Ray J Says He’s Slept With 12,500 Women

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For the love of Ray J, he’s getting candid about his sex life.

Okay, so the artist behind “Sexy Can I” recently shared something pretty shocking – he admitted to having had thousands of partners! It’s definitely a bold confession, and it’s got everyone talking. As someone who observes lifestyle trends, it’s fascinating to see how openly people are discussing these personal experiences these days.

Ray J recently mentioned on the Funky Friday podcast that he interacts with a huge number of people online, initially estimating around 10,000, but later updating that number to approximately 12,500.

He firmly defended his statement, even after Cam Newton questioned the calculation, which essentially meant he’d been intimate with approximately one and a half women each day for three decades.

Ray J explained that the numbers are high because when he was touring, he was having sex with five to ten people each day. He claims this has happened roughly 3,500 times, usually with three or more partners at once, and he’s telling the truth.

Ray J, who has dated Kim Kardashian, Olivia Alvarez, and Brittany Pena, as well as winners Joanna “Cocktail” Hernandez and Connie “Mz Berry” Deveaux from his reality show For the Love of Ray J, celebrated reaching 10,000 Instagram followers by hosting a party at the Booby Trap club.

He stated that a large number of women, approximately 400 to 500, had relationships with him and showed him support, describing it as a significant and public display of affection.

But, now at 45 years old, the R&B star doesn’t think he has the energy to keep up.

Ray J, recovering from pneumonia he was hospitalized for in January, jokingly said, “I’m at my limit – I can’t keep this up anymore.” He was responding to a question about his romantic life, and used colorful language to express his exhaustion.

Despite having dated other women, Ray J feels a unique connection with his estranged wife, Princess Love, who is the mother of his two children, 7-year-old Melody and 6-year-old Epik. He says no one else measures up to her, comparing her to no one other than the actress known for her role in Deadly Getaway.

“She’s a great mom,” he said. “She has my kids. She deserves it.”

For more wild sex confessions from celebrities, read on…

The comedian revealed she’s attracted to the idea of her partner having sexual relationships with other people – a preference she experiences with her sometimes-boyfriend, Chris Convy.

She explained on the Call Her Daddu podcast in April 2026 that she hadn’t been in a serious relationship before. She used to ask her partner a lot about his previous relationships – how they met and how they knew they had a connection. She admitted she really enjoyed hearing those stories.

She explained that hearing about his past relationships actually aroused her. She’d ask for explicit details about his ex-girlfriends and casual encounters, finding the conversation itself to be sexually stimulating and arousing.

The well-known fashion mentor from Project Runway revealed in February 2026 that he hasn’t been in a relationship for over forty years, following a painful split.

He confessed to Chelsea Handler on her podcast, Dear Chelsea, that he’d been having many casual sexual encounters. He said this while explaining that he had been completely faithful to him, and that he was the only person she’d ever been with. This was happening in 1982, at the beginning of the AIDS epidemic.

He explained that his initial sadness quickly transformed into intense anger, as he feared the encounter might have been life-threatening. For ten years afterward, he was tested for HIV every six months, but thankfully, the results were always negative.

Every time he started to connect with someone, he’d be reminded of a deeply painful experience from his past.

He explained that whenever he felt even a little attracted to someone, memories of this past experience would flood back, overwhelming any romantic feelings he might have had.

In December 2025, the country singer revealed that his relationship with his wife, Bunnie Xo, suffered from intimacy issues before he lost 200 pounds.

He explained on the Joe Rogan Experience podcast that it wasn’t his wife’s fault, saying, “I married a stunning blonde woman, and that’s just what happened.”

Jelly Roll, whose real name is Jason DeFord, described how difficult intimacy became when he was significantly overweight. He explained to Joe that his wife was incredibly supportive, always able to make him smile even when he was upset. However, he admitted that being so large made sex physically challenging, joking that they essentially had to contort themselves like they were playing the game Twister just to be intimate. He said it was a frustrating and awkward experience, constantly needing to ask if anything was even working.

Brooks’ sister, Grace Ann Nader, let it slip that the Sports Illustrated model and her Dancing With the Stars partner, Gleb Savchenko, had a romantic relationship while working on the show – it wasn’t just about practicing their dances.

In May 2025, on the Chicks In the Office podcast, Grace Ann shared that whenever she went to Brooks’s trailer, it would shake. She admitted she never wanted to enter, and always knocked first.

Brooks, recently separated from her husband Billy Haire, playfully suggested that their living situation in a trailer might have been the reason they didn’t win.

In her 2025 memoir, Brooke Shields Is Not Allowed to Get Old, Brooke Shields openly discussed intimate details of her relationship with her husband, Chris Henchy.

She described the natural changes women experience with age, including hair thinning, increased facial hair, weight gain around the abdomen, vaginal dryness, and a decreased libido. She also expressed feeling less attractive to her partner as a result of these changes, even when she’s not actively trying to change her appearance, as reported by People magazine.

Furthermore, she said being intimate can be painful for her now.

Brooke explained that to really enjoy intimacy now, she needs a few things: her favorite lotions, comfortable clothes for bed (though she joked they might be part of the issue!), a special pillow, and perhaps a drink to help her unwind.

