property debt when it is due, and he chose to keep his actions private since he’s grown weary of sharing details that get twisted in the rumor mill of our troubled family.
A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview.
She said, “He spills secrets as if he’s got holes everywhere, especially about his past relationships and multiple wives, which I found a bit too much information.
In the days when their love was growing stronger instead of weakening, they would combine all their savings in a shared fund.
In simpler terms, Janelle explained during the September 22 episode that we would put all our efforts into helping one individual, followed by everyone coming together to assist another person – this was how things were done for quite some time. However, in the last decade or so, it seems like everything has shifted towards personal wealth accumulation and maintaining one’s own estate instead of collaborating as a group.
When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone contributed towards purchasing a spacious five-bedroom property worth approximately $1.65 million, which had been put up for sale in August.
Initially, Robyn mentioned that acquiring the asset would benefit the entire family. However, when Janelle proposed that everyone should be on the mortgage, she was met with resistance. Kody responded, “No, no, we need to safeguard, you understand, protect Robyn’s inheritance,” Janelle recounted. Now that she’s separating from the family, Janelle stated that she wishes to claim her share of the Coyote Pass earnings and also recover some of the money she invested in Robyn’s house.
But that could be a tough sell.
Robyn commented, “After all this time collaborating, it’s perplexing to me. With Janelle mentioning she’s due for payment from them, I find myself wondering, ‘How does one compute that? How does one determine that?’ It’s just so puzzling.
Janelle expressed her frustration over the family’s inability to pay off Coyote Pass. She noted that while Kody often mentioned having numerous other debts, she observed him acquiring items such as trailers and home decorations. “I notice all the artwork on Robyn and Kody’s walls,” she stated, adding, “I see all these things. And I understand, I too have spent money on such purchases.” In response, Kody explained that a significant portion of his funds were used for purchasing vehicles, as he put it, “I had quite a few cars, almost like a fleet,” and insuring the children.
Although Janelle admitted that she wasn’t certain about Kody and Robyn’s financial management, she often marveled at the beauty of Robyn’s backyard and the abundance of items in her house, exclaiming things like, ‘Wow! Really?’
Essentially, she expressed that he didn’t make her needs or desires a priority, which was a problem that eventually took its toll on her. Over time, even her children, both young and old, grew increasingly frustrated with the situation, asking things like, “What’s going on, Mom?” in exasperation.
Robyn’s viewpoint was that she became extremely mindful about managing her finances following the breakdown of her first marriage.
She confessed during the September 22 episode that she wasn’t always good with finances. Growing up, she faced difficult circumstances, and it was only during her divorce that she learned to manage her money effectively, particularly in terms of budgeting. Regarding her fellow sister wives, she commented, “It seems you prioritized your spending differently than I did.
Currently, as shown in the September 22 episode, it’s been noted by Janelle that she and Meri, Robyn, and Kody, the parents of Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown, don’t have much contact. She doesn’t see this situation improving significantly in the near future.
Speaking fondly about their residence on a single cul-de-sac in Las Vegas, Kody referred to it as the “highpoint of my life”. He explained, “Things were running smoothly and Maddie and Caleb were nearby, which made it wonderful. I had a strong bond with Caleb; he truly felt like family.
In my experience as a lifestyle advisor, I’ve observed that the situation in Arizona became quite challenging when different perspectives on COVID-19 safety measures collided. Subsequently, in my own journey, when my marital relationships disintegrated, I found that the bonds with my children followed suit, leading to a deterioration of those relationships.
But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021.
She stated during the September 22nd broadcast, “The children who felt frustrated had been feeling that way long before I departed.” In essence, her departure didn’t affect the dynamics of their relationships; Kody has the ability to mend his relationships with his kids even now.
Though it’ll definitely take some work.
Kody expressed his frustration about being unfairly treated, saying, “I haven’t been able to move past it yet.” He clarified that he is not willing to accept responsibility for actions his wife or ex-wife has accused him of. He hopes for the day when the resentment will fade, allowing them to rediscover forgiveness and love.
