Ultimatum’s Vanessa Shares Why She Suddenly Quit Season 3

As I delve deeper into the lives of these couples who bravely put their relationships on the line for the sake of love and self-discovery, I can’t help but be reminded of the rollercoaster ride that life often is. Each story, unique yet intertwined in its essence, offers a glimpse into human resilience, growth, and sometimes, the harsh realities of love.

Warning: This story contains spoilers from The Ultimatum season three episodes one through four.

It seems The Ultimatum was not the ultimate experience for everyone. 

In a surprising turn of events, viewers were left stunned during season three when the original couples, Chanel and Micah, along with Vanessa and Dave, unexpectedly chose to leave the program just three days after they had been matched with new partners for their trial marriages.

As reported by Netflix, it appears that the two pairs of characters secretly interacted outside of filming and left without saying anything to their fellow cast members. Although the specifics are still unknown to viewers, Vanessa has recently provided some insights into the situation.

She penned on Instagram, December 4th, “I needed to act in the way that protected my mental well-being.” However, you’re observing just a tiny fraction of the situation.

As a die-hard supporter, I’d rephrase it like this: When someone on social media asked me to make amends with my costar Nick for our sudden separation during our trial marriage, I made it clear that I don’t feel compelled to apologize for my actions.

The 30-year-old stated, “I’m not privy to what transpired off-camera. I owe no explanations,” followed by a response to a fan expressing hope for their relationship, “Wow, that’s intense.

In the end, Vanessa shared with followers that they would uncover more details during the reunion episode and she would provide additional insights on her social media afterwards.

She mentioned that she might delve deeper into the topic in the near future, but for now, she’s limited in what she can share. After the reunion, she plans to provide additional details.

As a devoted fan, I can share that she subtly suggested earlier on that her “Ultimatum” encounter was incredibly uncomfortable, leaving us intrigued and eager for the series premiere on December 4th, which she cryptically teased beforehand to her followers.

Posting a picture of her with sunglasses and a cocktail, Vanessa wrote on her November 17 Instagram post, “Perspective: being aware of what unfolded on Netflix’s ‘The Ultimatum’ and eagerly awaiting the days until you can see how awkward it all becomes.

Regarding Dave, instead of feeling embarrassed, he shared a doctored photo of himself using the Elmo fire meme.

He wrote on Instagram on December 4, “The visual depiction versus the emotional impact,” he stated. “Are you tuning in to witness the turmoil?

Dave even called the season “a dumpster inferno” in another comment.

In response, Chanel and Micah each shared a charming snapshot from the reality show with the caption, “Seems like things took a turn rather swiftly.

Regarding Dave, instead of feeling embarrassed, he shared a Photoshopped picture of himself using the Elmo fire meme.

He wrote on Instagram on December 4th, “The visual appearance compared to the emotional experience,” he said. “Are you tuning in to witness the turmoil?

Dave even called the season “a dumpster inferno” in another comment.

In response, Chanel and Micah each shared a charming snapshot from the reality show, captioning it with, “Apparently things have taken a turn for the speedy.

Read on for more details on the other Ultimatum couples.

In the second season of “The Ultimatum,” it came as a surprise to everyone when a couple decided to withdraw from the process. What made this even more unexpected was not because they were expecting a child, but precisely because Lisa found out she was pregnant. As a result, Brian and Lisa chose to skip The Choice dinner after Lisa took a pregnancy test.

It was revealed in an exclusive interview with TopMob News that Lisa shared her joyous news. She said, “Things have been fantastic!” They welcomed a baby boy into their family. He’s absolutely adorable.

The couple has been enjoying the process of happily raising their son Mason

Lisa shared, “Our parenting trip has been lovely and fulfilling. Not everyone is fortunate enough to embark on such a journey, but we’ve considered ourselves blessed for being able to do so. It’s been a tranquil, delightful ride.

Still, there’s “no ring yet,” she acknowledged, or immediate plans for an engagement.

After seven years together, James proposed to Ryann, indicating that high school sweethearts can indeed build a lasting relationship. It seems their wedding will be coming sooner rather than later.

Ryann affirmed during the reunion special of The Ultimatum that their wedding is just around the corner, and it has been set for September 30th.

James admitted that he planned an additional proposal during their mountain getaway to create a more private atmosphere, and Ryann commented that it felt spontaneous and authentic, taking her off guard.

Following the conclusion of the performance, James chose to live with Ryann and her kinship and kept his vow. In April 2024, they shared the joyous news of their impending parenthood before welcoming Sunny James Morris into their lives in October 2024.

