Jessica Alba revealed that a major factor contributing to the longevity of her marriage with Cash Warren is their shared dedication to being devoted partners.
Speaking from personal experience as a lifestyle guide, I recall expressing on the “Works for Us” podcast with Rachel Zoe and Rodger Berman in 2021, “It’s when you realize you have the power to ‘choose’ that things start to shift. You find yourself thinking, ‘I’m not so sure, maybe I could step away.’ That moment is when things can get peculiar.
It’s uncertain when the relationship between Alba and Warren started going awry, but TMZ announced on January 8 that they have separated after 16 years of marriage. Despite rumors about their potential divorce for many years, including more recent ones, the breakup news surfaced just a few days after they were seen together with their daughters Honor (age 16), Haven (age 13), and son Hayes (age 7) at Universal Studios.
Of course, their children hold the top spot in their priorities, making Alba and Warren equally dedicated parents rather than lovers. However, it’s their family that has significantly shaped the actress’s life’s direction, leaving us to wonder about the path her life might have followed without this family setup.
The star of L.A.’s Finest expressed this during a March 2020 episode of The Sakara Life podcast: “I believe there are two categories of individuals drawn to Hollywood, particularly those in the limelight. There are those who are all about ‘Look at me, I’m extraordinary!’ and then there are those like myself, whose motivation was simply to become someone else.
Additionally, the financial aspect was quite beneficial. As Alba mentioned, having that independence gave her a sense of freedom, allowing her to break free from the expectations of her family regarding her identity and life choices.
Born and raised in California, she found the limited communication and traditional religious environment at home not to her liking. At the tender age of 11, she began auditioning for roles, and landed her first movie appearance in the 1994 comedy “Camp Nowhere” when she was just 13 years old.
She quickly rose to fame, starring in ‘Dark Angel’ at the age of 19, earning the top spot on Maxim’s Hot 100 list in 2001, and taking on tough roles in ‘Fantastic Four’ and ‘Sin City’, which were released in 2005.
Everything served its purpose, making the task far more enjoyable for her once she realized she was under no obligation to perform if she didn’t wish to.
Each step led to a goal, and the job became much more pleasurable when she understood she wasn’t compelled to act if she preferred not to.
In her conversation with Danielle Dubois at The Sakara Life, she shared that she struggled to breathe and gain financial independence was crucial. This freedom enabled her to delve within herself and focus on personal growth. Without the independence, she didn’t have the room to envision larger aspirations. For her, reaching her goal marked the beginning of her inner work journey.
The Honest work, if you will.
After pushing acting lower on her list of priorities for a while and having three children, she became both the founder and chairperson of The Honest Company, a company she established in 2011 that specialized in clean products. By 2022, this company was valued at $550 million.
After dedicating her entire life to acting since childhood, Warren stated on the show “Works for Us” in 2021 that she poured all her emotions into “Honest,” and showered it with affection. This, she mentioned, was reciprocated, as giving love back was something Honest did well, allowing her to approach Hollywood as a business transaction.
Later on, Warren pointed out that the situation had “nearly reversed”. Essentially, while Honest maintained her passion for acting, her career had taken on a more business-like aspect. However, after returning to acting, she found that joy and love for it once again.
Warren witnessed Alba’s transformation, starting as a cover model for Maxim and an action star known for her kick-butt roles, evolving into a mother, becoming increasingly discontented as an actor, and eventually transforming into a resilient visionary who tirelessly pursued her dream of creating a company that offered chemical-free products.
They initially connected when Alba was filming Fantastic Four in Vancouver, and Warren was an assistant to director Tim Story. One of Warren’s duties involved taking several photos of the actress as she tried on contact lenses to create Sue Storm’s blue eyes – and he seized the opportunity to make a move.
He confessed that he visited her trailer, snapped photos, engaged flirtatiously, initiated conversations, and aimed to build friendship with her. For nearly a month, they frequently socialized within a larger group of actors and team members. However, one evening, Warren unexpectedly proposed a private dinner date for the two of them.
In simpler terms, Alba told Zoe and Berman that “He led me to believe we were all hanging out together again, but instead, it turned out to be a one-on-one date. I asked where everyone else was, and he said it would just be us.
So one of her first thoughts was, “I don’t know, this is where it could get weird.”
And it did get weird, but not in the way she worried it might.
In my role as a lifestyle guide, allow me to share an intriguing encounter I recently experienced. At Tojo’s Restaurant, a renowned Japanese dining establishment, I arranged for a private room. Here, I found myself engrossed in conversation with someone for over three hours, quite remarkable given the delectable dishes constantly arriving from the kitchen. Yet, we scarcely touched the food, our focus solely on our captivating dialogue.
