Cary Elwes Shares Emotional Message on Rob Reiner’s Birthday

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Cary Elwes is still grappling with the inconceivable tragedy of Rob Reiner‘s murder.

The actor from The Princess Bride honored the late director on what would have been his 79th birthday, almost three months after he and his wife, Michele Reiner, were tragically found stabbed to death in their Los Angeles home.

Cary shared a 2012 photo with Rob on Instagram on March 6th, writing, “Still can’t believe you’re gone. Missing you so much.”

Cary and Rob Reiner had been friends for nearly forty years before Reiner’s death in December. Cary was cast as Westley in the 1987 film The Princess Bride, and he says he immediately felt a connection with Rob, even falling in love with him at first sight.

In a recent Instagram post from December 29th, he shared how he first met Rob Reiner when he was 24, while working on The Princess Bride. He was already a fan and described meeting Reiner as a dream come true. As they got to know each other, he realized he wanted Reiner to be a part of his life.

The actor explained that Rob was a very open and emotional person. He cared deeply about others and wasn’t interested in wealth or status. All he wanted to know was if someone was genuinely kind and good-hearted.

Cary believed Rob had met the love of his life when he encountered Michele while filming the 1989 movie, When Harry Met Sally.

He remembered her not only as a talented photographer, but as a genuinely kind and smart person. She cared deeply for her family and always went out of her way to help others. He said they were more than just a good team – they were exceptional together.

Cary expressed his gratitude to the couple for sharing their lives and work, and then spoke directly to them, saying that even though time passes, the pain of their loss remains strong. He acknowledged that while love transcends death, life feels incomplete without them.

Last year, Nick Reiner, the son of Rob and Michele, was arrested in connection with the deaths of his parents, who were fatally stabbed. Reiner, 32, entered a plea of not guilty to two counts of first-degree murder in February and is next scheduled to appear in court in April.

For more celebrity tributes to Rob and Michele, read on.

The actress, adopted by director Rob Reiner while he was married to the late Penny Marshall, said she last saw her father at a family event the day before he and his wife, Michele Singer Reiner, were discovered dead at their Los Angeles home in what appears to be a homicide.

In a statement to NBC News on December 14th, she said she came from a wonderful family and was completely shocked by recent events, adding that she didn’t know what to say.

The actress shared a heartfelt message on Instagram, saying how much she would miss Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele. She thanked them for believing in love, happiness, and the good in people, as well as for their patriotism. Speaking about the director of When Harry Met Sally and his wife, she expressed hope that something positive could come from this tragic loss – perhaps greater awareness or understanding. She believed they would want their legacy to be one of hope, kindness, and peace.

The Spinal Tap actor shared on Instagram that Rob was a lifelong friend and someone he loved working with. He described Rob as funny, intelligent, and a genuinely good person. He fondly remembered Rob’s booming laughter when he came to see both a comedy show and a musical the actor co-wrote – it could be heard all over the place!

Harry remembered that whenever he, Michael McKean, Christopher Guest, and Rob came up with ideas for movies, Rob was the one who would write them down on index cards and structure them into a complete film.

He continued, saying that Michele was a close friend to his wife, Judith. He described the situation as devastating, like something out of an ancient Greek tragedy.

The Princess Bride star said she’s “deeply shocked and devastated” by Rob and Michele’s passing.

She expressed deep sorrow, telling The Hollywood Reporter that Rob was one of the most caring and kind people she’d ever met. She also described him as a remarkable director whose influence continues to shape her work.

The actress shared on Instagram that she’s heartbroken by the deaths of Rob and Michele. She explained they were cherished within their community, and Rob’s work had a profound impact on people all over the world.

Speaking about the director of Alex & Emma, she said, “Rob was truly one of the best. He had a gift for making films that were funny, moving, and uplifting, and he wasn’t limited by genre—he just told incredible stories.”

Oh my gosh, you will NOT believe this! Apparently, the incredible actress – a two-time Oscar winner, can you even?! – actually saw Rob and Michele just one day before… before they were found. At their house! In LA! I’m seriously getting chills just thinking about it. It’s like she was the last person to see them! It’s so heartbreaking and… and surreal. I need to know everything!

I was so incredibly saddened to hear about the passing of this wonderful couple. They were truly special – caring, intelligent, funny, and so generous. Just the other night, I saw them and they seemed so happy and healthy. I’m absolutely heartbroken and still in shock.

The actress shared on Instagram that her A Few Good Men director and his wife were incredible people and devoted parents who dedicated their lives to making a positive impact. She expressed her deepest sympathy, saying her thoughts and prayers are with everyone affected by their loss.