Initially, it appeared that quiet-natured Kat might have been too retiring for goal-oriented Alex; however, their adventure concluded with them becoming engaged. Moreover, they’ve already picked a wedding date – May 10, 2024, as the special day. Intriguingly, Alex even showed up at the reunion with a Save the Date invitation to confirm the news.

As a devoted admirer, I can tell you that Kat recently disclosed that Alex appears to be experiencing an increased yearning for parenthood and a desire to establish a permanent home together following his proposal. Regarding our future, Alex himself confessed, “I am thrilled about it.

During their trial marriage, it was acknowledged by Trey that he had grown affectionate towards Ryann. However, Trey and Riah managed to resolve their difficulties, concluding the test with intentions to tie the knot permanently.

At our recent gathering, I casually mentioned my plans for a destination wedding in Spring 2025. Time seems to fly by these days, but considering how much I’ve always dreamt of having a beautiful wedding, I can’t wait for it to arrive – and I want everything about it to be just right.

Since our journey on The Ultimatum came to an end, Trey and I have encountered some bumps in the road. He confessed that our work obligations have been a significant challenge for us. In his words, “Life outside the show has struck again.” We’ve been making efforts to align ourselves better, as we continue to navigate through this phase.

Still, he said, their relationship is “night and day from what it was before the show.”

Fast-forward to January 2024, and the couple announced they welcomed their first baby together.

Even Roxanne herself was taken aback when she, a business-oriented individual, agreed to Antonio’s marriage proposal, a fact that left everyone else on the cast equally surprised.

She shared that she put considerable effort into self-improvement and personal growth, mentioning her current involvement in these processes. Surprisingly, she never imagined reaching this point where she could proudly announce having a fiancé.

Although Roxanne agreed during the special event, she wasn’t sporting her engagement ring, not because they had split up. “I don’t understand why I have to wear one and he doesn’t,” she clarified. “It seems quite possessive…perhaps I’m just a bit peculiar?” However, when Antonio confessed that it pained him to see her without it, Roxanne pledged to wear it more often. Despite this, they aren’t planning on exchanging vows imminently, with both Roxanne and Antonio prioritizing their respective careers at the moment.

Roxanne stated that they haven’t reached their desired goal yet, while Antonio shared his recent purchase of a car wash in Southern Georgia and plans to open two automobile customization businesses in Atlanta.

When Vanessa Lachey inquired whether Roxanne was ready to wed her partner at that moment, Roxanne replied, “I haven’t given it much thought as of now.

They tied the knot in October 2024.

This family is going to need another cowboy hat.

Following the birth of their daughter Josie in May 2022, Madlyn and Colby revealed to fans that they were expecting another child, making it their second one together.

In early January 2023, Madlyn announced on an Instagram post that her family is eagerly awaiting a new addition in September ’23. She expressed immense joy and gratitude for their current blessing, baby Josie, and the upcoming arrival of another child.

She expressed uncertainty about the capacity of their hearts to contain any more love, yet eagerly anticipated the discovery. Moreover, she couldn’t wait for their daughter, Josephine, to become an older sibling.

Conrad Lloyd Kissinger was born in the fall.

After welcoming Josie into the world, Madelyn spoke with TopMob News, expressing that she “thoroughly enjoyed every second of my pregnancy.” She continued by saying, “I felt like I was on top of the world. It boosted my confidence and love for myself, as well as for Colby. Pregnancy has truly helped me grow as an individual and strengthen our bond as a couple.

They shared in September 2024 that baby No. 3 is on the way.

Originally, Alexis and Hunter decided to leave an experiment prematurely following a proposal from Hunter. Now, they’ve taken their relationship to the next level by tying the knot in Palos Verdes, California, in the month of June 2022.

As a devoted follower, I chronicled the memorable event on my Instagram Story, sharing snaps of the lively wedding entourage consisting of 10 bridesmaids and 10 groomsmen, along with clips of the blissful duo grooving to live performances of Elton John’s “Tiny Dancer,” Beyoncé’s “Crazy In Love,” and other tunes at the jubilant reception. The newlyweds, who embarked on a honeymoon in Santorini, Mykonos, and Athens, now call Los Angeles their home.

Despite the six-month separation following Randall’s proposal during his finale, Shanique and I have managed to reconcile and are choosing to postpone a fresh engagement. As I shared with TopMob News, “We remain together.” Although my work has me stationed in a different location, thus keeping us apart physically, we are diligently nurturing our relationship and moving forward together.

After all that hard work culminated in another proposal last July. Specifically, Randall asked Shanique to marry him amidst a backdrop of a heart adorned with white blossoms and a neon sign displaying “Will you marry me?” as the scene.

