Vanessa Feltz “found it very upsetting” writing new memoir delving into her life and TV career

As a seasoned connoisseur of the silver screen and airwaves, I must say that Vanessa Feltz‘s autobiography, “Vanessa Bares All,” is a riveting read that leaves no stone unturned in her riotous journey through life. The book is a rollercoaster ride of emotions, filled with humor, heartache, and a dose of the unexpected – much like Feltz herself.

This article first appeared in TopMob magazine.

For three decades, Vanessa Feltz has been a consistent presence on both British television and radio without any significant interruptions. Her latest autobiography, “Vanessa Bares All,” is no exception – it’s packed with raw, humorous, and courageous tales. She doesn’t seem to agree that writing it might have been therapeutic for her.

In a heartfelt tone, I can’t help but express my feelings about this film: It delves deep into memories I’d rather keep buried. Frankly, it was a profoundly unsettling experience for me.

The book is not a typical “misery memoir,” but instead brims with humor and happiness as Feltz lightheartedly navigates through her sorrows. However, describing her wedding day in 1983 to Michael Kurer (known in the book simply as the Good Doctor) posed a challenge, as he left her after 16 years.

She recalls, in a somewhat familiar yet heartfelt manner, that particular day was among the most joyful of her life. She wished to capture its essence as she felt it then – a moment bursting with optimism and thrill – despite the bittersweet sensation of reliving the happiness and pain simultaneously.

Following her marriage and a long-term relationship with her fitness coach, lasting six years, she encountered Ben Ofoedu (a musician she often refers to as “One-Hit Wanderer”, due to his one-time number two chart success). Feltz decided to end their 16-year bond when he was unfaithful in the year 2022.

She spoke openly about the incident when Rolf Harris allegedly put his hand inside her underwear during a live interview on Channel 4’s Big Breakfast, as she was lying in bed. Later, she crossed paths with Russell Brand, who she initially met on Big Brother’s Big Mouth in 2004. She marveled at his talents, stating that he was incredibly skilled, a rarity for most people. They eventually developed a strong friendship, which continued until Brand infamously declared on stage that he wanted to sleep with both of her daughters.

Apart from the villains, there are numerous heroes featured in the book. Feltz expresses heartfelt gratitude towards her showbiz companions who have come to her aid during difficult times. Among these remarkable individuals are Myleene Klass, who would gladly clean windows upon request; Jonathan Ross, known for his exceptional kindness; and Phillip Schofield, who has consistently offered support throughout his challenging periods.

Initially, she worked as a magazine journalist (which she described as a tedious task, focusing on hair conditioners and sanitary napkins). However, in 1992, she unexpectedly ventured into television when she appeared as a guest on ITV’s This Morning, hosted by Richard Madeley and Judy Finnigan, to discuss an article she had written following the Sarah Ferguson toe-sucking scandal.

Afterward, she would frequently be questioned as to why she continued doing something unpaid for so long, despite her family and spouse expressing confusion. My response was always that I enjoyed it immensely, finding it incredibly enjoyable. To my knowledge, this was a unique instance in my life where I didn’t immediately agree with their concerns and decide not to proceed.

It was a shrewd decision: Feltz ended up working for all three of Britain’s big broadcasters. First ITV wanted to make her “the British Oprah” in Vanessa. Meanwhile, she took up interviewing celebrities for Channel 4 on Big Breakfast. Then the BBC poached her for their own ill-fated version of her talk show, which they cancelled after a scandal over fake guests. Somewhere in there, she also joined BBC Radio and stayed for 20 years, 12 of those presenting Radio 2’s early-morning show before rushing to Radio London to do their breakfast slot straight after.

Inquiring Feltz about her favorite employer throughout her career triggers a lengthy response. “To be honest, none stands out as particularly great to work for, but the way they handle talent is disappointing. It’s not about lavish perks like cars or prostitutes or drugs, it’s about having a basic understanding and respect for their employees’ skills.

“It would be nice to have someone who occasionally expresses their appreciation for your work, such as saying ‘That show was fantastic!’ or even offering constructive feedback like ‘We think it’s really good, but could you add more of this and that?’ At least then you’d feel reassured that someone appreciates your efforts and is paying attention to what you do.

To set the record straight, Feltz asserts confidently that Graham Norton stands out as the premier television interviewer due to his intelligence, speed, and sensitivity. His guests never feel manipulated by him.

62 years old now, Feltz currently hosts a Saturday program on LBC and is promoting her latest book. Previously at Radio 2, she expressed a desire for more time with her family, which includes daughters Allegra and Saskia, as well as four grandchildren. She also mentions a hope for a new romantic partner, “but I’m not exactly in a hurry about it”.

Despite being criticized for her behavior towards relationship experts on Celebs Go Dating last year, she’s eager to participate in another reality TV show. But which one? She mentioned that Davina McCall hosts “My Mum, Your Dad,” and suggested a similar show for grandparents. So, she playfully asked to be signed up for it, promising to behave well.

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2024-11-05 03:37

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