
For four decades, the core of Spider-Man’s story remained consistent: a teenager gained powers, initially sought personal gain, and then learned a valuable lesson after a tragic event involving his Uncle Ben. He dedicated himself to heroism, carefully guarding his secret identity to protect those he loved. This foundational story held true for 40 years, despite a few minor changes over time. However, in February 2002, a comic book was released that dramatically altered everything everyone knew about Spider-Man’s life.
Issue #38 of Amazing Spider-Man (Volume 2) was released on February 6, 2002. In this issue, Aunt May discovered Peter Parker’s secret identity as Spider-Man, leading to a significant conversation that changed their relationship forever.
Aunt May & Peter Parker Finally Reveal the Truth to Each Other

Two months before a significant event, Spider-Man fought Morlun in Amazing Spider-Man (Vol. 2) #36 and barely won, returning home injured and exhausted. He collapsed into bed, still in his damaged costume. However, Aunt May unexpectedly found him like that. Readers didn’t find out what happened next immediately, as the following issue was a special tribute to the events of 9/11, focusing on Spider-Man working alongside other heroes to assist first responders at the World Trade Center.
Following the special tribute issue, the main Spider-Man story continued with a confrontation between Aunt May and Peter. He was shocked when she asked to speak with him, especially when he noticed she was holding his damaged Spider-Man costume. Peter tried to avoid the truth, but Aunt May insisted he be honest, and they had a serious conversation. Ultimately, Aunt May discovered Peter’s secret identity as Spider-Man.
The problem wasn’t just Aunt May finding out Peter was Spider-Man. Peter tried to explain he’d kept his identity secret to protect her, but she wouldn’t accept it. He then confessed he felt responsible for Uncle Ben’s death, fearing she’d despise him. Surprisingly, Aunt May turned it around, admitting she blamed herself for their argument before Ben’s fatal walk. Both she and Peter had carried this guilt for years, and this conversation finally allowed them to express it and begin to heal.
Spider-Man Was Right In Hiding His Secret Identity

For four years, Aunt May knew Peter Parker was Spider-Man, and this revelation dramatically altered their relationship in the comics. Though she still worried about him, Peter finally felt relieved – he no longer had to keep his secret life hidden from her. This was a significant and memorable shift, and despite not lasting long, it led to some of the most compelling Aunt May stories in Spider-Man comics for many years.
Spider-Man’s life changed dramatically, but it took four years for Peter Parker to realize his secret identity truly put those he cared about in danger. This realization came when Iron Man forced him to publicly reveal his face as a show of support for the Superhero Registration Act. Predictably, this led to a terrible event: Aunt May was shot by hired guns working for Wilson Fisk. Desperate to save her, Spider-Man made a deal with the demon Mephisto. The deal erased everyone’s memory of Peter being Spider-Man, and while Aunt May survived, she once again had no knowledge of his secret identity.
The Spider-Man storyline “One More Day,” where he made a deal with the devil (Mephisto) to erase his marriage to Mary Jane Watson and keep his identity secret, was very unpopular with fans. Many disliked the deal with Mephisto itself, as well as the fact that it reversed all the positive progress Peter and Aunt May had made in their relationship.
Recent Spider-Man comics featured a long period where the hero was away from Earth. This caused worry for Aunt May, but Ben Reilly, who was pretending to be Peter Parker, dismissed her concerns, leading to conflict. It’s frustrating because it adds unnecessary drama to the story, especially since Aunt May still doesn’t know Peter’s secret identity – despite the fact that villains like J. Jonah Jameson and Norman Osborn do. The comics show May feeling ignored, but Marvel actually addressed this issue and offered a solution over two decades ago.
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