In a word, “Yes!” Shanique captioned an Instagram post. “Today and all of our tomorrows.”

Despite some cast members perceiving Nate’s proposal to Lauren as insincere (Oops!), the couple tied the knot in October 2022 at a Colorado ceremony that exceeded their expectations, as Lauren shared on Instagram. “Many thanks to our fantastic vendors, family, and friends for turning this wedding into a truly magical experience.

After tying the knot, this couple – residing in Austin – have been posting pictures on social media of their adventures to countries like Turkey, Switzerland, and Japan.

Despite how April’s stint on the show didn’t conclude as she had hoped, it doesn’t imply that she didn’t receive a fairytale ending for herself.

She welcomed her first baby with boyfriend Cody Cooper, she shared in August 2023.

April posted pictures on Instagram from the hospital after giving birth, saying ‘We chose to have our delivery and hospital stay be a private moment. Keeping this secret was tough, but now I’m thrilled to reveal it! It’s been a challenging week for us, but we’ve made it!

During the 2022 reunion show, I unveiled that I had started a relationship with Cody. At that time, I didn’t disclose who this Texas-based real estate broker and vape entrepreneur was. Later on, I shared with TopMob News that my Mr. Right unexpectedly entered my life and swept me off my feet. While I was planning for my ‘hot-girl winter’, he came into the picture and we’ve been together for six months now.

In May of 2024, April announced that she and Cody were having their second baby together, who arrived in August 2024 and was named Ava Miley Cooper.

Ever since Jake Cunningham opted to leave April for Rae Williams, I’ve been eagerly following his life. Despite their relationship status, Jake, now 28, admitted during the reunion that he’s currently single. Since then, he’s kept a low profile, but here’s an intriguing tidbit: on the Zachary Reality podcast, Rae mentioned that producers of Netflix’s spinoff series Perfect Match have reached out to Jake about joining the show!

In September 2024, it appeared as though he publicly introduced his new relationship with Maritza Benitez on Instagram. He captioned one post, “Meet the Queen,” and she responded to another picture with, “The finest aspects of life are even more wonderful with you.

At the gathering, Rae disclosed that she attempted to rekindle her relationship with ex-boyfriend Zay Wilson, as well as her former trial marriage partner Jake. However, these efforts were unsuccessful. She also mentioned that she was involved in a casual relationship with a woman. “I’m still exploring myself and my sexuality,” Rae stated at the time. Later on, she clarified to TopMob News that she was single and had relocated to Houston. She added, “After everything I’ve been through, I need some healing and personal time to help me move forward.

However, Rae has now relocated back to Austin where she works as both a 9-1-1 operator and bartender. Despite being invited to appear on Perfect Match, she chose not to participate because Zay had previously agreed to take part in the show.

On the Zachary Reality podcast, she expressed her belief that their incompatibility was the primary reason for Zay not fitting well into the show. If they had both been cast on the first season at the same time, it could have led to a chaotic situation due to their difficulties getting along.

Rae didn’t necessarily require a TV show to rediscover love, as she unveiled her new romantic connection on a TikTok post dated July 25th. She chose not to disclose her partner’s identity, but the caption of the video read, “Is this the launch?

A 4-1-1 to all the ladies: Zay still seems to be on the market. 

Following the breakup with Rae, Zay became part of the cast in the first season of “Perfect Match”, a series that showcases solo celebrities from shows like “Love Is Blind”, “Sexy Beasts”, and “The Circle”. Regrettably, Zay left the show still single as he was unable to form a meaningful connection. Currently, he’s pursuing a modeling career and dividing his time between Austin and Los Angeles.

 

In a turn of events, the couple Xander and Vanessa decided to part ways after four years, as Xander found himself harboring feelings for Yoly Rojas, which emerged during their trial marriage.

Xander said to Vanessa, “I truly wish I had the power to present you with all the wonders of the world.” He added, “Initially, I believed I could do that for you. However, I realize now that what you truly deserve is far beyond what I can provide at this moment.

During their discussion about potential future interactions, Vanessa disclosed at the reunion that there had been no contact between them since their shared experience concluded.

Regardless of the fact that Yoly developed feelings for Xander over their three-week stint, Mal remained steadfast in their loyalty.

In a heartfelt moment, Mal expressed, “It’s always been you,” before he knelt down. “Would you spend your days with me? Will you become my wife?” Pausing for a moment, Yoly responded affirmatively, wondering, “Why did it take you so long to ask?

Despite her decision, Yoly harbored uncertainty if it was the correct one. Admittedly, she couldn’t predict what she would respond if Xander were to challenge her on this matter.