Demi Moore and Bruce Willis’ daughters – Rumer, Scout, and Tallulah – grew up alongside Rob and Michele’s three children, effectively becoming blended siblings.

Oh my gosh, she actually said it! She wrote that working with him wasn’t just a job, it was… everything. Their lives just merged, you know? Both at work and personally. And she says she’ll treasure every single moment, every memory they made together. It’s just… perfect. I knew it! They had something special, and she finally admitted it!

The actor shared a photo on Instagram of the chairs used by him and Rob Reiner on the set of The Princess Bride, simply writing “No words” to express his sadness after learning of the director’s death.

The actor, known for his role in Stand By Me, expressed his shock and sadness after hearing about the death of director Rob Reiner’s mother, Michele. He shared on X (formerly Twitter), “I’m completely shocked and heartbroken. I love you, Rob! You will be forever missed!”

The director of A Simple Favor shared a beloved photo and a heartfelt message about Rob. She called him a hero, a visionary, and a genuinely kind person.

He paused, then said it’s always difficult to know whether posting is appropriate after a tragedy. But he wanted everyone to understand something many people in the business already knew: Rob was truly exceptional.

The actress was heartbroken as she remembered Rob, her on-screen father from the show New Girl.

She shared on Instagram that she was heartbroken by the loss of Rob Reiner, describing him as incredibly kind, funny, and generous. She called him a wonderful person and a talented artist, fondly remembering their collaboration and the impact his films had on her life.

She fondly remembered Rob and his wife, Michele, saying they were always kind and she cherished every moment she spent with them.

The actor from Stand By Me found out about the director’s passing from his co-star, Jerry O’Connell. In a post on his website on December 15th, he described the loss as tragic, senseless, and devastating, and said he was still trying to process it.

I was so touched hearing Wil talk about Rob. He said Rob made him feel truly loved, valued, and like he mattered, especially when things were tough with his family while they were filming in 1986. It was amazing to hear how much Rob’s support meant to him during that time.

Rob was a truly good person who created beautiful art and positively impacted countless lives, as far as we know. He made the world a better place through his passionate work and by using his position and resources to help others.

I was so fortunate to work with Rob and Michele Reiner many times on films and TV shows, and their contributions as actors, directors, and producers will always be remembered,” wrote the Seinfeld star on Instagram. “But even more importantly, they showed us how to be dedicated activists and strong advocates for the environment, fairness, and our country. They truly loved America and were a joy to be around. Our hearts go out to the Reiner family.

I’ll never forget landing my very first TV role – it was a scene with Rob! I was so thrilled to be working alongside him, and I really valued getting to chat with him about comedy over the years. It was a special experience.

“I’m speechless,” she continued. “What a tragic loss.”

We’re deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele,” former President Obama wrote on X. “Rob created so many films and TV shows we all love. More importantly, he believed in the good in people and dedicated his life to making a difference.

He shared that the couple lived meaningful lives, dedicated to making a difference. They will be fondly remembered for the principles they stood for and the many lives they touched. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to everyone who knew and loved them.

The actor, who worked with director Rob on the 1986 film Stand By Me, posted a photo with him on Instagram and wrote a heartfelt message: “Love you, Rob. Sincerely.”

He clarified he wasn’t trying to offend his parents, explaining that Rob felt like a father figure to him, as he shared on CBS Mornings on December 15th. He added that the situation felt unreal.

Jerry shared, “I owe everything to Rob Reiner – absolutely everything. It’s a really difficult day.”

The family of the beloved TV star shared a heartfelt statement about the close relationship he had with another person.

The Lear family is deeply saddened by the passing of Rob and Michele Reiner. Norman Lear considered Rob like a son, and their bond was incredibly special to everyone who knew them.

The statement noted that Norman would have wanted everyone to remember Rob and Michele’s dedication to improving the country. They worked tirelessly towards this goal through their creative work, advocacy, charitable giving, and the love they shared with those closest to them. Their longtime friend, Lyn Lear, expressed deep sadness, saying, ‘The world feels significantly dimmer tonight, and we are heartbroken by their loss.’

Jamie Lee expressed her and Christopher’s shock and sadness over the tragic deaths of their friends, Rob and Michelle Singer Reiner. In a statement to Variety, she said their only concern right now is supporting Rob and Michelle’s children and families, and they will do everything they can to help.

