Goldie Hawn Calls Kurt Russell Her “Sexual Object” After 42 Years

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Goldie Hawn isn’t trying to escape her relationship with Kurt Russell. 

Actually, it’s quite different than you might think. The actress from The First Wives Club happily revealed some very personal details about her 42-year relationship with the star of The Hateful Eight, openly discussing intimate aspects of their life together.

Goldie, 80, shared on the January 22nd episode of The Dan Buettner Podcast that she has a lot of respect for a certain person and finds him incredibly appealing. She also emphasized that sexual attraction is important, and having a fulfilling long-term sexual relationship can be very beneficial for overall health.

She described him as both physically attractive and intellectually stimulating, saying he makes her laugh and she still finds him incredibly handsome. She also acknowledged her attraction to him, calling him a ‘sexual object,’ and praised his talent as an actor.

She’s not the only one who loves Kurt. Goldie Hawn also shared that her children, Oliver Hudson, 49, and Kate Hudson, 46—whom she shares with her ex-husband, Bill Hudson—have always adored him. They’ve known him as “Pa” since they were little.

You know, watching Kurt with our kids is just the sweetest thing. He has such a wonderful connection with them, they absolutely adore him! And honestly, as a family – including my son Wyatt Russell – we’re genuinely happy most of the time. It’s a really beautiful thing to see.

What’s the secret to their successful relationship after forty years? She says it’s “freedom.”

She explained that if she were a bird and someone left the cage open, she might not even bother to leave. However, if the cage were closed, she’d fight for her freedom and independence, even if it meant sacrificing everything she had.

Goldie Hawn described her relationship with Kurt Russell, with whom she shares 45-year-old son Boston Russell (from his previous marriage to Season Hubley), as a matter of personal freedom. She explained it’s about maintaining individuality and not losing yourself in another person.

Goldie Hawn was married twice before – once to Gus Trikonis and later to Bill, with that marriage ending in 1982. She says the freedom she enjoys in her current relationship with Kurt Russell is the reason she doesn’t feel the need to get married again.

“This whole idea of becoming one is not my idea of fun,” she said. “That’s why it works.”

Goldie and Kurt aren’t the only celebrities who’ve talked about their lasting relationship. Here’s more about it…

In their 2020 book, What Makes a Marriage Last, Hermann explained to his wife, Marlo Thomas, that he never expected so much laughter in their over 20-year marriage. He believes that their commitment to finding joy is essential to who they are as a couple. He added that their marriage thrives because he feels loved for exactly who he is – a true act of grace.

He also shared that even after intense disagreements, they have a way of reconnecting. One of them will often break the tension with a joke about the very thing they were arguing about. As Hermann described it, it’s a way of saying, ‘I’m not admitting I was wrong, but can we start to find our way back to a place of connection?’ When they can do that, he knows they’re on the path to resolving the issue.

The couple has managed to avoid major changes in their relationship by following the same advice they received before getting married in 2003. Even with five children, they prioritize weekly date nights and have intentionally chosen not to buy a television, opting instead for other ways to connect.

Chip says his biggest piece of advice is to passionately pursue the person you love. After twenty years, he still approaches the relationship like he’s trying to win a second date. He jokes that while he can’t guarantee his wife would never be unfaithful, it certainly wouldn’t be due to a lack of affection or forgotten special occasions – he always makes sure to tell her he loves her, send flowers, and remember their anniversary.

Kevin Bacon jokingly advises against taking relationship advice from celebrities, reflecting on his 36-year marriage. He and his wife have a playful motto – “Keep the fights clean and the sex dirty” – which they use to quickly shut down any further discussion about their relationship.

But seriously, they prioritize resolving disagreements quickly and avoid prolonged arguments. As the actress explained, they focus on finding solutions rather than ‘winning’ a fight. They simply don’t enjoy fighting and want to restore harmony as soon as possible. Ultimately, she emphasized that they are fully committed to making things work, as there’s no alternative plan for their relationship.