It’s not surprising that although Yoly and Mal ended the experiment on good terms, it was later disclosed during their reunion that they had parted ways amicably. However, there was a disagreement between them regarding the specific date when their relationship ended.

Yoly put it this way: “I was worried that once the recording stopped, we would revert to our old habits, which I was familiar with.” And indeed, that’s what happened. We had a spell of separation. During that time apart, she said, ‘This isn’t going to last.’ I didn’t argue against it.

Following the show and observing Yoly’s interactions with Xander, Mal now perceives their relationship in an entirely new perspective. In essence, she expressed that he appears as a risky stranger to her. Previously, she had been unwaveringly supportive, but it seems that all he managed to do was embarrass her profoundly.

Following my own heartfelt moments with Mal after his engagement and Xander post-split with Vanessa, we shared a deeply emotional dialogue, expressing our deep affection for each other.

Yoly explained to Xander, “I don’t wish for us to part ways, it’s not that I don’t have feelings for you.

It was discovered that their previous feelings for each other persisted, as they confessed during their reunion, attempting to reignite their relationship following Yoly’s engagement’s conclusion.

Xander mentioned that there was some ongoing contact between them, and they managed to meet up when both were at Coachella. However, they both asserted nothing physical transpired during their time at the music festival. Later on, it became known that Yoly was arranging a visit to Xander in Hawaii. In Yoly’s words, “I had an enjoyable time with Xander. I was keen to rekindle our relationship and make every effort to do so.

Ultimately, they went their separate ways.

Xander mentioned, “For a while, we were intertwined in our paths, but now we’re independently moving forward again.” He confessed, “I felt it was crucial for me to focus on my personal growth. I wanted to make necessary changes within myself so I could be more effective and supportive towards myself and any potential partner.

It deeply saddened Lexi when she learned that Rae had been physically intimate with Vanessa during their trial marriage. However, despite their three-year relationship facing difficulties, they managed to reconcile and both proposed to each other in the final episode. They then shared the news that Rae had secured a new job in Philadelphia, meaning they would be moving there together.

During the reunion, the pair confirmed that they are still engaged.

Reflecting on the past twelve months, I’d have to say it’s been nothing short of extraordinary for me. A whirlwind of events that included a heartfelt proposal, some unforgettable vacations, and a move back to the beautiful Golden State – California. To put it simply, this year has undeniably ranked as the absolute best in my life so far.

Lexi and Rae were so elated that Lexi proposed getting married at the reunion if Rae agreed. JoAnna Garcia Swisher, who happened to be an ordained minister, then offered to perform the ceremony, and it was later disclosed that they had already set a wedding date.

However, following the airing of the episode, a surprising post-credits announcement was made: “After recording the reunion, Lexi and Rae decided to part ways in their relationship. Consequently, their wedding has been cancelled.

After ending things with Rae, Lexi introduced her relationship with photographer Kristin “Zanc” Zancanelli. In a June 2023 TikTok post, she expressed to her new companion, “I have never felt more alive than with you.

In one of the toughest months of her life, she had her best friend take photos of her wearing a dress from our reunion. It’s astounding to witness the grin this woman managed to put on my face during such challenging times, even as just a friend. I’m overwhelmed by the way she captures me in her photographs, how joyful she made me appear.

Following the puzzling gesture of giving Sam a heart-shaped stone, Aussie then revealed an entirely distinct type of rock for a proposal instead.

At their get-together, it was made clear that the pair remains betrothed, yet they’re taking their time with the nuptial preparations.

Sam expressed, “We’re sort of in a holding pattern,” he said. “It felt more like, ‘What’s the best way to articulate this situation?’ It’s just quite an uncomfortable position.

In the finale, Mildred expressed to Tiff their engagement had left them feeling quite unconventional, saying, “We’re a bit eccentric, aren’t we?” But in the reunion, her feelings toward Tiff were clearly strained as she stated, “We no longer communicate.

So what happened?

After moving in together following their engagement, it seemed they quickly fell back into their previous habits, as Mildred explained with a sigh. “There was little discussion about our future,” she admitted. “Planning for a marriage proved challenging due to various issues that constantly surfaced.

However, when Mildred referred to departing from Tiff as “one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever made,” Tiff countered by stating that it was actually their decision to end their engagement. Tiff further expressed that they felt their relationship was generally unhealthy and strained.

Later, Mildred admitted that she had been detained following an incident in which she hurled a pet gate at Tiffany, who subsequently contacted the authorities. “They took my engagement ring away and I haven’t worn it since,” she explained. “I’m not proud of my actions, but there was significant conflict.

After getting into a heated argument, Tiff walked off the set and chose not to return.

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