The couple shared that they will talk later about the meaningful work they and their partners did, and the positive changes they brought to entertainment, children’s well-being, the movement for marriage equality, and global issues. They’ve experienced the loss of dear friends and ask for privacy as they mourn.

Following the news of Rob and Michele’s deaths, the star of Magic of Belle Isle shared a message on Instagram, writing about the director and his wife, “May God comfort those who loved them. Thank you, Rob, for all the happiness you brought us.”

The actor, who worked with Carl Reiner in the 2003 film Good Boy!, wrote on X that Reiner had both intelligence and genuine warmth. He described Reiner’s work as being a constant presence in his life and expressed gratitude for Reiner and his wife’s contributions to the world.

The Monty Python alum tweeted that he had spoken to Rob on the phone the night before his death.

I was so saddened to hear about Rob Reiner. I had the pleasure of spending over an hour chatting with him just last night, and I always cherished our time together. I first met him way back in 1975 at his father’s place, and I remember him sharing stories about filming at Stonehenge and his exciting plans for the future. It’s just awful news, and I’m going to miss him dearly. He was such a clever, talented, and genuinely thoughtful person – it’s a truly awful loss.

The Misery star said she was “absolutely devasted” by the news of Rob’s death.

Oh, Rob… I just adored him. I worked with him on that movie back in the nineties, and honestly, he was just… incredible. Not just a genius, but genuinely kind. He wasn’t one of those directors who stuck to one thing; he was always pushing himself, trying out every kind of film just to see what he could do. It was amazing to watch, truly.

She shared that he profoundly impacted her life. Michele was a talented photographer who took the stunning photos for the Misery campaign. She expressed her deep sadness for both of them and extended her condolences to their family.

The actor expressed shock and sadness upon hearing of Rob Reiner’s passing, remembering him as “a great man.” They had worked together on the 1985 film, The Sure Thing, forty years prior.

The actor, who previously worked with Rob Reiner on the 1994 film North, shared on X (formerly Twitter) their shock and sadness at Reiner’s passing, along with his wife Michelle. They expressed sympathy to Reiner’s children and family.

She described Rob Reiner as an incredibly kind and joyful person, someone who was also thoughtful and generous. He had a huge impact on the film industry and the world, creating movies that emphasized empathy and humor. He inspired people to be braver and take chances in the pursuit of love. Using his platform and storytelling skills, he championed democracy and supported people in his community and beyond.

Sophia continued, sharing that he consistently showed up, even when no one was watching. He was always quick to volunteer and joined countless Zoom meetings to support organizations working to improve the world, generously offering his skills and time. He consistently put others first, and over the years, his dedication has deeply inspired and influenced me. I’m devastated by the loss of him and Michele, and my thoughts are with their families and friends.

I’ve always loved Rob Reiner’s work,” said the actor known for Zoolander in a post on X. “He created some truly impactful films for people my age. It’s amazing how he stepped out from under the shadow of his incredibly funny father, Carl Reiner, and transitioned from being a TV actor to becoming such a successful and talented director with a fantastic film career.”

Honestly, I think Spinal Tap is one of the greatest comedies of all time – and I could list so many other amazing things about it. But beyond his talent, he was just a genuinely kind and incredibly funny person. I’ll always remember him that way.

The actress from Bear shared on Instagram that meeting this man was a life-changing experience, and she truly believes that. She recently had the chance to meet him and was amazed by his willingness to talk with her, especially because he simply wanted to be kind to a young fan.

Honestly, it’s just heartbreaking. He truly loved his work, and even more, he cherished the people he worked with. He was incredibly giving with his time, his energy, and always had a story to tell. I’m just completely devastated by the loss.

The comedian expressed shock and horror upon learning about the incident involving Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele. They called it a terrible situation and offered prayers for a quick resolution and condolences to the family and children, admitting they were speechless.

The Emmy-winning actor shared on Instagram that they were deeply saddened by the loss of their favorite director. They explained that A Few Good Men inspired them to become an actor, and the director’s overall work motivated them to pursue directing – a goal that continues to drive them today.

He said he was deeply saddened by the loss of Rob and his wife, but acknowledged the significant and positive influence they had on his life and the lives of many others.

 

After hearing about the deaths of Rob and Michele, the musician remembered first meeting them while working on the upcoming film, Spinal Tap at Stonehenge: The Final Finale.

Josh posted on Instagram about how kind he and Michele were, saying they treated him like family and helped him achieve a lifelong dream. He described their time together as filled with joy, love, and music – a memory he’ll always treasure. He expressed his shock and sadness at their passing and sent his condolences to their family.

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2026-03-07 05:49