Why Sister Wives’ Meri Brown Isn’t Taking Blame for Robyn Brown Feud

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Meri Brown is clapping back.

The star of “Sister Wives” spoke out about her ongoing dispute with Kody Brown’s only remaining wife, Robyn Brown, who had accused her of failing to return efforts aimed at repairing their damaged friendship following Meri’s decision to end her long-standing relationship with Kody.

Meri straightforwardly stated in the TopMob News preview of part three, airing June 8, “It seems you’re struggling with my departure – that’s more about your feelings, not mine.” Essentially, she was implying, “That burden is for you to bear. Not me.

As Meri explains, it wasn’t her choice to end things with Kody, given that he was perceived as favoring Robyn and both Christine Brown and Janelle Brown less than himself, which eventually led to the deterioration of their sisterhood.

For far too many instances spanning numerous years, I found myself shouldering the burden of blame in my marriage with Kody. However, it was crucial for me to break free from this pattern and learn to relinquish the need to assume responsibility for others’ actions.

Meri herself doesn’t use the term “frozen” to describe her present bond with Robyn, but it’s clear that the connection she previously felt towards the 46-year-old is not as strong now.

“I just don’t feel like it’s there,” Meri added, “which is really just unfortunate.”

Regarding Kody, the father of 18 who’s parted ways with Christine (age 53) and Janelle (age 56) not long ago, yearns for an end to the drama among his former partners and his current spouse.

Kody, aged 56, revealed on the May 25th episode that there’s a deeply spiritual element to his bond with Robyn. He expressed frustration over the criticism they’ve faced, saying he’s tired of it.

He stated, “I adore this woman, and I yearn for tranquility in our relationship. However, I find myself expressing a double middle finger gesture frequently because I am deeply weary of feeling guilty for loving Robyn.

For more revelations from season 19 of Sister Wives, keep reading.

Kody Brown expressed his intention to part ways with his first wife, Meri Brown, not long after they exchanged vows in 1990. However, as he put it, “Meri, when we move to Flagstaff, this will be a fresh start for us,” suggesting optimism about their future together (in the context of their 2018 relocation). Meri implied that Kody had often given her false hope with such statements, explaining that this was a pattern that had been repeated over numerous years.

As a devoted admirer, I must express my concerns about his inconsistent engagement – the unclear expression of his feelings, desires, and boundaries, as well as the narrative he’s spun over the years. It’s left me yearning for more transparency and connection.

Kody admitted there might have been some ambiguous signals, but when he began working on various tasks, he found himself questioning the situation, saying, “What’s the point?” He clarified that under current circumstances, he wouldn’t pursue a romantic relationship with her.

Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023. 

She admitted, “They told me they were here for me, ready to support me, and it was long overdue.” Removing the veil of illusion, she now believes that he had been trying to persuade her to depart for years, by repeatedly stating that he didn’t love her. “If I could be made to leave, then he isn’t the villain because he didn’t walk away himself.

Several years had passed since the family acquired a 14-acre piece of land in Flagstaff, Ariz., intended for building. In the season premiere, Kody admitted he was ready to let go of that dream because they couldn’t construct without first settling the total cost of $820,000 (which they apparently paid off in 2023). He expressed this sentiment to his remaining wife, Robyn Brown, saying, “I’d almost prefer to abandon it or sell it and then start fresh somewhere else.

As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”

Previously, Janelle Brown had shared with TopMob News that their relationship was gradually drifting apart. However, it was the inconsistencies in Kody’s role as a parent to some of their children that ultimately led her to decide to separate.

The moment that truly ignited things for me was when his bond with my kids fractured, and it didn’t appear as though he’d go to great lengths to mend it,” the mom shared with Logan Brown, Madison Brown Brush, Hunter Brown, Garrison Brown, Gabriel Brown, and Savanah Brown. “At that point, I realized, Ah, that was what kept me rooted here.

In the November 3rd episode, Kody proposed reconciliation, but for Janelle, it was an absolute no.

She stated that finding a way to mend their relationship while keeping him away from her children is something she cannot imagine. Instead, she has decided to prioritize her children at all times.

The reason Kody didn’t put more effort into repairing the strained relationships with several of his grown children, was what he shared as an explanation.

