Jax Taylor Says He “Blindsided” Brittany Cartwright & Initiated Split

As a seasoned observer of human relationships and a connoisseur of reality TV dramas, I find myself deeply moved by Brittany Cartwright‘s tumultuous journey. Her life story, filled with love, betrayal, and resilience, is a testament to the complexities of human emotions and the unpredictable nature of relationships.


Jax Taylor is writing his own rules when it comes to his divorce.

Initially, it was Brittany Cartwright who filed for divorce in August, marking the end of their five-year marriage. However, the former star of “Vanderpump Rules” has since claimed that he was actually the one to initiate the separation.

During my second week of rehabilitation, I reached out to Brittany and shared, “I plan to bring in a mediator,” which I disclosed on the Bravo ‘Hot Mic’ podcast on November 14, as reported by People. “What many may not understand is that it was actually me who took the first step towards this arrangement.

According to Jax, his message was what prompted Brittany to get an attorney.

The 45-year-old said, “She mentioned hiring a divorce attorney, ‘Oh, no.’ I responded with a shrug, ‘Alright, go ahead.'” She seemed to suggest that she intended to be the one to file the divorce papers in a public setting.

Moreover, even though Jax acknowledges that the split was necessary, he suspects she may have had different reasons for initiating it first.

According to Jax’s statement, he believes she intended to announce the divorce first while he was away. Essentially, he suspects she wanted to be the one to declare ‘I’m divorcing him,’ publicly. However, it was actually Jax who had initiated the split, as per his account. He feels that perhaps he took her by surprise a bit. Furthermore, Jax suggests that she genuinely hoped he would work on the marriage and save it. That, apparently, was her aim, but Jax was already disengaged from the relationship.

Jax, who is father to three-year-old Cruz with Brittany, continues to express that he struggles to move past their relationship, stating he’s currently content and holds no plans for reconciliation.

He shared, “Brittany and I have evolved throughout the years, and unfortunately, I’ve made some mistakes that significantly damaged our bond, which is truly unfortunate.

As a lifestyle advisor, I find myself in a position where I must echo the sentiments of “The Valley” star. Despite our differences, my affection for her remains unwavering; she is, after all, the mother of my child. For the duration of my life, I will remain steadfastly by her side. However, I struggle to offer her the love she yearns for in a way that aligns with my current emotional capacity.

As a lifestyle expert, I’d rephrase it like this: After officially parting ways with my former partner, I’ve dipped my toes back into the world of dating, even developing feelings for my friend Julian. Recently, I’ve been open about our co-parenting journey, emphasizing that Cruz’s wellbeing is our top priority, as I shared in an interview with TopMob News last September.

She expressed that no matter the circumstances, everything will turn out alright since they both adore Jax deeply. So, despite any disagreements between Jax and her, their love for him won’t create a barrier. It simply won’t be an issue.

Read on for a timeline of Jax and Brittany’s breakup.

Prior to their wedding, it was revealed in 2017 that Jax Taylor had been unfaithful to Brittany Cartwright by engaging in a relationship with a previous SUR waitress named Faith Stowers.

On that occasion, Jax openly acknowledged, “I’ve been in this situation before, where I was found cheating.” He further explained, “Historically, I’ve spent extended periods denying the allegations, but it didn’t prove effective for me.

However, even though Brittany parted ways with him initially due to heartbreak, they reconciled after several months and tied the knot in 2020.

Skip ahead to February 2024, Brittany revealed that she and Jax, parents to their 2-year-old son named Cruz, had parted ways following four years of matrimony.

The speaker, hailing from Kentucky, expressed on their “When Reality Hits” podcast that marriages in general can be challenging, but they’ve had an especially tough year. They mentioned that they and their partner, Jax, are currently spending time apart, and the speaker chose to move into a new residence to create some distance for the benefit of their mental well-being.

Brittany said, “I’m managing each day as it comes along, not sure about what lies ahead, but for now, I’m dedicating myself fully to being a great mother to little Cruz.

A month down the line, the fissures in their relationship surfaced more clearly following the unveiling of the trailer for Bravo’s latest series titled “The Valley“.

Brittany confessed that she doesn’t sense any romantic interest from him and they haven’t been intimate for a while. She also mentioned that being married can be challenging at times, as Jax later agreed.

Plus, costar Janet Caperna teased in the clip, “There’s a rumor about Jax cheating online.”

However, Jax slammed allegations of infidelity days after the trailer release.

He shared with TopMob News during the March 14 premiere of The Valley that there are some minor hiccups in their communications right now. But he emphasized that this is the only issue at hand, nothing more. There’s no hint of cheating or infidelity involved. It’s simply a matter of communication. While it may seem surprising, it’s not uncommon for people to experience misunderstandings and difficulties in getting along, which is part of life.

He mentioned that they cross paths daily, but the unique aspect is that they don’t share a bedroom. In essence, their living arrangements are distinct in that regard.

Contrary to gossip, Brittany clarified that Jax’s infidelity wasn’t the reason for their split and disclosed the accurate sequence of events leading to their parting.

35-year-old shared with TopMob News on March 18 that we had a severe argument and as a result, I gathered my belongings and left. Since January 24, I have been residing at an Airbnb.

She mentioned that her action is aimed at preserving her emotional well-being. Furthermore, she feels quite resolute about taking some time off.

