Harry Jowsey Reacts to Accusation of Affair With Jessi Draper

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This conversation may be too hot for Harry Jowsey to handle. 

Following Jessi Draper’s claim that her soon-to-be ex-husband, Jordan Ngatikaura, accused her of cheating with a star from Too Hot to Handle after she sent him a birthday message, Jordan has now responded to the accusation.

He posted a video of himself reacting to Jessi’s recent Call Her Daddy interview (released on March 25th) with the caption, “Guys, what’s happening…?”

Jessi claimed that she messaged Perfect Match star Alex Cooper on Instagram to point out they both have a birthday on May 24th. She said he replied with what he called an “innocent” voice message.

According to the star of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, Jordan – who filed for divorce on March 19th – twisted a short conversation with Harry to falsely claim she was unfaithful.

During an interview, Jessi explained that she was in Europe when she received a call from Jordan at four in the morning. He immediately asked if she had something to tell him, which caught her off guard and prompted her to ask what he meant.

Jessi claimed Jordan falsely accused her of being unfaithful with Harry Jowsey, saying, “He accused me of cheating on him with Harry.”

She insists her relationship with Harry was strictly platonic, describing their conversations as harmless and innocent.

TopMob News reached out to Jordan’s rep for comment but has not heard back.

Jessi, who shares two children with Jordan and is also the stepmother to his daughter from a previous relationship, revealed more details about their marriage. She stated that after they decided to separate amicably, her husband filed for divorce independently.

We planned to tell our children about the separation together, but we didn’t, and thankfully they’re still young enough that it hasn’t been too difficult,” Jessi said. “It’s really upsetting – it felt like a betrayal. I also had a ton of paperwork to complete, detailing how to split up everything we owned, like our belongings, cars, and houses.

She explained they needed to complete the form to submit it, but he went ahead and filled it out himself without her input. As a result, she doesn’t know what information he included.

For more bombshells from Jessi’s Call Her Daddy interview, read on…

Shortly after TMZ published a video showing a 2023 fight between Secret Lives of Mormon Wives cast member Taylor Frankie Paul and her then-boyfriend, Dakota Mortensen, Jessi Draper shared what she initially thought when she saw it.

She explained to Alex Cooper on the March 25, 2026 episode of the Call Her Daddy podcast that while everyone knew about the incident and the existence of a video in 2023, she personally hadn’t seen it. She mentioned that the police had possession of the video and discussed its contents.

Watching that video is really difficult because Taylor is clearly hurting deeply, and I constantly remind her that it doesn’t reflect who she truly is. She fell into a very damaging pattern, and it’s heartbreaking—especially with a child involved. It’s a tough situation for everyone.

The hairstylist stressed that, even though Taylor’s five-year-old daughter was unintentionally hit in an accident, she believes Taylor is a genuinely kind person.

Jessi emphasized that while she doesn’t know if everything being said is true, she personally knows Taylor and hopes for a positive outcome for everyone involved. Her biggest concern is the well-being of the children, and she simply wants them to be safe, happy, and healthy.

I missed two calls from Taylor, and when I finally answered, I immediately knew something was wrong. She asked how I was doing, but Taylor’s often caught up in her own life, so she can seem a little distant, even though she really does care about her friends.

Jessi was going through a divorce with her husband, Jordan Ngatikaura, and Taylor reached out to see how she was doing.

You know, someone reached out to me recently, and it was just one of those moments where the conversation flipped instantly. She asked how I was, and honestly, my first reaction was to turn it right back around and ask how she was doing! It’s funny how those things happen, isn’t it?

And she’s continued to ask Taylor that question in the days since. 

Jessi mentioned she’d just spoken with her and that she seemed optimistic. She believes her friend understands the challenges ahead will be difficult and frightening.

She stressed that Taylor is always honest. Everyone knows that about her, and she believes Taylor will navigate this situation as well as possible, but needs a little time to think things through.

