As a therapist who has seen my fair share of broken relationships, I can empathize with both Kody and his children. It’s heartbreaking to witness the estrangement between parents and their offspring, especially when it mirrors my own childhood experiences.
The allegations persist, as the Brown family finds themselves still grappling with the strained ties that have emerged in their relationships.
It’s clear that the strain between Kody Brown and his ex, Janelle Brown, was evident during the October 13 episode of Sister Wives. Despite not being physically present together, their disagreements reached a boiling point as Janelle spoke with her son Gabriel Brown (23) about his strained relationship with his father, Kody, who is now only married to Robyn Brown among the Browns.
I’ve got to admit, I share the sentiments of many who seem quite irked by Robyn. It feels like whenever we speak or act, she’s ready to spin things in a way that doesn’t align with our intentions. That’s why there’s this sense of apprehension towards her.
However, Kody saw the situation differently, defending his wife.
The father of 18 emphasized that Robyn had consistently been a staunch advocate for his family relationships. In their latest talks, it was Robyn who pleaded with Janelle to establish a bond, suggesting that Janelle is reluctant when it comes to forming relationships.
Gabriel couldn’t align himself with his father’s perspective regarding Robyn, confiding in Janelle, “To be honest, I struggle to hold much regard for Robyn. That’s why it’s challenging for me to understand some of her behaviors. And perhaps that’s the reason she says, ‘You’ve never liked us because you no longer respect us, given actions like those.’
Speaking about Gabriel’s therapy sessions, Janelle expressed, “Gabriel seems to have found a sense of tranquility. He’s at peace with his father not being in his life. I wish the same for all my children, and I believe they are all slowly reaching that place.
Amongst Janelle and Kody’s six kids, it was Gabriel who disclosed that he recently talked with his father regarding the part he played in the breakup of the Brown family.
Gabriel explained, “He found it difficult to accept that I remained composed, and he responded by saying, ‘You’re causing harm to our family, but not anyone else.’ However, his response was, ‘You’re as unloyal as your mother.'” (127 words)
Janelle observed that over the course of their 30-year marriage, Kody’s emphasis on loyalty and respect was something that had only recently emerged.
Janelle pondered, finding it intriguing that Kody accuses her of being unloyal. ‘You don’t value me,’ she thought back, and replied, ‘It seems that’s a mutual obligation, my friend. He never behaved like this before. Words like loyalty, respect, disrespect, not loyal were foreign to him. It was always about love, charity, working together as a team, and unity – now it’s all about loyalty and respect.’
Regarding Kody, he makes clear that he doesn’t bear responsibility for his strained relationship with Gabriel. He expresses regret that Gabriel feels this way and mentions that he has attempted to reach out to him on numerous occasions, but those attempts were met with rejection. However, he wants to make it clear that this wasn’t due to a lack of effort on his part.
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As an ardent fan, I can’t help but echo Kody Brown’s words from back in 1990 when he swore his vows to Meri Brown. However, it seemed that just a short while after, he expressed a desire to part ways with her. He would subtly suggest change, like saying, “Oh Meri, when we move to Flagstaff, this will be an opportunity for us to start anew.” This was not the first time he had given me hope, only to have it dashed later. For years and years, he has played with my feelings in such a manner.
She openly expressed her primary issue as his poor communication regarding his true feelings, desires, and dislikes, as well as the narrative he has been conveying throughout their relationship.
Kody admitted there might have been some confusing signals, but as he delved into the tasks, he found himself questioning, “What’s the point of doing this?” He clarified that if given the opportunity today, he wouldn’t pursue a relationship with her.
Either way, Meri’s friends were thrilled when she finally pulled the plug in early 2023.
She admitted, “They essentially said, ‘We’re with you, we’re here to help. And it’s high time,'” she revealed. Removing her blinders, she now believes that for years he had been trying to encourage her to leave by asserting that he didn’t love her. “Because if I walk away, then he’s not the villain because he didn’t abandon the scene.
