Jonathan Van Ness Details Non-Monogamous “Seasons” With Mark Peacock

Jonathan Van Nesshas their eye set on husband Mark Peacock.

The Queer Eye star shared that the couple, who got married in 2020, occasionally explore non-monogamy for periods of time.

Jonathan recently discussed his approach to relationships on the February 4th episode of The Mitch Churi Chat Show. He explained that he prefers focusing on specific periods of time within a relationship, acknowledging that some people worry open relationships can create problems that are hard to fix. He and his partner, however, have successfully navigated this balance.

Although the 38-year-old generally has a good experience with being in a non-monogamous relationship, they’ve been able to talk to Mark when things change or become difficult.

They explained that they’ve experienced similar feelings in other parts of their life, noticing things that made them feel insecure or uncomfortable. Sometimes, being open didn’t have the positive effect they hoped for – it didn’t make them feel more connected or understood, and sometimes the opposite was true.

We’ve been able to adjust our schedules to fit what’s happening in our lives, and that arrangement works well for us, the hairstylist explained.

Jonathan is okay with having occasional non-exclusive relationships, but they clarified that a short-term partner is different from someone they’d want as a long-term addition to their relationship with Mark.

JVN, the founder of JVN Hair, said polyamory isn’t for her. She explained that she’s already stretched thin balancing her husband’s needs, her own, a large group of pets, her business, and all her hobbies – including figure skating, gymnastics, comedy, podcasting, and writing. She feels like she’s constantly learning and experiencing all life has to offer, and doesn’t have the capacity for more.

They added, “I’m saying I just don’t have time to deal with a third person’s needs. That’s a lot.”

Jonathan shared that life has been wonderful for the couple since they got married in June 2020.

We complement each other well, especially in terms of our personalities. Most of the time, we’re able to support each other through difficult times. And when we can’t, we respect each other’s need for space.

For more stars who have been open about their non-monogamous relationships, keep reading…

RuPaul and his husband, Georges LeBar, have an open relationship that works for them because they believe strict monogamy isn’t realistic, especially for men. RuPaul explained this to The New Yorker in 2024, saying it simply made sense for their connection. They didn’t actively decide on an open relationship; it evolved naturally. Having met in 1994 and married much later, RuPaul told Vanity Fair in 2019 that the idea of perfect monogamy is a myth. He doesn’t want to limit the person he loves most, his best friend. Ultimately, an open marriage hasn’t diminished their love for each other. RuPaul believes if something makes his husband happy and is irresistible, he should pursue it, because he knows Georges loves him more than anything else.

As a lifestyle expert, I’ve always believed in the power of love, and Kody Brown once famously said it should be multiplied, not divided. For years, he lived that philosophy, building a family with four wives – Meri, Janelle, Christine, and Robyn – and their story unfolded on the show Sister Wives. He explained early on that he simply kept falling in love, and his large family became a reality. But things have dramatically changed. Over the past couple of years, Kody has moved away from the idea of plural marriage. Christine announced their split in late 2021, followed by Janelle in December 2022, and then Meri confirmed ending their marriage a month later. Now, Robyn is his only wife, and it’s a clear example of how even the most unconventional relationships can evolve and change over time.

Kody Brown admitted he’s not a proponent of plural marriage, sharing that his own experiences with it haven’t been successful. He believes it requires a lot of wisdom and careful consideration. While he acknowledges it can work for some, he pointed out that even couples who know each other well can struggle. Several of his former wives have moved on – Christine has remarried and stated she’d never return to polygamy, while Janelle remains open to it. Robyn, however, said she’d consider plural marriage again if she was certain it would be a positive experience.

Willow Smith sparked a conversation about non-monogamy during an episode of Red Table Talk. She explained that polyamory is about creating relationship styles that work for individuals, rather than simply conforming to traditional monogamy. Willow argued that infidelity often stems from unmet needs within a relationship, asking if it’s fair to deny a partner’s desires just because they differ from your own. While Jada Pinkett Smith and Adrienne Banfield-Norris listened to Willow’s perspective, they didn’t always share her views. Interestingly, Willow noted that she’s the only person in her friend group who practices polyamory, and she actually has less sexual activity than her friends.

Shailene Woodley thinks relationships should be defined by the people involved, not outside opinions. In a 2020 interview with The New York Times, she explained that she’s experienced both open and monogamous relationships and believes couples should create their own rules – whether it’s just two people or more. She emphasized that honesty, communication, and trust are essential, but ultimately, what people do in their relationships is a private matter and ‘none of our business.’

