Why Sister Wives’ Robyn Brown Would Consider Another Plural Marriage

As I delve into this heart-wrenching tale of a once united family now scattered and struggling, my heart goes out to each and every one of them. The Brown family, who were once the epitome of a happy, loving family on national television, are now grappling with the harsh realities of life and relationships.

The Brown matriarch, Janelle, stands as a beacon of strength and wisdom in this stormy sea, guiding her brood through their individual journeys towards self-discovery and healing. Her years of experience have taught her that sometimes, the best thing for a relationship is to let it go, and I hope that all of her children are finding peace in their newfound independence.

The tale of Kody Brown and his wives is a classic cautionary one, reminding us all that the grass may not always be greener on the other side, and that true happiness often lies within ourselves. It’s a shame to see such a once-happy family torn apart by misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and unrealistic expectations.

On a lighter note, I can’t help but chuckle at the irony of the Browns’ situation – they built their reality TV empire on showcasing their “polygamous” lifestyle, only for it to crumble under the weight of human emotions and relationships that are far more complex than any scriptwriter could dream up.

May they find the strength and courage to rebuild their lives, and may we continue to bear witness to their journey as a reminder of the beauty and complexity of the human spirit.

Yes, Sister WivesRobyn Brown still feels love should be multiplied, not divided. 

Over the last few years, the celebrity has leaned towards reluctant monogamy, a change in relationship style that came after the dissolution of husband Kody Brown’s long-term marriages with Meri Brown, Janelle Brown, and Christine Brown.

However, the 46-year-old mother of five, who married Kody in 2010, 16 years following his marriage to Christine (his third), would agree to another wife, given suitable conditions.

In a recent episode of “TLC”, Robyn openly expressed that she might consider plural marriage once more, under specific conditions. Given the assurance that it would be advantageous and bring a positive, successful outcome, she would be open to it. However, due to the emotionally devastating impact the previous experience had on her, Kody, their children, and all the children involved, she needs some kind of guarantee to ensure such traumatic experiences are avoided in the future.

For the Utah native who divorced David Preston Jessop in 2009, being an active member of their church, particularly the Apostolic United Brethren church, is a crucial aspect of life that she can’t imagine living without. She expressed, “I wouldn’t want to live it again any other way.

Though, admittedly, she doesn’t have much of a prayer that Kody will walk back down the aisle. 

In my perspective, I strongly believe that Kody won’t revert to living a plural marriage again, though I must clarify that I can’t say this with absolute certainty.

If you ask the father of 18, though, it’s a firm no. 

As an ardent advocate against polygamy, I unequivocally stated during the recent episode of our series: “I would never wish to return to polygamy again.” The reason being, it systematically erodes emotional intimacy and fosters a defensive environment. Instead, I yearn for a profoundly intimate, emotionally vulnerable relationship with a woman – something that simply cannot be achieved within the confines of polygamy.

But while he’s discovered the joys of monogamy, Robyn is still wrestling with the concept. 

Speaking about her personal feelings, Christine admitted that with Janelle and Meri parting ways with Kody, the situation has made her question her self-perception as a plural wife. She shared, “This has been a significant aspect of my identity, something I strongly believe in and consider an integral part of our family.

And so now, she admitted, she’s struggling to define herself. 

“Never pictured myself as a monogamist,” Robyn noted. “Never thought it’d be just Kody and I.” 

Even though it’s possible he could have been her one true love, the former salesman… “It feels as if a part of me has been torn apart,” Robyn expressed, “now I’m struggling to figure out how to move forward with what remains.

In addition, there are more revelations from the Sister Wives star this season. Don’t miss out on the other secrets they and their co-stars have unveiled.

Kody Brown expressed his intention to separate from his first wife, Meri Brown, soon after they exchanged vows in 1990. However, as he told her, “When we move to Flagstaff, this will be a fresh start for us,” implying they would work on their relationship (in 2018). Yet, as she revealed during the premiere on Sept. 15, his behavior had led her to believe that such promises were not kept and was a recurring pattern over many years.

