Ice-T and Coco Austin’s Love Story Proves They’re the Perfect Mix

At Ice-T and Coco Austin‘s house, “His” and “Hers” isn’t just for towels.

Coco explained on the November 9th episode of Bunnie Xo’s Dumb Blonde podcast that her husband focuses on his work and earning money. Her role, she says, is to maintain their home and create a peaceful environment. She manages the household so he can come home and unwind after working hard.

The 46-year-old admitted they have a traditional relationship, though they keep it private. “People wouldn’t think of us as having a traditional relationship,” Coco explained, “but we both understand and respect each other’s boundaries.”

Coco pointed out that if the situation were flipped, she’d play the strong, stylish tough guy role, while he’d be the more reserved one. She added that if he were a woman, he’d be like her – bold, energetic, and unconventional.

Ice-T jokingly told TopMob News at Heidi Klum’s Halloween party on October 31st that his costume would be “a little white girl with big boobs.”

Coco explained to Bunnie that they worked well together because they were very similar and understood each other, and importantly, they both supported each other’s strengths.

And that’s not just the “jungle sex” afterglow talking.

Honestly, after hanging with them at Heidi’s party, Ice really summed it up perfectly. He told the TopMob crew, and I totally agree, that we just genuinely connect with each other. He said it wouldn’t work any other way, and knowing them, he’s absolutely right.

Despite some dramatic ups and downs, they’re a truly committed couple who found a way to make their relationship work from the start.

“I let him do the man thing,” Coco told TVGuide.com in 2012, “and I do the woman thing.”

During a March 2020 episode of the Behind the Baller podcast, Ice-T explained that the key to his lasting marriage was compromise, when host Ben “Baller” Yang asked for his advice.

Acknowledging our flaws is a difficult but essential part of connecting with others, as we’re all imperfect, explained rapper Tracy Lauren Marrow. He emphasized the importance of self-awareness, saying you first need to recognize your own shortcomings privately. Then, he shared a sentiment about relationships, stating, ‘I love you for dealing with my issues.’ Mirroring advice he once received from his wife, he urged people to value their partner’s individuality and appreciate the unique qualities of a woman.

Then, of course, there’s the fact that she’s the GOAT.

Ice celebrated Coco’s 46th birthday on March 17th with a heartfelt message, calling her a ‘Super Mom’ and ‘the sweetest person’ he’s ever known. He finished by expressing his love for her, calling her his ‘Angel’.

Every New Year’s Day, they celebrate their enduring love, marking their original commitment on December 31, 2001. While their initial ceremony lacked a formal marriage license, they took care of that detail five years later.

To celebrate their 20th anniversary, Ice-T posted a photo of the moment he and his wife first met. He joked about his surprised expression in the picture, saying, “Look at my face…lol!”

But as he has said on many occasions, it was all in the timing.

As the saying goes, people find love when the time is right. He explained on Behind the Baller that when a woman is ready, she’ll find the right partner, and when a man is ready, the right woman will come into his life.

He met his future wife at a party in Atlantic City. He remembers noticing her features one by one, and it was a moment he’d never forget.

In a 2012 interview with MailOnline, he remembered first noticing her teeth, then her breasts, and finally, with a laugh, her figure – specifically, her buttocks.

Honestly, he said there was an immediate physical connection, but things were complicated for him at the time. He was really looking for something serious, a real partnership, and wasn’t equipped to deal with someone… well, let’s just say someone with a lot of issues. He specifically said he wasn’t looking to date someone he considered beautiful but dangerous.

Coco has always been confident showing off her figure, but Ice-T initially misjudged the 22-year-old.

I initially worried she was too glamorous for a quiet life at home,” he told PR.com in 2011. “I wondered if we’d be compatible with a more relaxed lifestyle, or if she just wanted to go out and have fun. But she surprised me, saying she was ready to settle down and enjoy being cozy at home.

I initially judged Coco based on a common stereotype – that she was only interested in having fun, I confessed to MailOnline. But I quickly realized she was genuinely kind and generous. In fact, she’s the nicest person I’ve ever known, regardless of gender. I was even surprised she complimented the red snakeskin suit I wore that night.

Not that Ice-T was unfamiliar with the concept of people making assumptions.

I always felt people misunderstood him. They assumed, because he was a rapper and portrayed a tough image, that he was dangerous and wanted to hurt people. But honestly, he was such a lovable and kind person! He wasn’t always openly affectionate, though – you really had to earn that side of him. He didn’t show that sweet side to just anyone, you know?

Ice-T and his wife married quickly, just two months after they first met, and have stayed on the East Coast because of his work on Law & Order: SVU. He initially signed on for only four episodes in 2000, but he’s become a beloved part of the long-running NBC show, now in its 27th season, and happily swapped the Hollywood lifestyle for life in the New Jersey suburbs.