Ne-Yo seems unconcerned with criticism regarding his relationships. He shared on Instagram that he doesn’t care about disapproval of his polyamorous lifestyle, even posting about it directly in response to negative comments. This came after he publicly introduced his four girlfriends in March, following the finalization of his divorce from Crystal Renay in 2023 after nearly seven years of marriage.

Ne-Yo recently shared on the Rickey Smiley Morning Show that his approach to relationships – being honest, consensual, and open with everyone involved – is working for him. He feels it could have saved him a lot of pain if he’d been this upfront from the beginning.

However, he emphasized that this isn’t a one-size-fits-all solution. He’s simply explaining what makes him happy, and encourages others to do what works for them, regardless of whether they agree with his choices. Ultimately, he says he’s happier and more at peace than ever before, and that’s what matters most – not external approval.

Nick Cannon has recently been the subject of much discussion regarding his large family with multiple partners. However, he’s previously spoken about his views on relationships. In a 2021 interview on The Breakfast Club, Cannon suggested that the idea of having one life partner is a culturally specific concept, not a universal rule. He explained that the expectation for a man to have only one woman doesn’t align with his beliefs about free exchange and co-creation, stating he doesn’t believe in ownership over another person.

Cannon shares twins Moroccan and Monroe with Mariah Carey, children Golden Sagon, Powerful Queen, and Rise Messiah with Brittany Bell, son Legendary Love with Bre Tiesi, and daughter Onyx Ice with LaNisha Cole. He also has twins Zion Mixolydian and Zillion Heir, and daughter Beautiful Zeppelin with Abby De La Rosa, and two children with Alyssa Scott: daughter Halo Marie and his late son Zen.

Cannon further explained that the women in his life actively choose to have children with him, stating, “Those women…open themselves up to allow this man in my world.” He sees his role as simply following their lead and respecting their choices.

Bella Thorne is currently in a monogamous relationship with her fiancé, Mark Emms, but she previously explored non-monogamous relationships. In a 2019 interview with Cosmopolitan, she described these experiences as “really fun” and expressed her enjoyment of loving multiple people simultaneously and sharing connections with them. She admitted it wasn’t for everyone, explaining that she’s always been upfront with partners about her preferences. She said she understands if someone isn’t comfortable with that lifestyle, stating that she prioritizes finding what makes her happy and needs a partner who is on board with that journey. If a relationship wouldn’t allow her to pursue this, she acknowledged it simply wouldn’t be a good fit.

As for Yungblud, he’s shared he identifies as pansexual and polyamorous.

In a 2020 interview with Attitude, musician Dominic Harrison said he now identifies as polyamorous. He explained that before, he hadn’t fully understood his own identity, but through meeting people and discussing sexuality and gender, he began to realize who he was.

Bob the Drag Queen is happily in two relationships, and is glad that both of their partners are also seeing other people. Speaking on the April 2025 episode of Boyfriend Material With Harry Jowsey, the Traitors star explained they have one partner in Los Angeles and another in Georgia, who are friendly with each other. Bob shared that they value their independence and don’t want to be someone’s sole focus, finding it exhausting to be around one person constantly. Having partners who also date others, they said, is a real benefit.

Nico Tortorella and Bethany C. Meyers got married in 2018 and wrote about their relationship, describing it as queer polyamorous. Bethany explained in an article for Them that while labels can be helpful for understanding, they don’t want to be defined by them. They didn’t intentionally choose a polyamorous relationship; it simply evolved over their 12 years together.

However, their relationship changed during the coronavirus pandemic and after they had children, Kilmer and Pesce Pearl, becoming monogamous. In a 2024 episode of their podcast, Full of Shift, Nico confirmed they are currently not open to other relationships.

Despite this, they haven’t ruled out the possibility of exploring non-monogamy again in the future, with Nico saying, “Who knows?”

Omarion believes traditional monogamy isn’t realistic or fulfilling. During a February 2025 appearance on Sherri, he explained that he values openness in relationships. He pointed out the imbalance between men and women and the limited number of truly ‘good’ men available, suggesting that sharing resources and support is natural and beneficial. He believes it’s acceptable for women to connect with multiple partners, emphasizing that men are naturally inclined to provide for a wider network – their families, and future generations. Omarion feels this idea isn’t new, but rather an outdated concept needing modernization and more open discussion. He thinks honesty about wanting more than one partner empowers women to truly understand a man’s needs and motivations, as many women don’t fully grasp what men want or how they are driven to connect and create.

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