Emotional Alicia Silverstone Details Her Late Mom’s Clueless Cameo

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Alicia Silverstone still adores this sweet, plaid-covered Easter egg.

Alicia Silverstone recently reminisced about a memorable scene from the 1995 movie Clueless – a special appearance by her late mother, Didi Silverstone.

Oh my gosh, you guys, during the wedding scene in the movie, if you look way in the back, that’s actually my mom! And it’s so crazy because she passed away six years ago to the night that scene was filmed. Honestly, every time I watch it, it just hits me all over again. It’s beautiful and heartbreaking all at once, and I just… I miss her so much. Seeing her there, even just for a second, is incredibly moving.

She shared that she was very close to her mother, Didi, and was with her when she died in 2019. Alicia is proud that Didi, though gone, is still remembered and even appeared briefly in one of Alicia’s most important projects.

She would have loved this event, as she was a fan of everything involved,” the Batman & Robin actress shared, referring to the celebration of the film’s 30th anniversary. “Clueless has been wonderful; it truly makes people happy, and it’s rewarding to be a part of something that brings them so much joy.”

Alicia’s emotional words come over a year after she honored Didi on Mother’s Day. 

She shared a heartfelt Mother’s Day post on Instagram last May, writing, “My mom! I wish I could have her back!” and including photos of them together over the years. She also wished all mothers a day filled with love.

Her mother wasn’t just a supporter of her work onscreen; she also had a close bond with the late Brittany Murphy and her mother, Sharon Murphy, while filming Clueless. The actress, who has a 14-year-old son named Bear with her ex-husband Christopher Jarecki, shared this special connection.

Alicia fondly remembered working with Brittany, who passed away in 2009 at the age of 32. In a February 2023 interview with Entertainment Weekly, Alicia shared that both their mothers often spent time together on set. She described it as a heartwarming experience, noting that whenever her own mother was present, Brittany’s mother was there too, creating a special connection.

Just like her mother’s brief appearance, Alicia remains a big fan of her former colleague’s famous role and memorable line from the film.

She fondly remembered when the character told her, ‘You’re a virgin who can’t drive,’ describing the delivery with a sweet pout as ‘the cutest thing in the world.’ More behind-the-scenes stories about Clueless are coming up…

Trying to find a typical high school boy can feel pointless, like looking for depth in a Pauly Shore film. However, research at Beverly Hills High School proved surprisingly helpful for writer-director Amy Heckerling. As she explained to Entertainment Weekly, she noticed the girls were always focused on their appearance and constantly getting ready.

The producers went through several name changes while making their high school movie, and weren’t quite sure what to call it. They considered titles like No Worries and I Was a Teenage Teenager at different points during the editing process.

Alicia Silverstone was the frontrunner for the role of Cher. Director Amy Heckerling noticed her while she was appearing in several Aerosmith music videos. Heckerling told The Telegraph that she recorded the first video she saw Silverstone in, so she could show the studio the actress she envisioned for the part when she submitted the script.

Her casting director friend, Carrie Frazier, repeatedly urged her to consider Alicia Silverstone, who had been in The Crush. Initially, she was looking for the girl from the Aerosmith music videos, but she realized Frazier and she were talking about the same actress.

Silverstone won the role during a dinner with director Heckerling. According to Twink Caplan, who also played Miss Geist, Cher’s teacher, Alicia Silverstone didn’t lift the glass to her lips – she leaned across the table to drink from the straw. Heckerling immediately knew she’d found her Cher, describing Silverstone as incredibly sweet, even now.

Although director Amy Heckerling had her heart set on certain actresses, studio executives insisted on considering a large number of candidates. As Heckerling remembered in Jen Chaney’s 2015 book, As If!: The Oral History of Clueless (as excerpted in Vanity Fair), she auditioned several hopefuls, including Alicia Witt, Tiffani Thiessen (who famously cut her hair to the dismay of fans of her TV show), and Keri Russell. They also asked her to look at the actress from Flesh and Bone, who turned out to be Gwyneth Paltrow, but Heckerling never had the chance to see her audition.

Reese Witherspoon also actively pursued the role, with many believing she would be a star, according to Heckerling. However, in the end, Alicia Silverstone was the perfect fit for Cher.

Several other actors were considered for roles in the film. Josh was a potential choice, as were Ben Affleck and Jeremy Renner. Lauryn Hill auditioned to play Dionne, Cher’s best friend, and Terrence Howard was looked at for the role of Dionne’s boyfriend, Murray. Seth Green and Owen Wilson were both considered for the part of the laid-back character Travis, and Sarah Michelle Gellar was actually offered the role of Amber, the fashion-obsessed character. However, getting her onto the cast proved difficult. According to co-producer Adam Schroeder, the soap opera All My Children wouldn’t release her for the few weeks of filming needed, and they refused to let her go.