At the age of 21 and 19, when they were married both spiritually and legally, Kody admitted that he and Meri didn’t have a close relationship. Later on, in 2014, they chose to file for divorce so that Kody could adopt Robyn’s three oldest children from her previous marriage legally.
In my expert opinion, when I tied the knot, there were aspects about my partner that were distinctly different from what I had anticipated. Over time, I came to realize there were certain issues, or emotional baggage if you will, that she carried which I was previously unaware of. At first, I believed I could adapt to these differences, but as time went on, I found myself in a recurring cycle of conflict. To put it simply, I can’t thrive in an environment where there’s constant tension and anger between us.
Even though he desired to depart, he found himself unable to do so. Kody explained, “If he wishes to remain loyal and devoted, he can’t seek a divorce. It’s forbidden. Therefore, I couldn’t escape from that union. However, I wasn’t necessarily yearning to exit the relationship. Instead, I wanted to explore if we could salvage and mend it.
Due to the conflicting signals, he admitted that Meri believed they could resolve their issues. However, whenever they were in each other’s company, Kody stated, “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t amusing, she wasn’t compassionate, she wasn’t engaging. I’m trying to maintain my curiosity towards her, but I find myself growing tired.
He acknowledged that it might seem as though Meri was left behind, but he clarified that none of them forced him out; instead, it was their collective decision for him to depart from the shared home.
Despite the fact that neither Janelle nor Christine considered it necessary to legally divorce Kody, Meri sought and received a formal separation from him, known as a “release,” towards the end of 2022, through their church.
In the September 22 episode, she clarified that all four of us had entered into a covenant with Kody through our church when we married him. Since it’s not possible for all of us to have a legal marriage, we referred to it as a covenant. Given that we aren’t pursuing any further marital relationships and I don’t wish to be bound to him eternally if he doesn’t feel the same, I believe it’s best to completely discontinue this covenant. In simpler terms, I want to fully separate ourselves from this situation.
Kody appeared hesitant about the concept, she noted, as she wasn’t keen on recognizing the power held by the religious leaders.
Kody clarified his position by saying, “The harm was so severe that there’s no chance of reconciliation, regardless of the circumstances. In terms of our accountability towards God, I don’t want to be answerable to this church with all its complications. Therefore, I plan to allow Meri her freedom to pursue her own path because if I’m upset with her, it turns into a conflict. Frankly, I just needed her to step back because it took her a long time to accept that things have been finished for years.
2021 holiday gift exchange conversation among the 18 Brown offspring took an unpleasant turn as Christine described it: “Matters escalated, things went awry.” Kody and Robyn, along with their children, seemed to distance themselves from Janelle, me, and our kids. The disagreement that arose following this text exchange led to a division within the group.
In Robyn’s view, her three eldest children felt the interaction was “uncomfortably emotional” and believed it necessary to distance themselves from the relationship, not entirely severing ties. However, she emphasized that it wasn’t a matter of never wanting to meet again or cutting off all contact, but more like, “Whoa, this got awkward.
For his part, Gabriel is hoping that they could find their way back to each other.
He openly shared in the October 13th episode that his deepest desire is to rebuild relationships with Robyn’s children. During middle school, Aurora was the one he enjoyed spending time with most. In high school, he often tried reaching out to Dayton. However, he expressed that he doesn’t have high expectations for a relationship with their father and Robyn.
Aurora firmly stated that she was repeatedly informed, in various situations by different individuals, that she wasn’t welcomed as a part of the family when her mother married Kody in 2010. They made it clear to her that she wasn’t their sister, and they didn’t recognize or perceive her in that role.
Her sister Breanna remarked that the parents might have made more efforts to foster a stronger family bond, but unfortunately, such connection never truly materialized.
But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.
Robyn’s children and Robyn themselves were always welcome to any event,” she emphasized. “In simpler terms, they could feel free to drop by our home whenever it suits them.