She expressed her primary concern as his poor communication regarding his true feelings, desires, and dislikes, along with the narrative he has been presenting for all these years.

Kody admitted that there might have been some confusion in his communication, but he clarified that as he began to tackle tasks, he found himself questioning the logic behind his actions, stating, “It just didn’t make sense to me now to pursue a relationship with her.

Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023. 

She admitted, “They essentially said, ‘We’re here for you, we’re on your side. It’s high time,'” revealing a newfound perspective. Removing her blinders, she now believes that he had been subtly encouraging her to depart from their relationship over the years by repeatedly expressing his lack of love towards her, as if to say, “If I can make you leave, then he isn’t the villain because he didn’t walk away.

After many years since the family acquired a 14-acre piece of land in Flagstaff, Ariz., intended for construction, Kody admitted during the season premiere that he was prepared to watch the dream fade away. As they couldn’t construct without first settling the full $820,000 cost (which reports claim they paid off in 2023), he expressed this sentiment to his remaining wife, Robyn Brown: “I’d rather abandon it or sell it and then restart somewhere new.

As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”

Previously, Janelle Brown mentioned to TopMob News that they gradually drifted apart. However, it was primarily Kody’s shortcomings in his parental role towards some of their children that eventually led her to decide to part ways.

In simpler terms, she shared with Logan Brown, Madison Brown Brush, Hunter Brown, Garrison Brown, Gabriel Brown, and Savanah Brown that the turning point for her was when his relationship with her kids deteriorated and it didn’t appear as though he’d go to great lengths to mend it. This made her realize, “Ah, that was what had been keeping me here all along.

In the November 3rd episode, it was clear that reconciliation was not up for discussion for Janelle when Kody proposed it.

She stated, “It seems impossible for me to make amends with him in such a way that he doesn’t maintain a relationship with my children.” However, her choice is clear: “I will always prioritize my kids.

The reason Kody didn’t make an effort to repair the strained relationships with some of his grown-up kids, was what he shared as his account.

In the September 15th episode, he expressed his feelings of not belonging in the family anymore. Despite being legally married to Robyn and co-parenting their five children – Dayton Brown, Aurora Brown, Breanna Brown, Solomon Brown, and Ariella Brown – he mentioned that he only maintains occasional relationships with some of the other kids. Feeling overwhelmed by this situation, he stated, “It doesn’t feel like a family.

Even though they were genuinely monogamous for the first time in their 14-year marriage in this instance, Robyn admitted during season 19’s premiere that their relationship was at its lowest point. It’s been a difficult period for them. Kody is unsure whether to blame himself or one of the other wives for his feelings. He seems to be experiencing a lot of rejection, and as a result, I believe he’s questioning if I will reject him too.

Based on my personal experiences and interactions with others, it seems to me that maintaining a relationship with someone going through multiple divorces can be incredibly challenging. I have found myself constantly on edge, always checking to ensure that my own relationship isn’t being sabotaged in some way. The hardest part, however, is the lack of resources available to help navigate this situation, especially when it comes to dealing with the emotional and psychological complexities that arise from being married to a person who has been through multiple divorces. It can feel isolating and overwhelming at times, but I am determined to find ways to overcome these challenges and build a strong, healthy relationship despite the obstacles.

Meanwhile, Kody was grappling with a wave of self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to stand before the mirror and affirm, ‘Hi there, pal. I adore you.’

For Robyn, it was tough to see her ex-sister wives progressing into their latest chapter. She commented during the October 27 episode, “They’re all advancing, I feel like the one who was left behind.

It was disclosed during the premiere that Madison, Janelle’s oldest child, is currently not in a relationship with Kody. As explained by Janelle, there have been no conversations between Maddie and her father, neither has contacted each other, and as such, they do not have a relationship at present. In essence, she seems to have cut off ties with both Kody and Robin.

