Sister Wives’ Robyn Confronts Kody Over Loss of Plural Family

Robyn Brown is struggling in her single marriage.

In simpler terms, the star from “Sister Wives” and her husband Kody Brown, who shifted from a plural marriage with women including Janelle Brown, Christine Brown, and Meri Brown to a monogamous relationship recently, discussed their changed circumstances in the 19th season of the TLC show openly.

And for Robyn, the adjustment has not been an easy one.

In a heartfelt confession, she acknowledges feeling both helpless and disheartened, as if her hopes and dreams are gradually fading away, following Kody’s statement about no prospect of reconciliation with his ex-wives during the January 5th episode of Sister Wives. “It feels like my aspirations are slipping through my fingers,” she expresses, “I’m struggling to let go.

For Kody, although Robyn expressed a wish that he could mend his relationship with Janelle in the past, he understands that history cannot be changed.

He explains to Robyn that for the past year or so, he has been contemplating his feelings with Janelle, and they are no longer in a romantic relationship because their desires and lifestyles have grown apart. In simpler terms, he says that he and Janelle don’t get along well anymore due to their differing preferences and interests.

To which Robyn admits in her confessional, “I just still think that they could work it out.”

Indeed, Robyn’s sorrow due to the absence of their collective family is evidently noticed by her spouse, leading him to inquire tenderly, “Shall I commit to monogamy, Robyn? Is there any objection from your end?

She questions Kody, “Yet, you seem to have fallen for both and express feelings for each, don’t you?” she inquires. “Your recent expressions about love, some positive, others negative, are quite unusual and confusing for me.

Despite acknowledging that he didn’t comprehend “deep divine love” during his previous marriages, the 55-year-old is now prepared to bring this discussion to a conclusion.

He asks, “What can I say to convince you to truly forget about it?” To which I respond, “Please forgive me and move on without harboring any resentment towards me.

Although the 46-year-old assures him that she will “stand by” him (which she emphasizes privately as well), she also shares in a solitary moment, “This isn’t what I envisioned for my life. I feel trapped.

Regardless, Kody firmly believes that his time with his former wives has come to an end. “Whatever transpired in these marriages, it’s over,” he expresses to Robyn. “Whatever occurred between me and them, I won’t attempt to mend it with Meri. I won’t strive to reconcile it with Janelle anymore. She’s done with me.

In a simpler, more conversational style, the phrase could be rephrased as: “When asked about his old days, the man replied, ‘I don’t miss anything,’ but then corrected himself and said, ‘What I truly miss is the affection of my kids.’

For me, I find it hard to move past Kody’s previous remarks that cast doubt on his genuine affection towards his ex-wives and their relationships with him.

She questions Kody, “Yet, it seems as though you’ve found yourself in love with both of them, doesn’t it? Your recent statements about loving and not loving them have been quite unusual and odd, don’t you think?

Despite earlier confessing to Robyn that he failed to grasp “deep divine love” in his past marriages, the 55-year-old is now prepared to bring this discussion to a conclusion.

He’s asking you to stop dwelling on something that happened between you two, as he wants to move forward without any lingering resentment or negative feelings. In other words, let it go and forgive him for whatever transpired.

In the confession booth, Kody ponders over Robyn becoming a part of their family. “It seems I offered her something unique that made her yearn for this unique situation,” he muses. “Now that things are crumbling, it’s causing her distress.

Read on for more of the most dramatic moments from this season of Sister Wives.

Kody Brown expressed his readiness to separate from his first wife, Meri Brown, not long after they exchanged vows in 1990. However, as he put it, “Meri, when we move to Flagstaff, this could be an opportunity for us to start anew.” This was what he suggested, according to Meri during the Sept. 15 premiere, hinting at their 2018 relocation. “He had led me to believe such things. This is a pattern that has repeated itself for many years,” she added.

She expressed her primary concern as being his poor communication, specifically his failure to express his true feelings, desires, and dislikes, along with the narrative he’s been presenting over the years.

Reflecting on the past, I must admit there might have been some confusion in my actions due to mixed signals. As I embarked on self-improvement projects, I found myself questioning, “What’s the point of this?” This realization led me to conclude that I wouldn’t pursue a courtship or dating relationship with her at this moment in time.

Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023.