In the Sept. 15 episode, he expressed his feelings of not belonging to the family anymore. Although he was legally married to Robyn and co-parenting their five children – Dayton Brown, Aurora Brown, Breanna Brown, Solomon Brown, and Ariella Brown – he mentioned that he also maintained relationships with some other children infrequently. He then questioned how he should manage this situation, as it didn’t feel like a family to him.

Even though they’ve been genuinely monogamous for the first time in their 14-year marriage, Robyn admitted during the season 19 premiere that things have never been as difficult as they are now. “Things have been hard between us,” she said. “Kody doesn’t know if he should blame himself or one of the other wives. He feels a lot of rejection and I think he’s worried that I might reject him too.

Consequently, she admitted, “I’m constantly vigilant. I have to repeatedly ensure he isn’t undermining our relationship.” The most challenging aspect, she concluded: “There aren’t many resources available for dealing with the fact that I’m still married to a man who seems to be going through multiple divorces.

Meanwhile, Kody was grappling with a lack of self-assurance, expressing, “I find it hard to gaze at my reflection and tell myself sincerely, ‘Hello, friend. I adore you.’

For Robyn, it was tough to see her ex-sister wives transitioning into a new phase of life. As she put it during the October 27 episode, “They’re all making progress,” and she felt like she was the one who had been left trailing behind.

Include Madison, Janelle’s oldest child, on the list of kids who are currently not in a relationship with Kody. As stated during the premiere, “I understand that Maddie hasn’t spoken to her father,” explained Janelle. “He hasn’t called, she hasn’t contacted him, and there is no relationship between them or with Robin. Essentially, she has cut them both off.

Janelle stated that the concern lies in Kody not fully engaging with Maddie’s children, Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine, as she feels he should only have contact if he is willing to fully commit.

In the September 22 broadcast, it was mentioned that Kody had essentially stopped communicating with Maddie and her husband Caleb Brush when the family began to disintegrate.

Without Kody being around or reaching out, Maddie has taken on a very protective role, as Janelle put it. She feels that until he can be reliable and present without causing unnecessary drama, it might be best for everyone if they keep his existence separate from their lives.

As a die-hard admirer, I can’t help but echo her sentiments: “You know, Robyn hinted that it’d be great if Kody took steps to reconcile. But here’s what struck me most – she believes our children should follow suit, too, and make amends as well.

Currently, I find myself not yet prepared to bridge the gap between us. Every conversation with my daughter feels like it’s being used to spread rumors, which has grown tiresome for me.

During their 32nd anniversary celebration, Meri confided in her friend Brandi that Kody had hinted he hadn’t truly loved her and felt compelled to marry her. In response, she told him, “Kody, I know you did love me.

And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever propose? 

She pondered, “When a solitary young man encounters a solitary young woman, why would he decide to marry her without actually loving her? It seems harsh, almost inhumane, to select someone from a sea of faces and then declare, ‘I choose you, with the intention of trying to compel myself to love you for the following 32 years’?

In his private reflection, Kody stated: “Meri’s making some claims against me. Well, let her say what she will. I won’t be responding to them.

Though, he would share that they never enjoyed a honeymoon period. 

He emphatically stated during the October 20th episode that the marriage was in trouble from the very beginning. His reasoning? He shared a stronger bond with Janelle, Christine, and Robyn.

He acknowledged that he “ought to have ended the relationship twenty-five years back,” yet he remained due to fear, commenting, “Authority figures would never permit another marriage if you’re casting off spouses.

Despite being unsure whether to develop Coyote Pass or just sell it, Janelle acknowledged that the first step was clearing the debt on the Arizona property. As Kody refused to discuss the matter with her, she confided in former sister wife Christine Brown on the September 22 episode, saying, “I believe I’ll need a lawyer,” expressing her conviction that this would be the only way to get any resolution from him.

In her own words, Janelle clarified that since she and Kody aren’t legally married, “I don’t have any rights to claim his property in a court of law.” She further explained the complexity of the situation, stating, “It’s not as simple as calling a lawyer to file for divorce. Instead, it’s much more intricate because there’s no legal marriage between us.