And when Coco said she manages the house, that was code for taking care of just about everything.

Ice Spice explained in 2011 that while she focuses on performing, her team, led by Coco, manages all the business aspects of her career. She jokingly said she has the easier job, simply performing while Coco handles everything behind the scenes.

Coco explained that she wanted to be the perfect partner for him. After getting to know his preferences over a couple of weeks, she consciously changed herself to become exactly what he was looking for.

Ice-T explained that this didn’t mean she was changing who she was, but rather, when she falls in love, she really tries to be the best partner she can be. He described how it’s natural to want to please someone you care about – figuring out what they like and being willing to meet their needs. Ideally, you want someone who appreciates you for who you are, but it’s also great when you share common interests. He used the example of wanting a partner who can cook – if that’s something you’re looking for, you can step up and become that person, and that’s a sign of a good match!

Kind of like Ice-T so effortlessly playing a cop, their marriage also defied expectations.

We faced a lot of assumptions, as people imagined I was involved in something sinister and Coco was doing something completely different,” he explained to MailOnline. “But we’re just a regular couple in a normal relationship, and people are finally realizing that.

Coco told the publication she did the show Ice Loves Coco to challenge people’s assumptions and show that appearances aren’t everything.

She explained that after being in the public eye for ten years, compared to his thirty, she felt people didn’t know the real her. She was tired of all the negativity and wanted to show a different side – her life as a wife and a mother. She said she had to convince him to let her do that.

Ice-T wasn’t initially enthusiastic about the idea, believing it lacked the conflict and drama typical of reality television. He’d also witnessed how exposing their personal lives on TV had negatively impacted other couples. He didn’t want to risk damaging his own relationship, either by creating artificial drama or simply by sharing too much with the public.

Viewers became fans of Ice Loves Coco, the reality show that aired from 2011 to 2013, and gained a fresh perspective on Ice-T and Coco Austin’s relationship.

You know, people often didn’t understand my relationship with Coco, but I’ve always said there’s a dynamic at play. In a practical sense, a woman who isn’t afraid to speak her mind is incredibly valuable – even for something like, well, a heist! But honestly, at the end of the day, a strong, assertive man really wants a partner who’s kind, sweet, and gentle. And that’s Coco – she’s truly an angel. She balances me out perfectly.

Coco described their relationship as a balance of going out and enjoying an active social life with quiet nights in. “We love to have fun as a couple, but we also really enjoy relaxing at home – playing video games, watching movies, and just chilling out,” she told PR.com.

Reflecting on their 20 years together in 2020 on Behind the Baller, Ice-T said, “Coco and I have had a great run. I feel lucky to have her in my life. Like any relationship, we’ve had our challenges, but if you truly love someone, you can get through anything. I plan to be with Coco forever.”

Acknowledging his difficult history, he said, “I’m just grateful to be here, because I honestly didn’t think I would.”

Besides his wife, Ice-T cherishes his 9-year-old daughter, Chanel, calling her birth the greatest joy of his life.

That’s often why couples with one child find it easier to prioritize family time over having time to themselves as a couple.

Coco shared on the TopMob show Daily Pop in August 2021 that at night, their bed often becomes a family bed. She explained that while intimacy can be tricky with the kids around, they make time for it by arranging for a dog handler and a babysitter. She feels it’s worth the effort, knowing this phase of having young children won’t last forever.

In a recent interview on the Moms Like Us podcast, she explained that this arrangement works well for her family and brings them joy. With only one child, they cherish the cozy moments spent together, like cuddling and watching TV in the evenings. Because their days are so busy and unpredictable, these nighttime routines are special. They aren’t a traditional couple and are constantly on the go, so family time at night feels like a private escape. Their daughter has her own space to retreat to when she needs it, but they value these quiet moments as a family.

I’ve been a long-time fan of Ice-T, and I recently learned more about his family life. He’s a dad to two older children, LaTesha Marrow, who’s 49, and Tracy Marrow Jr., who’s 33, from before his marriage. He’s been really open about how he wasn’t always the most involved father early on. He told Baller that with his first child, he was more around than truly present. And when his son was born, he was really focused on building his career, so while he did support them financially, he admits he wasn’t as focused on being a hands-on dad as he wished he’d been.

When Chanel arrived, he was completely devoted to her, declaring that nothing else in life could bring him as much joy or fulfillment.

Coco experienced the same kind of pregnancy rumors that many women – especially those in the public eye – face when they get into a relationship. On her reality show, Ice Loves Coco, she even shared a personal moment where she briefly thought she was pregnant, but was surprisingly upset when she found out she wasn’t.