She admitted, “They told me they were here for me, offering support, and it was long overdue.” Now, with newfound clarity, she believes he had been encouraging her to depart for years by claiming he didn’t love her. “If I could be pushed out and leave, then he wouldn’t be the villain because he didn’t walk away himself.

Several years after the family acquired a 14-acre plot of land intended for construction in Flagstaff, Ariz., Kody admitted during the season premiere that he was prepared to see the dream die out. Due to the necessity of paying off the entire $820,000 purchase price (which reports suggest they paid in 2023), he expressed this sentiment to his remaining wife Robyn Brown: “I’d almost prefer to abandon it or sell it and then begin anew somewhere else.

As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”

Previously, Janelle Brown expressed to TopMob News that their relationship had been gradually drifting apart. However, it was Kody’s shortcomings as a parent to some of their children that eventually prompted her decision to depart.

In simpler terms, the mom shared with Logan Brown, Madison Brown Brush, Hunter Brown, Garrison Brown, Gabriel Brown, and Savanah Brown, “The turning point for me was when his relationship with my kids fell apart. He didn’t seem like he’d go to great lengths to mend it, and that was what made me realize this was the reason I had been staying here.

In the November 3rd episode, I found myself contemplating the possibility of reconciliation, yet for my counterpart, Janelle, it was an absolute no-go zone.

She stated that it seems impossible for her to make peace with him and allow him to be in a relationship with her children. Instead, she has decided to prioritize her children above all else.

Kody provided a reason as to why he hadn’t made an effort to bridge the gaps he found himself in with several of his grown-up children, regarding the explanations he had given.

In the September 15th episode, he expressed feelings of not belonging within the family anymore. Despite being legally married to Robyn and collectively raising their five children – Dayton Brown, Aurora Brown, Breanna Brown, Solomon Brown, and Ariella Brown – he also mentioned having limited relationships with some other children in the family. He further stated, “It’s not just a nuclear family; it includes these other kids as well. But my interactions with them are sporadic. I find myself wondering, what’s my place here? It doesn’t seem like a family in the traditional sense.

As a lifestyle expert, I’d put it this way: After 14 years of being monogamous for the first time, Robyn candidly admitted in the season premiere that our relationship is currently facing its toughest challenges yet. It’s been a rocky road between us, and Kody is struggling to determine whether his issues stem from himself or one of the other wives. He feels a profound sense of rejection, which has led him to question if I might reject him too.

Due to this situation, she admitted, “I’m constantly alert and vigilant to prevent him from undermining our relationship.” The most challenging aspect, in her words: “There are no support systems available for the notion that I’m still wed to a man who is going through multiple divorces.

Meanwhile, Kody struggled with self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to face my reflection and tell myself, ‘Hi there, buddy. I adore you.’

In the October 27th episode, Robyn found it difficult to see her ex-sister wives thriving in their latest phase. As she put it, “They’re all advancing, while I seem to be the one who’s been left behind.

It was mentioned during the premiere that Janelle’s eldest child, Madison, is currently not in a relationship with her father Kody, as there have been no recent conversations between them. In fact, neither has reached out to the other, and Madison considers herself estranged from both Kody and his wife Robin.

Janelle pointed out that Kody’s relationship with Maddie’s children, specifically Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine, seems casual. She expressed that he would only be allowed significant contact if he could fully commit to it.

During the Sept. 22 broadcast, it was mentioned that Kody had essentially stopped communicating with Maddie and her spouse Caleb Brush when the family began to disintegrate.

In Janelle’s words, since Kody hasn’t been visiting or calling, Maddie has taken on a very protective role, almost like a Mama Bear. She’s expressed that as long as he can’t be reliable and consistent without causing drama, it might be best for everyone if they keep him out of the picture for now.

Additionally, Robyn mentioned that she’s been urging Kody to make amends, but she also expressed, “It seems fitting for the children to take similar steps as well.

Currently, Kody appears unwilling to mend the estrangement, complaining that whenever he communicates with his daughter, their conversations seem more like sources of gossip, which he found exhausting.

During their 32nd anniversary celebration, Meri confided in her friend Brandi that Kody had hinted he never truly loved her and felt pressured to marry her. In response, Meri asserted, “Kody, I know you did love me.

And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever propose?

She pondered, “Why would a bachelor opt to marry a spinster if he didn’t feel any genuine affection towards her? It seems harsh, almost inhumane, to select one from many and then declare, ‘I choose you, with the intention of trying to make myself fall in love for the next three decades?’

