How David and Victoria Beckham’s Marriage Grew Stronger After Scandal

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David Beckham and Victoria Beckham are not the people they were when they met in 1997.

And if they were, that might be a problem.

“It’s common in relationships to hear someone say, ‘You’ve changed,’ and that’s natural!” Victoria recently shared with *ELLE*. “People evolve – you’re not the same person at 20 as you are at 50.”

Victoria Beckham’s life is the subject of a new Netflix documentary, premiering October 9th. While most people already know how her story unfolds, the film offers a look into her personal journey. The documentary shows the Beckhams enjoying a comfortable life together – one scene features them relaxing with wine before attending an event with King Charles III, suggesting they are doing very well.

Okay, so everyone’s been talking about some drama with Brooklyn and Nicola, which honestly, I try not to pay attention to! But things are *amazing* for David and Victoria! He finally got his knighthood in June – Sir David Beckham! It’s so well-deserved, for everything he’s done with football and all his charity work. I’m just so happy for them, they truly deserve all the good things coming their way!

Things became especially difficult for him 20 years ago when Rebecca Loos, a former employee, claimed she had a relationship with him. He strongly denied the allegations, but Rebecca continues to insist her story is true.

And David still isn’t sure how he and Victoria managed to get past that fraught period.

Looking back, I’m not sure how we made it through those tough times,” David admitted in the 2023 docuseries *Beckham*, reflecting on his journey from professional athlete to successful businessman. “Victoria means everything to me, and it was incredibly painful to see her struggling. But we’re both resilient people. We had to fight for each other, and for our family, because what we shared was worth saving.

Victoria admitted it was a really difficult time for everyone involved. She explained that it felt like they were facing overwhelming challenges, and honestly, they weren’t working together as a team either.

Despite the recent drama, it became clear that David and Victoria Beckham are committed to co-parenting their four children – Brooklyn, 26, Romeo, 23, Cruz, 20, and Harper, 14 – and working together as parents.

David and Victoria Beckham wed on July 4, 1999, at an Irish castle. This was four months after their son Brooklyn was born and a landmark year for David, as he led Manchester United to win the Premier League, FA Cup, and Champions League—a rare ‘treble’.

The Spice Girls broke up the following year, and Victoria Beckham began her solo career with the successful single “Out of Your Mind.”

Despite releasing her first self-titled album in October 2001, which sold around 50,000 copies, she didn’t pursue a long music career. While fans immediately hoped for a Spice Girls reunion, she quickly shifted her attention to fashion and starting a family, welcoming her son Romeo on September 1, 2002.

David Beckham’s fame continued to grow rapidly. Following the release of the 2002 film *Bend It Like Beckham*, which celebrated his football skills, he joined Real Madrid in the summer of 2003 for nearly $30 million.

And so began the most trying 12 months of the storied Beckham union.

In September 2003, David was seen with a woman named Rebecca—who worked as an assistant at his management company—at a nightclub in Madrid. He later publicly dismissed rumors in the tabloids that his marriage was facing difficulties.

He and Victoria continued to support each other, and she was with him in November when Queen Elizabeth II awarded him an Officer of the Order of the British Empire (OBE) at Buckingham Palace.

In April 2004, the now-closed newspaper *News of the World* published a story claiming that David and Rebecca had multiple sexual encounters after a night out in 2003. The story, attributed to a supposed close family friend, also alleged they continued to share explicit text messages. According to the report, Victoria contacted Rebecca and warned her to stay away from David.

Just before their fifth wedding anniversary, the Beckhams were caught in a scandal fueled by British tabloids. Reports of an affair became widespread when Rebecca’s brother claimed she had admitted to having a relationship with the soccer star while in Spain.

Family representatives stated that Victoria’s trip to Switzerland was a pre-planned vacation with her parents and mother-in-law, and not an attempt to avoid public attention.

I’ve been so worried about everything going on with David, but I was relieved to finally hear directly from him. He released a statement saying he’s gotten used to all the crazy rumors about his personal life, but wants everyone to know he’s incredibly happy with his wife and kids. He made it clear that nothing anyone says or does can change how much he loves his family, and honestly, that’s all that matters. It’s good to know he’s doing okay despite everything.

In an April 2004 interview with Kay Burley on Sky One, Rebecca stated she didn’t anticipate receiving any sympathy from Victoria.

I’ve already suffered enough for my actions and don’t need anyone’s pity,” she said. “I truly hope they can work through this. I believe their marital issues existed long before I became involved. I never meant to cause their separation, especially with children involved, and I hope they find a way to stay together.

Which they did, and Victoria was visibly pregnant again by August 2004.

