David Archuleta Proposed to, Nearly Married 3 Women Before Coming Out

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For a stretch, David Archuleta really did keep running from the truth.

Okay, so before he finally shared who he truly is with the world in 2021, it was so hard for him. He used to question every connection, wondering if it was real love or just a fleeting crush. He grew up super religious, a devoted Mormon, and it completely messed with his head trying to figure out how his faith and his feelings fit together. He even told TopMob News he almost married three different women because of it – he was that confused and conflicted! It’s just heartbreaking to think about, but also amazing that he finally found his truth.

Archuleta joked about buying three rings, saying she was trying to keep up with Ariana Grande, who famously sang about having seven rings.

The 35-year-old singer is now openly talking about how he first became interested in sex, specifically mentioning how watching Adam Levine and Maroon 5 perform influenced him. He also explains his reasons for discussing sexuality as part of his work with the pharmaceutical company Gilead.

Archuleta has said that during his twenties, as he was grappling with the possibility of being gay or bisexual, he unfortunately turned to church leaders for guidance.

He said the advice he received didn’t sound well-thought-out. They told him that marrying a woman would help him overcome his feelings, and that God would support that decision.

So, as Archuleta noted, “I went into those marriages with that idea.”

But the musician’s mind kept returning to a common refrain amid his third engagement. 

He explained that as the wedding day neared, he began experiencing panic attacks. He realized he was trying to force himself into a role others had created for him, and he couldn’t continue living that way.

Bottom line, he said of his revelation, “I just knew it wasn’t right.”

Archuleta genuinely cared for and was attracted to the women he dated, but he realized that marrying them wouldn’t change his deeper feelings for men.

Archuleta explained that he realized he was hurting both himself and his partners. He left the Mormon church a year after publicly coming out, because he knew his feelings weren’t going to disappear and feared they would lead to resentment and a difficult relationship. “You could just sense these feelings aren’t going to go away, and if anything, I’m going to become bitter and resentful, and it can get really messy in this relationship.”

He realized his feelings for men were more than just a fleeting attraction, and worried things would eventually fall apart. He explained, “I could tell it would likely end badly.”

Instead, he let the realization light a fire within him.

He said he deeply cared for these women, describing them as wonderful and beautiful. But he explained that he ultimately needed to be truthful – to himself, to them, and to everyone around him.

Empowered by her honesty, Archuleta is now inspiring others to openly discuss and take control of their sexual well-being.

Ultimately, he feels he would have benefited from learning more about the subject and the HIV prevention options available through Gilead.

As a lifestyle expert, I often hear from people who feel intimidated by important health topics, and this really resonated with me. Someone recently shared with me that they wished they’d seen more open conversations about things like PrEP – preventative HIV medication. It made them realize how much fear can hold us back from taking care of ourselves. What they really want – and what I believe we all deserve – is to see someone who understands that fear, someone who grew up hesitant about things like STI testing, and can honestly show how simple and non-threatening getting tested – and prioritizing your health – really is.

The information available on Gilead’s HealthySexual website helped the artist known as “Crush” change his view of sex. He used to believe it would be harmful, but now understands that healthy sexual experiences can actually build confidence and contribute to self-discovery.

Archuleta confessed they used to feel anxious about sexual health, but learning more about it was transformative. “Becoming educated about sexual health and responsibility really boosts your confidence and helps you feel empowered,” they explained.

David isn’t alone – many celebrities have recently shared their stories about discovering and embracing their LGBTQ+ identity. Here are some other stars who have been open about their journeys.

The Dance Moms alum didn’t give it a second thought when she came out in a 2021 Instagram story. 

She shared with People magazine in October 2023 that she came out at age 17, but didn’t realize how significant that decision was at the time. She also admitted she didn’t understand why it felt frightening.

She explained that while she received a lot of support and acceptance, she also faced negativity and lost some things along the way – including people and fans. But she doesn’t regret it, saying she’s staying true to herself and doesn’t care about losing those who couldn’t accept her for who she is.

While the “Flowers” singer was never a big fan of labels, she came out as pansexual in 2016.

She shared with Variety in October 2016 that she’d spent her life unsure about her gender and sexuality. She’d always disliked the label ‘bisexual’ because she felt it was limiting. She explained that she doesn’t focus on whether someone is male or female.

She also explained that she never saw her nipple pasties as sexual, noting she became aware of her sexuality around fifth or sixth grade. She shared that her first romantic relationship was with a girl.

Telling his traditionally religious family he was gay was a turning point for Matt, beginning a new chapter in his life.

Sharing the news with his family was a major turning point, according to actor Matt Bomer, who is married to Simon Halls and has three children. He explained to OUT Magazine that he sees his life as clearly divided into ‘before’ and ‘after’ telling his parents, with the choices he made and the way he lived being completely different on either side. It was a truly transformative experience.

The singer of “Good Luck, Babe!” shared that she doesn’t always feel as self-assured as she appears, and growing up in the Midwest greatly influenced that.

