Bachelor’s Bekah Martinez Defends Not Shaving for 7 Years

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Bekah Martinez doesn’t need the public’s rose.

The woman who appeared on ‘The Bachelor’ season 22 in 2018, and is well-known for expressing her own views, didn’t hold back when someone criticized her decision to let her leg hair grow. At 30 years old, she confidently responded to the negativity.

Bekah, who has been in a relationship with Grayston Leonard since 2022, revealed that she encountered a comment stating, “Your appearance doesn’t match your hairy legs. Grayston must find you unpleasant.” In response, she openly discussed her reasons for making the decisions she has.

In third grade, I began secretly taking my mother’s razors. I recall fervently wishing that God would make all the hair on my body disappear. Not only family and friends, but also teachers and coaches would occasionally tease me when any of my jet-black leg stubble became noticeable. Despite being seemingly harmless, these incidents served to further reinforce in my mind that the hair on my body was somehow wrong. This is what she shared in a post on Instagram, published by People magazine on July 8th, before the account was deleted.

Bekah, who co-parents Ruth (age 6), Franklin (age 5), and Ernest (age 21 months) along with Grayston, elaborated about her desire for her kids to avoid experiencing beauty standards as intensely as she did.

She expressed her desire for her daughter and future sons to understand that a woman’s body hair is natural, not something to be ashamed or disgusted about. She wished to show them that having body hair does not make one more masculine. As a woman, she believes that her own body hair is feminine.

Towards the close of the day, she pointed out that her partner was fine with her choice, as indicated in the caption, “It’s worth mentioning that Gray attended a liberal arts school in Oregon, so he’s no stranger to ladies who forgo shaving.

And Grayson echoed the sentiment, reportedly writing, “Love you and your hairy legs.”

For more stars who have clapped back at body shamers, read on.

In her TikTok video posted on May 3, Reese Witherspoon’s daughter expressed that she had recently reached a significant accomplishment online as a woman. She mentioned that two separate individuals commented on her physical appearance.

She added, “The first one suggested I join a diet program since I’m overweight. The second claimed I was anorexic because I look too skinny. However, my weight remained unchanged during that time span. And even if it had, it wouldn’t be any of their business!

Ava stated, “Nobody should be judged based on their appearance alone.” She further explained, “Sometimes we don’t realize the hardships others have faced or the battles they fight internally. Yet, regardless of who you are, your true beauty surpasses these shallow evaluations.

Following some comments that were critical of her body, the singer known as “I’m Good” retorted at the critics and shared her feelings about constant criticism regarding her appearance. In a tweet dated June 23rd, she stated, “Yes, I’ve gained weight, but I am tired of people discussing it. On to the next thing!!!”.

In another post, the 33-year-old remarked, “People can experience changes in weight over time,” she explained, “Life can be unpredictable and it’s important to remember that others may be dealing with various factors like medications, health issues, and so on…

In response to criticism about her appearance in an Instagram photo, the actress of “House Bunny” replied by expressing concern over body shaming comments and defending her right to privacy. She stated that while she doesn’t need to respond, she felt compelled to speak up due to the inappropriate remarks left on her post. She also mentioned that the photograph may have given an unrealistic impression of her size, but regardless of others’ opinions, it is not appropriate for them to share their thoughts or judgments about her body.

She asserted, “When people comment on my appearance, suggesting I’m too thin or should eat more, it’s neither useful nor acceptable. It’s plainly body shaming, a behavior I strongly oppose.

Approximately a week past, she posted a picture of herself sunbathing in a bikini with the caption, “For those who dislike…with love and appreciation, give a kiss [kiss emoji] to my [peach emoji], I’ll continue to smile no matter what [peace sign emoji].

 

In February 2021, there was public conjecture about the actress being pregnant, sparked by pictures of her wearing a dark blue tank top on set in Australia that were posted online. The actress, in a seldom-used Instagram Story post, criticized the news outlet that shared these photos, stating, “Apparently, it’s still acceptable in 2021 for anyone to speculate and comment on a woman’s body shape whenever they like? Let’s strive for better @nypost.

The TV personality from “Flip or Flop” shared her thoughts following continuous criticism of her appearance on social networking sites. In a video posted on Instagram Stories on February 7th, she stated, “Some are commenting that I appear very slim or suggesting I should eat more.” She clarified that this is her usual weight and added, “You’ve only seen me give birth and return to my original weight. So rest assured, everything is normal.

After her separation from Jim Edmonds, the previous Bravo star requested fans to stop commenting on her body. “Eat a burger,” they often write. To be honest, I’m too thin, she admitted on Instagram in December 2019. However, I kindly ask for some understanding. I am managing everything with as much dignity as possible while prioritizing my children above all else.

In response to being labeled “too skinny,” the renowned singer defended herself against such remarks by stating to Entertainment Tonight, “Is there something amiss with my physique? I’ve always been slender. I practice ballet, which involves a lot of stretching, and exercise helps maintain harmony between my mind, body, and spirit.

