Chris Olsen & More Stars Share Advice for Those Struggling to Come Out

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Indeed, it’s true, much like Portia de Rossi, Laverne Cox, and Neil Patrick Harris have all affirmed, the impact of the first viral video that introduced a nonprofit organization dedicated to assisting LGBTQ+ youth who are grappling with fear, rejection, bullying, and loneliness because they’re living authentically, is significant.

But when you’re in it, that only-up-from-here rock bottom can feel awfully scary.   

Matt Bomer, an actor from Texas, expressed to OUT Magazine that revealing his sexuality to his traditional Christian family was a moment of immense significance. He considers his life as split into two parts: one before he shared this truth with his parents, and the other after. The choices he made and the lifestyle he led pre-and post-disclosure are like day and night.

Despite the letter he wrote causing a prolonged period of no response (at least six months) and eventually leading to the confrontation he had been dreading, he harbors no regret about his actions.

He shared with the media that they had addressed their initial challenges, and then focused on finding ways to genuinely care for each other. He stated that it took several years for them to grasp this, as it is a challenge for anyone to change deeply held beliefs and perspectives.

But for those looking to start a new chapter, we’ve got the backup. 

In celebration of Pride Month 2025, we invited famous personalities to share their most profound advice for those embracing their authentic selves, and they did not disappoint! Discover the insights from stars like Andy Cohen, the married pair Chrishell Stause and G-Flip, TikTok sensation Chris Olsen, and many more celebrities, as they offer valuable advice on initiating that crucial conversation.

When the prospect of a big coming-out conversation feels overwhelming, Andy Cohen advises taking a small but significant step. In his words, “Find one friend that you can confide in,” he suggested to TopMob News, emphasizing that just one supportive friend can serve as a foundation, and from there, you can gradually expand your circle. It’s also worth remembering that things are often not as dire as they appear. As the host of ‘Watch What Happens Live,’ Cohen eloquently stated, “It’s usually worse in your mind than it will turn out to be.

Chris Olsen on TikTok advises that you should seek out and cherish your friends, because they can provide the support you need. This could be your biological family or a chosen one. There are individuals who are eager to appreciate and accept you for who you truly are. By keeping these people close, you’ll create a nurturing environment where you feel comfortable revealing your true self.

Jonathan Bennett, a former cast member of Mean Girls, encourages everyone still navigating life, especially those from the LGBTQ+ community, to know that they’re not alone and it’s okay if they haven’t figured everything out yet. As an adult, he admits he’s still figuring things out too. But, he reminds us all, just by existing and being present in this moment, we are never too much and always enough.

Chrishell Stause emphasized that genuine love prioritizes your happiness over personal beliefs. As the star of ‘Selling Sunset’, married to singer G Flip, she advised never to conform to other people’s expectations for your life, as it’s your own and you have just one chance at it.

G Flip, known for their hit song “Be Your Man,” encourages everyone to be patient and understanding with themselves. They emphasize that life is like a series of waves, with challenging periods followed by joyous ones. G Flip shares that their most blissful moments have faced the harshest criticisms in life.

As G Flip’s personal life has recently become more public due to their relationship with Selling Sunset star Stause, they advise, “The path to embracing your true self can be tough amidst society’s judgments, but remain genuine to yourself because you are beautiful.

In contrast to Francesca Farago who expressed that living authentically is an incredibly liberating experience, Jesse Sullivan, her fiancé, acknowledges that it can be overwhelming for some. “If I had come out as transgender about 10 years ago,” he said, “I honestly believe I wouldn’t have faced the level of hate I encounter now. This appears to be a particularly challenging period to be transgender.”

As such, he advised caution when revealing one’s identity to others. “I can’t really encourage a young person to openly come out to their parents,” he stated, “as I don’t believe it is safe to do so in our current world, where such an action could potentially lead to harm.”

Instead, he suggested seeking support and acceptance within online communities. “We live in a time where you can easily find a supportive network on your smartphone, computer, or tablet,” he explained. “That’s how I started, and there are communities everywhere that will embrace and love you. This approach would be the safest way to come out if you don’t feel secure revealing your truth in person.

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way alum Kenny Niedermeier asserts that love is omnipresent. “Initially, it may seem challenging,” he admitted, “but eventually, you’ll find immense relief once you shed excess weight and break free from your constraints. Your life belongs to you, and whoever truly cherishes you will adapt. It might take time for some individuals, but they will eventually catch up.”

However, even Kenny’s partner now, Armando Rubio, finds it tough to accept this message. “When you’re in the closet,” Armando shared with TopMob News, “you believe it won’t happen for me and you live in fear. But I firmly believe that when you learn to love yourself, accept who you are, and prioritize your own well-being, it will eventually return to bless you.

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2025-06-29 10:17