In essence, Alba shared that despite our relaxed interactions, there was a sudden flutter of nerves for both of us, making it difficult to eat anything. Instead, we opted for sake and later strolled leisurely for an hour back to her hotel.
And that is when Warren lost his cool.
Warren reminisced, “For my whole life, I hadn’t experienced any allergies, but on that particular night, something strange happened – as soon as we started getting close, I suddenly developed intense allergies…it was like a faucet of snot turned on.
Speaking from my expertise on lifestyle nuances, I’d rephrase it like this: “Alba interjected with concern, ‘It seems he’s tearful…’ Continuing the conversation, he confessed, ‘I unintentionally sneezed into her mouth.'” (Alba verified this incident.)
As I looked back, I recalled having to visit the restroom. In there, I found myself speaking aloud, expressing my bewilderment: “What on earth is going on here? Why am I acting this way? It’s time to regroup!
Alba shared that her allergies persisted for about a month, but they continued to spend time together and he would occasionally stay overnight. They didn’t advance beyond the “second base” stage for quite some time. Additionally, she mentioned that he consumed her dog’s breath mints.
After waking up for the first time without a toothbrush, Warren noticed what appeared to be breath mints wrapped in foil. He put one into his mouth, only to discover it tasted dreadful, like vomit. “I had to leave immediately,” he explained, “I said I’d return later, but for over a month and a half, it was nothing but cringeworthy moments.
Alba ultimately discovered from her friends, family, and even Michael Warren, who played in “Hillstreet Blues” and was described as the smoothest person around by her, that her new partner had experienced an unusually fortunate streak when it came to women’s affection.
When she encountered him, Alba reminisced, “This man seemed completely lacking in style or charm, and I’d only previously known a guy without style or charisma, and for the first time, he appeared to have neither.
But she liked that about him.
Alba shared that she wasn’t skilled in dating, confessing her lack of knowledge and a certain awkwardness or insecurity. However, with Cash, it was different; on their first meeting, she felt an uncanny sense of familiarity, as if they had known each other forever. It felt comfortable, almost like being among family.
For four years, they had been a couple until Alba decided to end their relationship (even though Warren recalls things happening differently).
Warren shared on the podcast “Whine Down with Jana Kramer” in 2023 that he was self-assured and content, following his own route. He confessed to behaving poorly during their separation. Later, he found himself frequently feeling envious.
Over a thrilling six-week period, he resided with an NBA player in Malibu and became involved with various things, as Alba confided to Zoe and Berman, using a humorous term to imply that his former partner was overly occupied in romantic pursuits during their separation.
“I was trying to trade while my stock was high,” Warren quipped.
Following a heartfelt journey with her mother Cathy, Alba then expressed that she reached out to Warren to share her longing for him and they arranged a dinner date. Despite needing to rush off immediately for work in Toronto, she promised him she’d jet back to L.A. whenever her schedule permitted to see him again.
The problem: At that moment, he was on a boys’ trip to Las Vegas. However, Alba nonchalantly hopped on a plane and headed to Vegas instead.
“And that’s where Honor was conceived,” Warren shared proudly.
Prior to the arrival of their first-born daughter, Honor Marie Warren, on June 7, 2008, they had a hastily arranged wedding ceremony on May 19, primarily for legal reasons: Jessica Alba shared that it was important for her and her child to share the same last name.
Originally, I had envisioned a larger-scale celebration, with more guests than just the security guard who acknowledged our union, for a later time. However, life had other plans – work demanded my attention, and then came the arrival of my precious daughter Haven Garner Warren on August 13, 2011. Following her birth, I also established my company the very next year.
“And now it’s been so long, Cash is like, ‘Why would we jinx what we have?'” Alba said.
2017 saw the birth of Son Hayes Alba Warren on New Year’s Eve. His mother affectionately referred to him as a “cherub,” while acknowledging that he may have been due for more than just the solitary 10-minute timeout he had experienced so far, given his status as the youngest in the family, who seemed to indulge him with leniency.
As a lifestyle expert, I’d rephrase it like this: During the pandemic lockdown, I found myself blessed with uninterrupted time with my kids, something that was harder to come by when Honor and Haven were younger. Back then, work often kept me away from them. Yet, even then, I never hesitated to bring my babies along to work, and I was always proud of The Honest Company’s supportive policies for new parents, including a dedicated pumping space for moms on site.
During quarantine, Alba shared that she’s found it challenging, and for the first time with her new baby, she felt like she had missed certain stages of their life compared to her previous experiences. Although she was always home at the end of the day for her girls, she admitted that she often felt as if she had overlooked some small, precious moments – a sensation she hadn’t encountered while being there for every meal and witnessing their growth, language development, and overall journey, including both the positive and challenging aspects.