After many years had passed since the family bought a 14-acre plot of land in Flagstaff, Ariz., intended for construction, Kody admitted during the season premiere that he was prepared to let the dream fade away. Since they hadn’t paid off the full purchase price of $820,000 (which reports say they settled in 2023), he expressed his desire to either abandon the project or sell it and start anew somewhere else to Robyn Brown, saying, “I’d almost rather tear it down or put it up for sale, then begin anew elsewhere.
As for Robyn, “I can’t talk about that,” she responded. “That is so not where I’m at.”
Janelle Brown earlier explained to TopMob News that a gradual drifting apart was taking place between them. However, it was Kody’s shortcomings as a parent towards some of their children that eventually led her to decide to part ways.
The mom shared with Logan Brown, Madison Brown Brush, Hunter Brown, Garrison Brown, Gabriel Brown, and Savanah Brown, “The turning point for me was when his relationship with my kids fell apart. It seemed like he wasn’t willing to go to great lengths to mend it.” She continued, “At that moment, I realized that was what had been keeping me here all along.
The reason Kody didn’t put more effort into fixing the strained relationships with his multiple adult children, was what he chose to share as an explanation.
In the September 15th episode, he expressed his feelings of not belonging within the family anymore. Despite being legally married to Robyn and jointly parenting their five children – Dayton Brown, Aurora Brown, Breanna Brown, Solomon Brown, and Ariella Brown – he also has limited relationships with some of the other kids. Feeling unsure about how to handle this situation, he stated that it doesn’t feel like a family for him.
Even though they’ve been genuinely monogamous for 14 years in their marriage, Robyn admitted during the season 19 premiere that things have been especially challenging between them. “It’s been difficult between us,” she said. “Kody isn’t sure who to blame – himself or one of his other wives. He feels a lot of rejection and I think he’s wondering if I might reject him too.
Consequently, she disclosed, “I’m constantly vigilant. I’m always ensuring he isn’t undermining our relationship.” In her own words, she highlighted the challenge: “There’s no support available when it comes to being married to a man who is going through multiple divorces.
In the meantime, Kody struggled with self-doubt, expressing, “I find it hard to stand before a mirror and affirm, ‘Hi there, pal. I adore you.’
Add Madison, daughter of Janelle’s eldest child, to the list of children Kody is currently not in contact with. As explained during the premiere, “Maddie hasn’t spoken to her father,” said Janelle. “Neither has communicated, and there’s no relationship between them. She’s essentially cut ties with both him and Robin.
Janelle pointed out that Kody’s connection with Maddie’s children, Axel, Evangalynn, and Josephine, seems insincere. She expressed that he wouldn’t be allowed much interaction unless he could fully commit to it.
Consequently, during the September 22 episode, Janelle stated that Kody had essentially stopped communicating with Maddie and her husband Caleb Brush when the family began to disintegrate significantly.
Without Kody being around or reaching out, Maddie has taken on a very protective role, as expressed by Janelle. She feels that until he can be reliable and appear without causing a fuss, it might be best for everyone if they keep his existence less known.
Additionally, Robyn suggested that it would be beneficial if Kody’s children also made an effort to reconcile, stating, “I believe they should join in as well.
Currently, Kody appears unwilling to mend the estrangement as he often complains that their conversations revolve around gossip, leaving him feeling exhausted.
During their 32nd anniversary celebration, Meri confided in her friend Brandi that Kody had hinted he never truly loved her and felt obligated to marry her. She responded by telling him, “‘Kody,’ I said, ‘I know you cared for me.’
And if he didn’t, the mom to Leon Brown said in a confessional, why did he ever choose to propose?
She pondered, “Why would a bachelor decide to marry a bachelorette without truly loving her at first sight? Isn’t it unfair? To select one from among many and say, ‘I choose you, hoping to eventually grow to love you over the next 32 years’?