Instead of talking with Janelle about the Arizona property, Kody has stopped trusting her as his reason for staying quiet on the subject.

He firmly stated during the September 22 episode, “When the right moment arrives, we’ll settle the property. I prefer not to share specifics about my actions or anything else for now, as I’ve grown tired of revealing details that get distorted by the rumor mill within our dysfunctional family.

A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview. 

In my conversation with him, it seemed as though he couldn’t keep secrets, spilling details about his past relationships and multiple spouses that left me feeling rather uncomfortable.

In times past, before the family’s love began to dwindle, they would combine their earnings into a single communal fund instead.

In simpler terms, Janelle stated during the September 22nd episode that we have historically prioritized helping one person at a time before coming together to assist the other. However, over the past decade or so, things have shifted towards personal possessions and accumulation of individual estates instead.

When Robyn found herself needing a house in Arizona, everyone chipped in to purchase her luxurious $1.65 million, five-bedroom property – it was put up for sale in August.

Robyn believed it would benefit the family to have the asset, as stated. However, when Janelle proposed that everyone should be on the mortgage, she was met with resistance. Kody said something akin to, “No, no, we must safeguard, you understand, protect Robyn’s estate,” according to Janelle’s memory. Now that she’s leaving the family, Janelle expressed her desire to receive her share of the Coyote Pass earnings and recover some of the money she invested in Robyn’s house.

But that could be a tough sell. 

Robyn remarked, “After collaborating for such a prolonged period, it’s perplexing to me. Janelle mentioning she’s owed money only adds to the puzzle. I find myself wondering, ‘How do you even begin to calculate that?’ It’s all rather puzzling.

Janelle expressed frustration about the family’s inability to clear their debts at Coyote Pass. She mentioned that Kody often spoke of numerous other financial obligations, but she noticed him acquiring items like trailers and home decorations. “I can’t help but notice the artwork on Robyn and Kody’s walls,” she said. “I see all these things. And I understand, as I too have spent money on similar things.” (In his defense, Kody stated that a significant portion of his funds were used for purchasing cars—”Essentially, I had a fleet”—and insurance for the children.)

> Even though Janelle admitted she wasn’t clear about how Kody and Robyn managed their finances, she often found herself taken aback by the beauty of Robyn’s backyard. It was always impeccably finished, and there were always various items at her house that left Janelle saying, “Wow. Really?

To put it simply, I’ve realized that he doesn’t seem to value my needs or desires, which has been a significant concern for me over time. This issue was particularly upsetting for not just me, but even my grown children, who would often express their frustration, such as “Mom, what is going on?” or words to that effect.

Instead, let me rephrase it for you: After her first marriage ended, Robyn became particularly mindful about managing her finances closely.

She confided during the September 22 episode that she wasn’t very good with managing money in the past. Growing up, she faced some tough financial challenges, and it was only during her divorce that she truly learned how to budget effectively. In regards to her fellow sister wives, she remarked, “It seems like your spending priorities were different from mine, that’s all.

Currently, as I shared in the September 22 episode, when Christine and I, who are mothers to Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown, gather with our families, it’s unfortunate that there is little contact with Meri or Robyn, and Kody. At this point, I don’t see that situation changing significantly.

Speaking fondly about the period when they owned four homes on a cul-de-sac in Las Vegas, Kody described it as “the best phase of my life.” He went on to say, “Life was running smoothly, and it was wonderful having Maddie and Caleb around. I truly cherished them, and Caleb felt like family to me.

However, discord arose in Arizona regarding COVID-19 safety measures, which eventually led to a breakdown of order. When his marital relationships deteriorated, he noted that the connection with his children also suffered, stating that it caused all those relationships to turn bitter.

But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021. 

On the September 22nd show, I expressed, “Those kids were feeling frustrated long before I departed. Leaving me didn’t alter their bond with their father. Kody, you still have the power to mend your relationships with your children.

Though it’ll definitely take some work. 

Kody expressed his frustration, saying he hasn’t been able to move past the way he’s been treated because he doesn’t agree with being blamed for things he didn’t do. He hopes that one day, the resentment will fade, and we can find forgiveness and rekindle love again.