Jessi shared that the MomTok show might get through its current challenges, but they needed to temporarily stop filming season five. While executives initially decided to pause production—according to a source who spoke with TopMob News on March 16—the cast agreed that continuing the break was the right thing to do, especially after Dakota filed a police report.

We decided to stop filming as soon as we started getting hints about what was happening, before the news became public. We didn’t want to accidentally say something incorrect on camera without knowing all the facts.

She explained they didn’t want to discuss something so complex while also trying to understand it all for the first time. They decided to pause filming to give everyone a chance to process things, and she believed that was the right decision for everyone involved.

Despite initiating the breakup, the 33-year-old was surprised when her ex filed for divorce before she was ready. They share two children together, and she also helped raise his daughter from a previous relationship.

She said she felt devastated because they had promised to tell their children about the divorce together before making it official, and they still hadn’t, even including his teenage daughter, who is around 13.

We planned to tell our children about the separation together, but he didn’t. Thankfully, they’re still young. It felt like a real betrayal. I was given a large amount of paperwork detailing how to split up our belongings – things like furniture, cars, and the house. We were supposed to complete it together to submit it, but he went ahead and filled it all out without me, so I don’t even know what’s in there.

TopMob News has contacted representatives for Jordan seeking a response to Jessi’s claims regarding their marriage and breakup, but has not received one yet.

Jessi responded to rumors claiming Jordan was funding extravagant parties during their marriage, specifying she understood these to be sex parties, or orgies.

Honestly, I can’t even wrap my head around what kind of parties he’d even need to pay for, you know? Just…regular parties? That’s what I’m trying to tell myself. It’s just…I haven’t actually asked him about any of this. I just…overheard something, and now I’m trying to make sense of it all. I’m just hoping it was a misunderstanding, honestly. It’s driving me crazy!

She did point out she wasn’t certain the rumors were true, and admitted, “I hadn’t even considered that until you mentioned it. I really don’t know anything about it.”

Jessi shared that she and Jordan haven’t spoken much since they started getting divorced.

She told me he’d sent her a text saying he’d submitted something but hadn’t realized it would be made public.

She said she replied to his comment, referencing a statement he’d already given to TMZ, saying, “That’s funny, considering you spoke to them yourself.”

Honestly, after Jordan told me some nonsense about being advised to do what’s ‘best’ for him – can you believe the nerve? – I just shut him down completely. I was so done. I told him straight up, ‘Don’t you dare talk to me again. We’re handling everything about the kids through lawyers or something – anything but directly with you.’ It just hurt so much, and I couldn’t even stand to hear his voice.

In fact, she had even decided to change her phone number. 

She explained, “He really has no idea how to reach me anymore.” I used to be able to talk to him about the children using my old phone, but he doesn’t have my new number. It feels like we’re going to be completely disconnected now.”

Okay, so I’ve been obsessed with following everything, and she finally talked about it! Apparently, when things got really hard with Jordan in 2024, she ended up having an emotional connection – and even kissed! – Marciano from Vanderpump Villa. I mean, I always suspected something was going on, but to hear her admit it… it’s just so much drama! I need to rewatch everything now with this new information!

She described feeling completely stuck in her marriage, like she could never measure up. She was emotionally exhausted and profoundly unhappy. It wasn’t just about the financial and business ties, as viewers saw in season four, but he also manipulated her into believing she had no way out.

She explained she was deeply hurt. Meeting Marciano was the first time someone had been kind to her, telling her she was attractive, enjoyable to be around, and valuable. She realized then that’s how a man should treat a woman.

 

Jessi admitted that her relationship with Marciano, which occurred during season three of SLOMW in 2025, was a mistake. She even suspected at the time it could cause her marriage to end.

She recalled thinking that if she kissed him – just a kiss – it would give her a justification to end things. She believed it would give Jordan a reason to break up with her, and she could finally be free.

As she put it, “Even if it was me that did the bad thing, I was like, ‘Maybe this could end it.'”

As a longtime follower, I was shocked to hear that the salon owner claimed Jordan threatened to share screenshots of conversations between her and Marciano right before they split. It sounds like he was trying to intimidate her using those messages.