Then, when she found out she was having a daughter…

Ice told In Touch in 2021 that he and his partner handle issues head-on, whether it’s about raising their kids or their relationship. He explained that they don’t hold grudges—she doesn’t bring up past disagreements—because it’s hard to resolve something if you don’t even know it’s a problem. He also emphasized the importance of compromise, joking that if you always need to be right and get your way, you’re better off being single!

At Heidi’s Halloween party in 2024, he told the team at TopMob that he and Coco need to work together as partners, not as rivals or burdens. He emphasized that he respects her contributions, and believes she feels the same way about him – they genuinely appreciate each other.

As Coco explained to Bunnie Xo, their success comes from understanding who they are and what their roles are.

She continued, suggesting that while he might be a leader elsewhere, he should be a little more traditional at home. She believes men need to feel like they’re taking care of their partners, and if he just follows established relationship roles, things will be fine.

In their book What Makes a Marriage Last, Hermann spoke about the joy he and Marlo Thomas have shared in their over 20-year marriage. He explained that finding humor is essential, even during disagreements. He shared that after a fight, one of them will often try to lighten the mood with a joke about the very thing they were arguing about. Hermann believes their marriage thrives because they accept each other completely, flaws and all – he calls that ‘grace.’ He described this as a way to gently move back towards connection and repair things, signaling that they’re on the path to resolving the issue.

They’ve managed to avoid big changes in their relationship by consistently following the advice they received before getting married in 2003. Even with five children, they prioritize weekly date nights and have chosen to avoid buying a television, opting instead for other ways to connect.

Chip says his biggest piece of advice is to passionately pursue the person you love. After twenty years, he still approaches the relationship like he’s trying to win a second date. He jokes that while he can’t guarantee anything, his wife won’t be unfaithful because he consistently shows his love through words, gifts, and remembering special occasions.

Kevin Bacon jokingly advises against taking marriage advice from celebrities, referencing his 36-year relationship. He and his wife have a simple rule: “Keep the fights clean and the sex dirty,” which they use to quickly shut down any further questions about their marriage.

In reality, they prioritize resolving conflicts quickly and avoid prolonged arguments. As Bacon’s wife explained, they focus on finding solutions rather than ‘winning’ a fight, because arguing is unpleasant. Ultimately, they are committed to making things work, as there’s no alternative plan. They want to work it out no matter what.

After over 37 years of marriage, the actors have learned how to argue constructively. As one of them explained, they avoid bringing up past hurts. Many couples, he noted, tend to target their partner’s weaknesses, almost as a game, but they consciously avoid doing that.

They do still have disagreements, of course. He admits he often tries to quickly fix things when he says something regrettable, but he’s learned that doesn’t really help. Instead, he lets his wife guide the way and gives her space when she needs it. She, in turn, tries to be understanding, reminding herself that even if something hurtful is said, he’s a good person and likely didn’t intend to cause pain.

Speaking on Today in December 2024, ahead of their 40th anniversary, Curtis shared that her husband still makes her laugh more than anyone else. She playfully added that he must find something to like about her, even if she isn’t quite sure what it is.

Neil Patrick Harris believes the secret to his long-lasting relationship is accepting that relationships are always changing and hard to define. Through career changes – including his partner David Burtka’s cookbook release in 2019 – raising twins Gideon and Harper, and navigating life’s challenges, Harris explained that marriage is never static. He shared that even intimacy evolves, and couples need to find new ways to reconnect, both emotionally and physically, as they age. Ultimately, he says, attraction shifts from physical to emotional and back again. It’s a constant process of change, which allows them to continually fall in love with each other in new ways.

The comedic duo jokingly believe their laughter actually extends their lives. Beyond just enjoying their 19-year partnership, they playfully calculate how much time a particularly good laugh adds to their lifespan. As the actress from Can You Ever Forgive Me? explained, after a really hilarious moment, they estimate how many months or even years it’s added.

They also limit how long disagreements last. Following the advice to not go to bed angry, Falcone shared that she once tried letting an argument linger overnight, but quickly forgot what she was even upset about. She realized that trying to resolve issues when everyone is tired or has had a drink is unproductive. She’s never experienced a late-night argument ending with a satisfying resolution and a signed truce.

As someone who’s seen a lot of blended families, I’ve learned a key to success is understanding the roles. My husband and I both came into our marriage with kids already, so it wasn’t just about building a life together, it was about becoming step-parents. I quickly realized there wasn’t a manual for this! The kids already had moms – and I wasn’t trying to be one. I asked myself, what did they need from me? And the answer was simple: a cheerleader. Everyone can use more support in their life, so that’s what I decided to be. I never tried to step in with discipline or moral lessons – they already had parents for that. My husband completely agreed. He says offering yourself as a friend is brilliant. Letting them know you’re not there to judge or discipline, but simply to hang out and be there for them – that’s the core of it. It’s about genuinely showing up and being a consistent, supportive presence.