At the age of 21 and 19, Kody admitted that he and Meri hadn’t been particularly well-acquainted when they got married, both spiritually and legally. They later filed for divorce in 2014 so that Kody could legally adopt Robyn’s three oldest children from a previous marriage.

In our marriage, I found her to be quite different than I had anticipated. There seemed to be some issues from her past that I wasn’t aware of. Initially, I thought I could tolerate these differences. However, as time went on, it felt like every conversation between us was a struggle, and I couldn’t continue living in a situation where she was consistently angry with me.

Even though he desired to depart, he couldn’t do so. Kody explained that, in a plural marriage, one cannot petition for a divorce if they wish to remain faithful and committed to their faith. Consequently, he was trapped within the relationship, yearning to mend and salvage it rather than leave it behind.

Consequently, he admitted that Meri believed they could resolve their issues somehow. However, whenever they were in each other’s company, Kody pointed out that “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t entertaining, she wasn’t compassionate, she wasn’t engaging. I try to be intrigued by her, but I’m growing weary.

In a reasonable manner, he clarified, it’s understandable that Meri might feel overlooked, “Yet, I didn’t forcefully evict her. Instead, Christine, Janelle, and Meri themselves decided for me to depart from our shared home.

Even though Janelle and Christine hadn’t legally married Kody, Meri sought a formal separation from the church, which is known as a ‘release’, towards the end of 2022.

In the September 22nd episode, she clarified that all four of us had entered into a covenant with Kody through our church when we married him. Even though it’s not legally recognized, we called it that. Since we aren’t planning on moving forward with any further marriages and I don’t want to be bound to him for eternity if he isn’t interested, I think it’s best to fully separate ourselves from this situation.

Kody was hesitant about the concept, she mentioned, preferring not to recognize or submit to the leadership of the church officials.

Kody put it this way: “The harm has become so extensive that we can never make things right again, no matter the circumstances.” He continued, “Given our current situation, I don’t wish to answer to this church and all its nonsense. Therefore, I plan to let Meri pursue her own path because if I’m angry with her, it leads to conflict. Frankly, I just want her to move on because it feels like she’s been stuck in the past for years.

2021 holiday gift exchange conversation among the 18 Brown offspring took an unpleasant turn, as Christine explained. “Matters escalated and things went awry,” she described. “Kody, Robyn, and their children formed one group, intentionally distancing themselves from Janelle, me, and our kids. A rift occurred following this text conversation.

Robyn stated that her older children perceived the interaction as “uncomfortable emotionally” and suggested they needed some distance in their relationship. However, she clarified it wasn’t a matter of not wanting to see her again or having no interest in maintaining contact; rather, they felt the situation had become unpleasant. In simpler terms, she explained that they felt it was necessary to take a break due to an uncomfortable situation.

For his part, Gabriel is hoping that they could find their way back to each other. 

In the October 13th episode, he admitted that what he yearns for most is rekindling a relationship with Robyn’s children once more. During middle school, Aurora was his preferred companion, and in high school, he often attempted to connect with Dayton. However, he expressed that he isn’t optimistic about establishing a relationship with their father and Robyn.

In my own words, let me clarify a point that has been repeatedly emphasized to me by various individuals: When I joined the family through my mother’s marriage to Kody in 2010, I was made aware that I wasn’t easily welcomed or recognized as a sister. They didn’t immediately embrace me, and they didn’t perceive or treat me in the same way as their own sibling.

Breanna, her sister, stated that she believed their parents might have made more effort to foster a stronger familial bond between them, but this connection never truly materialized.

But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.

As a lifestyle expert, I’d put it this way: “My family and I are always welcome at any gathering, and I make it a point to extend that invitation to others. In my book, everyone is free to drop by our home whenever they feel like it.

Simultaneously, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown shared a strong bond with Robyn’s children, and Mykelti Brown Padron resided with them for a while. “There were challenging periods, and my children felt frustrated at times,” she continued, “but they viewed Robyn’s kids as siblings just as dear to them.

Janelle expressed her delight in the autonomy she enjoyed within plural marriage, saying, ‘In a well-balanced setup, it’s like being part of an extraordinary family network you’re connected to, as well as having a wonderful relationship with your partner. You have all the freedom too, so for me, plural marriage was truly a fantastic arrangement.’

