How Hilary Duff Really Feels About Those “With Love” Dance Memes

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As a lifestyle expert, I’ve seen trends come and go – especially online! Most memes have a short shelf life, but it’s funny how some stick around. Right now, Hilary Duff is finding that one particular meme just won’t quit – it’s still getting attention after all this time!

The former Disney star is enjoying a comeback in her pop music career, and she recently reminisced about a memorable moment from when she first became famous. Specifically, she talked about the dance moves she used when performing her 2007 hit song, “With Love,” which have since become a popular internet meme.

Hilary recently told Glamour magazine that dealing with past experiences hasn’t been easy. She said she often felt pressured to do things she didn’t enjoy and that it wasn’t a good time in her life.

Hilary Duff, who has a 13-year-old son named Luca with her ex-husband Mike Comrie, and three daughters – Banks (7), Mae (4), and Townes (21 months) – with her husband Matthew Koma, recently acknowledged a difficult past experience. She shared that while she referenced it in a New York performance last month, it took her time to view the situation as anything other than a source of stress and pressure.

She admitted it’s a strange way to think about things, and that most people probably don’t see it the same way, but that’s how she used to feel.

Hilary’s dance, originally performed on shows like The Tonight Show and Today back in 2007, became a viral sensation in 2021. People loved its simple, relaxed moves and started making their own versions in videos shared on social media.

Hilary even participated in the trend, playfully joining a fan’s TikTok parody by performing the dance with energy and adding the caption, “Here you gooooo.”

Let’s be real, artists are always under scrutiny, and dance moves are a huge part of that! It reminds me of what happened with Dua Lipa back in 2017. She was getting a lot of attention for her choreography to “One Kiss,” and a fan made this funny comment – it basically said she was giving amazing energy but not much actual movement! It quickly turned into a meme – “go girl, give us nothing” – and honestly, it just shows how fans can playfully react to everything an artist does.

Although Dua has playfully copied the move herself now, she shared that she didn’t always find it easy to laugh at her own mistakes.

Honestly, that whole situation really stung. I remember reading about it and just feeling for Dua – she was finally living her dream, doing what she loved, and it felt like people were trying to tear her down, making her feel like nothing she did was good enough. It was awful timing too, because she was already being pulled in a million directions – constant travel, rehearsals, promotion… she just didn’t have the space to really polish things and make it perfect. It was a really tough moment for her, and as a fan, it was hard to watch.

For more stars who have clapped back at haters, keep reading… 

In a May 2024 TikTok video, Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillippe’s daughter shared that she’d experienced something upsetting: two strangers commenting on her body. She described it as a significant moment for her as a woman online.

She explained that one person told her she should take Ozempic because they thought she was overweight, while another accused her of starving herself because she was too thin. She pointed out that her weight hadn’t changed during that time, and even if it had, it wouldn’t have been anyone else’s concern.

Ava believes everyone deserves to be treated with respect, regardless of their appearance. She explained that you never know the challenges someone is facing, and true beauty goes far beyond how someone looks.

After facing criticism about her body, the singer of “I’m Good” responded to her critics, explaining she’s had enough of comments about her appearance. In a June 2023 tweet, she acknowledged gaining weight, but firmly stated she was tired of the discussion and wanted it to stop.

She also explained that everyone’s weight naturally fluctuates, and you never know the health challenges someone might be facing, like dealing with medication or illness.

Following criticism about her appearance in an Instagram photo, the actress from The House Bunny responded to those commenting on her weight. She explained that while she usually doesn’t feel the need to address such comments, she wanted to speak out against body shaming. She said she was upset by the inappropriate remarks left on her picture, especially because she was just having fun with the silly photos. She also noted that the angle of the photo made her appear thinner than she is. Ultimately, she emphasized that people don’t have the right to post negative and judgmental comments about anyone’s body.

She explained that commenting on her weight, whether saying she’s too thin or needs to eat, is unhelpful and constitutes body shaming. She made it clear she won’t tolerate any form of body shaming.

Over a week later, she posted a bikini photo with a message for her critics, playfully writing, “To those who dislike me… with love and gratitude, I send kisses [kiss emoji] and a cheerful wave [peace sign emoji]! I’ll keep smiling no matter what.”

 

In February 2021, the actress responded to online rumors about a possible pregnancy. The speculation started after photos circulated online showing her on set in Australia wearing a dark blue tank top. She publicly called out the New York Post on Instagram, writing, “I’m not pregnant, but it’s still okay to comment on a woman’s body in 2021? Do better.”

The star of Flip or Flop addressed online criticism about her appearance. In a video on Instagram Stories, she explained that people were commenting on her weight, saying she looked too thin or needed to eat more. She clarified that this is her normal weight and that she simply returns to it after having babies, reassuring fans that she’s healthy and doing well.

The singer, who recently faced criticism online about her appearance, responded to body-shamers with a powerful message – without saying a word. People had been posting comments about her body and weight, but she addressed the negativity through her actions.

During her performance at Manchester Pride 2025, she wore a large T-shirt featuring a design of a woman in a cropped tank top and black pushup bra.

After her breakup with Jim Edmonds, the former Bravo star asked fans to stop commenting on her weight. She admitted on Instagram in December 2019, “I’m too thin, people just tell me to ‘eat a burger.'” She went on to say she deserved some understanding, as she was prioritizing her children and handling things with as much grace as possible.

