Princess Bride’s Cary Elwes Says “Life is Pain” After Rob Reiner Death

Cary Elwes knows death cannot stop true love.

Since the deaths of Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele Singer Reiner, the actor from The Princess Bride has been struggling to accept their loss.

After a long time of processing his sadness, the 63-year-old shared a post on Instagram on December 29th, explaining that he was just 24 years old when he first met Rob while working on The Princess Bride. He said he fell in love with him immediately.

Cary explained that Rob was very open with his emotions. He was a deeply feeling person, full of love and kindness.

Rob, a highly talented filmmaker, gave Cary advice on the set of their 1987 movie that Cary still remembers decades later.

Cary remembered him saying, ‘After a movie comes out, it’s up to the audience. But while you’re making it, that’s your chance to really live, so you want to make something special.’ Cary especially cherished his time working with him on The Princess Bride, recalling that not a single day went by without a lot of laughter.

As he put it, “The movie is about love, loyalty and sacrifice. Things that Rob held dear.”

Cary Grant also found these qualities in his wife, Michele. He described her as not only a talented photographer, but also a remarkably kind, smart, and caring person. He was especially touched by her dedication to family and her commitment to helping others, adding that they were an exceptional partnership.

“In a town where many talk the talk,” he continued, “they truly walked it.”

He’ll always remember his friend’s laughter—but now, he’ll also feel that pain of Rob’s death.

He admitted the pain of losing you is something he’ll likely always feel, saying, ‘Even though true love doesn’t die, life is incredibly hard without you.’ He was quoting Westley from the movie Princess Bride.

Rob and Michele Reiner were found dead at their home on December 14th. Their son, 32-year-old Nick Reiner, has been charged with their murders and could face life in prison or the death penalty if convicted. The couple were cremated a week after their deaths, and their children, Jake and Romy Reiner, announced that a memorial service would be held at a later time.

Following the news of Rob and Michele’s passing, friends like Bill Crystal, Larry David, and Jane Fonda have shared touching tributes. Along with comments from Cary, here’s what other celebrities have been saying…

The actress, adopted by director Rob Reiner while he was married to the late Penny Marshall, said she last saw her father at a family event the day before he and his wife, Michele Singer Reiner, were discovered dead at their home in Los Angeles, in what appears to be a homicide.

In a statement to NBC News on December 14th, she said she came from a wonderful family and was completely shocked by recent events, adding that she didn’t know what to say.

The actress shared a heartfelt message on Instagram, expressing how much she would miss Rob Reiner. She thanked him and his wife, Michelle, for believing in love, happiness, and the good in people, as well as for their dedication to the country. Continuing her tribute to the director of When Harry Met Sally, Meg said she hoped their story wouldn’t end with this tragedy, and that some positive change or increased awareness might come from it. She believed they would want the focus to be on hope, kindness, and a greater understanding and peace among everyone.

The Spinal Tap actor shared on Instagram that Rob was a lifelong friend and someone he loved working with. He described Rob as funny, intelligent, and a genuinely good person. He fondly remembered Rob’s booming laughter when he attended both a comedy show and a musical the actor co-wrote, saying it could be heard all over the place.

Harry remembered that whenever he, Michael McKean, Christopher Guest, and Rob came up with movie ideas, Rob was the one who would write them down on index cards and then structure them into a complete film.

He continued, saying Michele was a close friend to his wife, Judith. He described the situation as devastating, like something out of an ancient tragedy.

The Princess Bride star said she’s “deeply shocked and devastated” by Rob and Michele’s passing.

She said in a statement to The Hollywood Reporter that she was deeply saddened by the news. She described Rob as a wonderfully loving, compassionate, and kind person, and an exceptional director whose influence she’s carried with her throughout her career.

The actress shared on Instagram that she’s heartbroken by the deaths of Rob and Michele. She explained they were cherished within their community, and Rob’s artwork had a profound impact on people all over the world.

Speaking about the director of Alex & Emma, she said, “Rob was truly one of the best. He had a gift for making films that were funny, moving, and uplifting, and he wasn’t limited by genre—he just told amazing stories.”

The Academy Award-winning actress stated she had seen Rob and Michele the day before their bodies were discovered at their home in Los Angeles.

She described the couple as “wonderful, caring, smart, funny, and generous,” and shared on Instagram December 15th that she had seen them just two nights before, appearing healthy and happy. She added that she was devastated and in shock.