After 37 years of marriage, my husband and I have really learned how to navigate disagreements respectfully. We’ve made a conscious effort not to bring up past hurts – what I call ‘picking scabs.’ It’s amazing how many couples seem to target their partner’s weaknesses, almost like it’s a game. We just don’t operate that way.

Of course, we still argue! I’m definitely guilty of wanting to immediately retract something I’ve said if I realize it was insensitive, but I’ve learned that doesn’t actually solve anything. Now, I try to give my wife space when things get heated. And she’s incredible at offering grace. She’ll remind herself, ‘He said something silly that bothered me, but he’s a good man and didn’t intend to hurt my feelings.’ It’s all about giving each other the benefit of the doubt and remembering the bigger picture.

Speaking on Today in December 2024, just before their 40th anniversary, Curtis shared that Christopher Guest still makes her laugh more than anyone else. She jokingly added that he must find something to like about her, even if she doesn’t know what it is.

Neil Patrick Harris believes the secret to his long-lasting relationship is accepting that relationships are constantly changing and hard to define. After 21 years together, navigating career changes (including his partner David Burtka’s cookbook release in 2019), raising twins Gideon and Harper, and facing life’s challenges, Harris explained that marriage is never static. He shared that even intimacy evolves—what works at first eventually becomes routine, requiring couples to find new ways to connect and rekindle attraction as they age. Ultimately, he said, you begin to fall in love with a person’s inner self, and then their physical self again. It’s a continuous process of change, and in a way, they keep rediscovering their love for each other in different forms, over and over again.

The comedic duo genuinely believe that laughter is essential to their well-being, not just in their 19-year relationship, but in life itself. The actress from Can You Ever Forgive Me? explained that whenever they share a particularly hilarious moment – one that leaves them breathless – they playfully calculate how much extra life it’s added to their years. She jokingly keeps a running total, claiming a good laugh could buy her months of extra time.

They also limit how long disagreements can last. Following the advice to never go to bed angry, Falcone shared that she once tried letting an argument linger overnight, only to realize she’d forgotten what she was even upset about. She believes that trying to resolve issues when everyone is tired or has had something to drink is unproductive. She’s never had a late-night argument end with a satisfying resolution and a signed truce.

Each having wed before they found their way to the other in 1995, they not only had to navigate a marriage, but life as step-parents to two children apiece. “There is no book that tells you how to do it, so the one thing I figured out right away is that they already have a mom—and it’s not me. So what did they need from me?” the Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist actor recalled. “That’s when I realized that everybody needs a cheerleader, right? There’s never too many of those in your life, so that’s what I’ll be. I never set their boundaries, disciplined them, or tried to teach them right from wrong. They have parents who do that.”

The Cheers alum agreed with her stance wholeheartedly. “I think that’s really wise, to offer yourself as a friend,” he said. “‘I’m not going to discipline you and I’m not going to judge you. What I’m going to do is hang out with you and be there for you.’ And that’s what you have to do: absolutely, genuinely be there.” 

As a longtime observer of lasting relationships, I’ve always been fascinated by Elton John and David Furnish. While they officially joined in a civil union the moment it became legal in Britain – December 21st, 2005 – and then again as a full marriage nine years later, they actually celebrate a different date: the unexpected meeting at a dinner party I understand was arranged by a mutual friend at Elton’s flat in Windsor back in 1993. It’s that initial spark they cherish! But what truly sets them apart, and something I always recommend to couples, is their dedication to communication. Every Saturday, no matter where their busy lives take them, they write each other handwritten letters. They estimate they’ve exchanged around 1,352 notes! David explains it feels deeply personal and real, a chance to reflect and connect. And Elton agrees – consistent communication is, in his view, key to making a relationship last.