Kody, however, wouldn’t say “I do” to polygamy again.

In his view expressed during the December 1st episode, monogamous relationships foster emotional intimacy more effectively than polygamy. He explained that polygamy tends to make individuals guarded, and what he seeks is an emotionally open, intimate relationship with a woman, which is less likely to be found in such a structure.

According to Janelle’s account, Kody found it more challenging to split his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.

During the September 29 episode, it was mentioned that when Kody relocated to Flagstaff, he found it more manageable to be distant. Occasionally, she had to remind him to visit her home. He’d often make excuses about being fatigued, and she disclosed, “I’m so tired. I tell him, ‘You can rest just as easily at my house as you can at Robyn’s.’

In simpler terms, Janelle asserted that her children were reprimanded whenever they opened Robyn’s refrigerator. Meanwhile, for Christine’s kids, the problem stemmed from observing that Robyn was in a relationship with their father, but he wasn’t present at their home.

And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide. 

She mentioned on the September 29th episode that Meri was generally welcoming towards my children and myself, but the rest of the family found it difficult to accept us. Essentially, our desire was simply to become a part of this family.

However, Gabriel might contend that he and his other siblings made considerable efforts to welcome their kin into their group.

In the October 13th episode, he expressed his belief that Robyn may have a victim mentality. To be more straightforward, he was referring to this. And it’s not that I’m placing blame on her for it. Instead, I think each person develops their own unique methods to stay afloat in life.

Yet, he added, “If she truly thinks that we were unfairly treating her or her children despite the fact that she was frequently preferred by Dad and we were consistently working to build a rapport with her kids, if she genuinely holds this belief, then there’s no possibility of me maintaining a relationship with Robyn.

As an over-the-moon fan, I can’t help but share my thoughts on how the constant moving between four homes has impacted Kody’s 18 children, a topic he delved into during the September 29 episode. A moment that particularly struck me was when his youngest with Robyn, Ariella, born in January 2016, held onto me tightly as I tried to depart, a poignant reminder of how these living arrangements can touch even the smallest members of their family.

In his own words, Kody expressed, “‘I need to tell her I have another spouse and children who depend on me,’ he said. “She was clinging to me, crying, ‘Don’t abandon me, Daddy.’ And it’s tough for me to deal with that.

Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle. 

Initially, she made clear to her children that their father wouldn’t always be present. It seemed to her that Kody and Robyn mishandled the situation regarding her children. He couldn’t stay away for more than three or four days because Ari would get so upset. She felt it was a form of poor parenting. Throughout family history, the other kids handled such absences, and they turned out to be well-adjusted adults.

Among a small group of children with the surname Brown, Mykelti maintained relationships not only with Robyn and Kody but also with Christine and Janelle. During Kody’s divorce proceedings, Mykelti often acted as a mediator or peacemaker.

From the instant Robyn joined the Brown clan, Mykelti warmly welcomed her to such an extent that she asked her to be present during the birth of her twin boys, Archer and Ace, in November 2022.

During the September 29th episode, Mykelti shared that when Robyn initially became a part of our family, I was still trying to understand my identity. Robyn made me feel valued and understood, which were feelings I desperately needed at the time. When I required someone’s presence, Robyn was there for me. She was an essential support system when I needed someone to listen, to care for me, and to love me.

Christine couldn’t have been happier when she saw her daughter Robyn join the family and establish a strong bond with Mykelti. “On the Oct. 6 episode, Christine expressed how everything she dreamed of for a plural family was becoming a reality as she saw her children forming wonderful relationships with other mothers,” she said. “Ever since I was excited about the prospect of having a plural family, I had always hoped that my kids would build strong connections with their fellow moms.

Kody believes it’s not just his wives who have chosen to exclude him from their lives; he thinks they are deliberately doing so as a form of punishment, even though he maintains his innocence regarding the crime in question. He stated this perspective during the October 6 episodes, discussing his current estrangement from some of his older children. Essentially, he feels he’s only being punished for not having deeply loved their mothers.

What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame. 

He expressed that the strain in his relationship with his children is mainly due to negative comments, saying, “It seems my mind constantly dwells on the criticism.” Further, he admitted that the emotional turmoil from the family splitting up has led him to feel, “As if I’m being unfairly blamed for the situation, like ‘Ah, it’s all Dad’s fault. Dad made mistakes.’

