Why Jennifer Lawrence Prefers to Film Sex Scenes With “A Stranger”

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Jennifer Lawrence sees a silver lining when it comes to filming intimate scenes.

The actress from Die My Love described filming a very intimate scene with Robert Pattinson on their first day of work. Surprisingly, she wasn’t nervous because they didn’t know each other well yet.

Jennifer explained to Josh Horowitz during an event at New York City’s 92nd Street Y on January 7th that it was actually simpler working with her co-star because they didn’t know each other beforehand, and she felt that was ultimately a good thing, according to People magazine.

The 35-year-old actress, who received a Golden Globe nomination for her role in Die My Love, said working with her co-star felt similar to her experience with Josh Hutcherson on The Hunger Games movies. She and Hutcherson became friends while filming those films over several years.

She compared the situation to having to kiss Josh Hutcherson in The Hunger Games, saying, ‘Just imagine!’ She added that it felt strange, and she’d actually rather kiss a stranger.

You know, it’s funny how connections happen! Even though Jennifer and Robert weren’t close friends initially, they really made an effort to get to know each other quickly. I actually heard from Jennifer that they did something super fun – and a little awkward! – to prepare for their movie, Die My Love. She said they took interpretive dance lessons, and they were apparently very embarrassing, but it really helped them connect!

She said they arrived in Calgary about three weeks before filming began. Both she and Rob are easily embarrassed, and she found the initial rehearsals mortifying. ‘I definitely can’t dance,’ she admitted, ‘and Rob is even worse!’

Jennifer was actually relieved when filming finally began with Rob and director Lynne Ramsay. She joked that by the time Ramsay asked her to perform a nude scene, it felt almost easy compared to what they’d been bracing for, saying, “At least it wasn’t interpretive dance.”

Jennifer has said she’s comfortable with nudity in films and isn’t easily bothered by it.

She stated during a November screening of Die My Love, as documented in a Vulture video, that she wasn’t concerned with nudity and wanted the artist, Lynne, to have complete creative control.

Jennifer, who has two sons with her husband Cooke Maroney, said being pregnant helped her stop worrying about her appearance.

She recalled being on a strict diet, avoiding carbs and exercising, before filming No Hard Feelings. But then she got pregnant. She explained, ‘What was I supposed to do – not eat? I was working incredibly long days and was just exhausted.’

Jennifer recalled a time when editors sent her a highly zoomed-in picture of her cellulite and asked if she wanted them to smooth it out. She said she told them, ‘No, that’s just part of my body.’

Read on for more stars who have been vocal about embracing their bodies. 

It feels like we’ve lost sight of what normal bodies actually look like. Many of us, including myself, are working on accepting our bodies, and that’s okay – it takes time. I’m realistic; I notice the changes in my shape and that I’ve gained weight. But I also recognize, and am incredibly grateful for, the beautiful children – my son and daughter – that my body has created, and I’m truly happy.

In February 2021, Leonardo DiCaprio responded to paparazzi photos of him surfing. He explained that he didn’t start taking his shirt off in front of others until he was in his mid-30s, partly because of past public criticism about his body. He said he’s now 37 and finally comfortable and accepting of himself, and the media’s attempts to bother him with these kinds of photos no longer bother him.

In August 2021, he got a tattoo that said “Body Love,” playfully mimicking the logo of the Body Glove brand known for water sports gear.

In 2018, the singer shared on Instagram that despite having stretch marks, cellulite, and extra weight – challenges she faced while recovering from a years-long battle with bulimia – she still loves herself.

Demi Lovato explained to TopMob News that she felt pressure comparing herself to Instagram models. She realized she wanted to show her followers – and anyone else looking at her social media – that what people post online isn’t always an accurate reflection of reality. That’s why she decided to embrace her imperfections – which she prefers to think of as simply parts of herself – and demonstrate that being imperfect is what makes her beautiful.

In December 2020, she posted on Instagram photos showing her stretch marks outlined with glitter.

Let’s be real – nobody wakes up looking perfect! It just goes to show how much of a difference a good team of stylists and makeup artists can make.

Growing up, I never once heard a woman express love or pride for her own body – not my mom, my sister, or any of my friends. That’s why I make a point of telling my daughter, Mia, that I love and am proud of my body, because building a positive body image starts when you’re young.

Just a reminder: wear a bikini if that’s what you want to wear! You don’t need to fit a certain size to enjoy it.

I often get asked where my confidence comes from. The truth is, it comes from within. I made a conscious decision to embrace my own beauty and started living as if I already possessed it. I choose clothes and makeup that make me feel good, and that makes a huge difference. It’s not about what others think; it’s about your own self-perception. Treat your body like a home and fill it with things that make you feel good.

Over the years, I’ve consistently shown that I don’t care what anyone thinks about my body. I’ve confidently walked red carpets in designer clothes as a size 14, and even filmed intimate scenes shortly after surgery, scars and all. I understand my body is always changing, and I’ve embraced that. I smile just as much regardless of my size, because I’m proud of everything my body has experienced and accomplished.