The actress shared on Instagram that her A Few Good Men director and his wife were incredible people and devoted parents who dedicated their lives to making a positive impact. She expressed her deepest sympathy, saying her heart goes out to everyone affected by their loss.

Demi Moore raised her daughters alongside the three children of Rob and Michele, creating a blended family where all the girls grew up together. These daughters included Rumer Willis, Scout Willis, and Tallulah Willis, as well as the children of Rob and Michele.

She wrote about how they collaborated, and how their lives became connected both at work and in their personal lives. She said she would always treasure the memories they made together.

The actor shared a photo on Instagram of his and Rob Reiner’s chairs from the set of The Princess Bride, simply writing “No words” to express his sadness after learning of the director’s death.

The actor, known for his role in Stand By Me, expressed his shock and sadness after hearing about the death of director Rob Reiner’s mother, Michele. He shared on X (formerly Twitter), “I’m completely shocked and heartbroken. I love you, Rob! You will be forever missed!”

The director of A Simple Favor shared a beloved photo and a heartfelt tribute, calling Rob her hero, a visionary, and a wonderfully kind person.

He paused, then said it’s always difficult to know if posting is appropriate after a tragedy like this. He wanted everyone to understand something many in the industry already knew: Rob was truly exceptional.

The actress was heartbroken as she remembered Rob, her TV father from the show New Girl.

I was so saddened to hear about Rob Reiner. He was genuinely one of the warmest, funniest, and most generous people I’ve ever met – a truly good soul. Beyond being an incredibly talented artist, he was just a joy to work with, always playful and fun. I’ll always cherish our time together, and I’m so grateful for all the films he created that have influenced me both personally and professionally. It’s a real loss.

She fondly remembered Rob and his wife, Michele, saying they were always kind and she cherished every moment she spent with them.

The actor from Stand By Me found out about the director’s death from his co-star, Jerry O’Connell. In a post on his website on December 15th, he described the loss as tragic, senseless, and devastating, and said he was still trying to process it.

I was so moved when Wil talked about how Rob made him feel during filming in 1986. He said Rob showed him real love, made him feel valued, truly saw him, and respected him – especially when things were tough with his own family at the time. It was incredibly touching to hear how much that meant to him.

Rob was a truly good person who created beautiful art and positively impacted countless lives, as far as we know. His dedication to activism and his commitment to using his position to help others made the world a better place.

I was so saddened to hear about Rob and Michele Reiner. My husband, Brad, and I were lucky enough to work with them many times on movies and TV, and their talent as actors, directors, and producers truly left a lasting impression. But even more than that, I always admired them for how passionately they fought for what they believed in – for our environment, for fairness, and for a stronger democracy. They were wonderful people, true American heroes, and always a joy to be around. Our hearts go out to the entire Reiner family during this difficult time.

Janelle James, known for her role in Abbott Elementary, shared a story on Instagram about her first TV appearance. It was a scene with Rob, and she fondly remembered getting to collaborate with him and discuss comedy over the years.

“I’m speechless,” she continued. “What a tragic loss.”

We are deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele,” former President Obama shared on X. “Rob created so many films and TV shows we all love, and he always believed in the good in people, dedicating his life to making a difference.”

He shared that the couple lived meaningful lives, dedicated to things they believed in. They will be fondly remembered for the principles they stood for and the many lives they touched. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to everyone who knew and loved them.

The actor, who worked with director Rob on the 1986 film Stand By Me, posted a photo with him on Instagram, adding a heartfelt message: “Love you, Rob. Sincerely.”

He clarified he didn’t intend any disrespect to his parents, explaining that Rob had been a father figure to him. Speaking on CBS Mornings on December 15th, he added that the situation felt unreal.

Jerry shared, “I owe everything to Rob Reiner – absolutely everything. It’s a really difficult day.”

As a lifestyle expert, I’ve seen how deeply impactful close relationships are, and it’s truly touching to see that reflected in the statement released by the family of the beloved TV icon. They’ve shared how incredibly close the two were, and it’s clear their bond was something really special.

The Lear family is deeply saddened by the passing of Rob and Michele Reiner. Norman Lear considered Rob like a son, and their bond was remarkable, both to those who knew them and to the public.

The statement noted that Norman would have wanted everyone to remember Rob and Michele’s dedication to improving the country. They worked tirelessly towards this goal through their creative work, their advocacy, their charitable giving, and their relationships with loved ones. Lyn Lear, a close friend, shared that their loss has made the world a significantly sadder place.