However, although he bears some responsibility in the situation, he strongly objects to the derogatory remarks. In fact, he confided that he had difficulty bonding with Hunter, Maddie, and Gabriel, Kody admitted that one of his children responded to a text message by saying, “You are worthless. I wouldn’t talk to you again even if I tried.

In another event, he expressed to the cameras, “One of my children recently said to me, ‘You’re a jerk. I’ll never speak to you again. You deceived me and indoctrinated me.’

He’s unwilling to continue dealing with the issues, as he put it, “I won’t extend my hand forever.” He believes his grown children should take more responsibility in resolving matters. “I’m prepared to bridge the gap,” he stated, implying that someone else needs to meet him halfway and make an effort as well.

For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home. 

In her conversation on October 6th, she shared that her parents divorced when she was very young. At that time, her father lived with another woman in a different city, while her mother lived alone. She recounted an instance where she questioned him about his absence, asking why he wasn’t around during her childhood. Instead of providing a clear answer, he offered weak explanations that left her feeling let down and disappointed.

She wasn’t going to let Kody’s feelings of hurt hinder him from putting forth effort. Instead, she expressed that it was difficult not to feel somewhat disrespected by his actions, during the heated confrontation they had on camera towards the end of 2022.

As a dedicated follower, I recognize that there’s room for improvement in repairing my relationship with my children. However, I believe that healing my own heart is the crucial first step in this process.

As a passionate admirer putting it in my own words, I find myself feeling deeply concerned and somewhat betrayed, as if my own children are conspiring against me. In all honesty, the situation has left me boiling with rage, to the point where any interaction with them could potentially set me off with an outburst of anger. At this moment, I fear that I’m too emotionally charged to engage in a productive conversation, as my temperament might only escalate the situation further and cause more harm than good.

Although many members of their family were present at the wedding of Logan and Michelle Petty in October 2022, it seemed that Janelle and Kody didn’t harbor warm feelings towards the event.

Kody expressed frustration to Robyn during the October 6th episode, stating that he had noticed Madison swiftly taking her children away from him. He pointed out that his daughter hadn’t informed him about her third pregnancy, which resulted in the birth of their daughter Josephine in February 2023. In simpler terms, he said she hadn’t told him she was expecting a baby.

Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.

Janelle clarified why her daughter Maddie chose not to interact with Kody at the wedding. Essentially, she is extremely vigilant about her kids’ well-being. To put it simply, Kody hasn’t been around since their youngest child Evie was born, who is now three-and-a-half years old. Maddie didn’t want him to show up unannounced and surprise the kids by claiming to be their grandfather, leaving them puzzled with questions like ‘Who is this man?’

Kody believes it’s not practical for grandparents to be constantly present in their grandchildren’s lives, as was the case with Maddie who lives in North Carolina. He explains that this is particularly challenging when parents move their children across the country, leaving them with work and personal obligations in Flagstaff.

It’s evident that there’s a significant disagreement between Kody and his grown-up kids regarding their ongoing rift, with one contentious issue being his request for an apology or acknowledgment of wrongdoing.

Following the end of the COVID-related concerns, we found ourselves resuming our usual routines, but there remained an unresolved issue within our family. Specifically, Kody felt that his sons needed to apologize, particularly to Robyn, for something that had occurred, as he expressed during the Oct. 13 episode. Later, it seemed to evolve into a situation where they simply needed to have a conversation with him.

According to Janelle, what upset Kody was the feeling that his children hadn’t stayed loyal to him, and that the most cherished individual in their family – who has sacrificed so much – had been treated disrespectfully or insensitively. In essence, she said, “Whatever, Kody. I get it.

Gabriel echoed a comparable viewpoint, relaying a chat with his father. “He persistently put it across as if I owed him an apology,” he told Janelle. “Finally, I said something like, ‘Hey, unless you’re genuinely prepared to rebuild our relationship and make amends, we won’t be having any more conversations.’ A few days later, he texted me back. He wrote, ‘Hey, I’ve been pondering over your words. I forgive you, Please forgive me.’ I responded, ‘Forgive me for what?’