Janelle pointed out that Kody seems to be only partly invested in his relationship with Maddie’s children, Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine. She stated that she believes he should only have contact with them if he is fully committed to it.

In the Sept. 22 episode, it was revealed that due to the deterioration of the family, Kody apparently stopped communicating with Maddie and her husband Caleb Brush (who is linked to Kody through marriage ties), as their relationship became strained.

Without Kody being around or reaching out, Maddie has taken on a very protective role, as Janelle put it. She feels that until he can be reliable and avoid unnecessary drama, it might be best for everyone if they keep his presence somewhat hidden from the family.

As a devoted admirer, I can’t help but echo her sentiments: “I wholeheartedly agree with Robyn that it’s essential for our children to join in the effort of reconciliation as well.

Currently, I find myself not quite prepared to mend the divide, as conversations with my daughter often feel more like fishing for gossip, which has grown tiresome for me.

During their anniversary celebration, Meri confided in her friend Brandi that Kody had hinted he never truly loved her and felt pressured to marry her. In response, Meri asserted, “Kody, I knew you did love me.

And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever propose? 

As a thoughtful observer, I often ponder about this question: When a solitary man encounters a solitary woman, why would he decide to marry her if he didn’t feel affection for her initially? Seems unfair, doesn’t it? To single me out among many and say, ‘I choose you, hoping that over the course of 32 years, I can try to cultivate love within myself.’

In his private reflection, Kody stated, “Meri is making certain allegations. Well, let her speak as she pleases. I won’t respond to them.

Though, he would share that they never enjoyed a honeymoon period. 

On the October 20th episode, he firmly stated that their marriage was in trouble throughout, explaining, “Given my exceptional bond with Janelle, Christine, and Robyn, it’s only natural I would know this.

He acknowledged that he “should have ended the relationship decades ago,” yet he continued due to fear, remarking, “Authority figures would never permit remarriage if you’re casting off spouses.

Despite being unsure whether to develop Coyote Pass or just sell it, Janelle acknowledged that the first move was to settle the Arizona property debt. With Kody refusing to discuss the matter, she admitted to her former sister-wife Christine Brown in the September 22 episode that “It seems I’ll need legal representation.” She added, “I believe that’s the only way I can possibly get any kind of resolution from him.

From my personal experience as a family law attorney, I can attest that the situation Janelle finds herself in is not uncommon among cohabiting couples who have never legally married. Without a legal marriage, it becomes challenging to assert any legal rights over a partner’s property, as she has pointed out. In fact, many people underestimate the importance of a marriage certificate when it comes to protecting their financial interests and securing a future together. It’s essential to remember that love alone is not enough to guarantee these protections; a legally binding contract (marriage) is necessary. While Janelle may feel like she can simply call a lawyer and initiate a divorce, the reality is that her situation is more complex due to the lack of a legal marriage. It’s always advisable to consult with a family law attorney to fully understand one’s rights and responsibilities when cohabiting without being legally married.

Kody chose not to discuss the Arizona property with Janelle because he no longer had faith in her.

He made it clear during the September 22 episode that he would settle the property when necessary. He also explained, speaking in a confessional, that he didn’t want to share details about his actions or anything else because he’s grown tired of sharing information that gets twisted and spread through the rumor mill within our fractured family.

A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview. 

She conveyed, “He seems to share everything, much like water escaping through a sieve, as he told me details about his other relationships and multiple spouses, leaving me feeling somewhat uncomfortable.

In days when their affection for each other was growing stronger instead of weakening, they would combine their funds into a common fund.

In simpler terms, Janelle said during the September 22 episode that we would pool all our resources to help one individual, followed by supporting another person in the same way. This pattern was consistent until around ten years ago. However, now it seems more about building personal estates instead of helping each other as before.

When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone combined their resources to purchase her luxurious $1.65 million, five-bedroom property – this property had been on the market since August.