In his private thoughts, Kody stated: “Meri is making some small allegations. Well, let her say what she pleases. I won’t be responding to them.

Though, he would share that they never enjoyed a honeymoon period.

In the October 20th broadcast, I confidently asserted that my marriage was precariously balanced from its very beginning. After all, I had formed significantly stronger bonds with Janelle, Christine, and Robyn, which provided me with a clear perspective on our relationship’s state.

He acknowledged that he should have ended the relationship a quarter of a century back, but he hesitated due to fear. He explained, “Authority figures would never permit remarriage if you’re repeatedly leaving spouses.

Despite being unsure whether to develop Coyote Pass or just sell it, Janelle realized that the first step was settling the Arizona property debt. With Kody unwilling to discuss the matter, she admitted to ex-sister wife Christine Brown in the September 22 episode, “I think I’ll need a lawyer.” This, she believed, was the only way to possibly get any resolution from him.

In my own words, I understand that since there’s no legal marriage bond between me and Kody, I have no legitimate claim on his property through the law. To clarify, this isn’t like casually calling a lawyer to file for divorce; it’s more complex because we haven’t legally tied the knot.

Kody chose not to discuss the Arizona property with Janelle because he had lost trust in her.

He emphasized during a private moment on the September 22 episode that when the necessary time arrives, we will settle the property. He also mentioned that he won’t share details about his actions or plans because he’s grown tired of revealing information that gets twisted and spread by the rumor mill within our fractured family.

A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview.

She said, “He spills secrets as if he’s got holes in him, and I couldn’t help but feel that some things about his past relationships and multiple marriages shouldn’t have been shared with me.

In times past, when the family’s affection was growing instead of waning, they would combine their savings in a single shared fund.

In simpler terms, Janelle stated during the September 22nd episode that we would go to great lengths to aid one individual, followed by uniting our efforts to assist another person. This has been our tradition for quite some time, until approximately the last decade. Now, it seems like everything is focused on personal wealth and everyone wants their own share of it.

When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone contributed towards the purchase of her 5-bedroom property, priced at approximately $1.65 million. This property went on sale this past August.

Initially, Robyn mentioned that acquiring the asset would benefit the entire family. However, when Janelle proposed that everyone should be on the mortgage, her idea was turned down. Kody explained, “We need to safeguard, you understand, protect Robyn’s estate,” as Janelle remembered. Now that she’s leaving the family, Janelle expressed her desire to receive her share of the Coyote Pass earnings and also recover the money she invested in Robyn’s house.

But that could be a tough sell.

In a reflective tone, Robyn remarked, “After all this time collaborating, it’s perplexing.” And as Janelle mentioned she was due money from them, Robyn exclaimed, “It’s just… how do you quantify it? How do you sort that out? It’s such a puzzle.

Janelle expressed her frustration about the family’s ongoing struggle to settle Coyote Pass, stating that Kody frequently mentioned having numerous other financial obligations. However, she has observed him acquiring additional assets such as trailers and home decorations. “I notice all the artwork on their walls,” she commented regarding Robyn and Kody’s house. “I see all these items. And I get it, I too have spent money on things.” In response, Kody explained that a significant portion of his funds were used for purchasing vehicles—”Essentially I had a collection”—and insuring the children.

Although Janelle admitted she wasn’t clear about the way Kody and Robyn managed their finances, she would often find herself astonished by the beauty of her backyard. It was flawlessly completed, and there was always an abundance of items at her house. Her response was usually something along the lines of, ‘Wow, that’s impressive. I wonder how?’

Essentially, she expressed that he didn’t make her needs or desires a priority, which over time became a problem. To quote her exact words, “I think after some time, I came to realize it, and even my children, the grown ones, were growing increasingly upset about it. It was as if they were saying, ‘Mom, what’s going on?’

In Robyn’s opinion, following the breakdown of her first marriage, she became extremely cautious when managing her finances.

She admitted on the September 22 episode that she hadn’t always been good with finances. Growing up, she faced numerous challenges and it wasn’t until her divorce that she learned the importance of budgeting wisely. Regarding her fellow sister wives, she suggested they simply prioritized their money differently than she did.