Regardless of their personal conflicts, the separated pair found common ground: They were both committed to making decisions that were in the best interest of their 2-year-old child.

Jax conveyed to TopMob, “He’s undeniably number one, and we share this understanding. It’s crucial for him to grow up with two parents who adore him deeply, ensuring he lives his best life, regardless of our future as a couple.

Regarding the escalating conflicts, Brittany concurred, expressing her hope, “I don’t desire that kind of life for our son. I wouldn’t want him to believe such a lifestyle is ordinary.

Brittany admitted in March that “there’s always hope,” but she just needs Jax to put in the work.

Brittany expressed to TopMob that she believes no one else will ever love Jax as deeply as she has. Over the years, they’ve been through a lot together, and she’s stood by him through thick and thin. However, if he makes some requested changes, there might be a chance for them to reconcile. For now, though, she needs time to focus on herself. She expressed feeling strong and proud about making decisions that are best for her, emphasizing the importance of her mental health.

As a lifestyle connoisseur looking back on the recent turn of events, I must admit that among those surprised by Jax and Brittany’s separation, there was one individual who remained relatively unshaken – none other than their former SUR boss, the ever-composed Lisa Vanderpump.

The former Real Housewife mentioned that everyone had assumed their marriage wouldn’t endure, yet she preferred not to jump to conclusions. She shared this sentiment with TopMob.

In my perspective, it might have been related to Jax’s past actions, though I can’t say for certain. Typically, a person’s future conduct often reflects their past behavior.

Their long-standing companion, Scheana Shay, shared her thoughts with TopMob News on March 23, stating, “I truly believe this is what’s best for her.” She further added, “I feel she deserves someone who will value and respect her.

And the couple’s The Valley costar Kristen Doute agreed with Scheana.

Kristen acknowledged that she’s proud of Brittany for establishing boundaries and choosing what’s best for herself. However, she’s optimistic that they can resolve their issues. But it’s up to Jax, not Brittany, to make things right.

In the final episode on June 4th, Brittany directly addressed Jax over the alleged derogatory remarks he made towards her in private settings.

According to Kristen Doute, he acknowledged, “Am I nasty to you? ‘I realize I behave badly. I understand I’ve referred to your weight negatively and accused you of laziness, as well as predicting that we’d lose our friendship if we part ways.’

Speaking exclusively to TopMob News in June, Brittany mentioned that we had discussed the possibility of exploring our options with others if the situation arose. She acknowledged that this approach might seem unusual or even a bit extreme to many, but it was our chosen course of action.

In July, Jax openly stated that he was planning to get in-patient care for his mental health concerns, a step Brittany had urged him to take for many years regarding therapy.

The VPR alum mainly credited son Cruz as the reason he saught professional help.

In a post on Instagram, dated July 31st, Jax penned down, “Striving to improve for my pal,” accompanied by a heartwarming image of him giving a sweet peck to the little one’s cheek. “I adore you.” (This version tries to maintain the original meaning while making it more accessible and conversational.)

Seven months following the announcement of their separation, Brittany officially ended their relationship by filing for divorce in August 2024. According to legal documents acquired by TopMob, she sought primary legal and physical custody of their son Cruz, and requested that Jax be given visitation rights as a child.

Based on the court records acquired by TopMob News last October, it was revealed that Jax petitioned for full legal and physical guardianship of their child, Cruz, to be awarded solely to Brittany.

Despite Jax declaring in his filing that he and Brittany got married in June 2019, he also indicated on the form that he disputes their marriage, stating, “The respondent asserts that the parties did not legally marry or register a domestic partnership.

As a devoted supporter, I would rephrase this statement as follows: “I acknowledge that I made mistakes when filling out forms, tasks typically handled by experienced legal professionals. However, I assure you these errors will be promptly corrected.

To clarify doubts about their marital status following Jax’s ambiguous reaction to Brittany’s divorce filing, she cleared up any misunderstandings.

She added to the TopMob News Instagram post regarding Jax’s response mix-up, “We are officially wed, if I understand correctly. It seems that filling out paperwork can be challenging for some individuals.

By November 2024, Brittany openly admitted that she had a brief romance with one of Jax’s acquaintances after they parted ways, and she made no apologies for this.

She shared on Bravo’s Hot Mic on November 11 that there wasn’t a rule against dating within our group of friends. We didn’t discuss such matters because, quite frankly, I never expected to date one of his friends. It wasn’t something I was intentionally pursuing or premeditated. That situation just unfolded naturally without any planning on my part.

As for while she chose to move on with someone in the friend group?

She remarked, “It was as if I recognized this person, and they existed within my realm.” It’s astonishing, you know, to ponder trust, especially considering it was a new experience for me being solo in Los Angeles.

Jax found out that Brittany was dating his friend Julian, and he described it as a “stinging blow” or “a harsh blow to the face,” expressing his surprise and dismay about their relationship.

In my perspective as a lifestyle advisor, if this were a stranger involved, I wouldn’t have given it a second thought. However, when it comes to someone I’m acquainted with, I prefer they find happiness elsewhere.

Apart from that, he also shared how he discovered Brittany had been sending nude pictures to Julian. To make matters worse, he admitted she had been caught in multiple instances of dishonesty.

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2024-11-15 06:53