The next month, she and David prepared to take legal action against *News of the World* because of an article claiming trouble in their marriage, titled “Posh and Becks on the Rocks.”

Honestly, it’s just infuriating! They’re trying to exploit my absolute idols, the Beckhams, and it’s all about money! Can you believe the nerve? And now, when they’re about to welcome *another* little Beckham boy – their third son! – these awful, completely false rumors are circulating. It’s heartbreaking! Thankfully, the Beckhams have the best lawyers handling everything, so justice will be served. I just want them to be happy and protected!

Cruz was born Feb. 20, 2005, in Madrid.

The couple updated their legal complaint to include another story from the *News of the World* newspaper. This new claim, based on information from a former nanny, suggested their marriage wasn’t genuine. They also sued the nanny, who had worked for them since 2003, for sharing private information.

As a dad, and someone who’s navigated public life for a while, I’ve learned that trust is everything – especially when it comes to your kids. Back in 2005, there was a lot of attention on my family, and a legal matter unfolding, so I couldn’t really discuss the details publicly. But what I *can* tell you is that my wife and I were, and are, genuinely happy. We’re just a normal couple, really – we have our disagreements, just like everyone else. But at the end of the day, the love is always there. Focusing on football helped me keep things grounded during that time, but family is truly what matters most.

In March 2006, David and Victoria Beckham received a confidential payment from the *News of the World* and ended their legal case against the newspaper. The *News of the World* later closed in 2011 after it was revealed that several employees had illegally accessed private voicemails, including those of celebrities like Hugh Grant, royal family members, and even the voicemail of a young murder victim.

Honestly, hearing Rebecca say that on *60 Minutes Australia* just… it solidified everything for me. She said she’s *always* told the truth, never embellished, never lied – not even once. And it makes total sense! She was going up against *them*, the most powerful couple in media, and all she had was the truth on her side. It’s just… incredible. I knew she was telling the truth all along, and hearing her say it so confidently… it just means everything.

David Beckham received a lucrative offer—around $250 million—from the Los Angeles Galaxy, and the Beckhams decided to move to the United States as a result.

In a January 2007 interview, the celebrated midfielder – who later won the La Liga title with Real Madrid before leaving the club – described the decision to move his family as “extremely difficult,” but welcomed a new challenge as the right step forward.

NBC’s four-part documentary, *Victoria Beckham: Coming to America*, followed the Beckham family as they relocated to Beverly Hills.

Victoria shared with TopMob News that August they were amazed anyone even recognized them or knew they were arriving. Despite the fanfare and red carpet already being laid out for them, they felt like just ‘David and Victoria from London,’ considering all the famous people in Los Angeles.

She explained that it wouldn’t take long for the paparazzi to realize they weren’t very exciting, as they mostly just stayed home with their children and preferred a private life.

The family bought a large villa in Southern California for around $22 million. Despite its size—13,000 square feet—Victoria explained to W magazine that they specifically wanted to avoid something overly extravagant or showy.

She described the house as bright and cheerful, pointing out the long hallway that the children would enjoy roller-skating in. David then jokingly added that they wouldn’t be hiring any live-in help, explaining they prefer to lock up at night and have the freedom of the house to themselves.

Victoria admitted the recent scandal involving her and David was very difficult, not just for them, but for their whole families. She also shared a cynical realization – that everyone has a limit and can be influenced.

Victoria explained that she and David overcame their challenges by supporting each other. She acknowledged that marriage isn’t always easy and they’ve faced difficulties, but these experiences ultimately made their relationship stronger and more fulfilling. She shared that their connection is now even better than it was when they first got married, and they enjoy simply relaxing and laughing together at home.

I was so thrilled to see her finally launch her own fashion line – it was a dream come true! And watching David with the Galaxy was incredible. He didn’t just win two championships, he really helped put Major League Soccer on the map with his amazing play and, especially, that key assist everyone still talks about.

In 2007, Victoria famously joked to TopMob that raising three sons was more about managing a crowd than actual parenting. However, she later welcomed a daughter, Harper Seven, born on July 10, 2011.

The family continued to grow in fame, but David didn’t place much value on being well-known.

In a 2012 interview with *Men’s Health*, David shared what truly mattered to him: his wife, their four children, and his extended family. He also valued a small circle of close friends, explaining, ‘I’d rather have three really good friends than 20 good friends.’ He felt that was ‘all you need.’

He retired from professional soccer in 2013 at the young age of 38, finishing his career with a game for Paris Saint-Germain. The team celebrated winning the Ligue 1 championship that same night, creating a memorable and perfect scene.

Since 2016, the family has lived in a $45 million home in London’s Holland Park, just a four-minute drive from Victoria’s Hammersmith office. They also own an $8 million country cottage in the Cotswolds and a $24 million house in Miami. David is a club president and co-owner of Inter Miami CF, a Major League Soccer team, and in 2023, they made headlines by signing Lionel Messi.