Initially, Robyn stated that the property would benefit the entire family. However, when Janelle proposed that they all be co-signers on the mortgage, she was met with opposition. Kody responded by saying, “No, no, we need to safeguard, you understand, protect Robyn’s inheritance,” as Janelle remembered. Now that she’s leaving the family, according to Janelle, she wants her share of the Coyote Pass earnings and wishes to recover some of the money she invested in Robyn’s house.

But that could be a tough sell. 

Robyn remarked, “After all this time working side by side, it seems perplexing to me when Janelle mentions she’s owed money. I can’t help but wonder, how does one compute that? It’s just so puzzling.

Janelle expressed her frustration as she pointed out Kody’s inconsistency. She stated that while they were struggling to pay off Coyote Pass, he seemed to accumulate other possessions such as trailers and home decorations. She added that she noticed their house adorned with artwork, and various items, commenting that she too had spent money on similar things. In response, Kody explained that a significant portion of his funds were used for purchasing cars and insuring the children.

Janelle admitted that she wasn’t certain about Kody and Robyn’s financial management, but she often found herself astonished by the beauty of Robyn’s backyard. It was always fully landscaped, and there was always an abundance of items at her house. This left Janelle exclaiming, “Wow. Huh.

Essentially, she expressed that he didn’t give importance to her needs or desires, which was a problem that eventually exhausted her. Over time, she came to realize this and even her grown-up kids were becoming increasingly frustrated, questioning things like, “What on earth, Mom?

Instead, we could say: Robyn became more cautious with her finances following the breakdown of her first marriage.

She confided during the September 22 episode that she wasn’t particularly good with finances in the past. Growing up, she faced many challenges, and it was only through her divorce that she truly mastered budgeting skills. Regarding her sister wives, she suggested that they may have had different financial priorities compared to hers.

Currently, as revealed in the September 22 episode, Janelle admitted that she and Meri, Robyn, and Kody (parents of Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown) seldom interact with each other on a personal level. She expressed her belief that this situation is unlikely to change significantly in the near future.

Reflecting on the period when they owned four houses on a single cul-de-sac in Las Vegas, Kody described it as “the peak of my life’s happiness.” He added, “Things were running smoothly, and it was wonderful having Maddie and Caleb around. Caleb was more like family to me, someone I truly cherished.

However, discord arose in Arizona concerning coronavirus safety measures, leading to a disintegration of sorts. Similarly, he explained that once his marriages crumbled, so did his connections with the children: “This seemed to spoil all our relationships.

But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021. 

On the September 22nd show, she remarked that the children who appeared frustrated had been feeling that way long before her departure. She emphasized that her leaving did not alter the dynamics of their relationships with Kody. In essence, Kody has the ability to mend his connections with his own kids.

Though it’ll definitely take some work. 

Kody expressed his frustration, saying, “I’ve been deeply hurt by how I’ve been perceived, and I haven’t been able to move past that yet.” He continued, “I refuse to accept blame for actions my wife or ex-wife is accusing me of. I can only hope that one day the resentment will fade, allowing us to find forgiveness and love once more.

At the ages of 21 and 19, Kody and Meri admitted they were not well-acquainted with each other when they got married spiritually and legally. Over time, they eventually filed for divorce in 2014, enabling Kody to adopt Robyn’s three oldest children from her previous marriage. (This was done for legal reasons.)

To put it in my own words as an ardent admirer: “At the time we tied the knot, she seemed distinctly different from what I had expected. Now, I believe there were certain emotional burdens she carried that were unbeknownst to me. Initially, I thought I could adapt to the situation. However, as time went on, it felt like every conversation between us was a battlefield, and I couldn’t bear existing in a realm where she consistently harbored resentment towards me.

Despite his desire to depart, he found himself unable to do so. Kody, a man in a plural marriage, stated that if one wishes to remain faithful and adhere to their faith, divorce is not an option. Consequently, he couldn’t escape the relationship. However, he didn’t yearn for an exit from the relationship altogether. Instead, he sought to understand if there was a possibility of repairing and salvaging it.

