Why Hilary Duff Worries Husband Matthew Koma Will Leave Her

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It turns out some of Hilary Duff‘s insecurities are what her dreams are made of.

Despite being happily married to Matthew Koma for almost seven years, the singer recently shared that she often has a dream where he’s unfaithful and leaves her for another person.

In a recent interview with Rolling Stone, the 38-year-old expressed a recurring fear: that her husband, Matt, will leave her for a talented, up-and-coming musician he collaborates with.

Hilary was so worried about her husband being unfaithful that she wrote a song about it on her latest album, Luck… or Something. However, Matthew, who worked on the album’s production, insists that “Holiday Party” is just a song and shouldn’t be interpreted any further than that.

After hearing the confession, the 38-year-old musician told Rolling Stone that Hilary’s dream is “both incredibly strange and deeply felt,” and that the issues within it are genuinely emotionally impactful.

Hilary Duff’s new album, releasing on February 20th, explores the themes of motherhood and the thoughts that go along with it. She shares three daughters – Banks, 7, Mae, 4, and Townes, 21 months – with her husband, Matthew, and a 13-year-old son, Luca, with her ex-husband, Mike Comrie.

Oh my gosh, she actually said it! She told Rolling Stone that the whole album was built around her deepest fears and what she worries about constantly. It’s like, everything she’s been through in the last ten years just poured into the music. And she said making it was healing – like it finally felt truly her, and perfectly captured where she is in her life right now. I’m seriously getting chills just thinking about it!

I didn’t want to make an album focused on the everyday struggles of motherhood, like school pickups and packing lunches. That wasn’t the story I wanted to tell. I was more interested in exploring how becoming a mother changed me as a person and how it shifted my feelings.

This also covers the difficulties she’s having with her family, including a reported falling out with her sister, Haylie Duff, and an inconsistent relationship with her father, Bob Duff.

She explained that her relationship with her father is sometimes close and sometimes distant. Despite generally being a positive person, she acknowledged that she’s been through a lot of difficult experiences, which is just part of life.

Hilary Duff explained that she felt she owed it to her fans to be truthful in her song “We Don’t Talk,” which appears to be about her strained relationship with her sister, Haylie, even though they share a family history and upbringing.

It felt similar to going through my divorce in 2015. I handled that privately at the time, but then the news became public and I knew I’d have to revisit those feelings. I had braced myself a little, knowing I’d chosen to include that personal experience in my music. It was a very isolating time, and I wrestled with whether or not to even share it with everyone.

Growing up in the public eye means people are familiar with my life and the people in it, so they understand my references. It was really important to me to be honest about this aspect of my story, because it came from a very personal place.

For more on Hilary’s love story with Matthew, keep reading.

In January 2017, the couple publicly acknowledged their new relationship by appearing together at the Entertainment Weekly pre-SAG Awards party held at Chateau Marmont.

Not long after appearing together on the red carpet, a source told TopMob News that the couple had broken up in March 2017. The source said their demanding work schedules led to the split.

By October 2017, Matt and his partner were back together, and he attended her 30th birthday party. A source told TopMob News that they had started seeing each other again after Matt finished touring. The tour had been a major factor in their initial breakup, but now that he was home, they resumed their relationship. She later shared on The Talk that this was actually their third time dating, joking that “third time’s the charm!”

Hilary Duff and Matthew Koma announced they were expecting a baby girl in June 2018. Koma shared the exciting news on social media, writing, “We’re having a baby girl! She’s going to be as beautiful and sweet as her mother, @hilaryduff. A new adventure begins.”

In the fall, the family grew with the arrival of their daughter, Banks Violet Bair. The actress announced the happy news online in October 2018, saying that the new baby had completely captured their hearts and was born at home on a Thursday afternoon. She described Banks as “absolute magic.”

Almost two years after they first appeared together in public, Koma proposed to the actress.

Duff and Koma said “I do” in Dec. 2019, surrounded by their loved ones! 

Matthew celebrated his first wedding anniversary with Hilary by sharing a heartfelt message on Instagram. He thanked her for everything she did during the pandemic, praising her strength and resilience.

Hilary and Matthew went on to welcome daughter Mae James Bair in March 2021.

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2026-02-20 02:47