What Ashton Kutcher Told Jessica Simpson About Her Being Virgin at 22

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Jessica Simpson didn’t find sex to be irresistible during her early 20s.

Okay, so you won’t BELIEVE this! Our girl, the one and only “With You” singer, was still a virgin at 22! I know, right?! Apparently, even Ashton Kutcher was shocked when he found out while they were filming that episode of That ’70s Show way back in the early 2000s. He was totally smitten with her on screen, and even he couldn’t believe it! It’s just… amazing and makes me love her even more!

Jessica recently shared in an interview with Entertainment Tonight that she’ll never forget the moment she told Ashton Kutcher she was a virgin. His reaction, she recalled, was simply, ‘Why?’

And for the now-45-year-old, it all had to do with finding Mr. Right at the time.

Jessica remembered telling Ashton, ‘I just hadn’t met the right person yet.’ She explained that she was quite naive at that time and hadn’t given any thought to other people’s relationships or sex lives.

Okay, so everyone’s been asking about Jessica talking about still being a virgin, and honestly, it just is her, you know? She said it herself – she’s always been an open book. She put it so perfectly…like, she’s comfortable with everything, even the personal stuff. She literally said ‘legs crossed, but open!’ It’s just…so Jessica. I totally get it, she’s just unapologetically herself, and I love her for it!

The fashion designer waited until she married Nick Lachey in 2002. She later told Blender magazine it was “the most amazing moment of my life.”

I’m really glad my first time wasn’t something casual or awkward, like in a car,” she said. “Having it happen on my wedding night felt perfect and special.

Jessica Simpson’s marriage to singer Nick Lachey of 98 Degrees ended in divorce in 2006. She later married Eric Johnson, a former NFL player, in 2016. Earlier this year, she announced they were separating after having three children together: Maxwell, 13, Ace, 12, and Birdie, 6.

Since then, the Open Book author has been “having fun” on the dating scene.

Jessica recently shared with Extra that she’s currently attracted to younger men. She explained that she’s realizing younger men seem to appreciate the self-assurance of an older woman.

Plus, she’d like a partner who shares her confidence.

Jessica recently told Today that she’s looking for someone truly unique. She wants a partner who is genuinely themselves and confident, but without being arrogant. She admits it’s a rare quality, but believes those people definitely exist.

For more stars talking about how they lost their virginity, keep reading…

Camila Cabello, formerly of Fifth Harmony, had her first intimate experience at age 20 with her boyfriend at the time, Matthew Hussey, whom she dated from 2018 to 2019. Though she felt it happened a bit later in life, she described the experience as positive and meaningful.

She described a deep connection with her ex-partner, saying it felt incredibly intimate, like ‘lovemaking,’ in a 2024 interview on the Armchair Expert podcast. She also spoke highly of him, calling him a ‘really great person’.

In his 2023 memoir, Spare, Prince Harry openly discussed losing his virginity. He revealed he was around 17 years old when it happened, and that it was with an older woman.

The Duke of Sussex wrote that the woman he’s describing enjoyed horses and treated him similarly to a young, energetic colt. He described a pattern where she would give him brief, intense attention, then dismiss him abruptly, like a playful smack on the rear followed by being let loose. He also noted the unsettling fact that this happened in a public field behind a pub.

In her 2024 memoir, Rebel Rising, actress Rebel Wilson shared that she was 35 when she first had sex with someone named Mickey. She didn’t disclose to her partner at the time that it was her first time.

Rebel Wilson later told the New York Times that the man she wrote about in her memoir was her How to Be Single co-star, Mickey Gooch Jr. She explained, “He was the first person to read it, so he’s now aware of what I shared.”

Megan Fox revealed she was 17 when she lost her virginity to her first serious boyfriend. In a 2010 interview with Cosmopolitan, she said it wasn’t an awkward experience, explaining, “I was in love with him, and it was nice.”

The supermodel shared with Love magazine that she lost her virginity at age 14, right before she was scouted as a model. She said she felt incredibly confident and on top of the world at the time.

The supermodel shared that she was 22 years old when she first had sexual relations with actor Dean Cain, while they were both students at Princeton University.

In her 2014 memoir, There Was a Little Girl, she described feeling so overwhelmed that she fell out of bed and began running. She wrote that she ran naked down the hallway, feeling as if she’d just committed a crime.

In an interview with Vulture, Jonas Brothers singer Nick Jonas revealed he lost his virginity at age 20. While he’d been intimate with others before, he became sexually active at 20 and expressed relief that he waited for someone he felt was right. He later reflected that his first sexual partner was ‘crazy’ and he was glad their relationship hadn’t gone further.