When same-sex civil unions became legal in Britain, musician Elton John and his husband, David Furnish, had a ceremony on December 21, 2005. They formalized their commitment again nine years later, on the same date, when they were able to legally marry. However, they celebrate their relationship beginning with a chance meeting at a dinner party in 1993 at John’s home in Windsor, England – a party arranged by a friend.

Every Saturday, no matter where they are, they write each other handwritten notes. Over the years, they’ve written approximately 1,352 letters. Furnish explains that handwriting feels deeply personal and meaningful, and the cards allow them to reflect on the past week and discuss the week ahead. John agrees, saying that consistent communication is key to a long-lasting, successful relationship.

They’ve quietly nurtured their 40-year marriage, almost as if building it in secret (“I had dreams about meeting my future husband six months before it happened”), and they’ve made sure it remains a central part of their lives, even as everything else has changed.

“Marriage is our top priority,” she explained. “We actively work at it and refocus when we start to drift apart.” If she could offer one piece of advice, it would be to always prioritize that connection. He added with conviction, “I would do absolutely anything for her – face any challenge, make any sacrifice. I might mess up and even make her angry, but I would never let anything come between us and my love for her.”

He emphasized that if you truly value marriage and its impact on your happiness, you must protect it at all costs.

ABC News reporter Roberts admits she doesn’t enjoy casual phone calls. “I don’t like just checking in,” she said. “If you’re calling just to ask ‘what’s up,’ I really don’t like that.” However, a close friend who frequently calls is a different story. After years of being annoyed by his calls, a friend suggested a new perspective.

“One friend pointed out that maybe he just feels reassured when he hears my voice, like everything is okay,” Roberts shared. “It made me realize that if it makes him happy, it should matter to me.”

Now, she takes a moment to be kind. “I take a breath and say, ‘Sweetie, I’m busy, but what’s happening with you? Good, I’m glad to hear it. I have to go now. Talk to you later, love you.’ It means the world to him, and it only takes two minutes to be nice,” she explained. The couple celebrated their 29th anniversary in September 2024.

Their strong marriage of almost 30 years started building from the very beginning. They remember even small arguments feeling like dealbreakers – once, an argument led to a ring being thrown out the window! As Kelly Ripa explained, early in a marriage, little issues can quickly become huge, especially with the stresses of finances, careers, or raising children while exhausted. But her husband, Mark Consuelos, taught her the importance of stepping away and taking a moment to calm down. She realized those moments weren’t necessarily signs of a failing marriage. Now, as parents of three, they’re seeing the rewards of that lesson. Consuelos believes that truly happy couples have faced difficult times and overcome them – and that’s something to celebrate.

She describes herself as an introvert, almost a loner, while he’s incredibly outgoing – he jokingly calls himself “the mayor of everywhere.” She’s a bit messy, and he admits to being “a little OCD.” But after being married since 2003, they’ve learned to accept each other’s differences.

That’s the advice the lead actress from How to Get Away With Murder gives to friends who are getting married. She explains that marriage doesn’t begin at the wedding ceremony. It starts when you realize something about your partner – a personality trait that you know will annoy you – and yet, you still love them. That acceptance, she says, is the true beginning of a marriage.

Maintaining a long-term relationship, like any 50-year partnership, requires quickly resolving conflicts. Jane Fonda, star of Grace and Frankie, explained that she usually takes the lead in apologizing. She finds it easy because she deeply loves her partner and hates to see them feel alone, even for a short time.

Ideally, she avoids needing to apologize at all. She’s learned that saying hurtful things in anger will ultimately make you feel worse. You’ll end up regretting your words and feeling angry twice – which isn’t good for your health or the relationship.

It’s fitting that Jerry, a former judge, says his long marriage to the iconic Judge Judy works because he generally lets her have the final say. For her, the key is accepting someone for who they are, even when you don’t always agree with the outcome. Their marriage initially ended in 1990 because he couldn’t provide the support she needed after her father passed away. However, after remarrying a year later, she understood he wouldn’t suddenly become a homemaker or take charge of planning events.

She explained simply that unhappiness in relationships often comes from trying to change your partner. “You can try, but they’ll always resent it,” she said. “Don’t marry someone expecting them to be different than they are.”

The actor, known for his role on Lost, credits his wife of over thirty years with being the anchor of their family. He told TopMob News in April 2025 that her patience and support, while he pursues various work opportunities around the globe, has been invaluable and kept their family grounded. He described her as ‘fantastic’.

The actor described his wife as incredibly patient, and said she and their two sons always keep him grounded, no matter what challenges he faces.

“They shape my values,” he added. “It’s great to have that perspective and North Star.”

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