Currently, as I shared in the September 22 episode, when Christine, who is mother to Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown, gathers with her family, there’s essentially no interaction taking place between Meri, Robyn, or Kody. I don’t anticipate this situation will change significantly in the near future.

Reflecting on the period when they lived in four homes on a single cul-de-sac during their Las Vegas stay, Kody reminisced, “That was the best phase of my life. Everything was running smoothly and it was wonderful to have Maddie and Caleb around. I truly cherished Caleb; he felt like family to me.

In Arizona, as disagreements arose concerning coronavirus safety measures, I found myself in a challenging situation. Over time, these disputes led to my personal relationships crumbling, much like a house of cards. When my marriages began to dissolve, I sadly watched the connections with my children deteriorate as well, leaving us all feeling bitter and estranged. It was as if the discord had spread its sour taste throughout every bond we shared.

But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021.

She remarked during the September 22 broadcast, “The children who felt frustrated were already in that state long before I departed.” She implied that her departure did not affect the dynamic between their father and his children, and that Kody has the ability to mend his relationships with them.

Though it’ll definitely take some work.

Kody shared, “I’m still deeply hurt by the way I’ve been treated, and it’s hard for me to move past it. I can’t accept being blamed for things I didn’t do, especially when my wife or ex-wife is saying so. I long for the day when our feelings of contempt will fade, allowing us to find forgiveness and love once more.

At the ages of 21 and 19, Kody admitted that he and Meri weren’t particularly well-acquainted when they got married, spiritually and legally. (Later on, they filed for divorce in 2014 so Kody could officially adopt Robyn’s three older children from her previous union.)

During our marriage, she seemed quite different from what I initially expected, and there were some issues or past experiences (baggage) that Meri carried which I wasn’t aware of. At first, I thought I could cope with these differences. However, as time went on, everything felt like a constant struggle, and I found it hard to live in a state where she was consistently upset with me.

Despite his desire to depart, he found himself trapped in the relationship. Kody explained, “If one wishes to remain loyal and devoted, they are not permitted to seek a divorce. It’s forbidden. Consequently, I couldn’t escape from that union. Simultaneously, I wasn’t necessarily eager to part ways with the relationship. I just wanted to understand if we could salvage and repair it instead.

Therefore, due to the conflicting signals, he admitted that Meri believed they could resolve their issues. However, whenever they were together, Kody explained, “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t amusing, she wasn’t compassionate, she wasn’t engaging. I’m trying to be intrigued by her, but I’m growing weary.

From my perspective, I understand why Meri might feel deserted, but let me clarify that it wasn’t a forced eviction on my part. Instead, it was Christine, Janelle, and Meri who made the decision for me to step away from our shared home.

Despite the fact that neither Janelle nor Christine considered it necessary to legally divorce Kody, Meri petitioned their church for a formal separation, referred to as a “release,” towards the end of 2022.

In the Sept. 22 episode, she clarified that all four of us women married Kody within our church. While we couldn’t obtain a legal marriage, it was more of a spiritual agreement or covenant. Given that none of us are planning further marital commitment with him, and I don’t wish to be bonded to him for eternity if he doesn’t desire me, I feel it’s appropriate to dissolve this spiritual connection. In essence, I’d like a clean break from this aspect of our relationship.

Kody seemed hesitant about the suggestion, mentioning that she wasn’t keen on recognizing the power or influence of the church elders.

As a devoted follower, I made it clear that the harm inflicted was so profound that reconciliation is no longer an option. Regarding accountability, I prefer to answer only to God, not this church and its complexities. Consequently, I’ll allow Meri her freedom to act as she wishes because if I harbor anger towards her, it would escalate into a conflict. frankly, I needed her to step away because the realization that our situation has been long settled seems to be taking forever for her.

2021 holiday gift exchange conversation among the 18 Brown offspring took an unpleasant turn as Christine explained. “Things turned sour, things unraveled,” she described. “Kody, Robyn, and their children formed one group who showed no interest in Janelle, me, or our kids. Following this text exchange, a division occurred within the group.

Robyn expressed that her three older children found the interaction “uncomfortable emotionally” and felt it necessary to distance themselves from the relationship temporarily. However, she emphasized that this wasn’t about cutting ties or ending contact completely, but rather expressing that things had become awkward.

For his part, Gabriel is hoping that they could find their way back to each other.