Simultaneously, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown was particularly close to Robyn’s children. In fact, Mykelti Brown Padron resided with them for a while. She said, “There were challenging periods and my children felt exasperated at times, but they consistently regarded Robyn’s kids as their siblings, just the same.
Speaking excitedly about the freedom it offers, Janelle expressed her thoughts on plural marriage as follows: “When it works well, it creates this fantastic family structure that you’re a part of, a tight-knit community where you belong. You have a husband and enjoy a wonderful relationship with him, yet you retain all your independence. For me, having multiple spouses was truly an excellent setup.
According to Janelle, Kody found it more challenging to distribute his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.
In the September 29th episode, it was noted that when Kody relocated to Flagstaff, he found it simpler to stay away, but she occasionally had to remind him to visit her home. He would often use exhaustion as an excuse, yet she disclosed that she would respond, “I understand you’re tired, but you can rest just as effectively at my house as you can at Robyn’s.
Janelle expressed that her children felt distinct from Robyn, explaining that “They were reprimanded if they dared to open Robyn’s refrigerator.” For Christine’s kids, the problem stemmed from the fact that “They observed that Robyn and their father were a couple, but he wasn’t a part of our household.
And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide.
She mentioned that Meri was generally welcoming towards me and my children, but the rest of the family found it difficult to accept us, as she expressed on the September 29th broadcast. Our main desire was simply to become a part of this family.
However, Gabriel might contend that he and his kin made considerable efforts to welcome them into their group.
In the October 13th episode, he expressed his belief that Robyn seems to have a victim mentality. To be more direct, that’s how he saw it. It’s not necessarily her fault, in my opinion. I believe everyone has their own ways of coping and surviving, strategies unique to themselves.
But he went on to say, “If Robyn genuinely thinks that we mistreated her or her children while she was favored by Dad and we were focusing on building our relationships with them, and if this is truly her belief, then it’s impossible for me to have a relationship with Robyn in the future.
During a recent broadcast on September 29th, Kody disclosed that the frequent moves between four houses significantly impacted his 18 children. He recounted an instance where Ariella, their youngest born in January 2016, held onto him tightly as he attempted to depart, indicating her attachment due to these family transitions.
In his own words, Kody said, “I had to tell her, ‘I have another wife and children who need me, other responsibilities,’ but she clung to me, crying, ‘Don’t abandon me, Daddy.’ It’s tough.
Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle.
Initially, she clarified, her children were aware that their father wouldn’t always be present. I’ve often felt that Kody and Robyn mishandled the situation with their children. He couldn’t stay away for more than three or four days because Ari gets extremely upset. To me, it seemed like a lack of good parenting. Throughout family history, the other kids managed similarly, and they turned out to be well-adjusted adults.
Among the rare group of children with the Brown surname, Mykelti maintained relationships with Robyn, Kody, and also Christine and Janelle, her mother of three. In the midst of Kody’s divorces, Mykelti assumed the role of a mediator or peacemaker.
From the very start, Mykelti felt a strong bond with Robyn when she joined the Brown clan. In fact, Mykelti went so far as to ask Robyn to be present at the birth of her twins in November 2022, whom they named Archer and Ace.
During one of our recent gatherings, as I navigated my own self-discovery, Robyn entered our family scene and played an extraordinary role in shaping my journey. She made me feel uniquely valued, understood, and seen – qualities that were incredibly meaningful during this transformative phase of my life.
Christine’s motherly joy couldn’t have been more evident. As Robyn joined their family and it became clear she and Mykelti shared a strong bond, Christine expressed her feelings on the Oct. 6 episode. “I had always dreamed of having a large family where my kids would develop close relationships with other mothers,” she said. “And I am so happy to see that happening.
Kody believes that it’s not just his wives who have chosen to exclude him from their lives; instead, he thinks they are intentionally doing so as a form of retribution for a crime he didn’t commit. He expressed this view during the October 6 episodes, discussing the estrangement he feels from some of his older children. Essentially, Kody maintains that he is only being punished for not falling deeply in love with their mothers.
