Halle Berry’s Ex David Justice Reveals Why He Wanted Divorce

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David Justice is sharing his take on his divorce from Halle Berry.

In simpler terms, the three-time Major League Baseball (MLB) All-Star reminisced about his relationship with the Academy Award winner, whom he was married to between 1993 and 1997. His beliefs about traditional gender roles prompted him to leave their shared life behind.

During the August 7th episode of the All the Smoke podcast, he shared that he was relatively inexperienced in romantic relationships as he had been in only one significant relationship prior to this one. He admitted that his comprehension and insight regarding relationships were still quite limited at the time.

It’s worth noting that by 2001, the man who is now 59 years old, having married Rebecca Villalobos, confessed that his previous traditional views on marriage might have played a role in determining the longevity of their union.

By tying the knot with Rebecca Villalobos in 2001, this 59-year-old individual acknowledged that his traditional perspective on marriage may have influenced the durability of their relationship over time.

Reflecting back, he considered whether this was the right woman to start a family with, if they were to have children together. At that point in his life, she didn’t cook or clean much, and didn’t seem particularly maternal. Later on, they began experiencing problems.

As a devoted fan following the insights of a legendary baseball player, I’ve learned that one challenge the previous couple faced was their contrasting work timetables.

He clarified that due to her film commitments in one country and another, we spent a considerable amount of time separated. Reflecting on the situation, he admitted that with the knowledge of therapy, our relationship might have survived.

However, although David eventually parted ways with Halle, who is 58 years old, he often pondered whether their relationship had the potential for a lasting bond from the start.

He mentioned that she proposed marriage to him after only five months of knowing each other. However, he admitted that his feelings might not have been fully committed at the time. He didn’t want to disappoint her by refusing, so he agreed instead.

TopMob News has reached out to Halle’s rep for comment but has not heard back.

In the years following her role in “Die Another Day,” Halle Berry was married to Eric Benét from 2001 to 2005, and Olivier Martinez from 2013 to 2016. However, since 2020, she has been dating Van Hunt, and he is reportedly keen on proposing marriage.

During their interview with Today.com in June, Van stated, “I’ve presented the idea, but it hasn’t been decided yet as you can see,” he explained. “It’s simply waiting to be picked up.

Meanwhile, the singer, aged 55, might be waiting for a reply, but Halle, mother of 17-year-old Nahla Ariela Aubry (with ex Gabriel Aubry) and 11-year-old Maceo-Robert Martinez (with Olivier), hinted that more wedding ceremonies could be on the horizon for her.

She expressed that out of all her past spouses, this is the one she believes she should have been with in the first place. She feels a strong desire for them to get married, not because they feel compelled, but because it’s something they both wish to do – an expression of their mutual desire and preference.

For now, continue scrolling to discover more about the enduring relationships of other celebrity pairs who’ve shared their thoughts on the matter.

In Marlo Thomas and Phil Donahue’s 2020 book “What Makes a Marriage Last,” Hermann emphasized that he never expected to laugh as much in his marriage as he does. He described joy as a core aspect of his partner, this persistent pursuit of it. Over the past 20 years, he believes what keeps their union strong is knowing that his partner loves him for who he is, and that definition encapsulates grace. To find happiness is crucial, even following intense disagreements. As Hermann explained, one of them often breaks the ice with a joke about the very topic they were arguing over, effectively saying, “I’m not admitting I was wrong, nor do I still believe I was entirely right, but can we at least start moving back towards where we connected?” Once that happens, it’s a positive indication that things are on their way to being resolved.

By adhering to the same advice they received during their pre-marital counseling in 2003, they’ve managed to postpone significant renovations. Tuesday date nights remain a priority for them even after welcoming five children into their family, and they’ve chosen alternative means of bonding rather than buying a TV.

If asked, Chip would suggest pursuing the one you love relentlessly, like a persistent hornet. With over two decades together, he still feels as though he’s courting for a second date. He’s not implying that his partner may ever be unfaithful, but rather, it’s unlikely due to him consistently expressing his love through gestures such as sending flowers or remembering special dates.