Consequently, there seemed to be conflicting signals to him regarding Meri’s belief that they could resolve their issues. However, whenever they were in each other’s company, Kody admitted that she was neither pleasant nor entertaining, nor kind or intriguing. In essence, he expressed feeling bored and attempting to maintain curiosity towards her.

He acknowledged that it was understandable for Meri to feel deserted, yet clarified, “However, none of them forced me to depart from our shared residence. Instead, Christine, Janelle, and Meri made their individual choices to let me go.

Even though Janelle and Christine believed that they didn’t require a divorce from Kody since their union was never officially recognized by law, Meri petitioned their church for a formal separation, which is referred to as a ‘release’, towards the end of 2022.

In the September 22 episode, she clarified that all four of us women had entered into a covenant with Kody when we got married. However, it wasn’t legal marriage. We called it a covenant. Since we’re not planning on moving forward with any marital commitment in the future, I feel it’s necessary to dissolve this union completely. I don’t want to be eternally bound to him if he doesn’t wish for it, and I’m at a point where I want a clean break from this situation.

Kody hesitated on the idea, she mentioned, preferring not to recognize or submit to the power held by the church officials.

Kody made clear that the harm was so extensive that reconciliation is no longer an option, no matter the circumstances. He further expressed his discontent with being held accountable by the church, finding their rules burdensome. Consequently, he decided to give Meri her freedom, as holding a grudge against her only fuels conflict. He felt it was best for her to move on because it had taken her so long to acknowledge that the situation had been resolved for quite some time.

The holiday gift exchange conversation in 2021 took an unpleasant turn for the 18 Brown children, as Christine explained. “Things fell apart, things went wrong,” she described. “Kody and Robyn, along with their kids, were on one side, while they had no interest in Janelle, me, or our kids. After this text conversation, a division occurred.

Robyn explained that her older children perceived the interaction as “uncomfortable emotionally” and decided to distance themselves from the relationship temporarily. However, she clarified it wasn’t a matter of wanting to cut off all contact or disassociate completely; rather, they expressed feeling uneasy similar to saying, “This situation became awkward.

For his part, Gabriel is hoping that they could find their way back to each other. 

He admitted during the October 13 episode that what he yearns for the most is rekindling a relationship with Robyn’s children. In middle school, Aurora was his preferred companion, and in high school, he always attempted to connect with Dayton. However, he’s not optimistic about forming a relationship with their father and Robyn.

Aurora firmly stated that she was repeatedly informed by various individuals and situations, on multiple occasions, that she wasn’t welcomed as part of the family when her mother married Kody in 2010. They made it clear to her that she wasn’t their sister, and they didn’t recognize or accept her in that role.

Her sister Breanna expressed that the parents might’ve made more efforts to foster our family bonding, but unfortunately, those attempts seemed lacking and never materialized fully.

But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.

Robyn’s children and Robyn are always welcome to join any event,” she emphasized. “In other words, they can drop by our house whenever it suits them.

At the same time, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown shared a strong bond with Robyn’s children. In fact, Mykelti Brown Padron resided with them for a while: “During challenging times, my children felt equally connected to Robyn’s kids as their own siblings.

Expressing her enthusiasm, Janelle described plural marriage as follows: “When it’s working well, you become part of an incredible family network, connected to a community that supports and uplifts you. You have a husband whom you share a strong bond with, and yet, you also enjoy your own independence. To me, this kind of marriage offers a wonderful balance.

Kody, however, wouldn’t say “I do” to polygamy again.

He expressed his viewpoint during the December 1st broadcast: “Polygamy tends to stifle emotional intimacy.” He further explained, “It creates a defensive atmosphere, and what I yearn for is an emotionally open, intimate relationship with a woman. However, such connections are difficult to establish in polygamous relationships.