What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame.
He explained that the strained connection with his kids is predominantly due to negative comments, saying, “I can’t help but feel the rift because of the constant gossip.” He further added, “The aftermath of our family splitting up has created a storm of disillusionment, and it often feels as though I’m being blamed for the situation.
However, although some responsibility can be attributed to him, he strongly objects to the derogatory remarks. Notably, he admitted that he had difficulties bonding with Hunter, Maddie, and Gabriel. Kody disclosed one of his children’s reactions to a text message, stating, “You are worthless. I would never talk to you again anyway.
Personally speaking, in another situation, I found myself hearing one of my children express, “You’ve been quite insensitive. I’m cutting off our conversations from now on. I believe you’ve influenced and conditioned me unfairly.
He’s unwilling to handle the venom any longer, as he stated, “I won’t extend my hand indefinitely.” He believes that his elders should take more responsibility in resolving the issues at hand. “I’m ready to put forth the effort,” he said, “but someone else needs to reciprocate and contribute their part too.
For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home.
In her conversation on October 6th, she shared that her parents divorced when she was still quite young. At that time, her father resided with another spouse in a different city, while her mother lived alone. She recalled a time when she asked him about the circumstances, only to receive unsatisfactory explanations for his absence during her childhood years, which were truly disappointing.
Instead of letting Kody’s wounded emotions hinder his actions, she made an effort to continue. During their heated argument, captured on camera towards the end of 2022, she expressed her feelings by saying, “I find it difficult not to feel a bit disappointed in you.
Even though Kody admitted that he might need to put in extra effort to repair his bond with his children, he emphasized that healing his own heart is a priority first.
He expressed his frustration by saying, “Some of my children seem to be working together against me, and it has left me so enraged that when I interact with them, I fear they might accuse me, causing me to react impulsively. In my current state, I’m afraid I might only make things worse.
Despite many members of the family being present at Logan’s wedding to Michelle Petty in October 2022, there seemed to be a lack of affection or warmth among them.
In the October 6th episode, Kody expressed his displeasure to Robyn, saying he felt Madison hurriedly removed her children from his presence. He mentioned that he hadn’t known about Madison expecting her third child, daughter Josephine, born in February 2023, as she hadn’t informed him of her pregnancy. In simpler terms, Kody said Madison hadn’t told him she was going to be a mother again.
Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.
Janelle clarified that her daughter Maddie has no relationship with Kody, which is why she avoided him at the wedding. Maddie takes great care in safeguarding her children, and since Evie was born nearly four years ago, Kody hasn’t been present. Maddie didn’t want an unexpected visit from Kody, who might have claimed to be their grandfather, leaving the children confused as they wouldn’t recognize him.
As someone who values family bonds deeply, I understand the importance of grandparents in a child’s life. However, it’s impractical to expect constant involvement if your children are relocated to another coast entirely. In my personal situation, I have commitments in Flagstaff that require my attention and time.
It’s evident that Kody and his grown-up kids hold contrasting perspectives regarding their ongoing rift, with a key disagreement being Kody insisting on an apology or acknowledgment of wrongdoing from his side.
Following the end of the COVID-19 concerns, we returned to our regular routines, but there was still a rift within our family that Janelle discussed during the Oct. 13 episode. She explained that Kody felt his sons should apologize, particularly to Robyn, for past actions. Essentially, she stated that the issue had evolved into one where they just needed to sit down and speak with her directly.
In Janelle’s explanation, it seemed that Kody felt deeply hurt because he believed his children hadn’t remained faithful to him, and moreover, the person who had given their heart and soul in this family was being disregarded or treated unfairly, as she put it. She expressed her exasperation by saying, “Whatever Kody, yeah whatever.