If you don’t prefer constructive feedback, this may not be the ideal environment for you. I prioritize my own well-being by choosing what benefits me and discarding what doesn’t. My leadership team handles any potential negative impacts, and if anyone feels upset, they will address it. Ultimately, I must concentrate on what serves me best, based on my feelings, and remember, it’s impossible to satisfy everyone.

In June 2020, the singer of “Good as Hell” spoke out against body shamers. She stated in a TikTok video, “I’ve been working out for five years now, and it might be surprising to some that I’m not trying to achieve your idea of a perfect body. I exercise to reach my own ideal body, and let me tell you, nobody else’s opinion matters because I am beautiful, strong, and focused on my work.

The self-assured performer has never hesitated to speak out against body shamers. In 2016, she told Glamour, “If someone calls me fat, even in a vulnerable moment, I chuckle to myself and think, I’m doing my best, so there’s nothing more I can do.” She further stated, “I don’t have a six-pack. Maybe I’m not even interested in having one. It doesn’t seem very appealing.

After the Oscar winner posted a nude photo online, one critic, who later deleted their tweet, commented disparagingly, “It’s hard to believe that at her age, she continues to post provocative photos for male attention during menopause, when she should be enjoying time with her grandchildren. It seems that maintaining dignity as one ages is no longer a concern.

Subsequently, Halle retorted playfully, “By the way, did you all know that a shrimp’s heart is actually situated within its head?

The star of “Señorita” earlier posted on her Instagram Stories a message for her critics. She said, “I’ve stayed away from social media intentionally to avoid things that might hurt my feelings. One headline caught my eye about people ‘body shaming me.’ At first, I felt insecure just imagining what these photos must look like, oh no! Cellulite! Oh no! I didn’t suck in my stomach! But then I thought…of course there are bad pictures, of course there are bad angles, after all, my body isn’t made of stone or muscles. The saddest part is young girls growing up in a world saturated with airbrushed images are striving for an unattainable perfection. This post is dedicated to young women like my sister who are growing up on social media. They see only photoshopped and edited pictures, thinking that’s reality. But it isn’t. It’s fake. And as we continue to accept this fake as the new real, we distort our perception of a woman’s body. Girls, cellulite is normal. Fat is normal. It’s beautiful and natural. Today, I refuse to be deceived by the nonsense! I hope you don’t either.

In May 2019, the singer shared a video of her performing at the Hangout Music Festival while wearing a black leotard. Following the video’s release, a social media user commented on the artist’s body size, saying ” frankly, I didn’t find her very curvy!? I must admit, I hadn’t noticed her like that before listening to TopMob, the song she sang with two other country musicians!!” Nevertheless, the pop star promptly responded, saying “I’ve put on a few pounds; get used to it.

She additionally criticized the fashion industry when she alleged that certain designers declined to outfit her for the Grammys due to her weight. On Instagram in January 2019, she expressed, “Encourage women to appreciate their bodies rather than making them feel inferior because of their size.” She continued, “We are all beautiful, regardless of our size! Whether small or large! And my size 8 figure will still be attending the Grammys. #LOVEYOURBODY

Originally, a famous person shared a picture showing joy after her husband Stephen Curry and his Golden State Warriors teammates won Game 4 against the Portland Trail Blazers in the Western Conference Finals. In this photo, she is holding her son Canon. One of her followers then inquired, “Are you expecting another baby?

She laughed, but then said, “Not at all!” At that moment, she shared, “Every photo shows my 30-pound son putting quite a strain on my back.

In a different post, someone remarked, “It seems this child weighs around 30 pounds, which suggests some significant health concerns.” However, the cookbook writer firmly disagreed, stating, “I’m sorry, but absolutely not.

As an overjoyed new mom, just seven days into this incredible journey, I couldn’t resist sharing a heartfelt note with all my beloved listeners on Instagram.

No, I did not get a tummy tuck; no, I don’t have a personal chef; and no, I do not have unlimited resources to train daily. Yes, I had a C-section, yes, I am still experiencing pain and I’m on medication, but I do have a high pain tolerance. Prior to this photo, I had undergone three other surgeries – appendix, gallbladder, and C-section. In the original picture, I was wearing a belly bandit tightly wrapped and high-waisted pants. It’s surprising that I find myself defending myself over this. If I had posted an image of my actual stomach in this photo, I would have likely been shamed as well, even though I intended to be open about my journey. Why do women feel the need to compare themselves with each other and then judge? I remind myself, as much as I remind you all, that every woman has a unique journey and our bodies are beautiful in their differences. They heal differently, react differently, and simply look different. Let’s try to be kinder to ourselves and remember that every woman is on her own journey but we are all beautiful. Instead of tearing each other down by comparing, let’s lift each other up. I appreciate you all. Back to taking care of my baby.

In April 2018, the star of Fuller House posted a picture of herself having dinner with her son Lev Bure. At this point, someone rude commented, “Despite all that exercise, you still seem to weigh more than your husband. Have you altered your eating habits?

Yet, the actress swiftly dismissed the critic. In response, she said, “If a 25-inch waist seems large to you, then perhaps you’re viewing things differently. Take care.

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2025-07-10 02:49