In his private conversation, Kody mentioned: “Well, Meri is making some allegations. She can certainly speak her mind. I won’t be responding to them.
As I pondered whether to develop further on Coyote Pass or just let it go, I realized the first step was clearing the debt on that Arizona property. With Kody refusing to discuss our predicament, it seems like I’m left with no choice but to seek legal assistance. That’s the only way I can possibly get a resolution from him, I shared this with my former sister wife, Christine Brown, in the September 22 episode.
In simpler terms, Janelle admitted that since there is no legally binding marriage between her and Kody, she lacks any legal grounds to claim ownership of his property. To explain further, she pointed out that the situation isn’t as straightforward as just calling a lawyer for a divorce because they aren’t married in the eyes of the law, making it a complex issue.
As a lifestyle expert, I’d put it this way: In our recent discussions regarding our Arizona property, I find myself hesitant to share my thoughts openly due to a growing sense of mistrust I’ve developed. This isn’t a decision I take lightly, but it’s important for me to act in accordance with my instincts and feelings.
He firmly stated during the September 22nd broadcast, “I will settle the property when necessary,” and he explained in a confessional that he prefers to keep his actions private due to his exhaustion from sharing details that end up circulating among the rumor mill of our dysfunctional family.
A bit of a pot calling the kettle black, Janelle said in her own interview.
She mentioned, “He spills secrets as if he’s got a gap in his defense, and when he did, I felt it wasn’t appropriate for him to share with me details about his other relationships and marriages.
In days gone by, when the love within the family was growing instead of waning, they would combine their funds into a single savings account.
In simpler terms, Janelle said during the September 22 broadcast that we would put all our resources into helping one person at a time, and then we’d all come together to assist the next person. This has been the norm for quite some time, until around the last decade or so. Suddenly, it seems like everyone is more concerned with building their own assets instead of working together as before.
When Robyn required a house in Arizona, everyone contributed towards purchasing her luxurious $1.65 million, five-bedroom property – this property had been up for sale since August of this year.
Initially, Robyn mentioned that acquiring the asset would benefit the entire family. However, when Janelle proposed that they all share the mortgage, she was met with opposition. Kody responded, “‘No, no, we need to safeguard, you know, protect Robyn’s estate,'” as Janelle remembered. Now that she’s leaving the family, Janelle expressed her desire to receive her fair share of the Coyote Pass earnings and also recover some of the money she invested in Robyn’s house.
But that could be a tough sell.
Robyn commented, “After all this time collaborating, it’s perplexing to me. With Janelle claiming money is due to her, I find myself wondering, ‘How do you compute that? How do you determine the amount?’ It’s just so puzzling.
Speaking about Coyote Pass not being paid off, Janelle pointed out that Kody often mentions having multiple debts. However, she’s noticed him acquiring other assets such as trailers and home decorations. She remarked, “I notice all the artwork on Robyn and Kody’s walls,” and added, “I see all these things. And I get it, I’ve spent money on things too.” In response, Kody explained that a significant portion of his funds went towards purchasing vehicles, as he said, “Basically had a fleet,” and insuring the children.
As a lifestyle expert, let me share an observation I’ve made in the past: “I’d often find myself taken aback by Robyn’s backyard and the abundance of items in her home. The yard was always fully landscaped, and her house seemed to hold an endless supply of possessions. I would exclaim, ‘Wow, really? Huh.’
In essence, she explained, “He didn’t seem to value my needs or desires.” Over time, this became a problem that eventually took its toll on her. “After a while, I could see it myself,” she said, “and even my grown children were getting quite upset about it, expressing frustration like, ‘What on earth, Mom?’
In my perspective, I became extremely mindful of my finances following the breakdown of my first marriage.
She confided on the September 22 episode, “I wasn’t so skilled at managing money in the past. My early life was tough, and it was during my divorce that I learned the art of budgeting extremely effectively.” Regarding her fellow sister wives, she stated, “It seems you prioritized your spending differently than I did; that’s all.