The actor, known for his role in Game of Thrones, revealed he lost his virginity around the age of 13. He described it as a common teenage experience that happened at a party, and admitted he was likely too young at the time, according to a 2017 interview with Elle magazine.

The Victoria’s Secret model waited until she was married before having sex. She married basketball player Marko Jarić in 2009, when she was 27 years old. They later divorced in 2016.

In a 2006 interview with GQ, she stated she believes sex should only occur within marriage. She also emphasized that any potential partner must respect her decision, explaining that a lack of respect would be a dealbreaker for her.

 

In a 2023 interview with Call Her Daddy, the former Suite Life of Zack & Cody star remembered losing their virginity at age 14. They were on a family vacation in Florida and met an older girl, which they now recognize as a potentially problematic situation.

I was so shocked to hear what Cole said after our first amazing night together. He went up to my hotel room the next night and, incredibly, just straight-up asked if I wanted to sleep with him. It was… really jarring, to be honest. He basically asked, ‘So, are you down for that?’

In her 2024 memoir, Cher: The Memoir, Part One, the singer Cher revealed she was 14 when she first had sex. She described how the boy she was with embarrassed her in front of his friends, even though they had previously shared intimate moments.

Cher described how a former partner would be kind and affectionate when they were alone, but would deliberately make her feel small and humiliated in front of his friends. She explained that she responded with a regrettable sexual encounter, motivated by hurt and a desire for revenge, something she never would have considered otherwise, despite his numerous previous advances.

The famous actor revealed he was sixteen years old when he first had sex, and later told Rolling Stone he felt that was “young, very young, too young.”

In a 2013 interview with Hot97, the former Sister, Sister actress explained that her faith led her to wait until she was 29 to have sex. She admitted to feeling guilt afterward and chose to remain celibate until marriage.

She tied the knot with former baseball player Adam Housley in 2011.

In his 2020 memoir, Greenlights, the Academy Award-winning actor revealed he lost his virginity at age 15 after being blackmailed, and he believed at the time he would be condemned for it.

He added, “Today, I am merely certain that I hope that’s not the case.”

The actress, known for her role in Sin City, shared in a 2013 interview with HuffPost that she waited until she was 20 to have sex. She explained this was because her mother had become a parent as a teenager, and she was terrified of experiencing the same thing.

Lily Allen’s father, Keith Allen, didn’t react well when she first became intimate. In fact, she said he believed she had disappeared that night.

In a 2023 episode of the Life’s a Beach podcast, she revealed she lost her virginity to a man named Fernando while on vacation in Brazil. She explained she went back to his hotel room, didn’t return to her room with her dad and brother that night, and ended up sleeping in the next morning. She also mentioned she never spoke to Fernando again.

Lily shared that when she was twelve, her dad was so worried after she ran away that he reported her as a missing person to the police. She admitted the experience was upsetting and affected her relationships for a while afterward.

The former star of The Vampire Diaries lost his virginity at age 13. He explained that at that age, many boys are very interested in sex.

During a 2014 appearance on her talk show, the Real Housewives of New York City star revealed she lost her virginity at age 16 on Valentine’s Day. She described her first sexual partner as a handsome football player, and said they were deeply in love at the time.

The Dancing With the Stars professional described himself as someone who developed later in life, revealing he lost his virginity at age 16.

He once dated a supermodel who wasn’t truthful about her age. She claimed to be younger than she actually was—about ten years younger, putting her in her early thirties—and he thought it was fantastic, he revealed on The Meredith Vieira Show in 2015.

In a 2017 interview with Andy Cohen, the reality TV star revealed he first had sexual experiences at age 13 with both a girl and a boy. He specified it wasn’t a traditional threesome, adding that the girl was two years older and the boy was around 16.

“It was a real first time,” he added. “It was exciting.”

The reality TV star revealed she was 14 years old when she first had sex. In a TikTok video posted in 2024, she said it happened on a sidewalk and that she didn’t fully understand what was happening at the time.

In a 1988 interview with Rolling Stone, he revealed he had his first sexual experience around age 13. He also admitted to experimenting with drugs by age 14, and as a teenager, he engaged in petty theft and breaking and entering – simply out of curiosity. He later realized where this path was leading and decided to change his life.

Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey consummated their marriage on their wedding night in 2002. They later divorced in 2006.

Looking back, she wrote in her 2020 memoir, Open Book, that everyone feels clumsy and self-conscious the first time. She realized it’s a normal part of the experience, even though it’s hard to accept in the moment. She joked that she was continuing a family tradition of people who said yes to a relationship based on that first, often awkward, experience.

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