Selena Gomez Shares Sweet Message After “Joyful” Benny Blanco Wedding

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Selena Gomezcan’t keep her joy to herself.

Oh my gosh, it’s only been five days since Selena and Benny Blanco got married, and she’s already talking about it! She called the whole thing a “joyful moment,” and honestly, can you *blame* her? She sent out the sweetest letter thanking her “beautiful community” – meaning *us*, obviously – and I’m just… living for it! It’s everything! #obsessed, seriously.

“Entering what feels like a really special time in my life,” Selena shared in a letter posted on Instagram on Oct. 2, “I keep thinking about my amazing friends who’ve supported me through everything-the ups, the downs, and all the different phases.”

The former Disney Channel star shared, “From the very beginning of my acting career to all the songs we’ve performed together, and now as I start this new chapter, your encouragement and kindness have meant the world to me – more than I can possibly express.”

Selena shared that her family, friends, and fans were a crucial support system, always encouraging her and helping her remember her value, especially during tough times.

“Thank you for supporting me throughout everything – the good times, the bad, and all the moments in between,” the 33-year-old shared. “You’ve always been a source of comfort, my biggest supporters, and a constant reassurance that I never have to face things on my own.”

She revealed a new makeup collection inspired by her look at a recent high-profile wedding-where guests included Taylor Swift, Ed Sheeran, Steve Martin and Martin Short-and expressed her thanks while looking ahead to what’s next.

“I’m so grateful you allowed me to celebrate this special moment with you,” Selena finished. “Let’s raise a glass to love, fresh starts, and the beauty we all possess, both inside and out.”

In addition to sharing photos of her wedding makeup, the “Who Says” singer has revealed details about the three custom Ralph Lauren gowns she wore at her ceremony in Santa Barbara, Calif.: a classic white halter-neck bridal gown, a striking corset-style halter-neck dress adorned with 300 individually crafted lace flowers, and a charming tea-length, off-the-shoulder white dress featuring a flared skirt.

Also, David DeLuise, who starred with Selena in Wizards of Waverly Place, shared how special the day felt.

He explained on his wife Julia DeLuise’s Instagram Story on September 29, according to People, that witnessing the vows in person was special. He said everything spoken during the ceremony was wonderful, and that when the curtain first opened, the sun appeared just as his wife walked out, creating a beautiful sunset backdrop. He playfully added that it felt like the sun was intentionally timed to shine on her, as if on cue!

Read on to look back at Selena and Benny’s love story that led them down the aisle.

As a lifestyle expert, I’ve been following Selena Gomez‘s relationship with Benny Blanco, and it’s been lovely to see them together! They actually started dating around July 2023, which was near Selena’s birthday, as Benny shared on the Howard Stern Show just this May.

Rumors about their relationship only started circulating towards the end of 2023. In December of that year, Selena officially acknowledged the speculation, responding to a fan’s post on Instagram about Benny, saying, “He is my absolute everything in my heart.”

She went on, “I can’t believe how amazing he is – he’s truly been the best part of my life. Even now, he’s better than anyone I’ve ever dated.”

The founder of Rare Beauty also posted a picture on her Instagram Story showing her resting her head against what appeared to be Benny’s chest.

Selena subsequently posted this photo on her Instagram Stories, revealing she was wearing a ring shaped like the letter “B” and adorned with jewels.

…including a pic of the two kissing. 

Oh my gosh, in December 2023, Selena *finally* posted some pictures! I was losing it! She was in New York City with Benny and all their friends. I seriously zoomed in on every single photo.i It just made my day seeing them having fun together!

On December 27th, 2023, Selena posted some new photos of her and her partner at what looked like an art show.

Selena posted this pic of herself and Benny one day before New Year’s Eve 2023.

The pair attended the Los Angeles Lakers’ home game against the Miami Heat in January 2024.

The couple packed on PDA in this February 2024 snapshot.

Selena shared a tribute to her boyfriend on his 36th birthday in March 2024.

“Happy birthday, Benny!” Selena shared on Instagram. “I’m constantly amazed by your strength, optimistic attitude, incredible talent, and hilarious personality. And your sweet, caring heart just gets to me. I love you @itsbennyblanco.”

Selena included this kissing pic in her birthday tribute to Benny.

…and these couple’s pics as well.

In April 2024, Selena celebrated the launch of Benny’s Open Wide. She shared photos of them with a cake decorated to look like his cookbook, writing, “So proud.”

Selena shared this pic of the two on Independence Day 2024.

In July 2024, shortly before celebrating their one-year dating anniversary, the couple participated in a popular “Who’s Most Likely To” TikTok trend. The challenge asked them who confessed their love first, and the answer was Selena.

Selena and Benny cuddled up in cute photos in July 2024 following her 32nd birthday.

The actress wrote a heartfelt message alongside a collection of summer pictures, saying, “Thank you for sharing your life with me today and everyday.”

The musicians soaked up the sun together on lounge chairs.

Selena shared a silly pic of the two enjoying a bite.

They’re just loving each other like a love song, baby.

The two were bundled up with masks on during one of their outings.

In another snap, Selena wore Benny’s beanie as they pursed their lips for the camera.

The “Eastside” artist gave Selena a kiss on the cheek in a sweet summer snap in July 2024.

He wrapped his arms around her in another adorable Instagram pic.

“Forever begins now,” Selena posted in December 2024 when she announced their engagement. Benny jokingly commented, “hey wait… that’s my wife.”

The couple enjoyed a date night at the 2025 Golden Globes.

Benny and Selena made their first joint red carpet appearance at the 2025 Emmys.

The wedding took place in Santa Barbara, California, on September 27, 2025. Among those attending were Taylor Swift, Martin Short, Steve Martin and Paul Rudd.

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