He admitted during the October 13th episode that what he desires most is rekindling relationships with Robyn’s children again. In middle school, Aurora was his preferred companion, and in high school, he always attempted to connect with Dayton. However, he expressed that he isn’t optimistic about developing a relationship with their father and Robyn.

In my own words, I have been made clear on numerous occasions, by various individuals, that I wasn’t welcomed as a part of the family when my mom married Kody in 2010. They never recognized me as their sister, and they didn’t perceive or treat me in that manner.

Her sister Breanna expressed that she believes the parents could’ve made more effort in fostering a stronger familial bond among all of us, but unfortunately, that never materialized.

But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.

Robyn’s children and Robyn are always welcome to any event,” she emphasized. “To put it simply, they can feel free to drop by our home whenever they please.

Simultaneously, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown was particularly close to Robyn’s children. In fact, Mykelti Brown Padron resided with them for a while. She stated, “There were challenging periods, and my kids felt exasperated at times, but they regarded Robyn’s children as their siblings without any lessening of their bond.

Speaking as someone who embraces the concept, I’d express it this way: “In a well-balanced plural marriage, I find myself immersed in an extraordinary family system where I belong and contribute. I share a deep bond with my spouse, yet I retain my personal freedom – the best of both worlds. To me, this unique arrangement offers a remarkable blend of companionship and independence.

Kody, however, wouldn’t say “I do” to polygamy again.

He expressed his viewpoint during the December 1st broadcast: “Polygamy stifles emotional intimacy.” He explained further, stating that it tends to make everyone guarded. What he desires is an emotionally open, intimate relationship with a woman, but such connections are challenging to establish in polygamous relationships.

According to Janelle, Kody found it harder to share his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.

During the September 29th episode, it was noted that when Kody relocated to Flagstaff, he found it more convenient to stay away. Occasionally, I had to remind him to visit me at home. He’d often make excuses about being tired, but I’d respond by saying, “You can rest just as effectively here as you can at Robyn’s.” This suggests that Kody was trying to avoid coming over due to fatigue.

Janelle pointed out that her kids felt distinct from Robyn, explaining, “My children would be reprimanded if they dared to open Robyn’s refrigerator.” Meanwhile, Christine’s children perceived the separation because, as they observed, “Robyn and their father were a couple, yet he wasn’t present in our household.

And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide.

She mentioned that Meri welcomed both me and my children warmly, but the rest of the family found it difficult to accept us, as she explained in the September 29 episode. Our main desire was to become a part of their family.

However, Gabriel might contend that he and his brothers or sisters made significant efforts to include them within their group.

In the October 13th episode, he expressed his belief that Robyn might have a tendency to see herself as a victim. To put it plainly, this is his perspective. He doesn’t necessarily assign blame to her for this. Instead, he suggests that people often develop unique strategies to help them cope and survive.

Yet, he went on to say, “If it’s truly in her mind that we were unfairly treating her or her children while she was frequently favored by Dad and we were consistently working to build a rapport with her kids, if she genuinely thinks that, then I can never establish a relationship with Robyn again.

During a September 29th broadcast, Kody revealed that the frequent moves between four households impacted his 18 children, particularly when his and Robyn’s youngest daughter Ariella, born in January 2016, became distressed at the thought of him leaving.

Kody put it this way: “I told her, ‘I have another wife waiting for me, another family needing me,’ he said. And she clung to me, crying, ‘Don’t abandon me, Daddy.’ It’s tough, I can tell you that.

Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle.

Initially, she made it clear to her children that their father wouldn’t be a constant presence due to his frequent absences. It always seemed to her that Kody and Robyn mishandled the situation with their kids. He couldn’t stay away for more than three or four days as Ari would become extremely upset. In her opinion, such behavior was questionable parenting. Throughout family history, the other children had also been separated from their father at times, yet they have turned out to be well-balanced adults.

Among a small group of children with the last name Brown, Mykelti was one who maintained relationships with both Robyn, Kody, and their other two wives, Christine and Janelle. In the midst of Kody’s divorces, Mykelti stepped up as a mediator to help keep peace among them all.

From the instant Robyn joined the Brown clan, Mykelti warmly welcomed her to such an extent that she asked her to be present during the delivery of her twins in November 2022 – named Archer and Ace.

In the September 29th episode, Mykelti expressed that when Robyn became part of our family, I was still finding myself, and she made me feel unique and understood. When I needed someone, Robyn was there, offering a listening ear and affectionate care.

