North Carolina Woman Reports Stalker Due to Husband Drama, ‘I Don’t Want to Be Seen as Vengeful’

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Sometimes, relationships don’t go as planned due to unforeseen complications, and one person might not be as committed as you are. A woman in North Carolina experienced this firsthand when her relationship failed, leading to a divorce. But the story didn’t end there. She’s been targeted by the individual who contributed to the relationship’s downfall, facing stalking, threats, and harassment. Now she’s taking action to report her tormentor and is questioning if she overstepped boundaries. Rest assured: She did not.

The title of the post in r/AmIOverreacting reads: “Should I report this nursing student to her school for persistent threats, harassment, and stalking?” In essence, the original poster (OP) is currently going through a divorce caused by her husband’s infidelity. According to OP, the woman involved in the affair has been consistently bothering her with threatening messages and phone calls.

AIO – for reporting a nursing student to her school for ongoing threats, harassment, and stalking?
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The individual in question has made sure to handle everything properly by informing the woman that she’s not interested in any of this. However, despite being asked politely to cease contact, the woman persists, calling, texting, and even appearing in person at places where the individual is expected, causing distress through personal harassment. The situation escalated when a threatening phone call was received by the individual. In response, she took her concerns to a magistrate, filed charges for stalking, harassment, simple assault, and communicating threats (with solid evidence in hand). Regrettably, the woman has yet to relent on her disturbing behavior, even as she now faces criminal charges.

The OP is anxious about the pregnant woman due to her stalker’s persistent behavior, which has only caused harm so far. She fears that the situation may worsen, potentially endangering the woman and her unborn child. Now, the OP is seeking advice on whether she should take more action herself.

As a concerned individual going through nursing school, I find myself compelled to bring the university’s attention to an unsettling incident involving a fellow student. While I don’t wish to be perceived as vindictive, I believe that accountability is crucial – particularly in a field where the well-being and safety of others are paramount. So, am I overstepping boundaries or exercising my right to ensure a safe learning environment?

One individual expressed, “This person’s actions span from stalking, threats, harassment, to infidelity? I say wipe it all out. This isn’t about revenge, it’s about self-protection and safeguarding your child, as well as anyone else this woman may target and obsess over in the future.” Another concurred, “Given the gravity of the situation, I believe you have every right to inform her nursing program. The harassment represents a ‘serious warning sign’.”

One person stated, “From stalking, bullying, harassment, to her affair? I suggest clearing the way. This isn’t about retribution, it’s about self-defense and protecting your child, and anyone else this woman might target in the future.” Another concurred, “Considering the intensity of the situation, I believe you are entitled to alert her nursing program. The harassment is a ‘serious caution sign.’

Regardless of the circumstances, acts such as stalking, harassment, and threats require immediate attention and concern. It’s crucial to remember that even if you doubt someone will carry out their threats, they can still be unsettling. This becomes even more alarming when a person is expecting a child. Being vigilant about others’ words and actions is always advisable. The individual being stalked is not at fault, and the stalker should face the repercussions of their behavior.

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2025-07-11 08:05