According to Janelle, Kody found it harder to split his affection when the family moved from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.

In the September 29th episode, it was noted that when Kody relocated to Flagstaff, he found it more comfortable being apart. Occasionally, I had to remind him that he should visit my house. He’d often make excuses about being tired, but she mentioned, “I understand you’re tired. But you can rest just as easily at my house as you can at Robyn’s.

In my experience, I’ve noticed a certain distance my brood felt with Robyn. This was evident when we were reprimanded if we dared to open her refrigerator. For me and my siblings, it was more about the fact that we witnessed their relationship with our father, but he wasn’t physically present in our household.

And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide. 

In the September 29th episode, she mentioned that Meri was open and welcoming towards my children and me, but the rest of the family found it difficult to accept us. She expressed that our goal was simply to become a part of their family.

Instead, Gabriel might contend that he and his kin made considerable efforts to integrate them into their group.

In the October 13th broadcast, he expressed his belief that Robyn might be suffering from a victim mentality. To put it simply, and without placing blame, I believe she’s developed certain coping mechanisms to navigate her life effectively, as we all do in our own ways.

Based on my own experiences and interactions with people, I firmly believe that trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship. If someone suspects that I or those close to me have mistreated them or their loved ones, it would be nearly impossible for me to rebuild a relationship with them. This is not just because of the potential harm to my reputation, but because the underlying feelings of mistrust and resentment would make any attempts at friendship or partnership feel forced and insincere. In this specific case, if Robyn truly believes that we were mistreating her or her children when she was receiving favor from another family member, I fear that there is no hope for a relationship between us in the future. Trust must be earned over time through consistent actions and words, and once it’s broken, it can be incredibly difficult to restore.

During a September 29 broadcast, Kody described how the frequent movement between four homes impacted his eighteen children. He recounted an instance when his and Robyn’s youngest daughter, Ariella (born in January 2016), became attached to him as he attempted to depart, clinging to his leg.

In a heartfelt confession, I found myself saying, “I have another partner and more children who require my time and attention, and it’s not easy to balance these responsibilities.” As she clung to me, pleading, “Don’t leave me, Daddy, don’t leave me,” I couldn’t help but feel the weight of this complex situation. It truly is a challenging journey.

Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle. 

Initially, she made it clear to her children that their father wouldn’t always be around due to his frequent absences. It seemed to her that Kody and Robyn mishandled the situation with their children. He was unable to stay away for more than three or four days because Ari would become very upset. This behavior struck her as poor parenting, considering the other children had dealt with similar situations in the past and have grown up to be well-adjusted adults.

Among the not many young individuals with the surname Brown, Mykelti maintained a strong bond with both Robyn, Kody, and also their other wives, Christine and Janelle. During Kody’s divorce proceedings, it was Mykelti who often acted as a mediator or peacemaker.

From the get-go, Mykelti bonded closely with Robyn once she joined the Brown family. In fact, Mykelti extended an invitation for Robyn to be present during the birth of her twins in November 2022 – Archer and Ace.

In the September 29th broadcast, Mykelti shared, “When Robyn initially became part of our family, I was still discovering myself, and she managed to make me feel unique and understood.” She further added, “Robyn was a source of support for me during difficult times. She was someone who listened to me, cared for me, and loved me when I needed it most.

Christine’s motherly joy knew no bounds when she saw how well Robyn and Mykelti got along. “Ever since Robyn joined our family, it’s been just what I had envisioned,” Christine said on the Oct. 6 episode. “I always dreamed of having a large family with my children having strong bonds with other mothers.

Kody expressed that it’s not just his wives who have distanced themselves from him; he believes they are intentionally excluding him as a form of retribution for a crime he maintains his innocence about. During the October 6th episode, he elaborated on his strained relationship with some of his older children, stating that he is only culpable for not having deeply fallen in love with their mothers.

What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame. 