It’s hard to picture anyone other than Paul Rudd as Josh, Cher’s love interest in the movie, but the studio initially considered another actor. When that didn’t work out, they went back to Rudd, who then blew them away in a screen test, according to casting director Marcia Ross in an interview with The Telegraph. Ross also revealed that Rudd had to audition many times to land the role.

At first, he was hoping for a different part. He explained to Chaney in her 2015 book that he initially interpreted the character, Murray, as a white man attempting to act Black. He was surprised to learn that the actor playing Murray was actually African-American. He’d thought the story would explore the idea of a white character appropriating Black culture, but realized that wasn’t the case. He simply said, ‘Oh, okay.’

The biggest challenge in casting the movie was finding the right actor to play Christian, Cher’s love interest. According to director Ross, they auditioned many people, but none of them captured the specific retro feel they were looking for.

The moment actor Justin Walker walked into the audition, everyone knew he was right for the part of Christian. Before that, they hadn’t found anyone who fit. Walker, who only had a few hours to prepare, vividly remembers getting the news. He was working at the Overtime Bar and Grill, near Madison Square Garden, and was on a pay phone with his agent when she told him he’d been cast. He was so excited he dropped the phone and ran south on Eighth Avenue.

Finding actors to play the heartbroken teachers, Miss Geist and Mr. Hall, was a straightforward process. Wallace Shawn, who unexpectedly became the movie’s romantic lead, explained, “They probably thought I’d be a good fit without even needing an audition.” He added that his own experience as a schoolteacher helped him understand and portray the role authentically.

Caplan, who worked with Heckerling as an associate producer, was surprised when she learned she was being considered for the role of Miss Geist. She explained that the character was inspired by a teacher Amy Heckerling had in school, and they believed Caplan was right for the part, which was written specifically with her in mind.

When the actor originally cast as Cher’s mugger cancelled just before filming, director Amy Heckerling had to quickly find a replacement. She explained that mobile phones weren’t common then, and she couldn’t reach anyone at their offices. Luckily, Jace Alexander was working with producer Scott Rudin at the time, and that’s how he ended up getting the part.

Breckin Meyer was especially excited to land the role of Travis. He told Entertainment Weekly that he was going through a tough time professionally and had spent all the money he’d earned as a child actor. He was living in a very basic situation – above a garage with no heat or hot water, and sleeping on a mattress on the floor. He even had to go to Seth Green’s house to shower and do laundry.

Alicia Silverstone, though only 17 while filming the movie, wasn’t as passionate about fashion as her character, Cher. She admitted at a 2019 fan event that she sometimes found it hard to connect with Cher’s elaborate wardrobe—which included 64 different outfits in the 100-minute film—because she usually just wore a simple green T-shirt and jeans herself.

Even when the book first came out in 1995, she told the Allentown Morning Call that she had to do a lot of preparation for the project, because she personally doesn’t enjoy dressing up. She prefers comfortable clothes like black sweatpants and a t-shirt, describing herself as practical and a bit of a tomboy.

It took a full week to determine each character’s unique style. According to Stacey Dash, they typically spend two days on fittings, but this time it took seven ten-hour days just to go through all the clothes – ‘racks and racks and racks’ of them! Dash particularly loved Dionne’s plaid outfit, especially the hat, which she described as looking like ‘a pretty little cake’.

Dash said the connection she had with her co-star Donald Faison (before he became famous on Scrubs) felt genuine. She told The Telegraph that their chemistry wasn’t something they had to fake; it was natural.

Faison was definitely smitten. “I was completely captivated by her,” he said. He recalled telling his friends he was going to date the actress from Mo’ Money, and they were excited, constantly asking if he’d kiss her. He responded, “Yes! Absolutely, I’m going to kiss her, and it’s going to be a good kiss!”

That kiss was actually his first time kissing on screen. Director Amy Heckerling told the New York Post that after she called ‘cut,’ he excitedly jumped all over the set. She described him as bouncing around like a puppy, clearly thrilled and proud of the experience.

The 40-day filming process in the winter of 1994 mirrored the lighthearted high school atmosphere the filmmakers aimed to portray. As Shawn described it, making the movie felt like a fun, innocent gathering where they all decided to create a film together. The cast wasn’t focused on future careers; they were simply enjoying the entertaining and amusing experience, and it was a genuinely delightful time for everyone involved.

 

It was very common for the younger actors on set to spend time together in each other’s trailers. Elisa Donovan, who played the snobby Monet Amber, described the experience as a dream. She explained that it was exciting to work with people their age, wear fun costumes, and that it was a real starting point for all of their careers.