Currently, as seen in the September 22 episode, Janelle admitted that she and Meri, Robyn, and Kody (parents of Aspyn Brown, Mykelti Brown Padron, Paedon Brown, Gwendlyn Brown, Ysabel Brown, and Truely Brown) seldom communicate with each other, and she doesn’t anticipate this situation to improve significantly in the near future.
Speaking about their period living on a cul-de-sac with four homes in Las Vegas, Kody referred to it as “the most wonderful phase of my life.” He elaborated, “Things were running smoothly, and having Maddie and Caleb there made it even better. I adored Caleb and he truly felt like family to me.
However, discord arose in Arizona concerning coronavirus safety measures, and this tension led to a deterioration of situations. Later on, when his marriages disintegrated, he noted that his connections with his children also soured as a result: “This simply caused all the relationships to turn bitter.
But Christine insisted their were issues well before she announced she was leaving in late 2021.
She stated during the September 22 broadcast, “The kids who felt frustrated had been feeling that way long before I departed. My departure did not alter their relationship with their father; Kody still has the ability to mend his relationships with his children.
Though it’ll definitely take some work.
I’ve been deeply hurt by how I’ve been perceived, and it’s left me unable to move past it,” Kody shared. “The truth is, I refuse to shoulder blame for actions that my wife or ex-wife are accusing me of. I can only hope that one day the resentment will fade, allowing us to find forgiveness and rekindle our love.
At the age of 21 and 19, Kody admitted that he and Meri weren’t particularly well acquainted when they got married spiritually and legally. Over time, they decided to divorce in 2014 so that Kody could legally adopt Robyn’s three oldest children from her previous marriage. (This information is based on the reality TV show “Sister Wives.”)
During our wedding, she seemed distinctly different from what I later came to know. It appears there were some issues or past experiences (baggage) that Meri had concealed which I wasn’t aware of initially. At first, I thought I could adapt to the situation. However, as time went on, everything seemed like a constant struggle because I couldn’t live in a world where she was consistently upset with me.
Despite his desire to depart, he found himself unable to do so. Kody, a man in a plural marriage, explained, “If one wishes to remain faithful and adhere to our faith, divorce is not an option. It’s forbidden. Consequently, I couldn’t escape that relationship. However, it wasn’t that I yearned to leave the relationship altogether. I just wanted to understand if there was a chance to repair and salvage it.
Consequently, Meri believing they could resolve their issues, he admitted. However, whenever they interacted, Kody clarified, “She wasn’t pleasant, she wasn’t entertaining, she wasn’t compassionate, she wasn’t stimulating. I’m trying to be intrigued by her, but I’m growing weary.
Truly, I understand Meri’s feelings of abandonment, but let me clarify, it wasn’t a forced eviction on my part. Instead, it was Christine, Janelle, and Meri themselves who decided that I would step out of our shared abode.
Although Janelle and Christine believed they didn’t require a divorce from Kody as their union wasn’t legally recognized, Meri intended to petition their church for an official separation, which is often referred to as a “release.
In the September 22nd episode, she clarified that all four of us had entered into a covenant with Kody through our church when we married him. Since it’s not possible for all of us to have a legal marriage, we called it a covenant. Now that none of us are planning to continue with the marriage, I feel it’s right to dissolve this covenant entirely because I don’t want to be bound to him for eternity if he doesn’t wish it. At this point, I think we should sever all ties completely.
Kody was hesitant about the concept, she mentioned, preferring not to recognize or submit to the power held by the church officials.
Kody put it plainly: “The harm is so severe that there’s no way we can mend things, whatever the circumstances.” He continued, “If we are answerable to God, I don’t wish to be answerable to this church with all its nonsense. Therefore, I plan to let Meri make her own choices since if I’m upset with her, it escalates into a conflict. Frankly, I just want her to leave because it has taken her so long to accept that our relationship is over for quite some time now.
