“When I was younger, all I wanted to do was impress my dad”

“When I was younger, all I wanted to do was impress my dad”

JAKE

As a follower of Jake and Geoff Wightman’s story, I am deeply moved by their dedication and passion for athletics that has been passed down through generations. Growing up with a twin brother who was my biggest rival in every team sport at primary school, I can relate to Jake’s determination not to lose to him. The fact that their parents were both athletes and coaches added an extra layer of pressure and inspiration to their lives.


At primary school, Sam, my identical brother, and I competed in every team sport. The thought of him surpassing me in these competitions filled me with unease. Meanwhile, I believe the intensity of my determination may have deterred him rather than motivating him to try harder.

During my teenage years, from around age 14 to 18, I had the privilege of having my mother as my PE teacher. This meant that she was responsible for organizing events like Sports Day. Meanwhile, my father took on the role of announcer, using the microphone, during these events. He has been commentating on my races for a significant period of time. The thrill of having him announce my win at the World Championships is an essential part of my journey and a cherished memory. Growing up, this was the ideal scenario I had envisioned.

Sam and I have had a deep-rooted affection for athletics since we attended the World Championships in 2003 and the Beijing Olympics in 2008. I have a soft spot for the idea that genetics play a role – my lack of rigorous training didn’t hinder my natural talent as a runner. Ever since I was nine years old, I harbored the dream of becoming a runner.

“When I was younger, all I wanted to do was impress my dad”

Growing up, my father’s tough approach brought out the best in me, but it wasn’t always easy. His high expectations were beneficial to some extent, yet presented a significant hurdle. In my younger years, I yearned to win his approval, viewing his words as infallible. However, as I grew older and developed my own perspective, confrontations ensued.

I thought everything my dad said was gospel. The challenges came when I got a bit older and formed my own opinions.

To make up for the large number of calories I use while running, I consume a great deal of carbohydrates in my meals: My mornings start with oatmeal and peanut butter, along with a banana; at lunchtime, I have several eggs and an abundance of vegetables; and for dinner, I opt for rice or pasta accompanied by meat and vegetables.

Looking back on my life, I realize that there have been many sacrifices I had to make. I missed out on a significant part of my 20s, dedicating most of my time and energy to my career. Those years are gone, and I can’t get them back. However, I wouldn’t change a thing. The experiences I gained during that period shaped me into the person I am today.

GEOFF

“When I was younger, all I wanted to do was impress my dad”

Jake and Susan are identical twins, but they each took the lead growing up. My wife Susan’s sister was more assertive. Because of the experiences from Susan’s childhood, we raised Jake and his brother Sam differently. Around the age of ten, they began attending different classes and pursued distinct hobbies.

At the age of eight, Susan and I attended a school cross-country meet together. As the race began, the two of them took off like a shot. We exchanged glances and remarked, “There seems to be some inherited trait at play here, as that behavior is quite unusual.”

At the 1988 Olympics, Susan participated in the marathon while her sibling Angela competed in the 10,000-meter race. After the Olympics, Susan became a physical education teacher and took up coaching at Fettes College in Edinburgh. When Jake joined the team at age 16, he was performing well but Susan sensed that he had more potential, so she began guiding him.

Three times a week, we work out at home. He’s been logging an average of 60 miles weekly since January, not to mention weights, yoga, drills, and sprints. I can be quite rigid in my methods, similar to Brian Clough. My empathy is somewhat lacking, and I don’t excel at giving high-fives or hearty pats on the back. In addition to coaching myself, I guide Zak Seddon, Michael Wilson, and Ben Waterman.

I have limited empathy, I’m not very good at doing high-fives or slaps on the back

In my athletic past, I came very close to qualifying for both European and Commonwealth Games marathons. However, I fell short due to underperformance and numerous shin injuries. I’m particularly concerned when Jake experiences shin problems as well. Unfortunately, I missed out on the Olympics in 1992, although I was near. I remain somewhat resentful about this unrealized goal. I believe the most effective coaches are those who have been athletes themselves but didn’t quite reach their peak. It’s not just about reliving one’s athletic career – it’s about channeling that incomplete sports journey into guiding others.

After making the announcement that Jake had won Worlds, I was taken aback in the moment and realized, “Wow, this is a significant achievement.” I strive to support everyone equally and avoid showing favoritism towards my son or tipping the balance, ensuring a fair environment for all.

“I place great importance on maintaining good health, nurturing my family relationships, and staying active through sports.”

Jake will run in the 800m — the heats begin on Wednesday 7 August

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2024-07-26 17:05