Faison remembers a lot of relaxed days spent with his friends on set. He and Meyer even shared a trailer, removing the divider so they could hang out together constantly. He describes filming as very laid-back: just showing up, relaxing in the trailer, maybe taking a nap, and then shooting a scene.

For several weeks afterward, Seth Rogen, Evan Goldberg, and Jonah Hill became very close, even sharing a place at Rogen’s apartment. Rogen told Entertainment Weekly they would watch movies starring Corey Haim and Corey Feldman every night, and spend their days looking for other work.

Alicia Silverstone felt a lot of pressure carrying the movie, and her experience differed from the other actors. She explained, “It was a job for me.” While others seemed to have fun with their smaller roles, she was in almost every scene, working long and tiring hours.

Caplan recounted to The Telegraph that Alicia’s dog was causing a problem on set. People were complaining about stepping in dog waste near the makeup trailer, and Caplan jokingly asked if someone could please keep the dog on a leash.

Okay, let me tell you a funny behind-the-scenes story! When we were filming that iconic party scene, things didn’t exactly go smoothly with one particular moment. Getting the ‘Suck and Blow’ gag to work with a real credit card proved impossible – it just wouldn’t create the right effect. So, our amazing prop team had to build one out of cardboard! And get this – they used multiple layers of ChapStick to create the necessary suction. Talk about resourceful! It just goes to show, even in glamorous shoots, sometimes it’s the simplest, most unexpected solutions that save the day.

Just as upsetting to viewers was Murray’s shaved head, which so bothered Dionne that she threatened to tell his mother. According to Meyer, when filming, they intentionally left a small amount of hair on Laurence Fishburne’s head, visible only when he wore a hat.

You know, as a lifestyle expert, I always appreciate a good behind-the-scenes story! I recently learned that director Amy Heckerling actually made a quick cameo in Clueless as a bridesmaid at the wedding. Apparently, she jokingly ‘forced’ herself into the role! And get this – when it came time to toss the bouquet, the actresses weren’t quite fighting for it enough, so Amy herself had to jump in and playfully push everyone to create a more chaotic – and perfect – moment on camera. It’s a fun little detail that really shows the collaborative spirit on set!

Did Amy Heckerling invent Cher’s famous catchphrase, “As if!”? Not likely! The screenwriter is fascinated by language and was actively collecting slang terms at the time. She told The Hollywood Reporter in 2016 that she’d heard “As if!” circulating within the gay community in the early ’90s and believed it was a versatile phrase perfect for teenagers to use.

Although the quote appeared on the outlet’s list of 100 Favorite Movie Quotes, director Amy Heckerling actually preferred a line from Cher’s debate class scene: “I guess, in a silly way, I’ve always been proud of ‘It does not say RSVP on the Statue of Liberty.'”

Developing the show’s unique vocabulary involved careful consideration. The creator explained to Entertainment Weekly that she would ask child actors to suggest new words during auditions – that’s how the phrase ‘going postal’ made it into the show. Other terms also had specific inspirations: ‘Betty’ was named after Betty Rubble, because she was considered very attractive, and the character ‘Barney’ was conceived with the question, ‘How did he win her over?’

One of the most memorable scenes in the film actually came from Alicia Silverstone herself. Director Amy Heckerling told Entertainment Weekly that when Silverstone delivered her now-famous debate speech on immigration, she mispronounced “Haitians.” Everyone immediately rushed to correct her, but Heckerling stopped them, realizing the mistake made the scene funnier and felt perfectly in character for Cher.

Picking a single standout moment from the movie is tough. Dash remembers filming the tennis court scene fondly, especially the line, ‘My plastic surgeon doesn’t want me doing activity where balls fly at my nose,’ and his response, ‘There goes your social life.’ Alicia Silverstone, however, loves Tai’s iconic insult, ‘You’re a virgin who can’t drive.’ She says the way Tai delivers the line – with a puckered mouth – is hilarious and perfectly captures the moment’s harshness.

Paul Rudd jokes that Cher and Josh likely aren’t still together, considering they moved to California. However, Silverstone is hopeful for their future. She told Entertainment Weekly that she imagines Cher happily married to Rudd, with children, and pursuing a fulfilling career – maybe even as a professional organizer. Ultimately, she believes Cher has matured and is no longer irritating.

Herckerling pictures her character, Cher, as very socially aware. She told The A.V. Club that modern Cher would definitely advocate for things like mask-wearing, equality, fair wages, and changes to immigration and the prison system. She’d also be passionate about protecting the environment, addressing climate change, and holding companies accountable for polluting our food, air, and water. It’s a long list, Herckerling noted.

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