Okay, so Katy Perry – my Katy Perry – just told this amazing story, and I’m still reeling! Apparently, when she was with Orlando Bloom, she didn’t just say thank you when he did the dishes. No, she… well, let’s just say her method of showing gratitude was… unexpected. I’m dying to know what it was! Seriously, only Katy could pull something like that off and make it sound totally normal. I need details!

During a September 2024 episode of her podcast, Call Her Daddy, Katy told Alex Cooper that if she came downstairs to a spotless kitchen – dishes done, pantry doors closed, everything tidy – she’d be very interested in intimacy.

 

Chelsea is known for openly discussing her personal experiences, including intimate details. She famously revealed that a threesome with her and her then-partner’s masseuse contributed to the end of her relationship with Ted Harbert in 2010.

After getting a discouraging text from her ex, she felt she needed to clarify things.

Chelsea explained on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon in October 2023 that she wanted to make it clear that a specific rumor was not the reason for her breakup.

I’ve already addressed the rumors about having multiple partners, and that’s a personal matter that’s become public. But I want to be clear: my relationship didn’t end because I had an affair with our masseuse. That simply isn’t true.

The America’s Got Talent judge doesn’t have any hidden secrets, though some of their past outfits might raise a few eyebrows.

She jokingly refers to a large closet as her “sex closet.” In a September 2024 appearance on The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Show podcast, she explained it’s filled with costumes and accessories. “You can have a lot of things in there,” she said, mentioning wigs, outfits, shoes, and boots.

She even revealed that her daughter Leni Klum accidentally encountered the space. 

In a January 2024 episode of the Call Her Daddy podcast, Heidi revealed that someone discovered her collection of intimate items. She explained that the person immediately understood what it was, and even filmed it with a friend, which Heidi found embarrassing. “Oh my God,” she said, recalling her reaction.

John shared a behind-the-scenes look into what filming a sex scene is really like.

He explained on the August 2024 episode of Club Shay Shay that the situation wasn’t personal at all, and he found it quite embarrassing.

Reflecting on his experience in the 2015 film Trainwreck, he admits he wasn’t ready for the explicit scenes he ended up filming with Amy Schumer.

Honestly, Amy is a lifesaver. She created such a safe and comfortable atmosphere, which I really needed. Then, after I booked the role, things took a turn. They told me there was a sex scene, and it wasn’t going to be subtle – they wanted really intense, elaborate stunt work. And the worst part? All the meaningful lines I’d prepared? They decided they didn’t need them, and just wanted to focus on the physical scene.

Shailene Woodley, who describes herself as comfortable with sexuality, has expressed strong disapproval of pornography, comparing it to an unhealthy indulgence.

In a September 2024 appearance on the She MD podcast, she explained that the way sex is typically portrayed in this country feels artificial, more like a show than genuine closeness, honesty, and connection.

I’ve been thinking a lot about pleasure lately, and it feels like we often prevent each other from experiencing it, maybe because we don’t even realize what’s truly possible. Honestly, that’s my biggest issue with porn – it feels like it’s offering a really basic, fast-food version of something that could be so much more amazing and fulfilling. It’s like selling everyone McDonald’s when we could be offering a gourmet feast!

After being with Kurt Russell for four years, Goldie Hawn shared what she believes is the key to making a relationship last.

In a September 2024 interview with TopMob News, she emphasized the importance of a satisfying sex life. She explained that sex fosters connection and a sense of belonging, and that couples with healthy sexual relationships tend to have longer-lasting bonds. She clarified that it’s not just about the physical act itself, but also the emotional warmth and closeness it builds.

Ice-T shared the key to his lasting marriage with Coco Austin, and it turns out intimacy plays a big role.

“Jungle sex,” he told TopMob News in January 2024. “That flame has to stay lit.”

He explained that once the initial spark fades and you lose that attraction, it’s important to deal with it right away, because it’s essential for the relationship’s health.

For Demi, there’s nothing wrong with feeling confident in the bedroom. 

In a September 2023 interview with the LadyGang podcast, she shared that she feels most confident during sex. She explained that it forces her to be fully present, quieting the thoughts and anxieties that usually cloud her judgment throughout the day. She clarified, however, that this isn’t true for everyone.

Lisa Rinna recently opened up about how getting older has changed things in the bedroom with her husband, Harry Hamlin, after being married for many years.

The actress recently told Cosmopolitan that men’s levels of desire naturally change over time, which is a normal part of life. She believes the key for women is to accept this without taking it personally, and to focus instead on building a strong companionship and allowing for the natural fluctuations in sexual intimacy.

She explained that they’ve always had a good sexual connection. However, she added that, like many couples, it doesn’t happen as frequently as it did when they were younger, and she feels that’s perfectly normal.

Zoe and her husband Marco have created a code word to talk about sex around their kids. 

During an April 2024 appearance on The Drew Barrymore Show, Marco jokingly said they “play Legos naked.” Zoe quickly explained that he meant they’re intimate with each other.

But the couple worried that their older twin boys were catching onto the lingo. 

Zoe remembered people asking if they were kissing or planning to play without clothes, even mentioning Legos. She said they quickly responded, ‘No, we’re not doing that!’

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2026-04-29 06:19