In a playful manner, Bacon suggested that one should be cautious about seeking advice from celebrities, referencing his long-lasting marriage. In reality, they strive to avoid arguments, seldom insisting on being right for the sake of victory. “The Closer” actress clarified that when they do have disagreements, they both seek resolutions swiftly, eager to restore harmony as they believe there is no alternative but to work through their issues. In essence, she emphasized, “There’s no Plan B. We want to make it work, no matter what.

After more than three decades of marriage, the actors have become skilled at having constructive disagreements. As Michael J. Fox from Family Ties put it, “Tracy and I don’t poke at old wounds.” In some relationships, people may see their partner’s weaknesses and feel compelled to exploit them, treating it like a game or contest. We avoid doing that.”

“Sometimes you just have to remind yourself, ‘You know what? He said something hurtful without realizing it, but he’s a good person and I’m going to give him the benefit of the doubt that he didn’t intend to harm my feelings.’

Curtis remarked during an interview on Today in December 2024, before their 40th wedding anniversary, that the director of Waiting for Guffman makes him laugh more than anyone else. He jokingly added, “I’m certain there must be something about me that he appreciates, even though I’m not sure what it is.

The former star of “How I Met Your Mother” explained that one factor contributing to their long-lasting relationship is the shared understanding that relationships are somewhat intangible. Over 21 years of career changes, raising twins (Gideon and Harper), and facing challenges, Harris acknowledged that marriage doesn’t remain static. He described how the excitement of physical intimacy can sometimes wane, requiring both parties to find new ways to rekindle their connection. As they age, he added, what initially drew them together – their bodies – may shift, but the attraction to each other’s souls continues to evolve. In essence, they continue to fall in love with one another, but in different ways over time.

In a fitting manner, comedic actors perceive their humor as contributing significantly to their existence, not only in their 19-year long partnership but also in individual moments. As the actress from Can You Ever Forgive Me? explained, “We attribute a certain period of time to every hearty laugh, especially those that leave us nearly breathless-like, ‘Wow, that was intense!’-as if it adds additional life to us. I’m always keeping track. I might say, ‘That was about six months-I just gained an extra six months!'”

They also set a time frame for disputes. Falcone, for instance, shared her experience with the popular advice not to go to bed angry: “I tried it once, but I found that by morning, I had forgotten what I was upset about. It’s not productive to dissect an argument when everyone is weary and potentially under the influence of alcohol. I’ve never encountered a situation where we’d have an argument at ten o’clock in the evening, only to conclude, ‘Well, that was a productive conversation. We found closure. Truce agreed.’

In 1995, both individuals were already married and had become step-parents to each other’s children. As the Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist actor explained, navigating a marriage was challenging enough, but adding in the role of step-parenting two children each presented its own unique difficulties. Upon reflection, he noted that it became clear that the children already had mothers, and his role wasn’t to replace them. Instead, he aimed to be supportive, recognizing that everyone could benefit from a cheerleader. He chose not to set boundaries, discipline, or instruct right from wrong, as their parents were responsible for those tasks. His Cheers co-star wholeheartedly agreed with this approach, advocating for offering friendship and support without judgment. The focus was on being genuinely present and available for the children.

When same-sex civil unions became legal in Britain, the renowned musician and the Canadian advertising executive got married in a ceremony on December 21, 2005. They repeated this ritual on the same day nine years later when they were allowed to legally wed. However, the anniversary they celebrate is their unexpected encounter during a dinner party at the singer’s flat in Windsor, England in 1993, which was arranged by a mutual friend.

Every Saturday, regardless of where they are in the world or whether they are together or apart, these two exchange handwritten letters. Over time, this practice has resulted in approximately 1,352 letters being written between them. As Furnish explains, “There’s something very spiritual and real about handwriting, and the cards provide an opportunity to reflect on the past week and discuss the upcoming week.” The five-time Grammy winner concurs, emphasizing that “Communication is crucial for a lasting relationship, and it plays a significant role in its success.