Gabriel expressed a similar sentiment when he recounted his conversation with his father. “He seemed to keep implying that I needed to apologize,” he told Janelle. “Finally, I said something like, ‘Look, unless you’re genuinely willing to rebuild our relationship and make amends, we won’t talk anymore.’ A few days later, he texted me back. He wrote, ‘Hey, I’ve been giving your words some thought. I forgive you, please forgive me.’ To which I replied, ‘Forgive me for what?’
Among the six children I share with Janelle, I primarily maintain a bond with my youngest daughter, Savanah. Admittedly, it isn’t often, but approximately every two months, we have phone conversations and occasionally meet up in person. Regrettably, the rest of our children don’t seem to have much of a connection with me at present.
Concerning Savannah – who completed high school in the year 2023 – she believes that her four elder brothers have assumed a fatherly role towards her. In fact, she has shared with Janelle her intention of asking her siblings to escort her during her future wedding ceremony.
In a conversation, Savanah expressed, “I’ve understood that this is his true nature – he’ll be the type of father who joins us for fun times but may not always be around. I’m willing to accept him as he is, and it’s alright with me.” Janelle shared these thoughts.
Janelle, however, is less forgiving.
She sighed deeply, expressing her exasperation: “Kody is really getting on my nerves. You know, it’s a pattern I’ve noticed. Many of the women I’ve collaborated with in the past have divorced, and then their children’s fathers would suddenly disappear from the scene.
Initially, when the strain between them emerged, Gabriel found it particularly tough since Kody often invited Gabriel along on his business trips, as mentioned by Janelle. She further added that Kody had been an extremely involved father until quite recently.
Despite feeling perplexed about what might have caused his father’s anger, Gabriel declared during the October 13 episode, “I told Dad that if he doesn’t alter and can’t accept responsibility, then I simply won’t encounter him anymore. And I’m completely content with that decision.
In her own words, she expressed that he finds contentment knowing his father isn’t part of his life. And similarly, it’s a wish I have for all my children, and I believe they are gradually understanding this as well.
For his part, Kody also seems resigned to the situation.
He expressed his apologies for how Gabriel seems, revealing in a private moment that he has attempted to reach out to him on numerous occasions, yet those efforts were not reciprocated. However, this was not due to any lack of effort on his side.
Meri may have been the most recent spouse to part ways with Kody, but she formally ended their relationship towards the end of 2022, by asking for and getting what their faith refers to as a “release,” citing abandonment as the reason.
On the October 13th episode, I observed that he seems averse to that particular term, as he strongly believes he didn’t abandon me. Instead, it’s how I feel about our situation.
In essence, she believes he neglected her significantly until she chose to depart, a move which allowed him to claim, “I have no involvement in this.
And Kody didn’t totally deny that he had a bit of a strategy.
He admitted he had already moved on a while back, but acknowledged his fear in revealing the truth to her. You see, Meri was never faithful to me, and that’s what I’ve always been concerned about. It’s mostly about preserving my reputation, as getting divorced can damage one’s image.
Instead, alleged Meri, it was hers that was being tarnished.
She expressed, “It’s truly disheartening to hear Kody discussing our marriage in such a manner. It seems as though his perspective on our relationship has shifted, yet the stories he shares about me with others that people appear to accept as truth, are far from accurate.
Before Christina parted ways with Kody, it became apparent that they were not well-suited as a couple according to a task suggested by their marriage therapist based in Las Vegas.
Christine penned down a list detailing the traits she desired in a partner, emphasizing the importance of effective communication, consistent presence in her life and that of her children, and genuine attraction. However, Kody didn’t fit any of these qualities, as she confessed on the October 20th episode, stating, “He wasn’t any of those things I was looking for.” She informed him about the list, to which he admitted, “I’m not any of those things for you,” and she responded, “Yes, that’s correct.
The letter played a significant role in her swift realization that David Woolley was indeed her match.
She enthusiastically shared that family means everything to this widowed father of eight, who also happens to run his own drywall company. Known for his integrity and authenticity, he is an exceptional communicator.
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