2021’s holiday gift exchange conversation escalated into an unpleasant situation for the 18 Brown children. As Christine explained, “Things took a turn for the worse, things fell apart.” It seemed that Kody, Robyn, and their kids were on one side, while Janelle, me, and our children were ignored by them. This text conversation led to a rift within the group afterwards.
According to Robyn, her three eldest children perceived the interaction as uncomfortable and expressed a desire for some distance in their relationship. However, she clarified that it wasn’t about cutting ties entirely or wanting no further contact, but rather feeling that the situation had become unpleasant, similar to saying, “Hey, this has gotten messy.
Aurora made it clear that she was informed on numerous occasions and from various sources that she was not welcomed as part of the family when her mother married Kody in 2010. She emphasized that they never regarded her as their sister, nor did they perceive her in that manner.
Her sister Breanna expressed that she believed the parents might have made more efforts to strengthen our family bond, but unfortunately, that connection never fully materialized.
But Christine isn’t sure how they could have opened their arms any wider.
Robyn’s children and Robyn are always welcome to all events,” she emphasized. “In simpler terms, feel free to drop by our home whenever you wish.
In the meantime, she mentioned, her daughter Ysabel Brown shared a strong bond with Robyn’s children, and in fact, Mykelti Brown Padron resided with them for a while. She explained, “There were challenging periods, and my children felt frustrated at times, but they viewed Robyn’s children as their siblings just as if they were blood relatives.
Speaking enthusiastically about plural marriages, Janelle described them as “a fantastic family structure where you’re an integral part of a close-knit group. You have a husband and a beautiful relationship with him, but at the same time, you maintain your personal independence. To me, this type of marriage is truly a wonderful setup.
According to Janelle’s account, Kody found it more challenging to distribute his affection following the move of the family from Las Vegas to Arizona in 2018.
In the September 29th episode, it was observed that Kody felt more comfortable being apart from home when he moved to Flagstaff. A few times, she had to remind him to visit her house. He would often cite fatigue as an excuse, but she pointed out that he could rest just as effectively at her house as he could at Robyn’s.
In simpler terms, Janelle expressed that her kids were reprimanded when they ventured into Robyn’s refrigerator. Meanwhile, for Christine’s children, the problem stemmed from observing that Robyn was dating their father and he was not a part of their household.
And Robyn said her crew definitely felt the divide.
She expressed that while Meri welcomed my children and me wholeheartedly, the rest of the family found it difficult to accept us, as she revealed during the September 29 broadcast. Essentially, our desire was simply to become a valued part of their family.
During a September 29 episode, Kody shared how the frequent moving between four houses impacted his 18 children, citing an instance where his and Robyn’s youngest child, Ariella (born in January 2016), became distressed as he tried to depart, holding tightly onto him.
Kody expressed, “‘I had to tell her that I have another wife and more children who require my attention. Another family needs me,’ he said. However, she was holding on to me, crying, ‘Don’t abandon me, Daddy.’ It’s tough for me.
Unfortunately, that’s just a reality of plural marriage, insisted Janelle.
From the outset, she clarified that her children were aware their father wouldn’t be a constant presence. It seemed to her that Kody and Robyn mishandled the situation with the children. He was unable to stay away for more than three or four days due to Ari getting upset. She felt it was suboptimal parenting. Throughout family history, the other kids managed similar situations and they turned out well-adjusted adults.
Among a small group of young people with Brown heritage, Mykelti played the part of mediator as she maintained relationships with both Robyn, Kody, and Kody’s other wives, Christine and Janelle, throughout their divorce proceedings. Mykelti, the mother of three, acted as a peacemaker during these challenging times.
Tight with Robyn from the moment she entered the Brown family, Mykelti even invited her to be at the November 2022 birth of her twins Archer and Ace.