After quietly building a 40-year marriage, they’ve made a conscious effort to keep their relationship strong, even as their lives have changed. They prioritize their marriage, regularly checking in and refocusing when needed. If they could offer one piece of advice, it would be to put the relationship first. He emphasized his unwavering devotion, saying he’d do anything for his wife, even face great danger or endure her anger, as long as he could continue to show her his love. He believes that if you value long-term happiness, you must fiercely protect your marriage from anything that could harm it.

ABC News reporter Roberts admits she doesn’t enjoy casual check-in calls. “I don’t like them,” she said. “If someone calls just to ask ‘How are things?’, I really don’t.” But a close friend, who frequently called her, helped her change her perspective.

He told her, “Maybe he just feels comfortable hearing your voice – it makes him feel like everything is okay.” Roberts realized this was a sweet thought she hadn’t considered before. “If it makes him happy, then it should matter to me,” she said.

Now, she takes a moment to respond kindly, saying something like, “I’m busy, but what’s new with you? I’m glad to hear from you. I have to go now, talk to you later, love you.” She says this small change makes a huge difference to him, and it only takes her two minutes to be pleasant. The couple celebrated their 29th anniversary in September 2024.

Their strong marriage of almost 30 years started building from the very beginning. They recall even small arguments feeling potentially devastating – like the time the actor threw the talk show host’s ring out the window! The talk show host explained that early in a marriage, little issues can quickly become major problems, especially with financial stress, career demands, or the challenges of raising children while exhausted. However, her husband taught her the importance of stepping away and taking a moment to calm down, realizing that not every disagreement is a dealbreaker. Now, as parents of three, they’re seeing the rewards of that lesson. The actor believes that truly happy couples have overcome difficult times together, and that’s something to celebrate.

She describes herself as an introvert, almost a loner, while he’s incredibly outgoing – he jokingly calls himself “the mayor of everywhere.” She’s a bit messy, and he’s a perfectionist, as she put it. But after being married since 2003, they’ve learned to accept each other’s differences.

That’s the advice the lead actress from How to Get Away With Murder gives to friends who are getting married. She explains that marriage doesn’t begin at the wedding ceremony. It starts when you realize something about the person you love will likely annoy you, but you love them anyway. That initial acceptance, she says, is the true beginning of a marriage.

Okay, so after fifty years with someone, you learn things, right? What I’ve figured out is you absolutely cannot let fights linger. Seriously, whenever we have a disagreement, I’m always the first to say I’m sorry. It’s not even hard! I just adore her, and the thought of her being upset, even for a tiny bit, just breaks my heart. But honestly, the best thing is when I can avoid hurting her enough that she even needs to apologize to me. It’s like a golden rule I live by now: if you say something mean when you’re mad, you’re gonna regret it way more later. You’ll be angry at yourself for saying it, and you’ll still be dealing with the original anger. It’s a double whammy of upset! Terrible for your health, and even worse for the relationship. You just have to swallow your pride, you know?

It’s fitting that Jerry, a former judge, says his long marriage to the iconic Judge Judy works because he generally lets her have the final say. For her, the key is accepting that you won’t always get your way. Their marriage initially ended in 1990 when he couldn’t provide the support she needed after her father passed away. However, they quickly remarried a year later, and she understood he wouldn’t suddenly become a homemaker or take charge of planning events.

She explained simply that unhappiness in relationships often comes from trying to change someone. “You can try, but they’ll always resent it,” she said. “Don’t marry someone expecting to change who they are.”

The actor from Lost credits his wife with being the rock of their family. He told TopMob News in April 2025 that she’s been incredibly supportive throughout his career, especially as he’s traveled and taken on different roles. He said, ‘She’s kept our family stable and has been fantastic,’ recognizing her patience and strength.

The actor described his wife as incredibly patient, and said she and their two sons help him stay grounded, no matter the situation.

“They shape my values,” he added. “It’s great to have that perspective and North Star.”

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2026-01-28 19:22