It’s easy to be hard on ourselves and our appearance, even when things seem fine to others. I’ve noticed comments about my weight, sometimes accusing me of trying too hard to be thin. Actually, maintaining my weight is a real challenge, particularly when I’m stressed or as I get older. To cope, I try to practice self-compassion – treating myself with the same kindness and understanding I’d offer my own daughter. It sounds a little silly, but it genuinely makes a difference.

My advice to young women would be to not focus so much on their weight – it’s a common distraction, and there are more important things to think about. And for everyone, young men and women alike, embrace what makes you unique. So many people try to fit in, but it’s actually those who stand out that are noticed. I used to be self-conscious about my nose, but now I’ve learned to accept it – and that’s okay.

When I first got the role of Annalise Keating, I immediately thought she was captivating and intriguing. I was used to playing characters who were very different – women who gained weight for the part and wore simple clothes. So, my initial reaction was, ‘I need to get in shape, learn to walk in heels like Kerry Washington, and lose weight.’ But then I realized, ‘Why should I have to change myself?’ I’ve come to believe that the greatest gift is being authentic, and I finally embraced that at 51. I think my real strength as an actress is that every Thursday night, I want you to enter my world, not the other way around. I want you to sit with me, accept me as I am – my size, my skin tone, my age – and truly experience what I have to offer.

It bothers me when people call me brave for simply being myself and feeling confident in my body. It’s not bravery, it’s just me being comfortable and feeling good. If someone like Anne Hathaway were to appear in a bikini, no one would praise her courage, so why is it different for me? There’s a clear double standard when it comes to women and how we’re perceived. I also don’t appreciate it when people act surprised that I’m comfortable and confident in my own skin.

In 2016, the celebrity responded to criticism online after being labeled a “thinspiration model” and accused of negatively influencing young teenagers.

She tweeted, “Is this amusing to you? I’m going to explain further #youreallywannabenext?” Then, she added, “Now… everyone should look in the mirror, appreciate their bodies, and love them! #thickgirlswinning #skinnygirlswinning #weallwinning.”

In 2016, Zendaya publicly criticized a magazine for heavily editing her photos. She posted on Instagram explaining that such alterations contribute to unrealistic beauty standards and make women feel insecure. Zendaya shared the original, unedited photo alongside the retouched version, stating that she champions self-love and authenticity.

I’ve always admired this star, and I loved what she said in New You about photoshopping. She basically said there’s no such thing as ‘ugly’ – she doesn’t even use the word! For her, being perfect means being completely yourself, because nobody else can be you. Your DNA, your fingerprint – everything that makes you, you – is unique. She wants anyone who follows her, especially on social media, to know she’s real and goes through the same struggles we all do. She’s always emphasized the importance of self-confidence, and it really resonates with me.

Don’t worry about what others think of your appearance—accept yourself as you are and be happy. Why would you suffer and deprive yourself just to please other people? It doesn’t make sense.

I embrace being a strong, powerful, and beautiful woman, and I know there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. It’s vital to focus on the good things in life, because dwelling on negativity can be really draining. I simply don’t have time for that – I have goals to achieve, like winning championships, and people to motivate, and that’s what drives me.

I don’t weigh myself – I don’t even have a scale. With my two young daughters, I want to set a good example and avoid focusing on weight. For me, it’s about self-acceptance. It’s easy to find flaws, but I choose to focus on feeling healthy and grateful for what I have. I don’t need to be perfect; I’m happy with how things are.

Becoming pregnant changed how I saw my body. I realized it wasn’t meant to just look a certain way, but to do amazing things. It was like, ‘Wow, I’m growing a baby, and that’s what matters!’ I’ve felt that way ever since – focusing on what my body can do instead of how it looks.

It’s strange how being thin often seems to matter more than actually being healthy. I recently saw a naturopath and shared my struggles with food anxiety and constant dieting. She asked a question that really resonated with me: what would you focus on if you weren’t constantly preoccupied with your weight and what you eat? It made me realize all the hobbies and interests I’d let go of. Somewhere along the way, I became fixated on being thin, and it took over my thoughts. I’m finally letting go of the idea that happiness is waiting for me if I can just lose more weight. Our bodies are naturally different, and while healthy eating and exercise are important for well-being, they don’t guarantee you’ll be thinner.

I’ve been hearing people talk about my body, and I wanted to say: I’m proud of mine, and you should be proud of yours too, no matter who you are. You don’t need to change yourself to please anyone or achieve your goals. Just be yourself, authentically and unapologetically – that’s what truly makes someone a champion. This is especially in response to the conversation around my Super Bowl performance.

I used to severely restrict my eating for weeks before any photoshoot, even if I was just wearing a t-shirt. Then, I’d obsess over the photos and usually end up deleting them. But yesterday, I decided to challenge those old habits and embrace my body as it is—chest, hips, and curves included, all gifts from my parents. I know some people might see this as vain, but if they knew how much courage it took, considering the body image issues I struggled with as a child, they might feel differently.

I often look at myself in the mirror and playfully acknowledge my flaws, like saying, ‘Okay, maybe my rear isn’t perfect, but that’s alright – I have solutions!’ It’s amazing how much impact our self-talk has. Simply telling yourself ‘I love you’ or offering even a small bit of encouragement each day can really shift your perspective.

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2026-01-10 02:18