Out of his six children with Janelle, Kody mainly interacts with their youngest, Savanah. Although it doesn’t happen often, about once every two months they talk on the phone and meet up. The other children do not seem to maintain a significant relationship with him.

Regarding Savannah, who completed high school in 2023, she perceives her four elder brothers as assuming a fatherly role. Already, she has admitted to Janelle that she might ask her siblings to accompany her during her wedding procession someday.

In a conversation, Janelle mentioned that she had spoken with Savanah about the topic, and Savanah stated, “Here’s the thing: I’ve come to understand that this is his nature.” She further explained, “He’ll be the kind of father who joins us for fun times but then leaves. I can adapt to him as he is. It’s alright.

Janelle, however, is less forgiving. 

She expressed her frustration towards Kody, saying, “I can’t help but feel disheartened about him. You see, I’ve witnessed similar situations in the past with women I’ve collaborated with. After their divorces, some fathers would disappear from their children’s lives.

As a die-hard fan, I can’t help but reflect on how profoundly Gabrielle’s world was shattered when their once unbreakable bond began to fray. You see, Kody was this magical figure who would whisk young Gabrielle away on business adventures, creating memories that sparkled brighter than any star in the night sky. However, as time passed and seasons changed, my idol, my beloved Kody, transformed into a stranger, distant and disconnected, over the past few years. Yet, up until then, he was an unmatched epitome of a fully-engaged father, one who cherished every moment spent with his little Gabrielle.

Despite being puzzled about what might have upset his father, Gabriel asserted during the October 13 episode, “I told Dad that if he doesn’t change and refuses to acknowledge responsibility, then I simply won’t visit him anymore. And I’m completely content with that decision.

In her own words, she expressed that he finds comfort knowing his father isn’t present in his life. Furthermore, it’s a desire she holds for all her children, and she feels they are gradually reaching that state.

For his part, Kody also seems resigned to the situation. 

He expressed his apologies for how Gabriel seems, adding that he has attempted to reach out to him several times but hasn’t been successful. It’s not because I didn’t make the effort.

In late 2022, it was Meri who formally ended her relationship with Kody, following the teachings of their faith, which refers to this action as a “release,” citing abandonment as the reason for her decision.

She observed during the October 13 broadcast that he dislikes that particular word since he doesn’t believe he left her behind. Instead, she feels it was him who departed.

To put it another way, she believes he paid little attention to her concerns only when she chose to depart, which allowed him to claim, “I have no involvement in this.

And Kody didn’t totally deny that he had a bit of a strategy. 

I’ve left that chapter behind a while back,” I admitted candidly in a private reflection. “However, it wasn’t fearlessness that kept me from confronting the issue head-on with her. You see, I was apprehensive about how she might react if I tore off that metaphorical Band-Aid. The truth is, Meri had never been faithful to me – a reality that has constantly weighed on my mind. My concern was more about preserving my reputation. When one experiences divorce, it’s as if the public scrutiny tarnishes your good name.

Instead, alleged Meri, it was hers that was being tarnished. 

She expressed her disappointment by saying, “It’s truly unfortunate that Kody is speaking about our marriage in such a manner. It seems as though his perspective on our relationship has shifted, yet the statements he’s making about me to others, which many are accepting, are untrue.

Prior to the time when Christina parted ways with Kody, she came to understand that as per a task suggested by their marriage counselor based in Las Vegas, they were not ideally suited for each other on paper.

In her quest to outline the characteristics she desired in a potential partner, Christine jotted down that she was looking for someone who could express themselves well, someone who would be actively involved in both her life and that of their shared children, and someone who found her attractive. However, as revealed on the October 20th episode, Kody did not possess any of these qualities, as she admitted when saying, “And Kody wasn’t any of the things on the list.” She then stated, “I told him the list, and he said, ‘I’m not any of those things for you.’ I responded, ‘No, you’re not.’

In the letter, she discovered swiftly that David Woolley turned out to be her match.

She enthusiastically shared that family holds the utmost significance for this widowed father of eight, who runs his own drywall company. Known for his integrity and authenticity, he is highly respected among people due to his excellent communication skills.

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2025-06-06 14:19