The iconic singer recently responded to criticism about her weight, telling Entertainment Tonight that she doesn’t see a problem with her physique. She explained that she’s naturally thin, stays active with ballet and stretching, and exercises for her overall well-being – mind, body, and spirit.

If you’re putting yourself out there, you’re bound to face criticism, and that’s okay. I prioritize my own well-being, letting go of anything that doesn’t serve me. I trust my team to handle any issues that arise, and I understand that it’s impossible to make everyone happy. Ultimately, I need to focus on what feels right for me.

Back in June 2020, singer Lizzo responded to people criticizing her body. In a TikTok video, she explained that she’s been consistently working out for five years, but not to meet anyone else’s expectations. She’s focused on achieving her ideal body, and she made it clear that’s nobody’s business but her own. She confidently stated she’s beautiful, strong, and dedicated to her work.

The singer known for her song “Confident” has consistently spoken out against body shaming. In a 2016 interview with Glamour, she explained that when someone calls her fat, even when she’s feeling insecure, she simply laughs it off. She reasons that she’s already doing her best, so there’s nothing more she can do. She also pointed out that she doesn’t have a six-pack, and honestly, she doesn’t even desire one.

After an Oscar-winning actress shared a nude photo online, someone criticized her, writing in a now-deleted tweet that it was inappropriate for a woman her age to post such content, suggesting she should be enjoying time with her grandchildren instead. The commenter lamented that people no longer seem to age gracefully.

Halle quickly responded with a playful comment: “Did you know a shrimp’s heart is actually in its head?”

The “Señorita” star previously took to Instagram Stories to send a message to her haters.

She started a long post explaining that she’d been avoiding social media to protect her feelings. She accidentally saw a headline about people criticizing her body, and her first reaction was to feel incredibly insecure, worrying about what the pictures might look like. She immediately thought about her cellulite and if she’d been holding in her stomach. But then she realized, of course there would be unflattering pictures and angles – nobody’s body is perfect! She said the most upsetting thing is that young girls are growing up trying to achieve an unrealistic standard of perfection because of all the editing and airbrushing they see.

I’m writing this for young girls growing up with social media. They’re bombarded with heavily edited photos, and it’s easy to start believing that’s what real people actually look like. Soon, everyone gets used to seeing perfect, airbrushed skin and thinks that’s the standard. But it’s not! It’s all fake, and increasingly, that’s being presented as reality. We’ve lost sight of what a real woman’s body looks like. Let me be clear: cellulite and fat are perfectly normal, beautiful, and natural. I refuse to accept these unrealistic standards, and I hope you will too.

In May 2019, the singer shared a video of her performance at the Hangout Music Festival, where she was wearing a black leotard. Someone on social media commented, questioning why she didn’t appear as curvy as she used to, referencing a previous collaboration with two male country singers. The singer responded directly, saying she had gained weight and asked people to accept it.

She criticized the fashion industry, stating that multiple designers wouldn’t dress her for the Grammys due to her size. In a January 2019 Instagram post, she urged the industry to promote body positivity instead of making women feel insecure about their size, emphasizing that “We are beautiful any size!” and confirming she would still attend the Grammys as a size 8. She used the hashtag #LOVEYOURBODY to spread her message.

The celebrity had previously shared a photo of her family celebrating the Golden State Warriors’ win over the Portland Trail Blazers in Game 4 of the Western Conference Finals. In the picture, she’s holding her son, Canon. Someone then asked her if she was pregnant again.

She firmly said no, adding with a laugh that her 30-pound son was making it difficult to get a good photo because he was so heavy.

Someone else commented that if the child weighed 30 pounds, they would have significant health problems. The cookbook author quickly responded, shutting down the criticism with a firm, “Excuse me? Absolutely not.”

Only a week after giving birth, the podcast host used Instagram to connect with her fans.

I’m really frustrated and need to get this off my chest,” she wrote in December 2018. She’d originally wanted to share a photo of her stomach to document her recovery, but she was glad she hadn’t. The negative comments on her previous post were shocking. She clarified that she hadn’t had plastic surgery, a personal chef, or a strict workout routine. She did have a C-section and was still recovering, though she has a high pain tolerance. She’d also had three other abdominal surgeries before. In the photo she’d posted, she was wearing a belly wrap and high-waisted pants, and she couldn’t believe she even had to defend herself. She wondered why she’d likely be criticized even for sharing her honest journey. Why do women compare and criticize each other? She asked. Why can’t we accept that everyone’s body is different, heals differently, and looks unique? Why do we feel the need to shame others or ourselves for not fitting a certain mold? She urged everyone to be kinder to themselves and to recognize that every woman’s journey is beautiful in its own way. Let’s focus on lifting each other up instead of tearing ourselves down through comparison, she said. She ended with a message of love and a return to focusing on her baby.

In April 2018, actress Candace Cameron Bure posted a photo of herself having dinner with her son, Lev Bure. Someone commented negatively, questioning why she still appeared heavier than her husband despite her fitness efforts and asking if she had changed her eating habits.

The actress quickly responded to the negative comment. She wrote, “If a 25-inch waist seems large to you, it’s because you’re viewing it with unrealistic expectations. Take care.”

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2026-02-18 19:48