While Cash was enjoying himself greatly, Alba joked about her husband’s quarantine period, which combined round-the-clock parenting duties with a new fitness routine (earning his first six-pack) and golf practice. “Lots of self-care going on here,” she playfully commented.
Warren expressed that one reason they’ve managed to stay together for so long is because they don’t spend all their time together. Their frequent travels allow them to have space, which makes the absence of each other feel more meaningful. However, during quarantine, they’re constantly together and every little thing he does seems to annoy her even more than usual due to their increased proximity.
Alba happily consented, however, they mentioned they had a prearranged date night escape for the same evening. As a result, everything turned out fine.
Inquired as to what drove them, Warren responded, “I believe our friendship is the key! It might sound cheesy, but it’s accurate. Just the fact that we’re friends, we can discuss anything, we can sit down and have a chat, we can make each other laugh or annoy each other – it’s all about that close-knit friendship, that trust.
Alba explained, “In essence, we’re deeply involved. We’ve made our commitment clear. It’s only when you start questioning your involvement, when you feel you might have the option to step back, that things become uncertain or strange.
And, Warren noted, they were helping each other grow.
When one person stops advancing while another is actively seeking progress, it can be quite difficult,” he explained. “Or if you’re growing apart, it becomes a challenge. So, it’s about figuring out how to assist each other as we move forward independently, not necessarily in the same direction or doing the same things. It’s more about supporting one another in our individual growth journeys.
During her initial stint as a prominent Hollywood actress, Alba found herself in a relationship with Warren. Yet, despite the glamour and fame, she began feeling disenchanted with it all. From the relentless emphasis on her appearance (she rigorously exercised and strictly dieted, lamenting that “enduring physical distress is just part of the job,” as she expressed on The Sakara Life) to the absurd advice suggesting her career might be over at 27 following motherhood.
She expressed on the show Works for Us, “You’re always under the microscope, people keep telling you that you’re not good enough…the success you see me enjoying, you don’t realize the countless times I was turned down.” As an actress, she confessed to being extremely insecure and added, “It all gets so shallow. Regardless of how much talent or professionalism you offer, because at the end of the day, it’s not about glamorous locations.
The essence is about having the capacity to work tirelessly for 18 hours straight, memorizing lines flawlessly, hitting your mark with precision, always being alert and consistent, never showing fatigue, and being able to perform at your best no matter the circumstances – all while maintaining flexibility, like Gumby. However, despite pouring your heart and soul into your work each day, they don’t value it in the end.
When Honor was conceived by Alba, she experienced an allergic reaction to a cleaning product. This led her to investigate the ingredients in common baby products. It suddenly occurred to her that while it was feasible for her family to buy premium clean goods, such a lifestyle shouldn’t be burdensome due to time constraints or cost.
She replied, “Indeed, it felt something like expressing good wishes for success with that particular endeavor,” she reminisced, reflecting on her three-year journey of trying to bring her concept into existence. This journey involved locating investors who were willing to bet on an idea that might seem straightforward now but was far from evident then.
In an interview on The Sakara Life, Alba expressed that the idea she proposed was overwhelmingly large for many people. Essentially, her response was something like, “You mean, you’re suggesting I make… what exactly?
Initially, many individuals met with her primarily for a photo opportunity, as Alba confessed. However, upon discovering that the door was somewhat ajar for her, she teamed up with professionals from the branding industry to demonstrate during these meetings that she was serious about her endeavors.
She stated, “It quickly bypassed much of the unnecessary talk and helped me advance significantly. Instead of focusing on my inexperience as a woman in this field, I could discuss the merits of the financial model, emphasizing that it presents an excellent investment opportunity.
Apart from being influenced by Warren, who had already sold two businesses before she began Honest, it’s worth noting that he was simultaneously working on Pair of Thieves, a brand specializing in men’s underwear, socks, and loungewear. Remarkably, the timing for the introduction of loungewear coincided with the surge of stay-at-home fashion trends, as he mentioned during an interview on Rachael Ray in 2021. To this day, the underwear segment remains thriving.
“He has such a fearlessness,” Alba gushed to Zoe and Berman of her husband’s business acumen.
As a lifestyle expert, I’d put it this way: Warren had an uncanny knack for taking complex concepts and breaking them down into easily digestible ideas, making it effortless for people to embrace his vision. In Alba’s words, “By that point, I was thinking, ‘If he can pull this off, then surely I can too…'”.
And much like that fool, Alba was ready to work hard.
She expressed, “It’s hard to put into words just how many individuals who have worked at Honest have attempted to launch their own ventures, only to find out how deceptively difficult it seems. They often underestimate the determination…it’s more like there’s no pause button, you’re constantly on duty. It’s incredibly demanding, the effort that goes into it, and I wonder if the end result justifies the time and effort invested?