She explained to Rolling Stone that she used to be afraid of openly gay men, because that’s how she was raised. She later realized that people often dislike them because their expressions of personality are seen as feminine, and there’s a general prejudice against women. She described having a sudden realization, saying, ‘It’s just messed up when you see it like that.’

Honestly, it’s been a real journey trying to figure things out, and I still have moments where I’m totally lost. It’s why, even now, being gay sometimes just… doesn’t feel right, you know? I can’t even pinpoint why it bothers me so much. Logically, it shouldn’t, but something inside me is wrestling with it, and I’m starting to realize I just need to accept that’s where I’m at right now.

Former Bachelorette contestant recently appeared on The View to share that she is in a relationship with comedian Robby Hoffman, whom she married in January 2025.

She revealed in August 2023 that she had been keeping a significant personal matter private: she’s dating a woman. She explained it was a big story and a larger conversation to have.

Looking back, I realize there was always this little voice inside me, gently nudging me in a certain direction. It just kept getting stronger over time. Honestly, I didn’t really listen at first. And you know what? Often, when we start tuning into those inner feelings, there’s a bit of shame that comes with it – a feeling of ‘should I be feeling this way?’ I had to really unpack that shame, figure out where it was coming from, and learn to move through it.

The actress known for her role in Mean Girls publicly came out as a lesbian in January 2024 while appearing on Saturday Night Live. She had previously identified as bisexual, and her friends supported her in making the announcement.

She later told Billboard that she found herself surrounded by nonbinary, transgender, and lesbian friends. Being with them made her realize, ‘I feel so happy, and I really want to identify as a lesbian when I’m with you all.’

The former late-night host officially came out as queer on the last day of Pride month in 2024. 

She announced on Instagram in June 2024, on the final day of Pride month, that she is queer. She shared the news with a photo of herself wearing a tank top with the word ‘Queer’ on it – a revelation that surprised no one, she joked.

She encouraged the children, saying, “Love yourselves for who you are, and I certainly do!” Then, with a touch of humor, she added, “I’m already looking forward to facing new challenges and biases!”

The former Disney Channel star was hesitant to publicly share that she is queer before she came out.

She revealed to Gay Times in May 2021 that she’d subtly alluded to her sexuality for years, but was hesitant to be direct. She explained that a lyric video she released last year for her song ‘We Belong’ featured animated drawings of couples falling in love, but it always showed a man and a woman, which felt strange to her.

After the song was released, many people interpreted it as a celebration of LGBTQ+ identity, which led to accusations that I was ‘queerbaiting’ – misleading fans about my own sexuality. I addressed this on Instagram Live, explaining that, although I hadn’t explicitly said it before, I identify as queer and want my music to reflect that part of who I am.

The “Heart Attack” singer came out as nonbinary in a 2021 Instagram post.

As a lifestyle expert, I truly believe each new day is a fresh start – a chance to become the person you’ve always dreamed of. Looking back, I’ve essentially grown up in the public eye, and you’ve all been there for it – the highs, the lows, and everything in between! It’s been an incredible journey, not just for me personally, but also knowing so many of you were along for the ride.

I’m excited to share an important part of my personal journey with you all. I’m non-binary and will be using they/them pronouns going forward (though I now use she/her pronouns). This decision comes after a lot of personal growth and self-discovery. I’m still figuring things out and don’t consider myself an expert, but sharing this feels very vulnerable and important to me.

The former Bachelor contestant has been with singer Hayley Kiyoko since 2018, but she didn’t publicly share that she was in a same-sex relationship until four years later. While it felt strange at first when people found out, she realized how much of a positive effect it had to be open about her relationship.

You know, after going through everything, I really came to see that it wasn’t just about my own life. If my story helped even one person feel okay with who they love, or gave them the courage to be themselves, that meant more to me than anything. It’s incredibly moving to read messages from people saying that something as natural as falling in love had a positive impact on them. It really puts things into perspective and reminds you how powerful simple, honest connections can be.

When Troye was 18, three years after telling his family he was gay, he shared his story with the world in a YouTube video. He later explained that coming out was a significant event that happened during a turning point in his life.

He explained to People magazine in February 2022 that as he was finalizing his record deal, he was determined to control his own public image. He didn’t want anyone else dictating how he came out. He wanted the freedom to explore the gay scene, go to clubs, meet people, and write honest, heartfelt songs about his experiences with love.

Chrishell Stause, who is married to musician G Flip, emphasizes the need to make self-care a priority.

As someone who’s seen a lot of relationships, I always say this: if someone genuinely loves you, your joy has to be their priority, even if it challenges what they believe. And honestly, don’t ever feel pressured to live your life according to someone else’s expectations. It’s your life, and you only get one shot at it. I started seeing that really clearly in my own relationship a couple of years ago, and it’s something I feel strongly about.

This TikTok creator, who is openly gay and attended an all-boys school, uses his account to inspire others to embrace their true selves.

As a big supporter of Chris, I’ve always admired their openness. They explained to TopMob News last year that they know people might already have strong opinions about who they are, depending on where they come from. That’s why having this platform is so important to them – they’re actively trying to challenge those preconceptions and show everyone that, at the end of the day, they’re just a normal person.

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