Christine was overjoyed beyond words when Robyn joined their family and it was clear that she and Mykelti shared a wonderful bond. As Christine expressed on the Oct. 6 episode, “I had always dreamt of having a large family, and I was hoping my children would form strong bonds with other mothers. And seeing this relationship between Robyn and Mykelti is everything I hoped for.

Kody believes it’s not just his wives who have chosen to exclude him from their lives; instead, he thinks they are intentionally doing so as a form of retribution for a crime he didn’t commit. According to him, the estrangement he feels from some of his older children is due to this situation, and he maintains that he is only guilty of not having deeply fallen in love with their mothers.

What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame.

He stated that the strain in his relationship with his kids is largely due to negative remarks about him. He explained that a storm of disillusionment from the family splitting up has created an environment where it seems as though he is being blamed for any mistakes.

In my role as a lifestyle expert, I’d rephrase it like this: Although I acknowledge some responsibility, I find the labeling highly disrespectful. Notably, I found it challenging to foster relationships with Hunter, Maddie, and Gabriel. One of my children, in response to a text message, called me worthless and made it clear they had no intention of speaking to me again.

In a different occurrence, he expressed to the cameras, “One of my children recently said, ‘You are really unpleasant. I’ll no longer speak with you. You have manipulated me and indoctrinated me.’

He’s reluctant to handle the issue at hand any longer, as he stated, “I won’t keep reaching out indefinitely.” He believes that his elders should take more responsibility for resolving matters. “I’m ready to put in the work,” he added, “but someone else needs to step up and reciprocate the effort as well.

For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home.

In her conversation on October 6th, she shared that her parents divorced when she was young. At that time, her father lived with another woman in a different city, while her mother lived alone. She vividly recalled asking him about the situation, only to be met with flimsy explanations for his absence during her childhood years. It wasn’t great, she added.

In my expert opinion, I don’t shy away from acknowledging the challenge of not letting someone’s hurt feelings deter me from exerting effort. Putting it in simpler terms, when we had our intense conversation last year, she expressed, “I can’t help but feel like my respect for you might be dwindling a bit.

Even though Kody admitted there was room for improvement in repairing his relationships with his children, he stressed that healing his own heart comes first.

He expressed his frustration by stating, “Some of my children seem to be ganging up on me. I’m so enraged over the situation that when I interact with them, I fear they might provoke me with criticisms. At this moment, I’m too emotional and could potentially worsen things instead.

Despite a large portion of the family being present at the wedding of Janelle and Kody’s eldest son, Logan, to Michelle Petty in October 2022, it seemed that there wasn’t much affection present among them.

In the October 6th episode, Kody voiced his displeasure to Robyn, stating that he had noticed Madison swiftly leaving him with her children, implying a sense of avoidance. He added that it had come as a surprise to him because Madison hadn’t informed him about her third pregnancy, which resulted in the birth of their daughter Josephine in February 2023. In simpler terms, Kody was upset because Madison didn’t tell him she was expecting a baby.

Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.

Janelle clarified that Maddie has no interaction with Kody, which explains why she avoided him at the wedding. She is extremely vigilant about her children’s well-being, and since Kody hasn’t been around since Evie was born (who is now three-and-a-half), Maddie didn’t want him to suddenly appear and claim to be their grandfather, surprising them with an unexpected introduction like, “I’m your grandpa,” which could have left them confused.

Kody expressed that it’s not feasible for grandparents to be constantly present in their grandchildren’s lives, using Maddie’s situation in North Carolina as an example. He added that this becomes particularly challenging when you relocate your children to another coast entirely, as he has his own job and life in Flagstaff.

As a devoted admirer, I can’t help but notice the stark contrast in perspectives between Kody and his grown-up offspring regarding their current estrangement. One contentious issue that consistently arises is his insistence on receiving an apology, or what I would call a genuine acknowledgment of wrongdoings.

Following the end of the COVID-19 concerns, we resumed our usual lives, but there remained a rift within our family. Kody expressed that his sons needed to apologize, particularly to Robyn, for something that had happened between them. As it developed further, he simply wanted them to have a conversation with him. This is what Janelle mentioned in the October 13 episode.