She explained that he started blackmailing her by threatening to post private text messages with someone named Marciano. He had screenshots of these messages saved as a draft on his TikTok account. Whenever he was angry, he would threaten to share them and ‘ruin her life’.

I tried to take his phone and told him, ‘Jordan, don’t do this,’ she explained. No one else knew what I’d done yet. I was really worried he would destroy my life and my business – I have fifty people working for me, and everything could be lost.

She alleged that he began recording her while she was trying to grab the phone from him.

That’s when I realized how unhealthy things had become. I was desperately trying to stop my husband from using something against me, and I thought, ‘This isn’t right.’ I left him the very next day because I knew it couldn’t continue.

Jessi has a complex history with cosmetic surgery, and she recently opened up about why she didn’t talk about her procedures sooner.

I receive a lot of criticism for my work, and I wanted to explain what happened. People seemed to think I intentionally sought this outcome, but that wasn’t the case. Things didn’t turn out as I expected, and I felt it was important to share my side of the story.

She confessed she wished she hadn’t had several cosmetic procedures after the fourth season, specifically eyelid surgery (both upper and lower) and a fat transfer.

Looking back at season four, she realized she looked great and wondered why she’d ever felt insecure. She explained that gaining that perspective was new for her, and it helped her realize she didn’t need to feel pressured to change her appearance.

However, she believed that it was, in part, due to her mental health struggles.

She realized that managing her appearance was the one thing she felt she could control. It might seem strange, she admitted, but when she felt powerless over everything else, focusing on how she looked became a way to cope.

Even with all the drama surrounding the cast of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, Jessi says there’s a lot of genuine affection between them. Currently, she’s closest to her friends Mayci Neeley and Mikayla Matthews.

Jessi hasn’t spoken to her costar, Demi Engemann, since they had a disagreement during season two and last saw each other at the season three reunion.

It’s been a complicated relationship with Demi,” she explained. “I truly hope she finds happiness. We had a lot of disagreements and it just wasn’t a sustainable friendship, but I can be polite if we cross paths. Ultimately, though, we weren’t meant to stay close.

Now that Jessi and Jordan are getting divorced, the reality star has given some details about how they might divide their assets.

I’m relieved I won’t have to share any of my business assets, but I’m expecting to pay alimony and child support,” she said. “There might be a lump-sum payment involved, but it’s too early to say for sure. He just filed yesterday, so I haven’t seen the specifics yet.

Honestly, the biggest relief for me was ensuring Jordan had absolutely no involvement in my professional life. I really wanted to keep my businesses – JZ Styles, my hair salon, and JZ Academy, where I run workshops – completely separate from our personal relationship. It was important to me to maintain that boundary and keep things professional on my end.

But she admitted that it’s difficult having to divide any assets with her ex.

She admitted things weren’t good. While acknowledging she also made errors in the relationship and that he deserved some consideration, she expressed frustration that he was now trying to claim a share of the business she and her family had worked so hard to build from nothing.

She also mentioned that if she needed to for the sake of their children, she’d be willing to compromise, explaining, “I want them to have a dad who is stable and reliable.”

Okay, so my friend Jessi just went through a breakup, and honestly, it’s been a really positive turning point for her. She’s embracing this new chapter, and it’s exciting to see her open to possibilities – there’s even someone new she’s getting to know! It feels like a fresh start for her, and she’s really thriving.

Jessi, who was once married to Zach Gish, shared that she hasn’t been on a date since she was 20 years old. She explained that she married young – first to Jordan, right after turning 21 – and now feels incredibly nervous about getting back into dating. She feels like a teenager experiencing dating for the first time and honestly doesn’t know where to begin.

She explained she was ready to start dating again. She valued her newfound independence and wasn’t looking for a serious commitment right away. She wanted to have fun, meet new people, and take things slowly, being mindful not to rush into anything before she was ready. She anticipated talking to different guys and knew she’d need to be cautious about not getting involved too quickly.

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2026-03-26 01:19