They prioritize their marriage above all else, ensuring that it remains the focal point of their lives even as other aspects change. As she put it, “Marriage is a top priority for us, and we make a conscious effort to refocus when we lose sight of it.” If asked for advice by a surgeon, he would emphasize the importance of putting the bond first: “I would do anything for her – climb any mountain, take any bullet, even one in the chest. I might make mistakes that upset her, but my love will always find a way to reach her.” In essence, their message is that no obstacle should come between them and their commitment to each other.

ABC News reporter Roberts typically prefers serious conversations over casual chit-chat. As she admitted, “I don’t appreciate the routine check-ins.” She dislikes calls that are merely to ask, “So, what’s new?” However, a close friend proposed an idea that shifted her perspective. The friend suggested, “Maybe he feels at ease when he hears your voice because it means everything is okay for him.” Roberts found this thoughtful and hadn’t considered it before. If the calls meant something to her partner, she realized they should matter to her as well.

Now, Roberts said she has learned to take a moment to respond warmly, even when she’s busy. “Sweetie, I have a lot on my plate, but how about you? Great to hear from you. Gotta run. Talk to you later. Love you.” This small change brings joy to her partner and doesn’t cause her significant inconvenience. They celebrated their 29th anniversary in September 2024.

In their early married life, minor disputes often felt like potential deal-breakers – even one involving the actor from Riverdale tossing Kelly Ripa’s ring out the window. As the Live With Kelly and Ryan star explained, it’s easy for small issues such as financial stress, career pressures, or sleep deprivation due to children to escalate in a marriage. However, Mark has taught her the importance of stepping away, taking a breather, and realizing that those moments are not defining for their marriage.

Now, after weathering many storms together, they can truly appreciate the wisdom they’ve gained. As he put it, happy couples who seem to have it all have undoubtedly survived some wild, challenging experiences – something worth being proud of.

In a candid conversation, the star of “How to Get Away With Murder” described her personality as leaning towards introversion, hinting at being on the borderline of solitude. On the other hand, she referred to her partner as an extrovert par excellence, someone who is always the life of every party. She acknowledged a slight untidiness in herself, while he was termed as having tendencies towards OCD by the Oscar laureate. Despite these differences, they have learned to accommodate each other since their marriage in 2003.

The actress offers this piece of advice to her friends who are about to tie the knot: “Marriage doesn’t officially begin when you walk down the aisle; it starts long before that. You look at your partner, someone you love deeply, and there’s one particular trait that bothers you-something that might drive you up the wall. But then, the next moment, you realize, ‘I love him.’ That’s when your marriage truly begins.

In any relationship that lasts over 50 years, it’s important not to let disagreements linger. As Grace from ‘Grace and Frankie’ pointed out, “I’m usually the one who apologizes. It’s easy because I love her and can’t stand the thought of her feeling lonely for even five minutes.”

A more effective approach, she suggested, is to avoid apologizing to your partner altogether. Her main advice was, “Remember, when you’re angry at your partner and say something hurtful, you’ll regret it later for having said those words to the person you care about. You’ll feel upset twice. It’s not good for your health, and definitely not good for your relationship.

In every relationship, there’s often a shared theme of discontent, and this discontent usually arises when we try to change someone into something they’re not. While it’s normal to hope for changes, it’s important to remember that such attempts may lead to resentment. Therefore, it’s advisable not to marry anyone with the assumption that they will transform into a different person.”

In this paraphrased version, I aimed to convey the essence of the original text while using more straightforward language and eliminating some specific references (like Judge Judy) to make it easier for a wider audience to understand.

The former student, who found himself again, would indeed be at a loss without his long-standing partner, whom he wed in 1993. As he shared with TopMob News in April 2025, “My spouse-patiently enduring my global wanderings and transitions from one job to another-she has been instrumental in maintaining our family’s stability. She’s truly remarkable.

The actor described his wife as being exceptionally patient, explaining that his two sons and his wife keep him humbled, regardless of what circumstances arise.

“They shape my values,” he added. “It’s great to have that perspective and North Star.”

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2025-08-12 01:48