In summary, Kody was upset because he felt his children hadn’t shown loyalty to him, implying that the person who gives the most in this family (presumably referring to himself) had been disrespected or treated unfairly. Janelle’s response was, essentially, “Whatever, Kody. I agree.

Gabriel expressed a similar perspective when he recounted his chat with his father. “He persistently framed it as if I needed to apologize,” he told Janelle. “Finally, I said something like, ‘Hey, unless you’re genuinely willing to repair our relationship and make amends, we won’t talk anymore.’ A few days later, he texted me back. He wrote, ‘Hey, I’ve been thinking about what you’ve been saying. I forgive you, Please forgive me.’ I responded, ‘Forgive me for what?’

Kody, one of six children he shares with Janelle, mostly interacts with their youngest child, Savanah. While it’s not often, every couple of months they speak on the phone and occasionally meet up. The other five children don’t seem to have much of a relationship with him. (Janelle explained this in the Oct. 13 episode)

Regarding Savannah, who completed high school in 2023, it seems her four elder brothers have stepped into a more paternal role for her. Already, Savannah has admitted to Janelle that she might ask her siblings to accompany her when she walks down the aisle someday.

Janelle mentioned that she had spoken with Savanah about the topic, and Savanah said something like, ‘You know, I’ve come to understand that this is just his nature.’ She went on to explain, ‘He’ll be the type of father who joins in the fun and then departs. I can accept him as he is. It’s alright.’

Janelle, however, is less forgiving.

She expressed her exasperation with Kody, saying, “I can’t help but feel frustrated because I’ve witnessed this pattern before. There are multiple women I’ve collaborated with in the past whose ex-husbands vanished after divorce, leaving the children behind.

In the early stages of our family disagreement, I found myself deeply affected when my father, Kody, stopped inviting me on his business trips. Previously, he had been an enthusiastic and involved father, always making time for me. However, over the last few years, I’ve noticed a shift in our relationship dynamics.

Despite feeling puzzled about what he might have done to upset his father, Gabriel asserted during the October 13 episode, “If Dad refuses to change and won’t accept responsibility, then I simply won’t visit him anymore. And I’m completely at peace with that decision.

According to Janelle, he feels content that his father isn’t part of his life, and this is a sentiment I wish for all my children as well; I believe they are all growing towards understanding it.

For his part, Kody also seems resigned to the situation.

He expressed his sincere apologies for how Gabriel feels, saying something along the lines of: “I’ve tried reaching out to him several times, but each time he has turned me down. However, I want to make it clear that my attempts to connect were not due to a lack of effort on my part.

In late 2022, Meri was the one who parted ways from Kody, and this separation was formalized, according to their religious beliefs, when she received what is known in their faith as a “release,” citing abandonment as the reason.

She observed during the October 13 broadcast that he dislikes that particular word because it doesn’t resonate with him that he left her. Instead, she feels he let her down.

To put it another way, she believes he paid little attention to her until she decided to depart, allowing him to claim, “I have no involvement in this.

And Kody didn’t totally deny that he had a bit of a strategy.

He clarified in a private moment that he had moved on a while back. However, he admitted his fear about how she might react if he ended things. After all, Meri was never faithful to him throughout their relationship, which was the source of his apprehension. Essentially, it’s about maintaining a certain reputation because getting divorced can tarnish one’s image.

Instead, alleged Meri, it was hers that was being tarnished.

She expressed that it’s truly disheartening how Kody is discussing our marriage in such a manner. It seems as though his perspective on our relationship has shifted, yet the allegations he’s making about me to others, which people appear to be accepting, aren’t accurate.

Before Christina parted ways with Kody, it became clear to her that they were not well-suited for each other based on a suggested exercise by their marriage counselor from Las Vegas.

Christine noted that she had compiled a list detailing her desired traits in a partner, including a good communicator, someone who would be actively involved in her life and the lives of her children, and someone whom she found attractive. However, she admitted on the October 20 episode that Kody did not possess any of these qualities. When she shared the list with him, he acknowledged, “I’m not any of those things for you.” Christine responded, “No, you’re not.

The letter played a significant role in helping her realize swiftly that David Woolley was indeed her match.

She enthusiastically shared that family holds the utmost significance for this widower father of eight, adding that he’s the proud owner of a successful drywall business. Known for his sincerity and authenticity, he’s also an exceptional communicator.

2025-01-06 13:21

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