Anthony Kiedis’ Girlfriend Eileen Kelly Defends Their 33-Year Age Gap

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By the way, Anthony Kiedis’ girlfriend Eileen Kelly has no problem with their age gap.

The sex educator openly addressed the significant age gap – 33 years – in her relationship in an essay called “My Boyfriend Is Double My Age.” Although she didn’t mention him by name, she has been spotted with the Red Hot Chili Peppers frontman multiple times.

In an essay for Vogue published on April 21st, Eileen revealed that her boyfriend is more than twice her age, a fact she acknowledges some might find concerning while others might see it as remarkable.

I have to admit, seeing her with Anthony has been so sweet. She recently shared that it’s her first time dating someone much older – he’s 63, and she’s 30 – and she even joked with her friends that she feels like she’s been missing out on something wonderful all this time. It just makes you happy to see her so content!

As a lifestyle expert, I’ve noticed a fascinating trend, and it really comes down to maturity. From my perspective, and what I’ve heard from women who choose older partners, it’s about a sense of stability and genuine appreciation. It’s not about them ‘settling,’ but rather feeling valued by someone who’s had the time to figure things out. My boyfriend, who is significantly older, often expresses how lucky he feels to be with me – and that feeling of being truly chosen, not just a temporary option, is incredibly powerful. He’s lived a full life and knows what he wants, and I’m it! It’s a refreshing dynamic, honestly.

Eileen explained that she and Anthony connected at a birthday party. They quickly became friends after realizing Eileen frequently visited a small town in Hawaii where Anthony has a house.

She remembered they’d playfully wondered if they’d ever unknowingly been near each other – maybe on the beach or while shopping for groceries. As they continued talking, they discovered even more surprising connections, realizing their lives had subtly intertwined in ways they hadn’t imagined.

As someone who observes relationships a lot, I’ve noticed a frustrating double standard. When an older man dates a younger woman, people are quick to jump to conclusions – labeling him as ‘creepy’ or ‘gross,’ and then immediately assuming she’s either got unresolved issues with her father or is just after his money. It’s a really unfair way to look at things, and it completely dismisses the possibility of a genuine connection.

Throughout their relationship, Eileen and Anthony have often received unwanted public comments, including being asked if Anthony is Eileen’s father.

Okay, so Eileen was describing how they just say things, super bluntly, but with this little…smirk, like they’re pleased they figured something out. Honestly, it’s just mortifying to witness every single time. It makes me cringe so hard, and I’m not even the one they’re talking to! It’s like they enjoy the awkwardness, which is just…ugh.

As someone who’s followed relationship trends for years, I’ve seen firsthand how age differences can sometimes create an uneven playing field. It’s especially tricky when one partner is financially supporting the other, or generally providing more stability. That can quickly lead to a really unhealthy power dynamic, and honestly, a potentially dangerous situation. It’s something both partners need to be incredibly mindful of.

The Vogue writer acknowledged the topic is complex, but she’s grateful she and Anthony – who shares 18-year-old son Everly Bear Kiedis with his ex-girlfriend Heather Christie – don’t face that situation themselves.

Okay, so she totally said this, and it just… solidified everything for me. She’s got it all together, you know? She’s financially independent – she works, she owns her place, she’s set. And she loves her boyfriend, which is sweet, but she made it so clear that she’s not dependent on him. Like, if things ended, she wouldn’t be ruined! It’s just… empowering, honestly. She’s got her own life, and that’s amazing.

Right now, she and Anthony are prioritizing their relationship and choosing to ignore what others think or assume about them. She believes those assumptions say more about the people making them than about her and Anthony themselves.

Ultimately, things are pretty normal,” she finished. “Looking at it from our perspective, we’re just two people navigating the everyday challenges and joys of life together.

Although Anthony hasn’t commented publicly on his relationship with Eileen, here’s a look at other celebrities who have openly discussed their romances with significant age differences.

The actresses are used to people commenting on their 32-year age difference. Sarah addressed the criticism in a 2018 interview with Modern Luxury, saying she doesn’t worry about it. “If anyone wants to judge me for loving a wonderful person, that’s their issue, not mine,” she explained. “I’m happy.”

Heidi Klum doesn’t pay attention to criticism about the 16-year age difference between herself and her husband, Tokio Hotel guitarist Tom Kaulitz. In a 2018 interview with InStyle, she explained that people often question their relationship because of their ages, but she doesn’t dwell on it. Heidi, who married Tom the following year, believes in living life on her own terms and not worrying about what others think, adding that worrying will only make you age faster.

Priyanka Chopra has pointed out what she sees as a double standard. She’s noticed people criticize the age gap between her and her husband, but she believes if the roles were reversed – if she were older than him – it wouldn’t be an issue, and might even be seen as positive. “We definitely got a lot of criticism for that, and still do,” she told InStyle. “It’s interesting how when the man is older, people don’t seem to mind, and actually often approve.”

The director of Fifty Shades of Grey says the 23-year age difference between her and the actor from Kraven the Hunter isn’t something they think about in their daily lives.