The strain I experience in my bond with my kids is predominantly swirling around in my thoughts due to gossip, I admit. It feels as if a tornado of disillusionment has swept through our family, and it’s become all too easy to lay the blame at the feet of the father figure, myself included, because I believe I’ve made mistakes.

However, though he bears some responsibility for the situation, he strongly objects to the derogatory remarks. In fact, he openly admitted to having difficulties bonding with Hunter, Maddie, and Gabriel. Kody confessed that one of his children replied to a text message saying, “You are worthless. I wouldn’t talk to you again even if I tried.

In another occurrence, he expressed to the cameras, “One of my children recently said to me, ‘You are a jerk. I will no longer speak with you. You have manipulated me and indoctrinated me.’

He’s unwilling to continue addressing the issue with venom. “I won’t keep reaching out indefinitely,” he asserted, expressing his belief that grown-ups should take responsibility for fixing things. “I’m prepared to put forth the effort, but someone else needs to be ready to reciprocate and make an effort as well.

For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home. 

In her conversation during the Oct. 6 episode, she shared that when she was very young, her parents separated through divorce. This meant that her father lived with another woman in a different city, while her mother lived on her own. She recalled asking him why he wasn’t around more when she was younger, only to be given unsatisfying excuses. It was a difficult time for her as he didn’t seem to understand the impact his absence had on her life.

Instead of letting Kody’s wounded emotions hinder his efforts, it was clear that she wasn’t going to let it go. During their intense confrontation captured on camera towards the end of 2022, she expressed her feelings by saying, “I find myself struggling not to lose a bit of respect for you.

Kody admitted that he might not be doing enough to repair his relationships with his children, but he emphasized that healing his own heart is a necessary step first.

He disclosed his frustration, admitting that some of his children seem to be conspiring against him. He expressed concern that speaking to them might provoke further accusations, which he fears could set him off and cause more harm than good at this moment, as he’s currently too emotionally charged.

Despite many members of their family being present at Logan’s wedding to Michelle Petty in October 2022, there seemed to be a lack of affection among them.

In the October 6th episode, Kody expressed frustration to Robyn, saying that he noticed Madison hurriedly took her children away from him. He mentioned that his daughter hadn’t shared the news of her third pregnancy with him, and their daughter Josephine was born in February 2023. Essentially, he said that she didn’t inform him about her being pregnant.

Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.

Janelle clarified that Maddie has no relationship with Kody, which is why she avoided him at the wedding. She’s extremely cautious about her kids, and since Evie was born over three years ago, Kody hasn’t been around. Maddie didn’t want him to suddenly appear and claim to be their grandpa, leaving them confused and wondering who he was.

Kody expressed that it’s impractical for grandparents to be constantly involved in their grandchildren’s lives, using the example of Maddie living in North Carolina. He pointed out that if you relocate your children across an entire coast, maintaining such closeness becomes challenging given work and personal commitments in a place like Flagstaff.

As a devoted follower, I recognize that Kody and his grown children hold contrasting perspectives regarding their current rift. One point of contention seems to be his insistence on receiving an apology or acknowledgement of wrongdoing from his side.

Following the end of the COVID-related concerns, we found ourselves resuming our regular lives, but there remained a rift within our family that Janelle spoke about in the Oct. 13 episode. She explained that Kody had issues with the boys, who needed to apologize, particularly to Robyn, and after this request grew into something more complex, it essentially boiled down to them needing to have a conversation with her.

In Janelle’s words, Kody’s problem was that he felt his children didn’t remain faithful to him, and the one who gives her heart and soul in this family has been treated disrespectfully or unfairly, as she put it. She expressed, “Whatever Kody. Yeah, whatever,” in response.

Gabriel expressed a similar sentiment when he recounted his conversation with his father. “He seemed to keep insisting that I owed him an apology,” he told Janelle. “Finally, I said something like, ‘Unless you’re genuinely prepared to rebuild our relationship and make things right, we won’t speak anymore.’ A few days later, he texted me back. He wrote something like, ‘Hey, I’ve been thinking about what you’ve been saying. I forgive you, Please forgive me.’ I replied, ‘Forgive me for what?’