In a similar vein, Alba expressed that starting a company merely for the purpose of gaining recognition might not be advisable. Instead, she suggested, if you feel compelled to start a company due to an intense need for its existence – as opposed to just wanting it for personal acclaim – then that’s a different story altogether.
After she became a mother, she discovered a strong desire within herself to develop improved product choices for families everywhere.
Indeed, I was informed that my work would be completed by the age of 27, to which I responded with an indifferent shrug. However, instead of idling away, I decided to establish a business and declared, “I’ve got plenty on my plate already!
Despite having a busy work schedule and caring for three kids at home, she found it challenging to set aside time for dates and this aspect had an impact on her marriage.
In an episode of Katherine Schwarzenegger’s Instagram series, “Before, During & After Baby,” in July 2021, Alba admitted, “We don’t always maintain consistency.” However, she emphasized the importance of addressing discontent promptly rather than allowing it to build up, potentially leading to hostility and explosive arguments. They’ve experienced such situations in the past.
She added, “Since we share a bond of friendship and security, ‘You’ll always be here,’ there are times when we may not treat those individuals as well as we should. We might overlook their feelings in a way that we wouldn’t with others’. This is an area I believe requires ongoing improvement.
A few months past, Alba shared with everyone that herself and Warren had been extra vigilant about keeping open lines of communication to avoid any irreversible situations. In essence, she expressed that they simply needed to keep a regular check on one another.
Last May on their wedding anniversary, Alba appeared fully devoted, using the phrase “the life journey” with Warren, as she expressed to Schwarzenegger.
16 years of marriage, 20 years together, and a lifetime ahead… Happy Anniversary @cash_warren! I’m so proud of the journey we’ve shared. No guidebook could ever prepare you for the depth of commitment it takes to share your life with someone and build a family. We’ve weathered challenges together, always finding our way back to each other, and choosing one another every step of the way. Here’s to us, my love.
They did indeed make it far, farther than most. They just couldn’t go any further.
Take a look back at Alba and Warren’s family in pictures:
Jessica Alba recently posted a lovely family photo with her husband, Cash Warren, and their three children – daughters Honor and Haven, as well as son Hayes – one day after celebrating a holiday together.
The couple appears with daughters at a screening of Jessica’s film Trigger Warning in June 2024.
The actress posted on Instagram, “On Fashion Friday, I enjoyed seeing Honor don my Prada dress from the 2007 London premiere of ‘Valentine’s Day’, and Havie wore my Dolce & Gabbana number from Comicon for ‘Good Luck Chuck’ in 2010. It’s always fun to see my friends rock some of my vintage styles and make them their own #FashionFriday #throwbackthursday.
Jessica and Cash took their kids on a tropical vacation during Spring Break 2024.
The Sin City actress was joined by her mom Cathy Alba and her three kids on Mother’s Day 2024.
As a lifestyle connoisseur, let me share an exhilarating experience I had – catching Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour in Los Angeles, August 2023. The place was electrified, and we, the audience, sparkled like diamonds under the spotlight.
Jessica held Hayes’ hand during his first day of kindergarten in September 2023.
Cash received sweet smooches from his daughter in this July 2016 snapshot.
“Easter with my mains,” Jessica captioned this family snapshot in April 2024. “#HappyEaster.”
I, a lifestyle enthusiast, had an absolutely thrilling experience last Halloween (2021), where my family and I donned lion costumes to celebrate the occasion. This was our youngest one, Hayes’, inaugural trick-or-treating adventure, and it was truly unforgettable!
The family had a movie night for Honor’s 14th birthday in June 2022.
Cash and his daughters visited Hayes in the hospital after he was born on New Year’s Eve 2017.
In November 2022, Jessica spent an evening out with her daughters, but surprisingly enough, even her son got involved in the photographic festivities.
2024 saw even more joy at the most delightful destination as the family celebrated little Hayes’ 6th birthday in January that year.
Jessica posted a photo on Halloween 2022, showing off her and Cash’s matching costumes along with the monster truck, all set for trick-or-treating, which she had ready with her mechanics.
Honor celebrated her middle school graduation with her entire family in June 2022.
Jessica celebrated International Women’s Day 2022 with Pride and Commitment, expressing on Instagram that as a mother of two daughters, she is perpetually striving to improve the world for not just her children, but everyone worldwide, and for future generations of girls.
The family adopted dogs Dolly and Lucy—short for Lucille and Dolores—in 2022.
Jessica and Warren vamped it up with Honor and Haven in October 2017.
Haven rang in her 5th birthday in 2016 with a tropical themed party.
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