Rivals star Rupert Everett says letting go of vanity at 67 made him a better actor

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I first really noticed Rupert Everett over 40 years ago in ‘Another Country,’ and he quickly became a familiar face. He’s been in some truly iconic films – I mean, who could forget him alongside Julia Roberts in ‘My Best Friend’s Wedding’? He also shared the screen with Madonna in ‘The Next Best Thing’ and Cate Blanchett in ‘An Ideal Husband.’ He’s clearly had a long and impressive career, and it’s been fun watching him work.

Now 67 years old, Everett is the author of three memoirs, including Red Carpets and Other Banana Skins. The Times praised this book as “the most truthful, witty, and beautifully written celebrity memoir you’ll ever read.”

Everett’s new movie, Madfabulous, features Callum Scott Howells and Ruby Stokes. The film is about the lavish life of the 5th Marquess of Anglesey, and Everett portrays his butler, Gelert.

You’ve often played the main characters, but recently you’ve been taking on more supporting roles – was that a deliberate decision?

I’m actually having more fun now than I ever have before, especially with acting. I’m not as focused on my appearance anymore, and honestly, it’s a relief. I used to worry so much about not measuring up, but letting go of that vanity has been incredibly freeing. I feel fortunate to have moved past that, and it’s even made me a better actor. I feel like I’m really finding my groove, and I’m enjoying acting more than ever.

What drew you to the role of Gelert, the butler for the 5th Marquess of Anglesey, in Madfabulous?

Butlers often make a story more interesting because they see everything, which feels very cinematic. I was particularly drawn to the idea of a loyal servant who has dedicated their life to service – someone who is aging and struggling, but still perseveres. That character felt really compelling to me.

Who was the Marquess, Henry Paget?

He was a true British original – a nonconformist who lived life on his own terms. His personal life remains a bit of a mystery; I’m not sure about his sexuality. He didn’t seem particularly interested in traditional relationships, and there’s no public record of any romantic partners. It’s impossible to say whether he was gay and simply kept it private, or if he expressed his sexuality in a way that hasn’t been documented.

Did you know much about him beforehand?

I was aware he’d created the Butterfly Dance and transformed his church into a performance space. He also invested a huge amount – around £90 million in today’s money, essentially his entire fortune – into putting on these shows.

You’re also in the new series of Rivals – what was that like?

That’s fantastic! I’ve always enjoyed Jilly Cooper’s work. I really loved the first season and tried hard to get involved.

Did you know Jilly Cooper?

I knew her well, and I adored her. She was incredibly bright, down-to-earth, hilarious, and always eager to learn. She was a dedicated writer, constantly working on her craft. I was heartbroken when she passed away, but I’m so grateful to have been involved with Rivals, which keeps her memory alive. In a way, she continues to live on through her work and the project.

You acted alongside Bob Dylan in the 1987 film, Hearts of Fire. Can you describe what it was like working with him?

He was just a genuinely lovely person – incredibly kind and had a fantastic sense of humor. His lifestyle was…unique, to say the least. He’d go to bed around 4 PM, wake up at 7, stay up until 2 AM, then sleep again until 5 or noon – he really lived on his own schedule! I’ll never forget the time we played a huge rock stadium before a Bon Jovi concert in Toronto. We filmed our concert footage there with all those people in the stands, and honestly, it was such a rush for me.

Your books have been really well-received. Is getting that kind of positive response from writing different than getting it as an actor?

I’ve been fortunate to receive positive feedback on my writing, which has been a much smoother journey than my experience with acting. I’m really enjoying it – everyone appreciates encouragement! I’m currently writing two new books: a memoir and a novel.

What are you looking for in future acting roles?

It’s often said that a truly ‘good’ actor doesn’t really exist – an actor is only as strong as the role they’re given. Even the most talented performer can’t shine in a poorly written part. Conversely, a decent script can make even an average actor appear good, because the quality ultimately comes down to the writing itself.

You’ve said previously you like playing people who are older than you – why is that?

I’ve decided to embrace roles that suit my age. I was inspired by Shirley MacLaine, who, at 50, chose to play older characters instead of trying to look younger. It seemed smart to me – my face already shows its age, so I could easily play someone in their nineties and still remember my lines. I think it could be a really successful approach.

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2026-06-01 19:37