During the September 29th broadcast, Mykelti shared that when Robyn initially became part of our family, she was still trying to understand myself. Robyn made me feel unique and understood, which was exactly what I needed at that time. When I was in need of companionship, Robyn was there for me. She was the person I required when I needed someone to listen to me, to cherish me.
Christine was overjoyed beyond words when she saw how well Robyn and Mykelti got along. On the October 6th episode, she expressed her feelings by saying, “Ever since Robyn joined our family, it’s been exactly what I had hoped for in terms of their relationship.” She added, “When I dreamed about having a multi-mother household, I always wanted my children to have strong bonds with other mothers. And that’s exactly what’s happening here.
Kody believes it’s not just his wives who have chosen to exclude him from their lives. He thinks they are intentionally doing this as a form of retribution for a crime he didn’t commit, according to his explanation during the October 6 episode. In essence, he feels he is being punished because he didn’t fall deeply in love with their mothers.
What’s more, he continued, he think his former spouses are a bit to blame.
He explained that the strain in his relationship with his kids is predominantly due to negative remarks about him. Essentially, he feels that the dissolution of the family has left a whirlwind of disappointment, which often translates into blaming him for the mistakes made.
However, though he accepts some responsibility, he strongly objects to the insults. In fact, Kody confessed that he had difficulties bonding with Hunter, Maddie, and Gabriel. One of his children retaliated in a text message by calling him “worthless” and stating they would never communicate with him again.
In a separate incident, he told cameras, “I’ve had one of my kids just say, ‘You’re an a–hole. I’m never talking to you again. You manipulated me and you brainwashed me.'”
He’s made it clear that he’s not ready to handle the toxicity head-on. “I won’t keep extending my hand indefinitely,” he stated, pointing out his belief that the adults involved should take more responsibility for resolving issues. “I’m prepared to put forth effort, but someone else needs to step up and reciprocate that effort as well.
For Robyn, watching Kody’s estrangement from his adult children hit far too close to home.
In her October 6 appearance, she shared that when she was young, her parents went through a divorce. At that time, her biological father lived with another woman in a different city, while her mother lived alone. She recalled asking him why he wasn’t around during her childhood, to which he offered flimsy explanations that left her feeling disappointed.
In my professional opinion as a lifestyle advisor, rather than letting Kody’s feelings of hurt deter him, she firmly expressed her thoughts: “I must admit, I find myself struggling not to lose a bit of respect for you,” she candidly confided during our heated discussion, a conversation that unfolded towards the end of 2022.
While Kody admitted there was room for improvement in repairing his bond with his children, he emphasized that healing his own heart is a crucial initial step.
He shared that some of his children seem to be conspiring against him, and he expressed, “I’m so enraged by what has transpired that speaking with my kids makes me apprehensive because I fear they might provoke me with an accusation. At the moment, I’m too emotional and could potentially make things worse.
Despite all members of the family attending a wedding collectively in late 2022, their feelings towards each other were not particularly affectionate.
In the October 6th episode, Kody expressed his displeasure to Robyn, saying he felt Madison hurriedly removed her children from his presence. He pointed out that Madison hadn’t informed him about her pregnancy with their third child, Josephine, who was born in February 2023. Essentially, he stated that she didn’t tell him she was expecting.
Frankly, Maddie doesn’t tell her dad much of anything with the two rarely speaking.
Janelle clarified that Maddie avoids Kody because he isn’t part of her life. Maddie is extremely cautious when it comes to her kids. Kody hasn’t been around since Evie was born, who is now three-and-a-half years old. Janelle didn’t want him to suddenly show up and claim to be their grandfather, leaving the children confused and asking, ‘Who is this man?’
From my perspective, it’s impractical to expect constant involvement with grandchildren when one resides on the opposite coast from their offspring. Given my professional commitments and personal life in Flagstaff, it simply isn’t feasible for me to be an ever-present figure in their lives, as Maddie experiences in North Carolina.
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