Among the six children Kody has with Janelle, he primarily interacts with their youngest, Savanah. While it’s not very frequent, about every two months or so, they speak on the phone and occasionally go out together. The other children don’t seem to have much of a relationship with him. (Janelle explained this in the October 13 episode.)

Regarding Savannah, who completed high school in 2023, it can be observed that her four elder brothers assume a paternal role for her. In fact, she has admitted to Janelle that she might ask her siblings to escort her during her future wedding procession.

In conversation with Savanah, she expressed, “I’ve come to understand that this is the type of person he is.” She further added, “‘He’ll be a dad who spends quality time with us and then leaves. I can adapt to his lifestyle. It’s alright.’

Janelle, however, is less forgiving. 

She expressed her frustration towards Kody, saying, ‘I’m really fed up with him.’ She has witnessed similar situations in the past. Many women she has worked with have gone through a divorce, only to find that the father disappears from their children’s lives afterwards.

Initially, when the father-son conflict arose, “Gabriel found it particularly tough since Kody often invited Gabriel along on his work trips,” as explained by Janelle. She further added that Kody had been a highly involved father until recently.

Despite being puzzled about what might have upset his father, Gabriel asserted during the October 13 episode: “I told Dad that if he doesn’t alter and can’t acknowledge responsibility, then I simply won’t meet him anymore. And I’m completely content with that decision.

In her own words, Janelle expressed that he finds contentment in the absence of his father in his life. Moreover, she wishes this same peace for all her children and believes they are gradually understanding this too.

For his part, Kody also seems resigned to the situation. 

He expressed regret for how Gabriel seems, adding, “I’ve attempted to reach out to him numerous times, but each time I’ve been turned down.” However, he assured that his attempts to connect weren’t due to any lack of effort on his part.

Meri was likely the final spouse to part ways with Kody, and she legally ended their relationship in late 2022. This was done by asking for and obtaining what their church refers to as a release, based on allegations of desertion.

She pointed out during the October 13 broadcast that he dislikes that particular word because it seems to him as though he didn’t leave her behind. Instead, she feels he did.

To put it another way, she believes he paid little attention to her needs until she decided to depart, which allowed him to claim, “I had no part in this.

And Kody didn’t totally deny that he had a bit of a strategy. 

He admitted that he had already moved past the situation a while ago, but in a candid moment, he acknowledged his fear of her reaction if he confronted her directly. This fear stemmed from the fact that Meri was never loyal to him throughout their relationship. His primary concern was preserving his reputation, as divorce often damages one’s public image.

Instead, alleged Meri, it was hers that was being tarnished. 

She expressed her disappointment by saying, “It’s truly unfortunate how Kody is speaking about our marriage nowadays.” It seems as though his perspective on our relationship has shifted, but the accusations he makes about me to others and the fact that they believe him are false.

Before my separation from Kody, I began to recognize that our compatibility wasn’t ideal, as we discovered during a relationship assessment suggested by our therapy professional based in the vibrant city of Las Vegas.

Christine outlined the characteristics she desired in a potential partner, stating that she wanted someone who was a good conversationalist, committed to being involved in her life and her kids’ lives, and genuinely attracted to her. However, Kody didn’t fit any of those qualities, as she shared on the October 20th episode, saying “He’s not any of the things you listed,” followed by his admission “I’m not any of those things for you.” She confirmed this by responding “No, you’re not.

The message played a significant role in helping her realize swiftly that David Woolley was indeed her match.

As a devoted admirer, I can attest that family holds the utmost significance for this dedicated father of eight, who runs his own drywall business. Known for his integrity and authenticity, he is genuinely esteemed for his exceptional communication skills.

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2024-12-30 13:21