“It really doesn’t come up,” she explained in a 2024 interview with The Guardian. “It’s only discussed when people ask about it, or by those who don’t know us. We’re a bit unusual, but after 14 years, you’d think it wouldn’t matter anymore.”

She also noted that her relationship with her current partner has lasted longer than her marriage to her ex-husband, who was only four years older than her.

“When you look at it that way,” she said, “the age gap doesn’t seem to be an issue at all.”

Despite sharing a birthday on September 25th, the couple experiences differences in their perspectives. The actress, who stars in Chicago, revealed in a 2021 interview with WSJ. Magazine that her husband is 25 years her senior. She emphasized that, like any relationship, they have their challenges, but love and respect remain constant.

Dennis, known from The Parent Trap, believes it’s only his and Laura’s business who focuses on their relationship. He emphasized, “Just us – them.” He wants people to understand it’s a private matter.

Despite the 39-year age gap, Dennis says they don’t pay attention to the outside chatter.

In a 2021 interview with Today, he explained, “We honestly don’t even notice it.” He added that they have an incredibly strong connection, saying, “I’ve never been closer to anyone in my life. We’re so happy together. Love will find you when you least expect it, and you can’t control who you fall for. We couldn’t be happier.”

The yoga instructor recently shared that she used to be critical of couples with large age differences, before she began dating an actor 26 years older than herself.

On her podcast, Witches Anonymous, she explained that she’d previously assume older men in such relationships were seeking naive young women, and younger women were only interested in money. She described her former mindset as harshly judging these couples and believing the women didn’t genuinely care about the men.

However, she now realizes she was wrong.

She admitted that being in this relationship herself has changed her perspective. She now questions why she used to be so judgmental, recognizing that love comes in many forms and that just because a relationship looks different doesn’t make it any less real or valid.

Prepare yourself, because the actor from The Devil Wears Prada recently revealed he almost broke up with his literary agent early in their relationship. He explained to BBC Radio 4’s Desert Island Discs in 2023, “I’m 21 years older than she is and I didn’t want to feel old for the rest of my life!” However, he also knew she was a truly remarkable person.

Sienna Miller and Oli Green aren’t surprised people find their relationship a bit confusing. Oli explained to Vogue that their 15-year age difference might seem complicated, but it’s been filled with love and happiness. Sienna added that, really, they don’t feel anyone needs to understand it. ‘You can’t force feelings to make sense,’ she said, ‘and I know I never could.’

Jeff Goldblum shared a funny story about his wife, Emilie, who is 30 years younger than him. He was on The Hoda Show and recounted asking her which Beatle he’d be. Emilie playfully responded ‘Rex Harrison,’ confusing him since they’d recently seen My Fair Lady. Jeff quickly pointed out she was thinking of the actor, not a Beatle. He added that she soon realized she meant George Harrison. Jeff joked that this mix-up highlights their age difference and different cultural references, but overall, things are going great for the couple.

Honestly, I just love how she doesn’t even bother responding to the negativity about her and her husband’s age difference! It’s so refreshing. She said it best back in 2013 in Glamour – she’s completely drawn to his wisdom and strength, and she thinks experience is a really attractive quality. She’s always said their connection is something deeper than just appearances, and that’s what truly matters. She says careers come and go, but having someone who genuinely believes in you, who thinks you’re amazing, that’s what sustains you. It’s just… perfect. I totally get it!

Katharine McPhee doesn’t seem bothered by criticism of the 35-year age difference between her and her husband. She explained on a 2023 podcast that while she understands people’s initial reactions, things aren’t always what they seem. Ultimately, she’s happy and in love, and that’s what matters most to her.

Kristin Cavallari addressed the criticism she received for dating a man 13 years younger, Mark Estes. On her podcast, Let’s Be Honest, she explained that she never actively sought out a relationship with someone so young, and previously considered 30-year-olds to be too immature for her. She acknowledged how the relationship appeared to others but emphasized that Mark was different from a typical 24-year-old, and that maturity isn’t solely determined by age. She believes life experiences and upbringing play a much bigger role. However, she later revealed that she and Mark eventually broke up.

She explained on her podcast that she believes he needs to grow and experience life on his own, noting those young adult years are a crucial time for self-discovery. Despite ending their relationship, she described it as the best she’d ever had and hopes he’ll eventually understand why they split. She even expressed confidence that he’ll one day look back and appreciate her decision.

When George Clooney first developed feelings for Amal, he wasn’t sure if she felt the same way. He admitted on The Howard Stern Show that he hesitated to pursue things too quickly. He worried that their age difference – he’s 17 years older than her – might be a problem. He wondered if she’d see him as too old. Luckily, Amal felt the same way, and the couple married in 2014.

The former Bachelor contestant, who is 18 years older than his wife, believes age is just a number. He recently shared on his The Viall Files podcast in March 2025 that physical attraction is especially important when there’s a significant age difference.

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2026-04-24 22:18