Brooklyn wed Nicola Peltz, at her family’s Palm Beach estate in April 2022.

Oh my gosh, you guys, I was *watching* TopMob’s *Daily Pop* back in August 2022 and the groom was just SO sweet! He shared the best advice his parents gave him for a happy marriage, and it was honestly everything. He said they told him and his partner to ‘Just love each other, try and not worry about anything. Keep working and just try and have fun.’ Seriously, isn’t that the cutest?! I’m already taking notes!

David believes the key to his and Victoria’s long-lasting relationship and close-knit family is the positive influence of role models they had growing up.

As a lifestyle expert, I’ve always said strong family foundations are key, and my parents really instilled good values in us. Life isn’t perfect, and I’m a firm believer that every marriage has its challenges. It’s all about navigating those tough times *together*. My partner and I have definitely faced our share, but we’ve built a deep understanding of each other – truly, we *know* each other better than anyone else. And honestly? Open communication is everything. We talk things through, and that makes all the difference.

Addressing those who might think staying married is simply good for business, he clarified, “It’s not about maintaining a brand. We’re together because we genuinely love each other and cherish our four wonderful children.”

That also means considering the feelings and well-being of four other people – and the feelings of their partners, too.

Victoria Beckham shared in a 2018 interview with British Vogue that she and David have dealt with false rumors about their relationship for two decades. They’ve learned to disregard the untrue stories and live their lives, but she explained that these rumors can negatively impact their family and friends, which isn’t right.

Ultimately, she and David came to understand that they accomplished more by supporting each other than they could have alone. She reflected on how unlikely their current success would have been without their years together, emphasizing the importance of their relationship and the strength of family.

Keep reading to relive David and Victoria’s romance in photos:

David Beckham and Victoria Adams announced their engagement in January 1998, just a few months after they began dating.

In the summer of 1999, a famous Manchester United soccer player married a member of the Spice Girls in a castle near Dublin. They sold exclusive photos of their wedding to *OK! Magazine* for a private amount, but they often share memories from their special day on their anniversary.

Victoria and her partner had an instant connection when they first met. “It was truly love at first sight,” she told *Elle* magazine. “He even said he wrote my phone number on everything he could find, just in case he lost it!”

He’s a globally recognized soccer star, and she’s a former Spice Girl who’s also a successful fashion designer. As a couple, they consistently attract a lot of media attention, especially at events like the 2008 ESPY Awards.

The couple shares four children together: Brooklyn, Harper, Romeo and Cruz Beckham.

Even with their children growing up in the spotlight, the parents always made time for family activities, like attending the opening night of the Spice Girls musical *Viva Forever* in December 2012.

Even with their demanding jobs, this couple prioritizes spending quality time together. For example, they famously coordinated their outfits – both wearing white – at the 2014 Met Gala.

In July 2017, David celebrated his 18th wedding anniversary by praising his wife as a wonderful partner, mother, and successful businesswoman.

I’ve always loved how David and Victoria make a point of celebrating everything, big or small, and they often share those moments with fans. I remember Victoria posting on her birthday in 2018, saying something like, ‘I love you so much, David, thank you for making my birthday so special! It was the perfect day having all six of us together!’ It just feels so genuine and lovely to see.

The designer once shared with Grazia that she and David prioritize spending quality time together as a couple and with their family. They don’t feel the need to prove anything to anyone; they simply love and support each other, both as partners and as parents.

David shared that his family is very close and that his parents instilled good values in him and his siblings while they were growing up.

In January 2018, the couple demonstrated their shared passion for fashion at a Louis Vuitton show during Paris Fashion Week.

Everyone was focused on Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s wedding in 2018, but a couple of other well-known attendees also stood out for their stylish appearances.

It’s been wonderful watching the Beckham children grow up over the years, and a fun moment was seeing Brooklyn join his parents, all dressed in coordinated tailored suits, at the 2019 GQ Men of the Year Awards.

Victoria Beckham is famous for her stylish and glamorous fashion sense. In 2022, she showcased her collection at Paris Fashion Week with support from her whole family, including her daughter-in-law, Nicola Peltz Beckham.

In October 2023, Victoria and David Beckham went to the premiere of David’s new Netflix documentary, *Beckham*. Victoria shared on Instagram how proud she was of David and all his accomplishments.

David, ever the perfect gentleman, carried his wife after her 50th birthday party on April 20, 2024. She shared a sweet message on Instagram, saying she felt incredibly special all evening, throughout the week, and during all their wonderful years together, adding, “Thank you. I love you so much!”

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