Why Rachael Ray Says “Screaming Matches” With Her Husband Are Healthy

Why Rachael Ray Says "Screaming Matches" With Her Husband Are Healthy

As a dedicated follower of Rachael Ray and her inspiring journey, I find her approach to marriage truly enlightening. Her candidness about the screaming matches she and John have is refreshing and relatable, reminding us all that even the most successful couples have their moments of conflict.


Rachael Ray is sharing her secret ingredient for a healthy marriage.

For the alumni of the “30 Minute Meal” and her 19-year partner, John Cusimano, this implies that they both are open and straightforward with each other, never keeping their emotions hidden.

Rachael pointed out in her October 22nd episode of ‘I’ll Sleep When I’m Dead’, it’s tough for passionate, outspoken, or fiery individuals to keep their cool. She and John never cool down, they often have intense arguments, but she believes that’s beneficial. In fact, she thinks it’s healthy.

To put it simply, the 56-year-old individual isn’t fond of those who are excessively quiet, making a light-hearted comparison that such encounters leave her with the uneasy feeling of being in a horror film, as the quietness seems to lack the vibrancy she is accustomed to.

She added, “I find silence unsettling. I prefer you sharing your thoughts openly and honestly as they come to mind, so we can clear the air together.

In post-argument discussions, Rachel’s guest Jenny Mollen (married to Jason Biggs since 2008) was wondering who typically extends an apology first between Rachel and John.

Rachael admitted, “We’ve never really apologized to each other, as far as I can tell. Instead, we either give each other a pat on the backside or a peck on the head, which seems to be our way of resolving things.

She commented, “That’s the implied apology. It’s more or less assumed. ‘I appreciate your bottom.’ ‘I appreciate your intellect.’ It falls within a certain category.

Why Rachael Ray Says "Screaming Matches" With Her Husband Are Healthy

Food Network star also revealed the story behind her meeting with John, confessing that her initial thoughts about him were quite dissimilar.

“When we met, he had no idea what I did,” she explained, “and I thought he was gay.” 

As per Rachael, John shared with her his culinary creation for dinner, and she was quite taken aback by its impression.

She went on to say, “He mentioned that he’s a lawyer. I doubt a regular guy would know about tilapia or be skilled enough to make his own tomatillo salsa, unless perhaps he accidentally made maque choux instead and served it alongside an avocado.

Rachel playfully teased by saying out loud what she supposedly thought to herself, “‘You’re definitely gay,'” then proceeded to share about a friend she believed John would get along wonderfully.

She remembered saying, “‘He’s an outstanding individual,’ and then went on to explain more about him. He responded, ‘I’m not gay,’ to which she reacted, ‘Time for the check!’

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2024-10-22 22:20