Jamie Lee shared that she and Christopher are devastated by the tragic deaths of their friends, Rob and Michelle Singer Reiner. Right now, their only concern is supporting Rob and Michelle’s children and families, and they are committed to providing all the help they need.

They shared that they’ll have time later to talk about their creative work together and the positive changes they made in entertainment, children’s development, the fight for marriage equality, and global issues. They also asked for privacy as they mourn the loss of dear friends.

When Rob and Michele’s deaths were announced, the star of Magic of Belle Isle shared a message on Instagram about the director and his wife. She wrote, “May God comfort those who loved them. Thank you, Rob, for bringing so much happiness into our lives.”

The actor, who worked with Carl Reiner in the 2003 film Good Boy!, shared on X that Reiner had both intelligence and genuine warmth. He described Reiner’s films as a constant presence during his upbringing and expressed gratitude for Reiner and his wife’s contributions to the world.

The Monty Python alum tweeted that he had spoken to Rob on the phone the night before his death.

I was so saddened to hear about Rob Reiner. I had the pleasure of speaking with him just last night for over an hour, and I always cherished our time together. I first met him way back in 1975 at his father’s place. He was so engaging, telling stories about filming at Stonehenge and sharing his vision for what was to come. It’s just awful news, and I’m going to miss him terribly. He was such a clever, talented, and genuinely thoughtful person. It’s truly awful.

The Misery star said she was “absolutely devasted” by the news of Rob’s death.

Kathy, who collaborated with director Rob in the 1990 film, shared in a statement that she adored him. She described him as both a gifted and compassionate person, always pushing his creative boundaries by working on diverse types of movies.

She shared that he profoundly impacted her life. Michele was a talented photographer who took the stunning photos for the Misery campaign. She expressed her deep sadness for both of them and extended her condolences to their family.

The actor expressed shock and sadness upon hearing of Rob Reiner’s passing, remembering him as “a great man.” They had worked together on the 1985 film, The Sure Thing, four decades prior.

The actor, who previously worked with Rob Reiner on the 1994 film North, shared on X (formerly Twitter) that he was devastated to hear about Reiner and his wife Michelle’s passing. He sent his condolences and love to their children and family.

She described Rob Reiner as an exceptionally kind, cheerful, and generous person. He had a significant impact on the film industry and the world, creating movies that highlighted empathy and humor. He encouraged bravery and taking chances in the pursuit of love. Using his platform and storytelling skills, he championed democracy and supported people everywhere.

Sophia continued, saying that he consistently showed up, even when no one was watching. He was always quick to volunteer and join Zoom meetings, supporting organizations working to improve the world. He generously shared his skills and talents, always saying yes to helping others. Over the years I’ve known him through this work, he’s been a positive influence and inspiration to me. I’m devastated by his and Michele’s passing, and I’m thinking of everyone who loved them.

I’ve always loved Rob Reiner’s work,” said the actor known for Zoolander in a post on X. “He created some of the most influential films for people my age. He really stepped out on his own after being known as the son of comedy legend Carl Reiner and as a TV actor, and went on to become a fantastic director with an amazing series of movies.

He added that Spinal Tap is a truly hilarious movie, and that’s just one example of his great taste. He was also a genuinely kind and very funny person.

The actress from Bear shared on Instagram that meeting this man was a life-changing experience, and she meant it. She was lucky enough to meet him recently and was amazed by how willing he was to chat with her, simply because he enjoyed connecting with a fan.

She went on to say that he truly loved his work and the people he worked with. He was incredibly giving with his time, energy, and always had a story to tell. She expressed feeling heartbroken.

I just heard about what happened to Rob Reiner and Michele, and I’m completely devastated! It’s awful, truly awful. I’m sending all my positive energy for them to get justice quickly. My heart goes out to their family and kids – I honestly don’t even know what to say, I’m just so upset for them.

The Emmy-winning actor posted on Instagram about their sadness over the death of a director they greatly admired. They explained that A Few Good Men inspired them to become an actor, and the director’s work motivated them to pursue directing, a dream they still hold today.

He said he was deeply saddened by the loss of Rob and his wife, but acknowledged the significant and positive influence they had on his life and the lives of many others.

 

After hearing about the deaths of Rob and Michele, the musician remembered first meeting them while working on the upcoming film, Spinal Tap at Stonehenge: The Final Finale.

Josh shared on Instagram that he and Michele treated him like family and gave him the chance to achieve a lifelong dream. He described their time together as filled with laughter, love, and music, creating a memory he’ll always treasure. He expressed shock and deep sadness at their passing, and sent his condolences to their family.

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